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I have recently tutored the daughter of a family friend through her GCSE. We hadn't seen them much prior to this, but it meant I was round there every weekend. I hadn't realised how attractive my mums friend was, perhaps it's since she has sepeatrd from her husband. I'm sure she was making passes it me and was particular flirtatious. She's 20 years older than me... How do I try and take this further? |
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"I have recently tutored the daughter of a family friend through her GCSE. We hadn't seen them much prior to this, but it meant I was round there every weekend. I hadn't realised how attractive my mums friend was, perhaps it's since she has sepeatrd from her husband. I'm sure she was making passes it me and was particular flirtatious. She's 20 years older than me... How do I try and take this further?"
Message her and tell her you need a bit of tutoring in return for what you did for her daughter .
When she asks what kind you need , tell her you've always wanted to be taught in the art of satisfying an older woman and away you go .... sorted  |
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"I have recently tutored the daughter of a family friend through her GCSE. We hadn't seen them much prior to this, but it meant I was round there every weekend. I hadn't realised how attractive my mums friend was, perhaps it's since she has sepeatrd from her husband. I'm sure she was making passes it me and was particular flirtatious. She's 20 years older than me... How do I try and take this further?
Message her and tell her you need a bit of tutoring in return for what you did for her daughter .
When she asks what kind you need , tell her you've always wanted to be taught in the art of satisfying an older woman and away you go .... sorted "
sound advice!! may blow up in your face or you in hers who knows  |
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"Was she being flirty with you or sending any signals? X"
Some pretty clear singles, like answering the door once in a Tshirt a French knickers.
Others more suttle, like seductive smiles and the occasional flirty text |
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"Was she being flirty with you or sending any signals? X
Some pretty clear singles, like answering the door once in a Tshirt a French knickers.
Others more suttle, like seductive smiles and the occasional flirty text "
Anything since the French knickers episode, let's be honest (it that happened) it was a gold plated invite. If nothing since my guess is you've blown it. Next time you're alone with her just ask, both of you are adults. |
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Considering the flirty messages... I'd send a couple of suggestive ones yourself... ones that could easily be 'misread' 
If she's at all interested she'll 'misread' them and make a joke of it with you. Then you can turn the heat up a bit and start wading into deeper and deeper innuendo territory... still keeping it all light and jokey.
After that... just let her make the move. If she doesn't then just slowly lower the heat in your texts and move on. Just the presence of this sexual element to your messages should be more than enough of a sign. That's what I'd probably do |
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It always amuses me when threads like this come along and someone asks how they should do something and then everyone wades in telling them not to do it. This is supposed to be an open minded site for the sexually liberated. While it's fine to warn the guy that he might regret it, surely it's also worth trying to answer the actual question? Who's to say he couldn't make it work for him? I think I'd have to know a whole lot more about a person's real situation before telling them to do or not do something they want to do. It's his life... let him make his own mistakes
I would understand advising someone not to do something they wanted to do because it was illegal or immoral or just sheer dangerous and crazy... but fucking his Mum's best friend is, at best, merely unwise. Who knows... maybe she's very good at keeping secrets? This is the stuff many a fantasy is made of. Good luck to ya mate |
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"It always amuses me when threads like this come along and someone asks how they should do something and then everyone wades in telling them not to do it. This is supposed to be an open minded site for the sexually liberated. While it's fine to warn the guy that he might regret it, surely it's also worth trying to answer the actual question? Who's to say he couldn't make it work for him? I think I'd have to know a whole lot more about a person's real situation before telling them to do or not do something they want to do. It's his life... let him make his own mistakes
I would understand advising someone not to do something they wanted to do because it was illegal or immoral or just sheer dangerous and crazy... but fucking his Mum's best friend is, at best, merely unwise. Who knows... maybe she's very good at keeping secrets? This is the stuff many a fantasy is made of. Good luck to ya mate "
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"It always amuses me when threads like this come along and someone asks how they should do something and then everyone wades in telling them not to do it. This is supposed to be an open minded site for the sexually liberated. While it's fine to warn the guy that he might regret it, surely it's also worth trying to answer the actual question? Who's to say he couldn't make it work for him? I think I'd have to know a whole lot more about a person's real situation before telling them to do or not do something they want to do. It's his life... let him make his own mistakes
I would understand advising someone not to do something they wanted to do because it was illegal or immoral or just sheer dangerous and crazy... but fucking his Mum's best friend is, at best, merely unwise. Who knows... maybe she's very good at keeping secrets? This is the stuff many a fantasy is made of. Good luck to ya mate
Very well said "
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"It always amuses me when threads like this come along and someone asks how they should do something and then everyone wades in telling them not to do it. This is supposed to be an open minded site for the sexually liberated. While it's fine to warn the guy that he might regret it, surely it's also worth trying to answer the actual question? Who's to say he couldn't make it work for him? I think I'd have to know a whole lot more about a person's real situation before telling them to do or not do something they want to do. It's his life... let him make his own mistakes
I would understand advising someone not to do something they wanted to do because it was illegal or immoral or just sheer dangerous and crazy... but fucking his Mum's best friend is, at best, merely unwise. Who knows... maybe she's very good at keeping secrets? This is the stuff many a fantasy is made of. Good luck to ya mate "
open minded and sexualy liberated we all may be.... If ya sk a question on an open forum , then opinions ya gonna get! To some , fucking ( or contemplating it) ya Mums mate is imoral perhaps? Or just seen as crossing lines that possibly need more thought? Swingers can infact have morals too... No matter how open & sexualy liberated they may be! |
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"It always amuses me when threads like this come along and someone asks how they should do something and then everyone wades in telling them not to do it. This is supposed to be an open minded site for the sexually liberated. While it's fine to warn the guy that he might regret it, surely it's also worth trying to answer the actual question? Who's to say he couldn't make it work for him? I think I'd have to know a whole lot more about a person's real situation before telling them to do or not do something they want to do. It's his life... let him make his own mistakes
I would understand advising someone not to do something they wanted to do because it was illegal or immoral or just sheer dangerous and crazy... but fucking his Mum's best friend is, at best, merely unwise. Who knows... maybe she's very good at keeping secrets? This is the stuff many a fantasy is made of. Good luck to ya mate
Very well said
Seconded"
Third's up!! |
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"Was she being flirty with you or sending any signals? X
Some pretty clear singles, like answering the door once in a Tshirt a French knickers.
Others more suttle, like seductive smiles and the occasional flirty text "
Not sure how much help you would be with gcse's if you think subtle is spelt suttle, so she's probably only got you there for sex anyway  |
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"It always amuses me when threads like this come along and someone asks how they should do something and then everyone wades in telling them not to do it. This is supposed to be an open minded site for the sexually liberated. While it's fine to warn the guy that he might regret it, surely it's also worth trying to answer the actual question? Who's to say he couldn't make it work for him? I think I'd have to know a whole lot more about a person's real situation before telling them to do or not do something they want to do. It's his life... let him make his own mistakes
I would understand advising someone not to do something they wanted to do because it was illegal or immoral or just sheer dangerous and crazy... but fucking his Mum's best friend is, at best, merely unwise. Who knows... maybe she's very good at keeping secrets? This is the stuff many a fantasy is made of. Good luck to ya mate
Very well said
Seconded
Third's up!! "
Nothing at all to do with morality. I would hope to think we are fairly open minded bunch, however some of us are old enough to smell trouble ahead.
In my younger days (late 20s) I had an affair with a married colleague in her 50s. She used and abused me like a sex toy and I loved every minute of it, still get hard when I remember about those days. She fulfilled a fantasy of mine at the time. Thankfully I was sensible (and lucky) enough to let her make all the moves. If I went onto her and for any reason I got it wrong / misread her moves etc I could have easily lost my job.
Same with our friend here ... He should let the mummy make her move and always keep in mind that we might be thinking with our dicks ... we need to ensure that what is in front of us is not a mirage in our mind but is really happening ... Getting it wrong can be hurtful and/or just plain embarrassing. |
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Think about it very carefully but if it feels right for both of you go with the flow.
I had a lovely 6 year relationship with a friends mum when I was 18.
She was lovely, taught me so much and we brought one another great pleasure and our secret never harmed a soul. Jim |
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There is an ancient art of seduction, it seems to be lost in this modern age, however it still works better than any other method since devised.
It is called conversation, usually followed by a date, which is a conversation with intent. |
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