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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me, or has anyone noticed that it's mostly the woman that's bi in a couple, not the men?
Do the guys only look for straight single males aswell? Not bi guys? Or don't they mind?
Just wondering that's all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi."
This... just because it says they are straight, doesn't mean they are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi."
Ahh true! I'd never thought of that! If you had a mmf surely it'd be better if both the guys were at least orally bi?
In my opinion anyway.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im definately very straight  but we are fine with bi guys playing with Emily as I dont play anyway and if we have more than one guy they are asked to play straight while with us. Neither of us have any need to see man on man play. But what they do elsewhere is not our concern |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me, or has anyone noticed that it's mostly the woman that's bi in a couple, not the men?
Do the guys only look for straight single males aswell? Not bi guys? Or don't they mind?
Just wondering that's all "
I've noticed that too. 80 percent of women are bi or bi curious and barely any men in couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are both bi, and its amazing how many male halves of couples as well as single males all say they are straight in their profiles but say they are bi in messages. There still appears even in this enlightened age that there is a stigma attached to openly saying your bi."
This is quite true, I've had some openly hostile responses, more so from females, but then for a lot the bi part seems a huge fantasy |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?"
As has often been said before - many are often more 'bi-playful' than the traditional definition of bi.
I have no interested in playing in an MM situation - but enjoy it as part of a couple meeting others, whether that be other couples or single males. It's simply another avenue of fun during a meet.
Just as the majority of bi curious fems in couples tend to play WITH their partners rather than without them.
It's like anything else - a preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One thing I've noticed about 'straight' men is that all the other 'straight' men/ TV/TS's that leave them verifications must all be liars, what are the odds on that?....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One thing I've noticed about 'straight' men is that all the other 'straight' men/ TV/TS's that leave them verifications must all be liars, what are the odds on that?......."
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"Why do most of the so called bi guys only play bi in a ladies company?
As has often been said before - many are often more 'bi-playful' than the traditional definition of bi.
I have no interested in playing in an MM situation - but enjoy it as part of a couple meeting others, whether that be other couples or single males. It's simply another avenue of fun during a meet.
Just as the majority of bi curious fems in couples tend to play WITH their partners rather than without them.
It's like anything else - a preference.
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definitely this 100%.....we are both bi playful but only in a group or couple meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Paul's straight but were happy to play with a bi couple as long as the male plays straight. It's a shame really as I would love to watch a man suck Paul off but he's not having any of it!!
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Paul's straight but were happy to play with a bi couple as long as the male plays straight. It's a shame really as I would love to watch a man suck Paul off but he's not having any of it!!
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How very selfish! Lol 
It's always amused me the number of times I've seen profiles stating 'no bi men in couples'.
He's in a couple. He probably likes women as much as a straight guy in a couple.
And 'bi', by definition, means he enjoys sex with women too. I've yet to meet a bi guy in a couple that couldn't control the overpowering urge to jump in another male that obviously happens the second he's in a room with another naked couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are the other way around. Rhett is "bi playful" is only bi in a group or threesome situation and I (Scarlett) am straight. I was bi-curious, tried it, didn't like it especially with the overtones of only doing it because it turns the blokes on. I don't freak if a woman touches me but I do do "stuff" with women, they are much squidgier than I expected, not for me  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"We are the other way around. Rhett is "bi playful" is only bi in a group or threesome situation and I (Scarlett) am straight. I was bi-curious, tried it, didn't like it especially with the overtones of only doing it because it turns the blokes on. I don't freak if a woman touches me but I do do "stuff" with women, they are much squidgier than I expected, not for me "
Squidgy is good! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both bi and proud here. ??
Most guys we have met for bi play do say straight on their couples profile. It apparently puts some people off. Each to their own but it hasn't put people off us and if it did, well I wouldn't want to meet them anyway (mrs) x |
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Bi male and straight female here. It makes MMF play so much more fun, but I'm not interested in a MM only meet.
Playing with another woman does nothing for Mrs, although she doesn't have a problem when she's been touched by one in the past.
But as mentioned in previous posts, I wouldn't try and do anything with a straight male if he didn't want it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most guys we have met for bi play do say straight on their couples profile. It apparently puts some people off. "
We have no problem meeting a bi guy who can play straight. But a guy claiming to be straight who is verified by a guy or admits to being bi will be blocked. We dont play with liars |
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Guy in a couple here:
I debated putting "straight" on my profile, but thought I'd rather be honest about it. I'm not *actively* looking to play with another guy as such (far more interested in the ladies than the guys), but if it were the right guy and he was down with it too, then we'll see how it goes.
But, yea I've noticed that too. The ratio of bisexual women to men does seem oddly disproportionate. I find it hard to believe that male bisexuality in this community is as genuinely uncommon as the profiles suggest... |
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going on from my previous post someone mentioned 'if your straight how come you have a veri from a TV'
quite simple really we had a drink and a chat at a club with a well known person off the forums and a pleasure it was too ,,,,, although im straight im not homophobic |
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"going on from my previous post someone mentioned 'if your straight how come you have a veri from a TV'
quite simple really we had a drink and a chat at a club with a well known person off the forums and a pleasure it was too ,,,,, although im straight im not homophobic "
I bet that social was a right laugh |
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