I'm a little perplexed and I may get shot down for this but here goes.
I've read on a few profiles now about married men and women wanting to just meet one person rather than array of people. Surely they would be better off signing up to one of the many other sites that are geared to this rather than a "swingers site" as surely this isn't swinging just looking for an affair??
I maybe wrong and stand corrected if this is the case but isn't fab about swinging a bit more variety than the wife and a mistress?! |
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As one of those married people...I'm inclined to agree with you actually. I'm one of the people who is here specifically because I don't want an affair, and meeting the same person over and over would start to feel like that.
But you'll find a lot of people say they 'don't want to sleep with half the site' and I think it's often just a trite phrase that people put on their profiles because they think it's what people want to hear. |
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Don't get me wrong Im not saying everyone has to go round sleeping with everyone unless the truly wanted to. Each to their own an all. As I myself would rather a select few friends of couples and singles. But surely swinging is about the socialising and mixing with others. Looking for just one person outside the marriage is not swinging but just an affair? |
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"As one of those married people...I'm inclined to agree with you actually. I'm one of the people who is here specifically because I don't want an affair, and meeting the same person over and over would start to feel like that.
But you'll find a lot of people say they 'don't want to sleep with half the site' and I think it's often just a trite phrase that people put on their profiles because they think it's what people want to hear. "
Thank you thats what I thought. |
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