I never play on our meets. But then we dont use dom men or bulls and anybody trying to humiliate me would be kicked out so dont know if we are what your asking about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess I am cuckold to an extent and happy with it, but anyone ever tries the insult thing the meet would be over. Clearly people have differing opinions and rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It the best thing ever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on your definition.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is no typical type of a cucold relationship in swinging."

Very true all varied in the fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Question...

Do we have an unfaithful wife?

Answer...

Yes

Therefore our Husband (Lick) is a Cuckold.

Simple... even if he has fun too... He is still "the husband of an unfaithful wife"

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By *aisy2012Couple over a year ago

everywhere

Problem is. " cuckold" can have really negative connotations & covers a wide area. We are I suppose cuckold insofar as I love Sexy to be pleasured at every opportunity & I love to lick & fuck her freshly fucked pussy. But, like others, wouldn't tolerate the idea of a "bull" or the humiliation thing. If I think of "cuckold" I automatically think of the extreme side of it & that's not us.

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By *himaeraWoman over a year ago

near derby.

"Problem is. " cuckold" can have really negative connotations & covers a wide area. We are I suppose cuckold insofar as I love Sexy to be pleasured at every opportunity & I love to lick & fuck her freshly fucked pussy. But, like others, wouldn't tolerate the idea of a "bull" or the humiliation thing. If I think of "cuckold" I automatically think of the extreme side of it & that's not us. "

Exactly that. My OH hates the word, and would never put up with being humiliated or me entertaining a "bull". We were trying to think of a new word, for a guy who loves to either see his wife being fucked, or knowing she has gone out to have sex with someone else - how about "libertair"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

same. ive watched the missus once, and she's played solo once (with pics for me) does that make me a cuckold? to us its just extra fun when were horny! either of us have never cheated since we got together (well hope not ha) but does playing solo count?

the word cuckold is different for many people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It the best thing ever "

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple over a year ago

Bridlington

We've met many single guys, some of them on many occasions. We both love it. We haven't considered any of them to be the"bull" and wouldn't tolerate anything degrading or humiliating. We think of it as Silky being shared, but we suppose some would consider it a cuckold relationship.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

I have met three cuckold couples, all completely different in their level of cuckolding, the most extreme case welcoming verbal abuse from his wife and myself whilst he watched naked and erect and "forbidden" to take part.

All three of us enjoyed the experience on more than one occasion...

Other cuckold couples did not go quite as far...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do not like the word at all, do not consider myself a cuck either!

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By *c69funCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

If the hubby watches wife been pleasured by another man its a basic form of Cuckolding , if you

Don't like the word cuckold then call it wife watching .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've recently taken the reference to cuckolding off our profile, too many automatically assume it means Paul is a sub and gets dominated or humiliated, there are soo many different meanings attached to the term cuckolding ( about as many as there are cuckold couples) .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So should we ask admin to add wife watching to the list of interests as well

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By *anSusieCouple over a year ago

Midlothian

"We've recently taken the reference to cuckolding off our profile, too many automatically assume it means Paul is a sub and gets dominated or humiliated, there are soo many different meanings attached to the term cuckolding ( about as many as there are cuckold couples) ....."

I (Dan) suppose I'm guilty of assuming what you state. We don't like to meet sub men as Susie likes dominant men. I love nothing more than to watch her with someone knowing she is enjoying herself. However, I am always at the other end dominating her too. A bit of double domming is her absolute favourite.

My thoughts when I think of cuckolding is a man in a chastity devise being humiliated by his wife and her lover, sexual denial and clean up duties... its huge on the other fet site we are on. you also get cukqweens which is the female version of a cuckold husband....now that is an idea I do like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Umm...Hi a quean here lol!!

MissD

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Lots of these sexual activities and definitions are really wide, but I don't see this as reason not to use them. Swinging even, as we know, covers a multitude of 'sins', same with cuckolding. Just refine the meaning with your play mates. I'm after a couple of guys for cuckold fun, and flexible how it works - so it can definitely be worked and defined as you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the word cuckold is different for many people "

It is really simple. Remember all you need to be a cuckold is be married and have an unfaithful wife.

Wish people would stop over complicating things. All the other porn add ons are for marketing and other kinks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the word cuckold is different for many people

It is really simple. Remember all you need to be a cuckold is be married and have an unfaithful wife.

Wish people would stop over complicating things. All the other porn add ons are for marketing and other kinks. "

were not married, does that exclude us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes the definition is wide.

Have found recently that many couples/males want to talk about watching their wives/partners but haven't discussed it yet with them, And some want to be abused many don't, they just want to watch and wank.

There are a lot of fantasists on here and talkers not do-ers though, have met couples who want bulls but don't like the terms as well and cuckolding has some negative connotations like bisexual has for many.

Ah well the real ones are out there just getting more and more difficult to find the real ones!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"were not married, does that exclude us

Well yes... The dictionary definition is really simple and uses the words HUSBAND and WIFE.

It's all really really simple that people, porn and myth exaggerates.

Adding domination, submission, chastity and/sissification are all other fetishes that people associate with Cuckold lifestyles but they are just fetishes of their own.

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By *c69funCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

We're not married but we're definitely enjoying the cuckold scene when we get chance . After all actions speak louder than words, Does it really matter what a dictionary defines cuckolding ?

Call it what you want like anything else its about discussing what everyone wants from a meet and that way everyone knows what type of cuckolding you want .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're not married but we're definitely enjoying the cuckold scene when we get chance . After all actions speak louder than words, Does it really matter what a dictionary defines cuckolding ?

Call it what you want like anything else its about discussing what everyone wants from a meet and that way everyone knows what type of cuckolding you want . "

No that is NOT the point. As people in Scotland are debating right now the definition of a word , term or name IS important.

People can do what they want but the definition of Cuckold is fixed. It has been for hundreds of years. When vanilla writers use it in literature they mean the same as the dictionary.....

If what people do is MORE than the definition does not change the definition. But it's only a small definition so easy to decide if you fall into it or not...

But the heart of it is its a term, usually derogatory about a Husband.

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By *c69funCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

"We're not married but we're definitely enjoying the cuckold scene when we get chance . After all actions speak louder than words, Does it really matter what a dictionary defines cuckolding ?

Call it what you want like anything else its about discussing what everyone wants from a meet and that way everyone knows what type of cuckolding you want .

No that is NOT the point. As people in Scotland are debating right now the definition of a word , term or name IS important.

People can do what they want but the definition of Cuckold is fixed. It has been for hundreds of years. When vanilla writers use it in literature they mean the same as the dictionary.....

If what people do is MORE than the definition does not change the definition. But it's only a small definition so easy to decide if you fall into it or not...

But the heart of it is its a term, usually derogatory about a Husband."

So what your saying is that swinging by its dictionary definition can only be done by unmarried people because if its a married couple its cuckolding because by dictionary definition its adultry .

As I said previously if you enjoy it and all parties are aware exactly what everyone wants don't worry about what the definition is ..

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By *elrose57Couple over a year ago

reading

we play with single guys, and have had lots of fun doing it, and that is what it is all about fun, as we do have sex with the guy that makes it a cuckold meeting , many formes of cuckold though, and many ways for people to enjoy them all,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're not married but we're definitely enjoying the cuckold scene when we get chance . After all actions speak louder than words, Does it really matter what a dictionary defines cuckolding ?

Call it what you want like anything else its about discussing what everyone wants from a meet and that way everyone knows what type of cuckolding you want .

No that is NOT the point. As people in Scotland are debating right now the definition of a word , term or name IS important.

People can do what they want but the definition of Cuckold is fixed. It has been for hundreds of years. When vanilla writers use it in literature they mean the same as the dictionary.....

If what people do is MORE than the definition does not change the definition. But it's only a small definition so easy to decide if you fall into it or not...

But the heart of it is its a term, usually derogatory about a Husband.

So what your saying is that swinging by its dictionary definition can only be done by unmarried people because if its a married couple its cuckolding because by dictionary definition its adultry .

As I said previously if you enjoy it and all parties are aware exactly what everyone wants don't worry about what the definition is .."

Not what I am saying. There is no reason why people can't be into lots of things simultaneously... swinging and cuckold and domination and bondage etc etc.

But absolutely agree we can all do exactly as we choose. I just get irritated at the distortion of language.

So on this historic day.... around 4 million people who are British are voting to not be. They are also Scottish, Europeans. Many are Catholic and Protestant. Some are white and some black. I'd even guess 50% might even be women.

All those terms have specific meanings and are all attached to the people.

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By *antscuckcplCouple over a year ago

Southampton

Cuckold is just most popular word to describe such an activities. But there is another description for it: wittol.

According to wikipedia: A man who knows or even condones his wife's enjoyment of coitus with another man or men, a content cuckold.

Im a wittol lol

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By *ast_jjMan over a year ago

Dublin and London

I think we over analyse things. Cuckold is just a term and as mention there are so many forms of it. I think we should just enjoy it in whatever form you are comfortable with. J

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cuckold is just most popular word to describe such an activities. But there is another description for it: wittol.

According to wikipedia: A man who knows or even condones his wife's enjoyment of coitus with another man or men, a content cuckold.

Im a wittol lol

Absolutely

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By *himaeraWoman over a year ago

near derby.

"Cuckold is just most popular word to describe such an activities. But there is another description for it: wittol.

According to wikipedia: A man who knows or even condones his wife's enjoyment of coitus with another man or men, a content cuckold.

Im a wittol lol

Absolutely

That's a good description, fits perfectly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cuckolding whats wrong with enjoying and carrying out fantasies, if thats what turns you on, there's nothing perverted about adults sexualy enjoying them self's, but i would be concerned about how some cucks want to lick spunk out of their partners fanny, Safe sex must always be first before fantasies, no matter how good it tastes !!!!!

sorry for being a party pooper

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think far too many people confuse cuckolding with wife watching. Two separate things, I think. Cuckolding has an element of humiliation for the husband, usually set out by the wife and her 'bull'. Wife watching is getting enjoyment from watching your wife with other men. Which I think is the vast majority. I have played with couples where the husband sits back and watches his wife being pleasured. But wouldn't dare to call them cuckolds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think far too many people confuse cuckolding with wife watching. Two separate things, I think. Cuckolding has an element of humiliation for the husband, usually set out by the wife and her 'bull'. Wife watching is getting enjoyment from watching your wife with other men. Which I think is the vast majority. I have played with couples where the husband sits back and watches his wife being pleasured. But wouldn't dare to call them cuckolds."

No... that may be what they do... which is MORE than cuckold but still cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Standard definitions (well the nouns):

From http://www.thefreedictionary.com/cuckold

"A man married to an unfaithful wife."

From http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/cuckold

"The husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision"

From http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/cuckold?s=t

"the husband of an unfaithful wife"

From http://www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/cuckold

"A cuckold is a husband whose wife has had sex with someone else. By doing this, she cuckolds him."

From http://www.audioenglish.org/dictionary/cuckold.htm

"a man whose wife committed adultery"

The definition is simple and has a couple of basic attributes... Husband, Wife and Unfaithful.

IF we are people want to do MORE than this as is our own personal kinks or fetishes... that is fine. But the word has a very definite and common meaning.

All this debating is like trying to say that a penis is a man! It is a part of a man but not all of a man.

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By *b3467Couple over a year ago

Dorset

We consider ourselves a cuckold couple

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By *astmidlandscoupleCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"We consider ourselves a cuckold couple

Us too, in some senses, some of the time, and that works for us

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By *iganpairCouple over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

I get the idea that some people are trying to re-write the swinging/cuckolding terms lol

To me of ur into it weather married single gay straightvwhat ever then ur into it if not then ur not simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cuckolding is about the couple your with and full filling there cuckolding needs , all are different .its a form of role play ( just my opinion ) if you dont play the part they need they will just move on ! Any cuck couples interested feel free to get intouch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say we are well on our way to being a fully cuckold couple but as it has been said it takes many different forms. I have asked,questioned, nagged my husband "what does he get out of it" and he inisists he probably gets more out of it than me (mind boggles on that one lol). For him the thought of me playing solo is a massive turn on for him and the more he,s denied the more he likes it esspecially if I tell him about it later. Theres is never no love involved just pure sex and sex is different for everybody personally I just enjoy it for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like it when my wife goes out for a few hours fucks a guy in a hotel then comes home and tells me about it.

I love it when she has a regular guy who she can make love with, and act like a couple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me , I love to see and hear my wife being pleasured .... watching the guys cock in her mouth and deep inside her pussy . Watching her reactions to his every touch and kiss. Then if im allowed , joining in . No humiliation involved at all , so not really cuckold but more hot wife scenario.

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