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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A friend of mine has a regular fuck buddy and he's developing strong feelings for her. He's 99% sure that she doesn't have the same feelings.
Should he tell her how he feels and risk losing what they do have or just try and blank the ffeelings out and carry on just having great sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a very close male friend on here. We were discussing becoming a couple some point in the future, when I messed it up by developing feelings and became a bit jealous too.He wasn't ready for the feelings at that point and called it all off. It's been over for a year now and I still have regrets. Just be careful is my advice
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your advice, that's kind of what "he" was thinking as well. If he looks like you he's welcome to 'fall' for me lol"
He could be my double |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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My FWB started becoming jealous of me meeting other guys (no idea if he was developing feeling for me though) and ended it. Its a good thing, because if I liked a guy who was shagging other women and refused to stop I would leave him too. If she says she won't stop, don't think you can change her. You won't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im thinking best to leave it as just sex then, maybe less frequent visits with her and more with someone else.
Just got to find a couple of new ones now |
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"im thinking best to leave it as just sex then, maybe less frequent visits with her and more with someone else.
Just got to find a couple of new ones now "
Don't think this will be a problem Hun!
I say sound her out on the scenario. Tell her about your 'mate' and see what her advice would be. If it was me and I felt the same way if advise your 'mate' to tell her. If i didn't, id advise your 'mate' to let it go. Her answer to your question may hint at what she thinks about you x |
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Just mention it to her mate. The worst that can happen is you don't see her for dust but surely that is better than going through the whole 'unrequited love' thing.
The best is that she feels the same way but was was scared of telling you.
Win/win I would say. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"im thinking best to leave it as just sex then, maybe less frequent visits with her and more with someone else.
Just got to find a couple of new ones now "
You've got to find your friend a couple of new ones? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im thinking best to leave it as just sex then, maybe less frequent visits with her and more with someone else.
Just got to find a couple of new ones now "
I'm sure you won't struggle, I'd help you out if you were closer  |
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"depends on the woman but most women I know who like NSA sex would run for the hills if someone stated this to them ..good luck though "
This
An fb of mine got all emotional on me so I ended it. Never believed what I said when just out with friends saying I was off to play with other people. Even if I was it's nothing to do with him what I do outside of the time we are together.
He turned nasty and started calling me a lying cunt but I never once lied. That is one thing I never do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I certainly don't want to scare her off, we are good friends and have been for a while now.
As I said need to spend more time with other people and less time with her.
Any of you lovely ladies wanna give me something/someone else to think about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A friend of mine has a regular fuck buddy and he's developing strong feelings for her. He's 99% sure that she doesn't have the same feelings.
Should he tell her how he feels and risk losing what they do have or just try and blank the ffeelings out and carry on just having great sex?"
A friend?  |
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