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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I wish I could deep throat or take a man deep in my mouth without gagging. I also wish I could orgasm easier as it tales alot for me to cum hard. I think lastly I wish I would enjoy a man cumming in my mouth.
Who else wishes things they can't do or don't like xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I could deep throat or take a man deep in my mouth without gagging. I also wish I could orgasm easier as it tales alot for me to cum hard. I think lastly I wish I would enjoy a man cumming in my mouth.
Who else wishes things they can't do or don't like xx"
Ditto! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I could cum easier too, takes me ages and most guys give up before I get there so mostly I don't cum  "
I'd send the cheeky bugger back till he finished the job lol... |
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By *angersgaloreCouple
over a year ago
Northamptonshire/Warwickshire border |
This is quite comforting to me I have to say, as i seem to take longer and longer to cum. As i need clitoral stimulation to cum it can be quite tricky on a meet. Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is quite comforting to me I have to say, as i seem to take longer and longer to cum. As i need clitoral stimulation to cum it can be quite tricky on a meet. Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!! "
I have never cum through penetration, not even the slightest sensation of cumming, the only way I have ever cum is a good tongue and a gentle finger, has to be just so though, if the guy start getting a little rough with his finger I won't cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I was more of an exhibitionist. I would love to be more comfortable in a club but just too bloody shy and self conscious  "
That genuinely surprised me, you come across as such a strong confident character on here! You really have no reason to feel self conscious at all! (I know that's easier said than done) |
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" Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!! "
yep me I've always been jealous of friends who don't need the bean flicking to cum. I'm resigned to it now but I do wonder if blokes are thinking "oh get on with it love" 
T xx |
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By *angersgaloreCouple
over a year ago
Northamptonshire/Warwickshire border |
" Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!!
yep me I've always been jealous of friends who don't need the bean flicking to cum. I'm resigned to it now but I do wonder if blokes are thinking "oh get on with it love"
T xx "
Me too, especially on a meet when the other lady just keeps cumming and cumming and you think oh come on, why can't i do that. I do try not to get too hung up on it though.  |
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"I wish I was more of an exhibitionist. I would love to be more comfortable in a club but just too bloody shy and self conscious
That genuinely surprised me, you come across as such a strong confident character on here! You really have no reason to feel self conscious at all! (I know that's easier said than done)"
Deep down insecurities and a genuine desire to make a connection have combined to make me feel out of sorts in a public playroom.
Dont let me get you in a private room though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I could make the first move on guys, I see guys on here I really like but I don't have the balls to mail them, I'm the same in clubs I cant go over and start talking to guys who grab my attention, i really wish I had more confidence so i could do this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I could make the first move on guys, I see guys on here I really like but I don't have the balls to mail them, I'm the same in clubs I cant go over and start talking to guys who grab my attention, i really wish I had more confidence so i could do this "
I have always been the same but with women. My brain dries up lol |
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"Me too, especially on a meet when the other lady just keeps cumming and cumming and you think oh come on, why can't i do that. I do try not to get too hung up on it though. "
I feel better knowing I'm not the only one xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!!
yep me I've always been jealous of friends who don't need the bean flicking to cum. I'm resigned to it now but I do wonder if blokes are thinking "oh get on with it love"
T xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think blokes get embarrassed when u get the feeling that the women ur trying to have a good time with is struggling to cum and makes him feel abit useless..but he has to tease and make a women horney for any chance of u girls cumming...no point sending a boy on a mans job lol  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I wish I could cum easier too, takes me ages and most guys give up before I get there so mostly I don't cum "
Ditto. It's difficult for anyone else to make me orgasm. Sometimes even I give up before I get there. Or I get frustrated and do it myself! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"As i need clitoral stimulation to cum it can be quite tricky on a meet. Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!! "
I only cum with clit play and it usually takes a vibrator even then. I get small vaginal mini-orgasms from penetration but they don't give me the build up and release of a "proper" orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is quite comforting to me I have to say, as i seem to take longer and longer to cum. As i need clitoral stimulation to cum it can be quite tricky on a meet. Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!!
I have never cum through penetration, not even the slightest sensation of cumming, the only way I have ever cum is a good tongue and a gentle finger, has to be just so though, if the guy start getting a little rough with his finger I won't cum"
Had a couple of ex girlfriends like this. One that was really bad and could only orgasm using a certain toy, whilst her nipples where being played with the bed facing south and the month had five weekends in it etc....(oh and the moon was half cresent).
Personaly i just think she needed to relax her body and not build all kinds of bollocks in her mind  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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Personaly i just think she needed to relax her body and not build all kinds of bollocks in her mind "
This could well be my problem too but I've yet to find a regular partner patient enough and understanding enough to help me work through it.
Most of my regular partners have been pretty poor sexually actually, sadly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I could do anal comfortably without a second thought!
I talk to friends who do it with ease and it's always a bit of a struggle for me, and it's so fun!! |
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"This is quite comforting to me I have to say, as i seem to take longer and longer to cum. As i need clitoral stimulation to cum it can be quite tricky on a meet. Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!! "
Try hypnosis or EFT. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I could cum.
Wish I'd relax more on meets, even though I feel I do, I know I don't. If that makes sense.
Wish list is endless really or seems that way.
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"I wish I could make the first move on guys, I see guys on here I really like but I don't have the balls to mail them, I'm the same in clubs I cant go over and start talking to guys who grab my attention, i really wish I had more confidence so i could do this "
Naughty you have good veris and are clearly attractive. For a bloke it's a huge turn on if a woman wants to talk to you and seems to find you attractive. As a couple we prefer to approach men rather than respond to winks and messages. In clubs its really easy. Sensible single males know how to be respectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe me, being relaxed has nothing to do with being able to orgasm more easily.. Im chilled as a cucumber and i can't even get myself there sometimes.. I have only ever cum once in a club and a handful of times with single guys.. Some of us just can't.. I don't get stressed about it, yeah it does piss me off when women can cum just by touching them.. But its them that are knackered by the end of the night and need a time out.. Not me.. I can keep going all night.. The few orgasms I've had are nothing to write home about anyway.. I get more sensations from a sneezing fit then an orgasm.. Pound me good and hard, make me sore.. That's a sign of a good session.. Not how many orgasm I've had... Not heard a man complain yet that I've not had one while he's been playing with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes would like to be attracted to MMF, I've been propositioned by a fair few couples with stunning women before, and hate having to turn them down.
Still, a man has to stay true to his needs, and not compromise for less. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Believe me, being relaxed has nothing to do with being able to orgasm more easily.. Im chilled as a cucumber and i can't even get myself there sometimes.. I have only ever cum once in a club and a handful of times with single guys.. Some of us just can't.. I don't get stressed about it, yeah it does piss me off when women can cum just by touching them.. But its them that are knackered by the end of the night and need a time out.. Not me.. I can keep going all night.. The few orgasms I've had are nothing to write home about anyway.. I get more sensations from a sneezing fit then an orgasm.. Pound me good and hard, make me sore.. That's a sign of a good session.. Not how many orgasm I've had... Not heard a man complain yet that I've not had one while he's been playing with me "
I'm the opposite,I have very sensitive nerves and come very easily. After a while it can become torturous; the sensation is sometimes like hitting your funny bone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wish I could be more confident but I take one look of a profile and I think I've got no chance. I could also wish I could drive seeing the people who've been the most interesting(ed) have lived further afield. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I had someone to enjoy this lifestyle with . Anyone out there feel the same ? "
Ive swung as a couple with my ex, I didn't enjoy it, I much prefer being here as a single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Mr) have always been insecure and have a lack of confidence and although most of the time you would never of guessed from the way I act, I wish I wasn't like it.
But on a plus note I managed to let MrsS be in full control which I normally struggle with and she tied my hands behind my back and blindfolded me. It was great and I think I've got a new fantasy, will be doing that more often
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!!
yep me I've always been jealous of friends who don't need the bean flicking to cum. I'm resigned to it now but I do wonder if blokes are thinking "oh get on with it love"
T xx
Me too, especially on a meet when the other lady just keeps cumming and cumming and you think oh come on, why can't i do that. I do try not to get too hung up on it though. "
I have had sneaking suspicions on many occasions that those women cum and cum on foursome meets are faking? Especially the very vocal ones, I want to tap them on the shoulder and say "really?"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Does any one else only cum with clit stimulation? Am wondering if i can learn how to have a vaginal orgasm or if its too late to teach an old dog new tricks lol!!
yep me I've always been jealous of friends who don't need the bean flicking to cum. I'm resigned to it now but I do wonder if blokes are thinking "oh get on with it love"
T xx
Me too, especially on a meet when the other lady just keeps cumming and cumming and you think oh come on, why can't i do that. I do try not to get too hung up on it though.
I have had sneaking suspicions on many occasions that those women cum and cum on foursome meets are faking? Especially the very vocal ones, I want to tap them on the shoulder and say "really?" "
MrsS is vocal and I am sure it is the only reason we get a smile from our neighbours lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said by many, I wish I had more confidence. Approaching people is something I find extremely difficult as with making conversation, new situations a whole plethora of scenarios make me cripplingly uncomfortable. plus a whole number of things I wish were different about myself but thats the big one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I had someone to enjoy this lifestyle with . Anyone out there feel the same ?
The vast majority of single males on here I'd imagine."
And some females possibly too |
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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
"I wish I had someone to enjoy this lifestyle with . Anyone out there feel the same ?
The vast majority of single males on here I'd imagine.
And some females possibly too "
I also wish I had a special someone to go to clubs with who it all works with. Being the single lady is often a very lonely feeling for me. Seeing other couples loved up or even getting that connection with someone does make me envious.
Mind you knowing the person I am it probably would never work lol |
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