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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't believe the amount of time wasters and fake people on here. I've had my time wasted by a few cpls now that say they are not time waster but just make you jump through hoops then just end up stopping all contact. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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As you are the only constant... maybe look at your own criteria.
I've never had a timewaster in all my time on here.
And as for fakes - whats a fake, someone who doesn't want to fuck you? Take it on the chin, and move on. Stay positive and focus on the ones who do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't mind if I'm not someone's type, that a bit if a silly thing to say. If someone is not my type I tell them and move on, I don't make people jump through hoops then just leave them with no contact. As for fake people/profiles I've had a number of people contact me that have only just joint then about a week later they are no longer on the site.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you are the only constant... maybe look at your own criteria.
I've never had a timewaster in all my time on here.
And as for fakes - whats a fake, someone who doesn't want to fuck you? Take it on the chin, and move on. Stay positive and focus on the ones who do."
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I don't mind if I'm not someone's type, that a bit if a silly thing to say. If someone is not my type I tell them and move on, I don't make people jump through hoops then just leave them with no contact. As for fake people/profiles I've had a number of people contact me that have only just joint then about a week later they are no longer on the site...."
So don't meet unverified? Block new members? The filters are there to help you use the site to suit you.
As for the stopping contact... Maybe you said something that turned them off... I stop contact for a variety of reasons. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
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Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever 
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't mind if I'm not someone's type, that a bit if a silly thing to say. If someone is not my type I tell them and move on, I don't make people jump through hoops then just leave them with no contact. As for fake people/profiles I've had a number of people contact me that have only just joint then about a week later they are no longer on the site....
So don't meet unverified? Block new members? The filters are there to help you use the site to suit you.
As for the stopping contact... Maybe you said something that turned them off... I stop contact for a variety of reasons."
Thanks for your comments. I'm not sure if I said anything as I always make sure all emails are polite and tasteful, but you never know.
But even if someone said something to me then I would at least say sorry but I'm not interested.
Maybe as a lady or a cpl you get lots more messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints"
Holy moly I might have to open my mouth  
My own words OP I agree with this poster, end of hence the thumbs up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints"
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"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints"
Yes, from the ops response on this thread so far: what a charmer!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people don't think they need to sign off on a conversation when they find there is no attraction and just block or ignore. Some couples aren't actually couples. After a while you should realise which ones these are. Being blocked isn't nice but lots of people do it. Put it down to experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies ladies ladies give the man a break !!!! There are a lot of people on here who play games !!! For what ever reason !!! "
Someone atleast with a knowledgable reply. |
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"I can't believe the amount of time wasters and fake people on here. I've had my time wasted by a few cpls now that say they are not time waster but just make you jump through hoops then just end up stopping all contact."
What were the hoops they made you jump through? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your comments.
If I'm not someone's type then that's fine with me. But what I'm talking about are people send me messages asking for pictures wanting to know what I would do to them if e meet up etc and then after a few messages just block.
I'm not going to keep on sending messages if you say no, I'm a grown up. I don't know why people Waste my time and theirs......that's why I have my pic only friends only, also due to my job.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Time is only wasted if you would have used that time to do something else that was productive or more enjoyable. Many people find exchanging messages, chatting in the chat rooms and PMing enjoyable no matter where it leads. Ergo, their time isn't wasted just because it didn't lead to a life long friendship or a meet or whatever the OP feels he should achieve with his time spent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not here to charm anyone. I was just posting my thoughts. Maybe that's not the done thing.
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It's absolutely the done thing. But if you're just looking for people who agree with you, then this probably isn't the right place. People have shared the benefit of their experiences in a constructive way for you, so that perhaps you can either adjust your expectations or your experience
What you see as making you jump through hoops could very easily be people ensuring that you meet their criteria, they're not wasting your time if it's something you'd be doing anyway. And I'm afraid on here, it's been our observation that time waster and fake tend to be accusations thrown at people who subsequently decide that they're not interested in meeting them |
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"Thanks for your comments.
If I'm not someone's type then that's fine with me. But what I'm talking about are people send me messages asking for pictures wanting to know what I would do to them if e meet up etc and then after a few messages just block.
I'm not going to keep on sending messages if you say no, I'm a grown up. I don't know why people Waste my time and theirs......that's why I have my pic only friends only, also due to my job.
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Ahh that's coz they are more than likely men getting there rocks off hearing you tell them what you are going to do !!!!  ! Cheap live porn ! That's why I never Sext with anyone !!!! They soon go if they are only here for sexting !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Time is only wasted if you would have used that time to do something else that was productive or more enjoyable. Many people find exchanging messages, chatting in the chat rooms and PMing enjoyable no matter where it leads. Ergo, their time isn't wasted just because it didn't lead to a life long friendship or a meet or whatever the OP feels he should
achieve with his time spent "
Once again it's not about achieving a goal I'm more than happy to chat but if you no longer want to chat to me at least have the respect to say so......I would be more than happy with that. That is what I do...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints"
I don't think his comment was aimed at you..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not here to charm anyone. I was just posting my thoughts. Maybe that's not the done thing.
If you are not here to charm anyone, I doubt you will be very busy in the bedroom fella "
Lol maybe that's it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints
I don't think his comment was aimed at you....."
That's correct... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had a time waster, as has been said not only to you but others in the past, be it couples or singles, if your being plagued by "time wasters" then you have to look at the common factor and that is you.
Selection process is so important so go over yours again and see if you can see any flaws, maybe look at meeting verified only or maybe only those that will talk on the phone or on cam.
Yes there are fakes and time waster out there but some people leave themselves open to it too. |
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"Thanks for your comments.
If I'm not someone's type then that's fine with me. But what I'm talking about are people send me messages asking for pictures wanting to know what I would do to them if e meet up etc and then after a few messages just block.
I'm not going to keep on sending messages if you say no, I'm a grown up. I don't know why people Waste my time and theirs......that's why I have my pic only friends only, also due to my job.
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There could be any number of reasons for that.
Requests for lurid and graphical detail often means it is most probably a man getting his rocks off at your detailed description of what you would like to do to his wife/gf....and highly likely therefore that it is a single guy posing as a couple..This is time wasting and irritating.
If on the other hand they had verified meets on their profiles, then perhaps they just didn't like your photos...
This isn't time-wasting but simple investigation on their part. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never had a time waster, as has been said not only to you but others in the past, be it couples or singles, if your being plagued by "time wasters" then you have to look at the common factor and that is you.
Selection process is so important so go over yours again and see if you can see any flaws, maybe look at meeting verified only or maybe only those that will talk on the phone or on cam.
Yes there are fakes and time waster out there but some people leave themselves open to it too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going to add something please use you own words......
Wow, you have your own words? Does anyone else understand them? Thats dead clever
Why reinvent the wheel... if someone says something I agree with, its often worth just a thumbs up to agree so the OP doesn't think its only one persons opinion.
Beginning to understand why people might stop contact though... these wee hints"
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You have been here 3 weeks and are having a go at people who have been on site for over a year for giving you the benefit of their wisdom. Way to go!
The only thing all these 'time wasters' have in common is you. Look at your selection process. Chances are the fit 18 year old nymphomaniac with a boyfriend that just wants to know how hard you'd pound his missus, is really Bob the 50y/o hairy truck driver, getting his wanking material then blocking you.
Take it slowly, there isn't a prize for getting your dick wet the quickest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's your own fault. Either through high expectations in the site, flaws in selecting who you choose to message or simply being unable to tell when the contact is going nowhere.
If you think it's "full" of timewasters and fakes then that is because its all you've experienced due to these problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are dropping like flies these days
I messaged a "Woman" before,
Profile had been up for 2 hours and it was very long,
Saying she loves bareback and wants a gang bang, I offered her some friendly advise about how risky it is and she won't attract the best type of people, I said take it or leave it,
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"They are dropping like flies these days
I messaged a "Woman" before,
Profile had been up for 2 hours and it was very long,
Saying she loves bareback and wants a gang bang, I offered her some friendly advise about how risky it is and she won't attract the best type of people, I said take it or leave it,
Unlos "
Maybe because she signed up for a gangbang, not friendly advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They are dropping like flies these days
I messaged a "Woman" before,
Profile had been up for 2 hours and it was very long,
Saying she loves bareback and wants a gang bang, I offered her some friendly advise about how risky it is and she won't attract the best type of people, I said take it or leave it,
Unlos
Maybe because she signed up for a gangbang, not friendly advice. "
That's why I said take it or leave it  |
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