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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unfortunately my wife seems to have lost her mojo/drive/libido when it comes to taking a lover/bull and informs me she just wants me from now on.
Lovely I know, but a bit gutted as I loved her enjoyed an other guy.
would like to hear others opinions and just wondered if anyone else have had a similar experience? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps it's time to enjoy each other for a while and re evaluate the situation after a break from swinging.."
Thanks for reply and yes, I guess so Deb, all good things come to an end
Dont get me wrong we do always enjoy each other  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"tell her to shag me..problem solved"
Having looked at your profile and pics I would love for her to do that 
but unless she changes her mind it will need to stay in my mind 
any suggestions in persuading her otherwise are most welcome lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No other couples/females have a similar experience?
I was hoping someone would come on and re assure me that it will be a temporary thing
maybe not, maybe the FAB fun is actually over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"tell her to shag me..problem solved
Having looked at your profile and pics I would love for her to do that
but unless she changes her mind it will need to stay in my mind
any suggestions in persuading her otherwise are most welcome lol "
what she needs is..caressing hands..gemt;e licks...soft squeezes...hair pulled and plenty of chatter
I think you have let the whole sex aspect of things cloud your needs...
she basically wants a bit more from the meets...
its great to shag and be treated like a piece of meet......but sometimes its also great to feel like you are wanted on many levels
*thanks for the compliment too lol..I'm roon the corner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tell her to shag me..problem solved
Having looked at your profile and pics I would love for her to do that
but unless she changes her mind it will need to stay in my mind
any suggestions in persuading her otherwise are most welcome lol
what she needs is..caressing hands..gemt;e licks...soft squeezes...hair pulled and plenty of chatter
I think you have let the whole sex aspect of things cloud your needs...
she basically wants a bit more from the meets...
its great to shag and be treated like a piece of meet......but sometimes its also great to feel like you are wanted on many levels
*thanks for the compliment too lol..I'm roon the corner "
*gentile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're the opposite to you OP.
I told Kate I didn't want to meet any other women.
She doesn't want to meet anyone on her own, so we've decided to take an extended break.
At the moment it's nearly 3yrs, so in all honesty I can't see us meeting again.
May be a social or two though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"tell her to shag me..problem solved
Having looked at your profile and pics I would love for her to do that
but unless she changes her mind it will need to stay in my mind
any suggestions in persuading her otherwise are most welcome lol
what she needs is..caressing hands..gemt;e licks...soft squeezes...hair pulled and plenty of chatter
I think you have let the whole sex aspect of things cloud your needs...
she basically wants a bit more from the meets...
its great to shag and be treated like a piece of meet......but sometimes its also great to feel like you are wanted on many levels
*thanks for the compliment too lol..I'm roon the corner "
Excellent advise! Maybe she doesnt want to be a 'slut'anymore? Your relationship is just evolving and changing. Go with the flow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you must respect her wishes and not try to persuade her or cajole her and take a step back from swinging for the time being; don't even being the subject up. Concentrate on each other, remind yourselves why you love each other and your life together. Let her find her own way back to it if she wants to but accept that perhaps that side of your lives is over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you must respect her wishes and not try to persuade her or cajole her and take a step back from swinging for the time being; don't even being the subject up. Concentrate on each other, remind yourselves why you love each other and your life together. Let her find her own way back to it if she wants to but accept that perhaps that side of your lives is over."
after they shag me...they should consider that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you love her, you will support her with her decision meantime.
Who knows, she may change her mind again in a few years 
be happy"
I'm not waiting a few years...I want her to shag me now FFS!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All giving great advise thank you.
I will def step back a bit, too be fair I already have.
I will just need to spend more time on her desires rather than mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All giving great advise thank you.
I will def step back a bit, too be fair I already have.
I will just need to spend more time on her desires rather than mine"
There's no way of knowing what will happen. It might evolve into something even more amazing. Good luck. |
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