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What got you into swinging?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started 3 years ago as we drive past a well known dogging site every day and we were curious .
We went one Saturday night , Sabrina got covered in cum and I loved seeing it and so our adventure began !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An old girlfriend and I had been discussing and fantasising about the numerous scenarios for a while.
We then had a chance encounter with a couple when on holiday who were swingers and with in a week at the resort they took us from dipping our toes in and experimenting through to fully fledged and we never turned back.
Her and I unfortunately parted ways as a couple but we still remain on good terms and we both still enjoy that part of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 10 years ago I worked with someone who was on the scene. We talked about it, at length sometimes and eventually I decided to set up a profile, get involved and see what it was all about.....had some great times back when I was a young & horny and now I'm just a more mature....& still horny lol. I have taken the odd break now and then to help wind down and reassess life etc....but I missed the thrill of meeting people too much so I decided to come back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess I've always wanted to try anything sexually, i dont really have any inhibitions (except scat, animals and children - eerghh) so decided that this lifestyle would suit my desires. Some experiences have left me knowing that i dont want to try them again but most have been amazing. The only downside is that a vanilla lifestyle/ relationship just doesn't work longterm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby wanted to did it for a long time I was against it but then we had a very long chat and I decided to give it ago glad I did met some great people and had a lot of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This may sound strange but all my early dealings with sex have been in groups and my liking for it never stopped. As a guy in my teens my group of friends were both male and female (all straight lol) we used to go to one anothers houses if parents were out get naked and experiment.
When i first got martied first wife was misdionery most time snd thought doggy wss risque.
Second wife liked sex more but still boring positions.
And then i met Bev and fuck me what a woman she really enjoys most aspects of sex and is ready and wanting all the time hence her meeting guys alone lol id be dead if it was me that had to satisfy her alone lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby reading and enjoying erotic stories then plucking up the courage to ask me if i fancied a threesome with another guy after years of not saying anything in case i flipped, took my time to think about it and here we are.  |
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Was getting a blow job from.a girlfriend when. She mentioned. Her friend had a three some wow that's adventurous. Do you want one? Yes and carried on sucking me a week later we had a debauched weekend in Amsterdam. The rest is history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After 15 years of married monogamy hubby and I discussed spicing up our sex life. We spent almost a year discussing it, finally started going to clubs, only played with others on our 4th outing. Now I also play alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An old fuck buddy of mine told me about it, we joined up as a couple but now have our own separate profiles. When he first told me he thought I'd enjoy it i thought he was mad! But turns out he knows me quite well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Violent wife so put me off relationships"
Similar circumstances.
Wasn't married, but partner was very aggressive and emotionally and psychologically abusive.
Have had one relationship since then, but it didn't last long and it made me realise that I don't need a relationship at this stage of my life.
So this was the basis, or the foundation, if you like that got me here.
That said, since joining fab, I have learnt a great deal about swinging, and the lifestyle, so I understand that it is much more than 'just sex'
I am very much enjoying swinging and have made some good friends here.
Very much enjoying my continued voyage of discovery.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Played with friends years ago then had baby
Hubby couldn't keep his knob in his trousers lol no surprise there so decided to rekindle our journey 4 years ago and love the chilled relaxed life style it leads !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A passing interest.
'Picked up' by a couple in a west end club. Sex in public.
Sex in risqué places.
Found a similar site.
Found this site.
And the journey continues... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend sent me the link to his fab profile ~ I think he did it to shock me as I had no idea about any of this ~ but my curiosity took over, created a profile, lurked for months & here I am having fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (shel) used to live near Libs and a lot if people spoke about it, I was intrigued. When I was married we had one d*unken new year with friends with truth and dares, we ended up enjoying foreplay with them.
Then I left my husband and got with a older very kinky fb, he took me to Libs and the rest was history 
Paul is new to swinging I met him 7yrs ago and was honest about my history. We dabbled in the beginning but it wasn't the right time as we were too new a couple. We then made a profile a couple of years ago but didn't have meets and then 4 months ago Paul decided he was ready and we have had lots of lovely meets and club nights |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I followed a swinger on twitter and she kept posting links to the site about her meets. So I followed her here literally we arranged a few meets but it never happened.
Almost 3 years ago now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First MMF at 17 followed by first FFM at 18, both with my first long term bf. Had a ten year hiatus while I was married bit otherwise been hooked sine then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife planned a trip to Amsterdam for my 40th and wanted to find a woman to wrestle for me (to fulfil a long time fantasy). I found out about the trip and she said she had no idea how to arrange something like that and I suggested we maybe try a swingers club on the off chance that we might meet someone up for it. We got there and just had a fantastic night (without wrestling lol!), met some lovely people and had a lot of sex we didn't expect to like it so much but we've learned to leave our expectations at the door and we've never looked back! |
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I knew a friend on here and another lady who wanted to go to a club with her friends.
I offered to do some reading up for her and just stayed.
I am here by happenstance but wild horses couldnt drag me away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have everything I want in life, except sex. I do not want another relationship to get sex. Fab is more discreet than picking men up in pubs/clubs. I fear I could eventually acquire a reputation I would never lose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Her...always had fantasies but too afraid to carry them out. Old school friend sent me link to site. Looked, chatted, researched what I wanted from it.
We both met on here 5 years ago. 3 houses later and living a lovely life together we have never looked back. We see the lifestyle as a little treat for when we have a little time spare. Since being together have lived out MOST of our fantasies.....but there's always more to try.
Life is good.
Ps....great question. This is one that the Mrs always asks when we meet new friends. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea, been coming and going to sites like this sinse i my early 20's. Guess its the appeal of no strings sex, plus a sex drive i've struggled to control at times in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nick asked me 4 years ago what my thoughts was on me with another guy while he watched i said straight out NO. the subject was left but about 12 months ago after many hours of watching porn together we spoke about it again and i decided to give it a go .tried other sites then was told about this one it took another few months to accept the SWINGING word lol but here we are swingers and wouldnt look back  |
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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago
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BF noticed I liked to use my fav toy whilst I blew him. One day when he said 'Bet you wish that was a real cock?' I didn't deny it. Saw an advert on the side of a van for a club. Rang up. Visited. Met a nice couple from Hereford and now, when the mood takes us. Party on. R |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the mums from the school run turned out to be a naughty neighbour.
It all started with walking back from dropping the kids at school and then stopping at each others for a brew.
One morning I was having wifey trouble and telling her that I was frustrated in the bedroom department, so she told me about Fab, and then she got the Laptop out and showed me her account.
The next thing I know is as I'm looking around the site, she's under the table releasing my cock and taking it in her mouth.
From that moment on, it was coffee & sex 2 or 3 days a week for 18mths.
So that's how I started. |
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Innocently shagging a lady in a car one night, not realising it was a dogging site and thinking "these guys are a bit ballsy" as they blatently hung round car watching....started chattin to them... Explained to us about dogging and we started from there.. Moved on to clubs, meets, etc.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On holiday in the Dominican and we noticed several of the ladies from hotel were spending the night with members of staff.
One of which was clearly married. Turned us both on and got us talking. |
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Invited two couples back home after a party, friends and a regular party!
Guys outside having a beer and walked back in to find all three girls at it, turned out the other two were fully bi fems too  |
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I was a bit of a lad in my teens, go on the pull as most do and one night I went back to a womans house ... her house mate was there too so being the cocky little (bleep) I was, I offered her to join us.
Took some time to convince them both ... great memories.
Anyway,as time went on I wanted more and more ... here I am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always been promiscuous . Always played with couples and more than one guy at a time . Unless in a relationship then I have been one man woman. So my friend found the site and signed me up and packed me off to a club and I hated it lol . Then I went to a party and got involved with a poly relationship and that ended badly the woman becoming jealous . So since then I stuck to one man whom I have had as a fb for the last three years and found my way in the club scene and become a social butterfly with people who are as open as me .
I am leaving soon to concentrate on other stuff I have to say I won't miss te sexual side of this but I will miss te social side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the way home 10 yrs ago bursting for a pee, Went to public toilets near to where i lived the urinal x3 were full!, & the 2 cubies had the doors shut. so thought ill wait for a min. then a cubie door opens & out walks a guy. Just as i go to nip in one man turned & jumped in, as i saw woman & man already in there!!. ok so now im not thinking i need a pee, just thinking WTF, the noises from in their get louder & i get horny.
with in 5 mins hes out & so is the guy from the cubie next to it so i jump in there still need a pee so have one with a semi on .lol.... then stand on the toilet to see the lady sitting with a cock in her mouth while her partner films, etc etc etc |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
Few drink, dirty talk and nothing on tv led us the go to a swingers club. On the dance floor during a slow track having a smooch in the dark and this started to happen. Have not looked back.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it all started out as being a nudist. Always had fantasy of trying to join in with a cpl, but always thought that "swingers" were a myth or legend something left over from woodstock era.
First discovery, I met this cpl on deserted nude beach and they seduced me! I was in my 20s and they were in their 50s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My marriage put me off relationships. I started using Facebook dating sites to liven up my weekends away from the kids. My ex boyfriend introduced me to swinging.. Went to a houseparty where I met a very experienced guy (ex porn, worked in clubs etc) still seeing each other 2 yrs later as fbs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lady I was dating had a few contacts, several single men friends, a couple she was intimate with and a lady lover as well, she asked if I was interested in an open relationship. I wasn't at the time, but at the age of 32 I started to like the idea of a fuck buddy. I have been on the scene for around 5 and a half years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was getting a blow job from.a girlfriend when. She mentioned. Her friend had a three some wow that's adventurous. Do you want one? Yes and carried on sucking me a week later we had a debauched weekend in Amsterdam. The rest is history "
Lucky man getting a blowjob for the whole week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How did you start?"
A couple I chatted to in Yahoo chat totally out of the blue asked if I would like to have a threesome with them. I said yes. The rest is history lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We seen a documentary about swingers clubs about 10 year ago and thought we would go to one just for the giggle.
By the end of the night, Shaz was tied naked to a cross having a violet wand used on her
Never looked back since |
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