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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok this is a hypothetical situation:
You are having fun with someone .. seen them a few times and all is well
You discover that they are related albeit distantly to someone you work with
THEY discover the same as their surname is unusual
All is good until
Your work colleague mentions they have been asking questions about you . .
And have shown them your picture to check it is really you . .
CLANG ! ! So, what has effectively (theoretically) happened here is you have been "outed" as a swinger to someone you work with.
Do you
Tell your playmate to go jog on
Rip a strip off em but continue playing
Delete, block and deny all contact
something else
curious
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally shrug and say what of it. Most people I work with know. It was a talking point for a week then nobody cared. I get asked occasionaly if we've got anyone coming over but otherwise its yesterdays news  |
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"Ok this is a hypothetical situation:
You are having fun with someone .. seen them a few times and all is well
You discover that they are related albeit distantly to someone you work with
THEY discover the same as their surname is unusual
All is good until
Your work colleague mentions they have been asking questions about you . .
And have shown them your picture to check it is really you . .
CLANG ! ! So, what has effectively (theoretically) happened here is you have been "outed" as a swinger to someone you work with.
Do you
Tell your playmate to go jog on
Rip a strip off em but continue playing
Delete, block and deny all contact
something else
curious
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I would be furious. I would rip a strip off them and then block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be fuming too.. Most of my friends and family know Im on here and some of my work colleagues but the fact he was ' checking up on you ' and flashing your pic around would be enough for me.. It doesn't matter if he's divulged you're a swinger.. Where's the good old fashioned confidentiality that we all rely on?? Why is he checking up on you anyway?? I would be having strong words that's for sure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been outed at work twice now. Once by a school friend I found on here and once by my ex who posted photos and my profile round my work and town. I was livid! The school friend one was done by accident and we just carrier on playing for a while til it fizzled out. The ex I got revenge on lol! |
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