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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
To be honest I think your chances may be low.
Just because that as a single lady I find that I like having only myself and prospective meet to keep happy and dont have to worry if my partner is happy too.
I can appreciate that couples love having the other one to enjoy this pleasurable experience with but cant imagine a lady local to want to pair up unless there is good chemistry beyond a single meet and is ready to find a fook buddy.
The ladies may prove me wrong but just saying try not to hold your breath x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope but could really do with a plumber and joiner!! x 
again..we need to share men...though i would add an electrician to that list"
better add decorater too!! x |
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I don't think it's a totally outrageous thing to ask for - there may very well be a single lady who would like to go to clubs etc but may be wary of going on her own for example - good luck - hope you find what you're looking for! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fem friend and I are looking for a regular person to attend clubs and parties with. We both enjoy doing our own thing though so aren't really looking for a 'play' buddy. More a mutually beneficial, non sexual relationship lol (car owner a must!) |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I am a newbie, looking for my first experience of swinging but i need a partner! Any ladies in the same position?"
Can I ask the OP a question because I am really curious of the answer....
"why do you feel that you need a partner to get anywhere in the scene?"
Honest question.....
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
Fabio good question as always.
I do agree it isnt impossible but single fems are few and far between sometimes and I often feel they are single for a good reason. And as a single fem you do have more choice and more offers sometimes than part of a couple. So many people want a single bi fem but then also aware there are also many looking for couples.
I would ultimately love to meet someone special to have a relationship with and hopefully swing too as that would severly be missed in my life. But out of all the meets I have had there are very few that I would meet more than once or twice tho been offered a second or third ... meet.
I guess if you meet the right one then all is hunky dorey and all problems are shared about choice of meets and keeping both happy so I guess it must be worth it. I havent experienced it tho so just guessing.
Am interested to know if the single men who have numerous meets and are very popular would rather be part of a couple?? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"In answer to the question why do i think i need a partner, i guess that because i am new to te scene i am trying to work out the dos and donts"
I am not trying to trip you up honestly but why do you need a partner to work out the do's and dont's are....
Isn't that what advice forums like this are for? Or reading and doing your research beforehand... Reading profiles, reading the FAQ's for example, reading club reviews an websites
Honestly most of it is common sense, no means no and treat people like you would like to be treated! If you have questions then ask away but I still don't see why you need a partner for that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I think your chances may be low.
Just because that as a single lady I find that I like having only myself and prospective meet to keep happy and dont have to worry if my partner is happy too.
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i agree with this also, and to be honest i find meets easier on my own than if i try to find someone with a guy  |
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