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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask her?!
Seriously though, all of the couples on here will have had this conversation. For us it started out as a bit of a jokey conversation, then something we would use as a fantasy / role play during sex and then we started discussing it more seriously as an option over a glass or two of wine one night!
What I will say is that for it to work, couples have to be able to discuss openly their likes, dislikes, fantasies and boundaries.
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Have you tried fantasising with her.
When fucking bring another guy into the conversation mention 2 cocks at once. Maybe a woman if gf has bi tendancies.
We started this way conversations became more horny until we both agreed to try it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Show her your single guy profile and tell her you can confirm it's fun as you've jumped in already behind her back. And of she doesn't decide to join you, you can always carry on regardless without her!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Show her your single guy profile and tell her you can confirm it's fun as you've jumped in already behind her back. And of she doesn't decide to join you, you can always carry on regardless without her!! "
i thaught i was going to get hammered posting this lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How could you tell if your gf might be interested in swinging???any help and tips would be great thanks  "
with us we were talking about our fantasies, I told her I would love to see her with another guy and surprisingly she said she'd love to have me with another woman. Not looked back since  |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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"Show her your single guy profile and tell her you can confirm it's fun as you've jumped in already behind her back. And of she doesn't decide to join you, you can always carry on regardless without her!! "
Lol, exactly what I was gonna say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It took me years to pluck up the courage to ask my wife..I started by telling her i'd started reading and enjoying erotic stories that I found online then asked if she'd like to read them together, then it slowly progressed, at no time did I try to hurry her, just take your time and see where it leads
.good luck fella. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It took me years to pluck up the courage to ask my wife..I started by telling her i'd started reading and enjoying erotic stories that I found online then asked if she'd like to read them together, then it slowly progressed, at no time did I try to hurry her, just take your time and see where it leads
.good luck fella."
thankyou cheers for that |
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"Show her your single guy profile and tell her you can confirm it's fun as you've jumped in already behind her back. And of she doesn't decide to join you, you can always carry on regardless without her!!
Lol, exactly what I was gonna say"
why the smart ass replies hes asking for advice on trying to persuade his gf to swing.
There are many girls and guys on here with single profiles who have partners at home some know and some dont. Its none of yourbusinesd. Your only concern is whether to meet them or not. And by what youve stated you wouldnt knowingly do this which is your choice and good for you but pleasedont criticise others for their choice either.
And weve all read numerous posts about the rights and wrongs of cheating but it happens. |
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"Show her your single guy profile and tell her you can confirm it's fun as you've jumped in already behind her back. And of she doesn't decide to join you, you can always carry on regardless without her!!
Lol, exactly what I was gonna say
why the smart ass replies hes asking for advice on trying to persuade his gf to swing.
There are many girls and guys on here with single profiles who have partners at home some know and some dont. Its none of yourbusinesd. Your only concern is whether to meet them or not. And by what youve stated you wouldnt knowingly do this which is your choice and good for you but pleasedont criticise others for their choice either.
And weve all read numerous posts about the rights and wrongs of cheating but it happens. "
Dear Lord you think that's criticism?!
Swinging is based on honesty, trust and openness. It's more than about fucking other people. Too many couples on here for the wrong reasons IMO. Legitimate advice - come clean, don't have secrets and put each other first if you're going to get into this scene. |
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"Show her your single guy profile and tell her you can confirm it's fun as you've jumped in already behind her back. And of she doesn't decide to join you, you can always carry on regardless without her!!
Lol, exactly what I was gonna say
why the smart ass replies hes asking for advice on trying to persuade his gf to swing.
There are many girls and guys on here with single profiles who have partners at home some know and some dont. Its none of yourbusinesd. Your only concern is whether to meet them or not. And by what youve stated you wouldnt knowingly do this which is your choice and good for you but pleasedont criticise others for their choice either.
And weve all read numerous posts about the rights and wrongs of cheating but it happens. "
Lol very admiral. |
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"Thankyou guys,im takeing all replys on board x "
op maybe you should have discussed it with your other half before you signed up on here, best advice would be to delete account, talk to her about it, if shes into it then come back as a couple, if she isnt then make your decision respect her wishes or set her free for someone that will, cheating is not the answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"op maybe you should have discussed it with your other half before you signed up on here, best advice would be to delete account, talk to her about it, if shes into it then come back as a couple, if she isnt then make your decision respect her wishes or set her free for someone that will, cheating is not the answer."
Nail hit well and truly on the head there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankyou for all your posts,atleast im honest with everyone i chat to on here i allways tell them i have a gf,some dontmind,some do,but yes your right i have to be honest with her,its not fair on her,thankyou guys |
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