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A dilemma - What would you do?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "
If you only have one option, there is no choice.
If you have two options, you have a dilemma.
If you have three options, now you finally have choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't play, we wouldn't take one for the team, and certainly wouldn't want a sympathy shag just so they can get there hands on Mrs l I'd rather go without if the shoes on the other foot
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Damn those blokes who punch above their weight eh?
I have to agree with earlier poster, don't take one for the team, not fair.
On the flipside, other cpls might be thinking the same about you.
We can't please everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "
Wouldn't meet up at all. if we are not both interested then no meet takes place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would just say sorry your not what I'm looking for, to mislead them by offering to meet then telling them you only want the female half is simply time wasting in my opinion |
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We have found that unless we both feel some attraction to the other couple then the fun just doesnt work...we both have to agree rather than one saying "well...go on then"
Looks are not the only thing either so sometimes a social to see how we interact can help so see if the initial spark is there.
Agree....Never take one for the team. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We found the same and im sure people thought the same about us too
We didn't play unless there was a 4 way attraction,no one took one for the team,and we would never have said we fancy one but not the other
When you do find the attraction that goes all ways is great fun though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Noticed the phrase "taking one for the team" being branded about here.
For the avoidance of doubt, we wouldn't play unless there was an attraction between all.
We appreciate that we aren't for everyone and it's our opinion that we would rather just be told. |
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"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "
The best thing to do is not meet them. How would you feel if you met a couple and they said they only wanted to play with your Mrs and not the male? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "
Would it be a problem if the male doesnt play and you were going for a mff with the fem half?
I ask because one couple turned us down due to me and I dont even play so I was a bit confused as to why they care what I look like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "
It happens to us often and no, we wouldn't tell them-we'd just decline an offer without giving a reason |
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"More and more, we are finding that when we talk to couples it's the female half we find attractive and the opposite male half does nothing for Mrs Ego.
Would you tell them this??? Would you meet up and just go with it??? Would you meet up and say you only wanted to play with the female half???
If you come across this dilemma, what do you do? "
None of the above. We wouldn't meet other than socially. |
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