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FOR/ COUPLEs /FEMALE/MALE/.CAN SWINGING LEAD TO STRONG FRIENDSHIP OUT SIDE SWINGING?
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From personal experience. I met a couple through contact magazine early 90s for threesomes. But it becomes clear the friendship become very strong due to trust and understanding. We remain friends ever since.we been to holiday together even send card to me during xmas and New year day.they treat me as friend. of recent I was called upon to help when they move home. I am very pleased to call them friend. Sex is not every thing. Friendship to me matter alot.I know is not everyone cup of tea
Folks any similar experience?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've lost of friends I've met through this scene..
its a hard one to explain to some vanilla people..its hard to get the point across in media..what swinging really is, how it has evolved
there are some truly good people here, and they are also not just driven by sexual motives when someone is in need of help
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been to birthday parties, weddings and even family gatherings with friends we've made through here. I didn't expect it to happen, we didn't go looking for it but when it happens, it's fabulous... |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
For us, swinging is so much more than just sex.
The social and friendship part of swinging is far more important. We have friends that we met on fab that we also socialise with in the vanilla world. We have been to vanilla, family parties with some of these friends and some of them will be invited to our wedding next year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder how many vanilla friendships have split because of sexual attention between the opposite parties. Fab folks skip that and you can have a far more relaxed relationship.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes very much so. Have many friends I met through this site, lots I keep in touch with via facebook. Went to a wedding in the summer of a couple I met on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Met a very lovely lady in chams who we met and played with several times.
Unusually we swapped numbers because she's not on fab. She has now split with her guy and has been with a new man for about a year.
She no longer swings but we chat intermittently. I'd like to think we both mean it when we say we are friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have made some lovely friends via swinging even in the short time we have been doing it, just had a invite from a lovely couple to there wedding next year! At least with swinging friends you can be honest and upfront, try telling vanilla friends you fancy them! Lol x |
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Yes! We now have lots of friends all over thr country who we regularly have to make up stories about over how we met lol. My bestest (Mrs) friend we met through a couple meet with her fiance and since that we have been to her hen weekend, wedding, been there through divorce, was her birthing partner, became godparents to her child and were there through her dads illness and passing  She is the most amazing friend who despite living a few hundred miles away is one of the people i am closest to!
When you are doing something that ideally needs openess and honesty i think you get to meet the 'real' person so there is no need to question their friendship etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is exactly the thing we are hoping for friendship and fun it will be great to meet up with like minded people without having to hold back in conversations like you do with friends outside of fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes iv made three really great fantastic friends. Two was there to help me through my dark hours when i was diagnosed with cancer. One of them who lived closer to me use to tale me and pick me up from chemo. The other guy was always at the end of the phone when i was down. Then i met another guy through fab forums. And we have become the best of friends. And all three guys i can trust and know they are there if need if i wascin any kind of trouble. So yes you can make friends from fab |
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"We have made friends through this and kink. As someone said, needed a believable story on how we met for family members that asked though. "
Explaining my TS girlfriend to my mum was erm interesting lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not as such after over 30 years ,we tended to play out of Town. I personally would not advise it .We have with some over the years but I would not call them friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have made friends through this and kink. As someone said, needed a believable story on how we met for family members that asked though.
Explaining my TS girlfriend to my mum was erm interesting lol
D x "
I can imagine it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not as such after over 30 years ,we tended to play out of Town. I personally would not advise it .We have with some over the years but I would not call them friends. "
Can I ask why you wouldn't advise it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have made friends through this and kink. As someone said, needed a believable story on how we met for family members that asked though.
Explaining my TS girlfriend to my mum was erm interesting lol
D x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us, swinging is so much more than just sex.
The social and friendship part of swinging is far more important. We have friends that we met on fab that we also socialise with in the vanilla world. We have been to vanilla, family parties with some of these friends and some of them will be invited to our wedding next year."
We were invited to a couples wedding who we met on here. Andy was sooo nervous it was funny, but it was a wonderful day and we really enjoyed it and when asked how we met them we didn't lie, just said we met in a pub (which we did for a social first) lol x We also have another couple who we consider our best friends now, they're always there for us and visa versa. |
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"We have made friends through this and kink. As someone said, needed a believable story on how we met for family members that asked though.
Explaining my TS girlfriend to my mum was erm interesting lol
D x
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And you two know exactly what I mean
You've seen me and her together so you can imagine lol
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
came for the sex, and stayed very much for the social...... thats why i love the social side of the swinging scene a lot, and there are a lot of people I would truely consider as being friends outside of all of this...... |
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over a year ago
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"came for the sex, and stayed very much for the social...... thats why i love the social side of the swinging scene a lot, and there are a lot of people I would truely consider as being friends outside of all of this......"
I still think we should hook up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No not as such after over 30 years ,we tended to play out of Town. I personally would not advise it .We have with some over the years but I would not call them friends.
Can I ask why you wouldn't advise it?"
.To us at the time it was and still is to me a physical thing and one should keep emotions out of it.Regards Kate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From personal experience. I met a couple through contact magazine early 90s for threesomes. But it becomes clear the friendship become very strong due to trust and understanding. We remain friends ever since.we been to holiday together even send card to me during xmas and New year day.they treat me as friend. of recent I was called upon to help when they move home. I am very pleased to call them friend. Sex is not every thing. Friendship to me matter alot.I know is not everyone cup of tea
Folks any similar experience?
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We are happy to say we have several friends like this but then we do look to get to know people before shagging them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The social side to us is very important,
It is nice to be classed as friends, and you are very lucky you found a couple like that.
The sex is a bonus to us, never expected.
Good friends are hard to come by, ad its lovely if you can meet them along the way, and do other things in the outside world.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No not as such after over 30 years ,we tended to play out of Town. I personally would not advise it .We have with some over the years but I would not call them friends.
Can I ask why you wouldn't advise it?.To us at the time it was and still is to me a physical thing and one should keep emotions out of it.Regards Kate."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No not as such after over 30 years ,we tended to play out of Town. I personally would not advise it .We have with some over the years but I would not call them friends.
Can I ask why you wouldn't advise it?.To us at the time it was and still is to me a physical thing and one should keep emotions out of it.Regards Kate."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Most definately for us.
I'd shag Mrs Fockers then pretend to be friends"
OI, now I know why you sent me a request on Fbk, to join the knitting circle... You and your ulteriors! OI
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Made one or two friends, started off with a couple of social meets and now meet often, but would now never play with them."
Sex and friends don't mix. |
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We have met some fantastic friends through swinging and don't play with them all! We have been to weddings, family celebrations etc. go out for vanilla nights out.
We love the social side just as much as the sex! If not more!
Swinging has enriched our lives in more ways than one xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have met some fantastic friends through swinging and don't play with them all! We have been to weddings, family celebrations etc. go out for vanilla nights out.
We love the social side just as much as the sex! If not more!
Swinging has enriched our lives in more ways than one xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we met each other through fab - and hes my best friend and as a couple we have friends we have made - some we know we will see apart from the sex - which is what we wanted longterm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't made any friends yet but it'll be refreshing to have like minded people to talk with as non swinging friends can sometimes be "judgment", especially the ladies - Mrs  |
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