hi guys and ladies. We've been on here a while now and we are really finding it hard to find couples to meet with. Been collecting friends but none of them seem to ever want to meet us or even talk to us. We get so many promises that lead nowhere. We have been to clubs but nobody seems to notice we are there. we have tried dogging but that wasn't for us. We have traveled hundreds of miles for socials that lead to nothing so we thought we'd ask here in the forum if anyone fancy's meeting us? and if not then may we have a little feedback as to how we can improve our chances of success on here as we cant help feeling a bit Fab-Sad when really we just want to become a part of the scene x |
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We have also been on site for a while still no meets :/ we went to our first club a few weeks ago didn't want to swap but did and it was amazing try more clubs there's plenty of people out there don't give up lol xx  |
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"We have also been on site for a while still no meets :/ we went to our first club a few weeks ago didn't want to swap but did and it was amazing try more clubs there's plenty of people out there don't give up lol xx
Got to agree, try a club and see what happens you don't have to play if you don't want to but at least you can meet and chat with others with varying degrees of experience x"
We've been to a few clubs but honest nobody even notices us.. we havent given up but we are a little disheartened tbh x |
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If you sit in the corner and don't speak to anyone then no one is going to approach you. You just look scary!
Treat it as you do a normal night in a normal pub, chat to people, smile, wander around. You'll soon get more interest. |
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mostly were confident but reserved at the same time, dont like to be full or the star of the show, not much for the spot light if you know what i mean, but we are social people, guess we just need to keep ing x lol |
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"hi guys and ladies. We've been on here a while now and we are really finding it hard to find couples to meet with. Been collecting friends but none of them seem to ever want to meet us or even talk to us. We get so many promises that lead nowhere. We have been to clubs but nobody seems to notice we are there. we have tried dogging but that wasn't for us. We have traveled hundreds of miles for socials that lead to nothing so we thought we'd ask here in the forum if anyone fancy's meeting us? and if not then may we have a little feedback as to how we can improve our chances of success on here as we cant help feeling a bit Fab-Sad when really we just want to become a part of the scene x"
I think we are on the same page. We had a whole week set aside for action while our kids were away. Ok we wern't available everyday but we had been chatting with a couple off of here. Then at the 11th hour it went quiet. On our last night of freedom we went to AbFabs hoping to hookup with another couple and barely anyone talked to us all evening. We could have had action with the single guys there but that wasn't what we we're looking for on this occasion. We have been wanting to meet with another couple off of here for a year now and and we have yet to have a one on one meet with one. (Although if you ask us tomorrow we might give you a different answer). I know it doesn't help you out but perhaps it's a comfort to know others also struggle |
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"hi guys and ladies. We've been on here a while now and we are really finding it hard to find couples to meet with. Been collecting friends but none of them seem to ever want to meet us or even talk to us. We get so many promises that lead nowhere. We have been to clubs but nobody seems to notice we are there. we have tried dogging but that wasn't for us. We have traveled hundreds of miles for socials that lead to nothing so we thought we'd ask here in the forum if anyone fancy's meeting us? and if not then may we have a little feedback as to how we can improve our chances of success on here as we cant help feeling a bit Fab-Sad when really we just want to become a part of the scene x
I think we are on the same page. We had a whole week set aside for action while our kids were away. Ok we wern't available everyday but we had been chatting with a couple off of here. Then at the 11th hour it went quiet. On our last night of freedom we went to AbFabs hoping to hookup with another couple and barely anyone talked to us all evening. We could have had action with the single guys there but that wasn't what we we're looking for on this occasion. We have been wanting to meet with another couple off of here for a year now and and we have yet to have a one on one meet with one. (Although if you ask us tomorrow we might give you a different answer). I know it doesn't help you out but perhaps it's a comfort to know others also struggle"
Awww sorry it didn't work out for you x When we go to clubs we aim to meet and play with a couple, We walk around and smile and greet other couples but maybe we have food in our teeth or something as they just smile back and walk on by. when we play on the beds its only the single guys that pay any interest in us. the problem isnt the clubs really, its just trying to meet other couples that actually want to play with us as we bend over backwards to arrange meets x |
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I think what we took away from our most recent experience is that perhaps it would be better to network online with a view to meeting at a club on a specific day. Advertise a meet and update your status in advance. Then when your at the club you have already broken the ice. We have had a bit more success at parties rather than clubs. As you can get invited back to the next event so hopefully you see a few familiar faces. If you dont go to a club reguarly then it is a fresh crowd of complete strangers each time |
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I'm amazed you've met with no success as you're both in really good shape . You may be on the young side for some ??? That's the only thing I can think of ! I'd try the clubs again if others see you again they might think to approach a familiar face . Good luck . |
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We go to a club quite regularly, and there was a couple there last time. The male half got quite upset that no one would talk to them, but spent the whole night sat in the corner with his arms folded (not saying that's what you've been doing). It can be hard but just go out and get involved, even just saying hello to people |
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Have you tried contacting couples who have a meet put up, maybe if they're going to the same place as yourselves...most people will always say "yes come and say hi when you arrive"..... |
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We have been going to clubs for nearly two years now and never fail to play. We aren't exactly young and fit but we show willing and smile a lot. Being too wrapped up in each other can put people off. The best way to get attention we have found is to play a bit in the public areas, always sparks interest a bit of public fondling  |
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thanks for all the advice guys, you've all been brilliant and we have taken on board all that has been said, we hope you all have a super weekend and take care of each other and if you do see us out and about, feel free to come and say hi xx  |
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