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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like the honesty there ladies, the way to.define size on here is a bit strange, thin is athletic but fat is bbw or fabulous oh but then there is always curvy  ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I,m fat there's no covering it any other way lol ....I'm size 18oh I forgot and not beautiful ....  "
But an arse I would like to slap all evening ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh here we go again - everyone over a size 14 tripping over themselves to pronounce they're a fattie.
Struth!  "
Is there something wrong with that then? |
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"Oh here we go again - everyone over a size 14 tripping over themselves to pronounce they're a fattie.
Struth!
Is there something wrong with that then? "
Well as it's not what the OP asked then yes.
It's like the scene from Spartacus 'I'm fat'... 'No I'M fat' and everyone jumps on the bandwagon because god forbid you should want to use a more flattering, less blunt description.
It just gets boring thread after thread. There's nothing wrong with gilding the lily when it comes to marketing yourself on here.
'I'm a larger woman - size 22' just sounds nicer and sexier than 'I'm a fat woman' - true though it may be.
But in answer to the OP - which was what SIZE is considered a BBW... it's subjective. But most people would say over a size 18.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think you can go by dress size as that depends on build, height etc. Someone who is an 18 and 5ft tall will be a completely different to someone who is 5ft 10 tall and an 18. I'm a size 18 and just under 15 stone, I wouldn't consider myself a BBW. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size 14+
Fuck off lol !!!! No bloody way am I a BBw
What would be so wrong with being a BBW?? 
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Being unhealthy !
My god I have worked hard to loose what I have no way am I putting on more ! No way would I want to be a BBw or even just a bw I am big enough at a size 14 and would be wounded to be called a BBw . Hell no way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big beautiful women are exactly what the title states and honestly big boobs n bums are extreamly sexy most comonly found on fuller figured or bigger women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size 14+
Fuck off lol !!!! No bloody way am I a BBw
What would be so wrong with being a BBW??
Being unhealthy !
My god I have worked hard to loose what I have no way am I putting on more ! No way would I want to be a BBw or even just a bw I am big enough at a size 14 and would be wounded to be called a BBw . Hell no way
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From what I can see I wouldn't class you as a BBW at all but I also don't class it as a negative or derogatory term.
I refer to myself as a BBW but it's also based on my height as well as my dress size...however I think the term is very subjective.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess |
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess"
 Not the sexiest of terms is it? |
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well I'm fat, morbidly obese in fact. I didn't choose to be like this and its a pity that its not eating tonnes of food....just people assume I am the size I am, through sheer laziness and eating cake, pizza and other crap.
I am beautiful though, but this is also subject to others opinions.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess
Not the sexiest of terms is it?"
No not really. Some people may class me as fat and some time ago I'd have referred to myself that way too.
However I really believe in trying to have a positive mental attitude and I think that becomes confidence and in turn makes you more attractive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like bigger women,but calling them big beautiful women is a bit wrong,its like they're trying to find an excuse to warrant their unhealthy lifestyle,being big aint healthy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say OP that you answered your own question. Yes different people have their differing opinions. Some of us are just happy to be ourselves without a label, without putting ourselves down and without being derogatory to others. |
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess
Not the sexiest of terms is it?
No not really. Some people may class me as fat and some time ago I'd have referred to myself that way too.
However I really believe in trying to have a positive mental attitude and I think that becomes confidence and in turn makes you more attractive!"
You're absolutely right! The word 'fat' is so often associated with negative terms (fat lazy, fat greedy, fat ugly) that the very word itself, even if it's factually true, has become a negative term in itself. I don't wish to view myself in a negative light - it does zilch for my self esteem.
For those who prefer to refer to themselves that way - great. Don't expect us all to jump on the bandwagon though. For those who prefer to use BBW, if others have a problem with it, that's just what it is - THEIR problem.
I don't use the expression myself but think that people should make up their own mind what word they use to describe their body type without recrimination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess
Not the sexiest of terms is it?"
You cant win on here though can you, if you say BBW the anti fat brigade take the huff, if you say fat your seen as one of those big birds with a chip on her shoulder |
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"I like bigger women,but calling them big beautiful women is a bit wrong,its like they're trying to find an excuse to warrant their unhealthy lifestyle,being big aint healthy"
dont need no excuse. I do have legitimate reasons though. Also, some large people can be fitter health wise than slim/average people. |
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess
Not the sexiest of terms is it?
You cant win on here though can you, if you say BBW the anti fat brigade take the huff, if you say fat your seen as one of those big birds with a chip on her shoulder "
And therein lies the problem. If only people would mind their own business, their own profile and their own description of themselves - and if those looking just used their eyes to decide whether someone was attractive to them or not (radical concept I know) then how much happier we'd all be. |
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"We are who we are, why need labels? Xxxx damn right,I don't class myself as a sbm (slim beautiful male) why label yourself a bbw"
I use the label because I AM BIG, I AM BEAUTIFUL and I am a woman. Its a label that works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess
Not the sexiest of terms is it?
You cant win on here though can you, if you say BBW the anti fat brigade take the huff, if you say fat your seen as one of those big birds with a chip on her shoulder
And therein lies the problem. If only people would mind their own business, their own profile and their own description of themselves - and if those looking just used their eyes to decide whether someone was attractive to them or not (radical concept I know) then how much happier we'd all be."
Couldn't agree with this more!! |
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"I'm confused now. Should I be putting BBW on my profile if I'm a size 14 ? I always thought beauty was in the eye of the beholder. Go figure. "
Display a photo of your body (doesn't have to be naked - just not obscure), mention your dress size and let those looking at your profile decide if they like the look of what they see. No confusion then and no need for labels either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm confused now. Should I be putting BBW on my profile if I'm a size 14 ? I always thought beauty was in the eye of the beholder. Go figure.
Display a photo of your body (doesn't have to be naked - just not obscure), mention your dress size and let those looking at your profile decide if they like the look of what they see. No confusion then and no need for labels either "
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"Oh here we go again - everyone over a size 14 tripping over themselves to pronounce they're a fattie.
Struth!
Is there something wrong with that then?
Well as it's not what the OP asked then yes.
It's like the scene from Spartacus 'I'm fat'... 'No I'M fat' and everyone jumps on the bandwagon because god forbid you should want to use a more flattering, less blunt description.
It just gets boring thread after thread. There's nothing wrong with gilding the lily when it comes to marketing yourself on here.
'I'm a larger woman - size 22' just sounds nicer and sexier than 'I'm a fat woman' - true though it may be.
But in answer to the OP - which was what SIZE is considered a BBW... it's subjective. But most people would say over a size 18.
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totaly agree! Fat for years been quoted and used in a detrimental way! With all its stereo typical bull shit ta boot.. Now if you dont say ' im fat' its like ya ashamed or sumink! Behave! Every one can describe themselves how they wish we all get that... However ... Yes I may HAVE fat but being larger don't define ME!!! Never has n never will... So agree! Just like Spartacus! Lmfao! Many quote they aint happy blah blah blah... Well some of us are very happy in our skins |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I call myself a bbw ..mainly because I'm fecking gorgeous! !!!, big (size 18) and a woman ...I don't care what other people think. ..I also don't care how other people call/describe themselves ... do you know why ?...because surely looking at photos each of us can make our own minds up about what we consider to be bbw, athletic, slim etc.. ...chill out folks ..you want to call yourself fat carry on ..I choose bbw ..much more of a positive vibe about it x |
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"I'm confused now. Should I be putting BBW on my profile if I'm a size 14 ? I always thought beauty was in the eye of the beholder. Go figure.
Display a photo of your body (doesn't have to be naked - just not obscure), mention your dress size and let those looking at your profile decide if they like the look of what they see. No confusion then and no need for labels either "
how about just gettinh out there n meeting people face ta face? Deffinatly no confusion then ... At all!? |
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"So many women on here calling themselves fat and that's so much more negative then saying BBW but if you're comfortable to refer to yourself that way then that's your choice I guess
Not the sexiest of terms is it?
No not really. Some people may class me as fat and some time ago I'd have referred to myself that way too.
However I really believe in trying to have a positive mental attitude and I think that becomes confidence and in turn makes you more attractive!
You're absolutely right! The word 'fat' is so often associated with negative terms (fat lazy, fat greedy, fat ugly) that the very word itself, even if it's factually true, has become a negative term in itself. I don't wish to view myself in a negative light - it does zilch for my self esteem.
For those who prefer to refer to themselves that way - great. Don't expect us all to jump on the bandwagon though. For those who prefer to use BBW, if others have a problem with it, that's just what it is - THEIR problem.
I don't use the expression myself but think that people should make up their own mind what word they use to describe their body type without recrimination."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused now. Should I be putting BBW on my profile if I'm a size 14 ? I always thought beauty was in the eye of the beholder. Go figure.
Display a photo of your body (doesn't have to be naked - just not obscure), mention your dress size and let those looking at your profile decide if they like the look of what they see. No confusion then and no need for labels either how about just gettinh out there n meeting people face ta face? Deffinatly no confusion then ... At all!? "
Yep we do that too. |
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play...."
Nobody's forcing you to have sex with them are they? That's the beauty of choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play....
Nobody's forcing you to have sex with them are they? That's the beauty of choice."
Yes but sometimes they pin me down ..sit on my face till im groggy. .then ride my member.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play...."
Hahahahaha omfg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play....
we have a winner for today's most ridiculous comment. What a load of utter bollocks "
hook line n sinker. .x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play.... you need ya legs slapping you! "
and my.bum.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play...."
its not really me doing the splits on my profile pic
im just a large portion just have a cream cake break after a hour, ready for the next hour and next break and next hour........ |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"What size is classed as bbw? I assume it depends on people's preference?  "
Excuse my simpleton way of thinking but isn't it how you class yourself and not what others think
I guess there's a certain dress size that people will associate to being a 'bbw' but no idea what that is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play...."
Maybe they just use being unfit as an excuse to stop cause your boring them  |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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im a beautifully fat woman,a MILF/ curvy/large/BBW/voluptuous/busty etc etc etc. Its all good to me. i m happy with what i am and get labelled in many different ways. If you feel the need to label people its fine. The site requires you to label yourself to a certain extent. I just call myself curvy as that how i see myself. 5ft 4 if im lucky. size 16 38f bust. so if you want to call me a big beautiful woman its a compliment. just not what i label myself to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
And......
there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play...."
I've been asked before by blokes for a rest between play. Not sure where my energy comes from but heyho |
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
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there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play....
I've been asked before by blokes for a rest between play. Not sure where my energy comes from but heyho "
sometimes us blokes get a bit puffed out lol those cocks dont pump in and out by themselves you know .. unless your cowgirling us x |
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"There's alot if big women on this site I've noticed. ..
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there not that flexible. ..and are knackered after an hours play....
I've been asked before by blokes for a rest between play. Not sure where my energy comes from but heyho "
its a fun way to try to wear them out |
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