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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Kissing can be a quite intimate action so the question is this, is it something you save for your lover or do you do it with a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Does my nut in when I can't kiss in a meet ( ruins it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh you gota kiss. Could never meet anyone who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had meets without but it's much better with.

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE


"Does my nut in when I can't kiss in a meet ( ruins it"

This. I actually struggle to get it up if I am denied the accessibility to a persons erotic level via kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does my nut in when I can't kiss in a meet ( ruins it

This. I actually struggle to get it up if I am denied the accessibility to a persons erotic level via kissing."

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is one of those "is the pope a catholic?" Questions for me....a no brainer. No kissing?....you know where the door is Hun....close it on the way out!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had a play meet without kissing such an important part for us. It's how it starts, with a kiss

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Its an important part of foreplay I think but have seen a few profiles from couples where kissing was a no-no.

Yes mate its fine you can have sex but no kissing!

I get it that they want to keep something aback just for them but it turns a meet into a wam-bam cum & go sess?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is the biggest turn on for me if they won t or can't kiss that's the end of that

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By *im1978Couple  over a year ago

sheffield

We won't entertain the no kissing rule.

Each to their own but it would be like having apple crumble without custard! Just wouldn't sit right with us!

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By *mallteaserWoman  over a year ago

Central

Couldn't meet without kissing, just be so awkward x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is how it starts for us..always kiss.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We wouldn't meet without kissing, kissing is such a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing!

It's not just couples who don't kiss, it's swinging singles as well. Meet a single lady at a club near heathrow, and she did not like kissing, was brilliant in every other way and certainly left a smile on my face though.

Everyone is different - thank god!

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By *mallteaserWoman  over a year ago

Central

Seems everyone agrees x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To me kissing is where it all starts and it's a barometer for sexual chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kiss my sugar lips

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To me kissing is where it all starts and it's a barometer for sexual chemistry. "

This is so true!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love kissing and lots of it,couldn't and wouldn't meet someone if I knew they didn't do kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't meet unless it involves a lot of passionate kissing, to me, kissing is one of the best bits of sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You don't have to kiss meets the same way you kiss your partner so big yes to kissing and lots of it.

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE

I would argue that you do need to kiss the same way, but that it has less or a different meaning.

How I feel when kissing a partner has a higher level of intimacy than the exploratory and arousing kiss with a meet.

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By *idsTonyMan  over a year ago

RUGBY

Kissing is a massive part of the whole sexual experience for me. I've nearly had an American Pie moment from just having a female kiss that's so intense. Plenty of tongue and nibbling heheheh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My wife loves another man kissing her, says it really turns her on and gets her ready for him and loves the intimacy of it

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By *otpair255Couple  over a year ago

Langley

Well for us like for most of people here is very important as a part of foreplay. No kissing no play. But this is just us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is essential.. Love it.. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love kissing and kissing a ladies neck too gently.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ye and we swap wedding rings and pretend we're married to the other couple!!

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By *wingersrus465Couple  over a year ago

Cheshire

We love kissing too, just as important as sex. Jill gets so turned on by a passionate kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would argue that you do need to kiss the same way, but that it has less or a different meaning.

How I feel when kissing a partner has a higher level of intimacy than the exploratory and arousing kiss with a meet.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never used to but do now

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By *asmanian TigerMan  over a year ago

lala land

I won't meet anyone that doesn't kiss it is part of making love or as some of you fabsters refer to as sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing, for me it's all part of the foreplay and build up, feels very clinical and odd to not kiss someone I'm having sex with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Give us a kiss.xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Give us a kiss.xxxx"

*puckers up*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone that doesn't kiss it is part of making love or as some of you fabsters refer to as sex lol "
true to your word , 7 months no meets ?

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn

No kissing means no meet for me x

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Does my nut in when I can't kiss in a meet ( ruins it

This. I actually struggle to get it up if I am denied the accessibility to a persons erotic level via kissing."

Gotta kiss or I just can't get into it.

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By *asmanian TigerMan  over a year ago

lala land

I don't need fab to find sex I was introduced to it by a lady friend, I love the forum's and the people I talk to that's about it really

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Kissing can be a quite intimate action so the question is this, is it something you save for your lover or do you do it with a meet?"

With a meet if she wants to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No kissing means no meet for me x"

Had many meets over the years and never been asked b4 bout kissing and no one has left or complained, although mrs has had to fend off the odd sweaty attempt .... Yuck !! And that is one of the times we called it a day

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By *renchbambi xWoman  over a year ago

Need to know basis

We all have our own personal way of kissing...why would i deny myself such unlimited pleasures?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No kissing = no meet.

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By *asmanian TigerMan  over a year ago

lala land


"We all have our own personal way of kissing...why would i deny myself such unlimited pleasures? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think starting off a session would be quite awkward with out kissing, as a rule kissing and slowly undressing each other is how things start off, I don't think I'd like it if I was just presented with a cocktail that wanted sucking, I think it's different if it's two couples meeting as you can start things off with your own partner and then others can join in but if there is only two of you its different

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *leasureOrbitCouple  over a year ago

city centre

In my experience great kissing usually means great sex (and vice versa)

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By *erotic_adventureMan  over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

....the couples that don't kiss appear not to want to highlight themsrlves!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either. "

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By *ickawitchCouple  over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We love kissing and have turned down a meet because they did not like kissing.....everyone is different and has their own rules which is fine but a no kissing rule does not work for us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It really is as simple as this - no kissing and the meet ends , and if we know beforehand there is no meet .

It would be interesting to know whether the couples who say no kissing , include this rule for female to female too ?

We swing for our pleasure and the pleasure of those we meet , and truly fail to see how much pleasure can be gained from taking the kissing away from a meet .

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By *asmanian TigerMan  over a year ago

lala land


"It really is as simple as this - no kissing and the meet ends , and if we know beforehand there is no meet .

It would be interesting to know whether the couples who say no kissing , include this rule for female to female too ?

We swing for our pleasure and the pleasure of those we meet , and truly fail to see how much pleasure can be gained from taking the kissing away from a meet .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It really is as simple as this - no kissing and the meet ends , and if we know beforehand there is no meet .

It would be interesting to know whether the couples who say no kissing , include this rule for female to female too ?

We swing for our pleasure and the pleasure of those we meet , and truly fail to see how much pleasure can be gained from taking the kissing away from a meet .

"

also is it just mouth to mouth kissing that's banned, what about kissing neck, shoulders, body is that banned too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Seems like the majority votes for kissing. I personally like it but wouldn't decide not to meet if there wasn't.

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By *untime biatchWoman  over a year ago

ova by ea wales

Its ok 2 exchange bodily fluids but no kissing ... sod that ... no kissing no meeting .. simples

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By *untime biatchWoman  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing guys and girls, so sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's gotta be kissing for me

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By *cottybhoyMan  over a year ago

falkirk

I love meeting couples and do find it a wee bit strange that a woman will let me suck her nipples, lick her pussy, ride her pussy and arse and she will suck my cock - but no kissing.

But each to their own I suppose. As long as I know on advance and can decide if I want to meet them.

Never met a single lady who didn't kiss - that would be weird.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kissing too. It's such an important part of foreplay and after play as as during play.

I also enjoy kissing tv's cd'd and men too in the right circumstances. Exploring my bisexuality has been quite a revelation. It's not for everyone and I'd never over step boundaries but sensual kissing is such a lovely part of sex. Jim

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By *icurguycovMan  over a year ago

Leeds

I get hard just kissing - it's so sexy. Sex always has to start with passionate kissing and tongue play.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing for us is very much the first stage of foreplay, the spark that ignites the flame if you will.

Without it we could never become intimate with anyone and it's very hard to understand someone who will perform oral and full penetration which to us is the ultimate in intimate contact and not kiss.

Reminds us of Monty pythons meaning of life.

The classroom scene where the boy mentions playing with the clitoris and John cleese replies "what about a kiss boy".

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love kissing guys and girls, so sexy!!"

I'm with you on that. It's such an integral part of really nice sex. And like I enjoy kissing girls and boys xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either. "

Sarah x

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By *ouplekinkCouple  over a year ago

kink town

We love kissing and didn't realise there are people out there who dont allow it, so we had to specifically put it in our profile so there is no grey area.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker "

Love I I am with you there. I don't see kissing as any more intimate than penetrative sex. I not a robot so without kissing it's going nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker "
I do think it's different for couples meeting couples, unless they're fuckbuddies. We just don't need the intimacy with the other couple. It is just sex. Brilliant sex too. My partner and I kiss each other, the other couple kiss each other to get things started then we swap and take it from there. It's all extremely horny. We've had plenty of meets and our profile states no kissing

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either. "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Both of us are happy to kiss others....but we don't have a problem meeting those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No kissing but you can stick your cock in her mouth and fuck her.....never really understood that one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would not meet someone who did not kiss. The first kiss is special everything else just follows

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield

Kissings the best foreplay. .. between play n after play..... I need kisses like I need air

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn


"No kissing but you can stick your cock in her mouth and fuck her.....never really understood that one "

I agree. How can kissing be more intimate than sex. People get arrested for having sex in tesco but they are allowed to kiss there if they wish!

Yes I know. Before anyone points out I am single.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either. "

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By *ancs MinxWoman  over a year ago

Burnley


"Does my nut in when I can't kiss in a meet ( ruins it"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would argue that you do need to kiss the same way, but that it has less or a different meaning.

How I feel when kissing a partner has a higher level of intimacy than the exploratory and arousing kiss with a meet.

"

Any sexual experience you have with a partner ought to be more intimate and therefore more intense due to the emotional connection that accompanies it than it is with a meet surely?

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

It is more intimate as you are face to face, close eye contact, breathing in each other's air, that is an intimate thing, you can fuck without even looking in the same direction, so that's not always so intimate

By the way I lurveeeeee kissing, soft butterfly kisses leading into more passionate kisses that lead to hot sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Would not meet someone who did not kiss. The first kiss is special everything else just follows "

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It is more intimate as you are face to face, close eye contact, breathing in each other's air, that is an intimate thing, you can fuck without even looking in the same direction, so that's not always so intimate "

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely hate it when I'm being gangbanged when one of them tries a slobbery kiss, yuck!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not bothered either way. As long as they are happy I'm happy.

It's good to be respectful of other people's wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't kiss when we meet. We keep that for ourselves and think it is an intimate act. We aren't after intimacy with the people we meet we have each other for that. We've never been turned down for it before either. "

Same here x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is a must! It heightens the build up, the seduction, the sexual tension - for me, kissing plays an important part.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we kiss, oh yes. it starts the night off, flirtin then snoggin one another face off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Kissing is a must! It heightens the build up, the seduction, the sexual tension - for me, kissing plays an important part. "

what they said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is good, but it isn't essential to an erotic scene.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker

Love I I am with you there. I don't see kissing as any more intimate than penetrative sex. I not a robot so without kissing it's going nowhere"

Exactly, how can kissing be any more intimate than oral, or intercourse ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker

Love I I am with you there. I don't see kissing as any more intimate than penetrative sex. I not a robot so without kissing it's going nowhere

Exactly, how can kissing be any more intimate than oral, or intercourse ? "

If it wasn't then prostitutes would do it.

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If men say they dont do kissing when we are messaging, then I wouldnt meet them. Tongues are necessary too

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

I love kissing. I've done meets without it and it's not the same.

I now consider it an essential.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I kiss at meets I love it. Had One meet without kissing and it was Awful. Not the same at all. No where near erotic.I'm just waiting to meet a couple so I can kiss a married or attached woman knowing her partner is enjoying seeing it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *W69Couple  over a year ago

Bournemouth

It's important to us to kiss, seems something's missing without it but understand it's not for everybody...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Without kissing its a bit robotic to me , kissing is a huge turn on especially in a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We do kissing with others but not in the same way as we kiss each other

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Kissing can be a quite intimate action so the question is this, is it something you save for your lover or do you do it with a meet?"

Hate it when people don't kiss, you can fuck my wife, lick her pussy but don't you dare kiss her!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker

Love I I am with you there. I don't see kissing as any more intimate than penetrative sex. I not a robot so without kissing it's going nowhere

Exactly, how can kissing be any more intimate than oral, or intercourse ? If it wasn't then prostitutes would do it.

Sarah x"

Prostitutes only do what they have to, or what they're paid for, they're not in it for fun, unlike us on this site

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman  over a year ago

birmingham

Kissing us so important, if I can't kiss someone, then date can go no further,, if I don't want to kiss them it's because I don't fancy my date and I'd have to say sorry but this isn't doing it for me,,

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch


"Ye and we swap wedding rings and pretend we're married to the other couple!!

"

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By *uperock99Man  over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Kissing is the begining of getting turned on, without it it's not gonna be as good as the sex would be with kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not going to meet any woman that will not kiss me, without sensual kissing, I might as well wank, its the kissing that starts it all and unleashes the passion that leads to torrid intimate sex. I'm looking for an experience, not a hooker

Love I I am with you there. I don't see kissing as any more intimate than penetrative sex. I not a robot so without kissing it's going nowhere

Exactly, how can kissing be any more intimate than oral, or intercourse ? If it wasn't then prostitutes would do it.

Sarah x

Prostitutes only do what they have to, or what they're paid for, they're not in it for fun, unlike us on this site "

If they were offered loads for kissing, trust me they'd do it, but it would have to be a substantial amount. It's actually a lot easier to perform oral on someone you have no feelings for than kiss them. They don't want to kiss punters cause that's all they are. Punters. They kiss their own partners for free. My partner and I have lots of fun through fab meets we've had - without kissing. Repeat ones too. But we only meet couples

Sarah x

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By *i fem huntersCouple  over a year ago

london

Kisses all the way!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is defo a no no should be between you an your partner only

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't want to kiss - it's all part of the experience and really gets me going if my partner is good at it

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By *evon DelightCouple  over a year ago

A town in Devon

Pro kissing all the way. Its part of the play. Very sexy.

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield

I pulled this girl the other week..... We went upto bed she got on her hands and knees and said fcuk me...... I said that's not how I play..... so we had a snogothon...... We then both got what we wanted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Couldn't agree more kissing is a must - it's a real turn on and proper deep kissing, tongue sucking, lip nibbling gets my blood pounding!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Gosh a meet without a snog is like roast dinner without Gravy. Like fish and chips without salt and vinegar.

Surely the act of meeting other people for fun is more than just a mechanical hump. A kiss means you respect the peeps you are having fun with and like their special company, even if it's just for the once in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Gosh a meet without a snog is like roast dinner without Gravy. Like fish and chips without salt and vinegar.

Surely the act of meeting other people for fun is more than just a mechanical hump. A kiss means you respect the peeps you are having fun with and like their special company, even if it's just for the once in your life."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I pulled this girl the other week..... We went upto bed she got on her hands and knees and said fcuk me...... I said that's not how I play..... so we had a snogothon...... We then both got what we wanted "

Would this be the same girl you pulled in a club and lifted off the floor by the throat ...... or a different girl ..... you pull so regularly in the real world its a wonder you have time for Fab meets!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more kissing is a must - it's a real turn on and proper deep kissing, tongue sucking, lip nibbling gets my blood pounding! "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Gosh a meet without a snog is like roast dinner without Gravy. Like fish and chips without salt and vinegar.

Surely the act of meeting other people for fun is more than just a mechanical hump. A kiss means you respect the peeps you are having fun with and like their special company, even if it's just for the once in your life."

Nope. Having sex and sex alone with them shows them their companies enjoyed. Not there to make love to them. They're always lovely people but not special. To pretend someone you hardly know as special could be construed as fake, which I never am.

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Gosh a meet without a snog is like roast dinner without Gravy. Like fish and chips without salt and vinegar.

Surely the act of meeting other people for fun is more than just a mechanical hump. A kiss means you respect the peeps you are having fun with and like their special company, even if it's just for the once in your life. Nope. Having sex and sex alone with them shows them their companies enjoyed. Not there to make love to them. They're always lovely people but not special. To pretend someone you hardly know as special could be construed as fake, which I never am.

Sarah x

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had meets without but much better with

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By *ipmummxWoman  over a year ago

milton keynes

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By *mallteaserWoman  over a year ago

Central

I couldn't meeting without kissing x

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By *ipmummxWoman  over a year ago

milton keynes

Kissing is a must for me tongue sucking lip biting sensual and rough, adds to the excitement and a better orgsasm ..

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By *mallteaserWoman  over a year ago

Central

Mmmmm

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By *illsmMan  over a year ago

Boston


"No kissing means no meet for me x"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's nothing better than your tongue dancing with your partners

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By *orneyashell87Couple  over a year ago

stockotn on tees


"Does my nut in when I can't kiss in a meet ( ruins it"

Totally agree

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By *ipmummxWoman  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Mmmmm"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To be honest I could not meet if no kissing

It would feel so awkward to just get straight into sex without a passionate kiss kissing for me is what starts everything that follows It would just feel cold and emotionless without the kiss just my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you kiss me, then you'd better be ready to follow it up with the words "I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you" - because that's what kissing means to me..!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you kiss me, then you'd better be ready to follow it up with the words "I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you" - because that's what kissing means to me..!

"

I love you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some couples we know stipulate fem on fem kissing only and we need to respect their rules and boundaries. However we prefer people who kiss as it's a massive turn on.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch


"If you kiss me, then you'd better be ready to follow it up with the words "I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you" - because that's what kissing means to me..!

"

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch


"If you kiss me, then you'd better be ready to follow it up with the words "I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you" - because that's what kissing means to me..!

"

And you have veris , so must be peeps out there who meet without kissing lol, Were 1 of them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We keep kissing for us, anything else is ok for a meet

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple  over a year ago

Wakefield

Wouldn't,t meet if couldn't,t kiss.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch

Any one believe that any single guy on here would refuse a meet because of a no kissing rule is kidding themselves on and conforming to the majority of postings on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any one believe that any single guy on here would refuse a meet because of a no kissing rule is kidding themselves on and conforming to the majority of postings on here. "
LOL

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If a man said no kissing I'd say no to meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a man said no kissing I'd say no to meeting! "
hey up sexy ass xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Kissing can be a quite intimate action so the question is this, is it something you save for your lover or do you do it with a meet?"

Got to kiss!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing fills any awkward silences

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By *itten-xxxWoman  over a year ago

North West

I love kissing I'd rather go without and use my magic wand if no kissing is involved

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch


"Kissing fills any awkward silences "

No silence, yir screaming lol

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By *ucyfur77Woman  over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Kissing us so important, if I can't kiss someone, then date can go no further,, if I don't want to kiss them it's because I don't fancy my date and I'd have to say sorry but this isn't doing it for me,,"

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn


"If you kiss me, then you'd better be ready to follow it up with the words "I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you" - because that's what kissing means to me..!

"

Shit I must spend the rest of my life with half of the bloody country then

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn

I was kissing a lady at the weekend and boy did we kiss. It was so horn. She was soooo attractive but new to this scene. But o boy we could have kissed all night. Holding her face in my hands and feeling the silkiness of her hair while kissing.....horn. com

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love a nice kiss, provided everyone's got good oral hygiene I'll never turn a kiss down if offered the chance

But it's not a dealbreaker for me like it is for some on this thread - if the other party didn't want to I'd be equally ok with that (and just plant kisses on her skin instead)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just simply adore kisssing, touching, the closeness, everything about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is so important lip to lip contact can be so fantastic.

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith

Kissing is very important to me, it heightens the pleasure, and each person can tell how turned on the other is. I've only met one woman from here who doesn't kiss, and it was no surprise I didn't rise to the occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is something very erotic about the first kiss, the electrifying moment when your lips touch and your tongues meet, and the clench of your bodies as they get pulled ever closer.....awsome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love kissing in a meet I've met some women who don't kiss. Hands down kissing makes a meet 100 times better for that closeness and Sensual feeling

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is a way to get the ball rolling and start to get intimate.

I couldn't imagine going to a meet and start giving oral sex without kissing first x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When we first joined the site we decided that kissing was to be kept between us but then after having a few meets it all felt a bit strange without it so it's yes to kissing from us, having tried it both ways we much prefer them with kissing

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By *john121Man  over a year ago

staffs

no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!

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By *not69Man  over a year ago

Lancashire

I adore slow sensual kisses, cant get enough of them. Ive never had a meet without kissing. I honestly dont know how Id cope with no kissing during a meet. It sets the tone for me

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By *jandjbCouple  over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"I adore slow sensual kisses, cant get enough of them. Ive never had a meet without kissing. I honestly dont know how Id cope with no kissing during a meet. It sets the tone for me"

I quite agree ;0)

I love the first tentative kiss that deepens gradually. A kiss tells you so much about that person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!"

Swinging means different things to different people. Who has the right to say what swinging is and what it isn't? My partner and I kiss each other on meets, have rampant sex with the other couples (more than once with a few of them). All ending in a happy communal cum. I can understand why singles need to kiss though. Couples have each other to set the scene. We do lots of romantic stuff together. Hugs, kisses, walks, meals out etc. Other couples are for recreational kink. It works for us. Our profile states no kissing, and we've no shortage of meets

Sarah xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

no kissing - no fun - its one of things we read in a profile - make a note of and pass it by - each to their own and all that but we love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!"

How disrespectful and rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No kissing means no meet for me x

Had many meets over the years and never been asked b4 bout kissing and no one has left or complained, although mrs has had to fend off the odd sweaty attempt .... Yuck !! And that is one of the times we called it a day

"

LOL

Sarah x

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE


"I can understand why singles need to kiss though. Couples have each other to set the scene. We do lots of romantic stuff together. Hugs, kisses, walks, meals out etc. Other couples are for recreational kink. It works for us. Our profile states no kissing, and we've no shortage of meets

Sarah xx

"

Kissing isnt akin to a romantic walk or a hug. I dont need to kiss because I am single. I need to kiss because I am human and a tactile animal.

It is just horny. It transmits sexuality and intent. It allows open expression and my tongue travels from mouth to the rest of her body in a continuous flow.

I get hard during a kiss and as long as the sensuality continues I never go down until we finish.

I am not arguing that others should think the same, I just find the idea of just fucking another guys lady a bit meat markety. If there is no build up then it may as well be a dildo or any other guys cock there.

I also cannot work out why sucking cock isnt intimate

Funnily enough it is only couples that have this issue.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing turns me on. Without it sex is robotic and not very enjoyable for me. I have one exception to that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy the kissing, the best kiss I've ever had was with Philipe a lovely French Italian guy in Paris mmmmmmm ??.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can understand why singles need to kiss though. Couples have each other to set the scene. We do lots of romantic stuff together. Hugs, kisses, walks, meals out etc. Other couples are for recreational kink. It works for us. Our profile states no kissing, and we've no shortage of meets

Sarah xx

Kissing isnt akin to a romantic walk or a hug. I dont need to kiss because I am single. I need to kiss because I am human and a tactile animal.

It is just horny. It transmits sexuality and intent. It allows open expression and my tongue travels from mouth to the rest of her body in a continuous flow.

I get hard during a kiss and as long as the sensuality continues I never go down until we finish.

I am not arguing that others should think the same, I just find the idea of just fucking another guys lady a bit meat markety. If there is no build up then it may as well be a dildo or any other guys cock there.

I also cannot work out why sucking cock isnt intimate

Funnily enough it is only couples that have this issue. "

Because most couples see it as more intimate. I wouldn't cuddle or hug someone that I wouldn't also kiss, so for me they are one and the same. Like I've said, it works for us and the many couples we meet. It all comes down to personal preference and what you're looking for from swinging. Sometimes my partner and I just want to fcuk other couples. Not to kiss, cuddle, or date them. Just fcuk. And from what we've found, there are countless couples that feel the same

Sarah xx

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

We love kissing, sex without it feels awkward.

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By *not69Man  over a year ago

Lancashire


"I can understand why singles need to kiss though. Couples have each other to set the scene. We do lots of romantic stuff together. Hugs, kisses, walks, meals out etc. Other couples are for recreational kink. It works for us. Our profile states no kissing, and we've no shortage of meets

Sarah xx

Kissing isnt akin to a romantic walk or a hug. I dont need to kiss because I am single. I need to kiss because I am human and a tactile animal.

It is just horny. It transmits sexuality and intent. It allows open expression and my tongue travels from mouth to the rest of her body in a continuous flow.

I get hard during a kiss and as long as the sensuality continues I never go down until we finish.

I am not arguing that others should think the same, I just find the idea of just fucking another guys lady a bit meat markety. If there is no build up then it may as well be a dildo or any other guys cock there.

I also cannot work out why sucking cock isnt intimate

Funnily enough it is only couples that have this issue. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We keep kissing for us, anything else is ok for a meet"

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!"

How rude. I used to not kiss... Still often have meets where it doesn't happen.... For me when I kiss Lee it makes me aroused... It makes me tingle all over.. when I kiss someone else its just a kiss... There is no wet pussy or tingle etc.. but I do like it and if a guy won't.. then I can feel a bit unwanted x

To say it equals insecurities is very disrespectful and without any understanding that we are all different... As long as it's all upfront and everyone is happy... Get on with those who want the same as you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!"

and the award to the biggest load of shit wrote on a post goes to ^^

Well done u deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!"

Oh dear what a pathetic statement. We love kissing, but for you to verabally attack those who do not wish to for whatever reason is really sad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely has to be kissing. Its what starts it all for me,it would feel a little weird if there was no kissing but then I'm single, so could be different for couples or if you have partners. love someone who can kiss well x

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

I would probably offend a non-kisser as not kissing would be an absolute impossibility and I'd be constantly lunging at their face.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

you gotta have kisses xxxxxxx

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch


"no kissing means insecurity and you're not really in to swinging.

cant kiss because it's an intimate act! yeah! right! it's just that an act!

the ONLY reasons not too is halitosis, cold sores or other contagious infections!

And if it's contagious what the fcuk are you doing swinging!??!"

Presuming by that comment you have a degree in phsychology

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