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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Please explain why we should take precautions with her just because she hasn't had any verifies.
Maybe she has, but chooses not to show them, or admit that she has them"
Not just her, anyone on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met unverified..its no big deal.However, I would look for a phone call(possibly even webcam)..and I wouldnt travel out to meet.Its worked for me for many years, so I stick with it.
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"Take precautions? When asked why was told awaiting veris from a meet a week ago...
You only have cam veris yourself!!!!!"
We got 10 verifications on are first day by cam..Most people just want to see your not a guy pretended to be a couple or using 10 year old photos..lol
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"Take precautions? When asked why was told awaiting veris from a meet a week ago...
You only have cam veris yourself!!!!!
We got 10 verifications on are first day by cam..Most people just want to see your not a guy pretended to be a couple or using 10 year old photos..lol
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Thats me fucked then......or maybe not if you get my drift. I have been here a while, not met yet and it is not for the want of trying. Some of us have work and family commitments that get in the way, others are naturally over cautious about the first meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it isn't important. Some people choose not to go down the route of verifications, they sometimes see it as a form of bragging. Everyone is different and in some ways that's a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they have met but the people have not been verified themselves so they cannot verify each other or, there again, maybe they are choosy and waiting for the right one to meet.
Myself I would rather meet a female with no, or very few verifications rather than those verified by every Tom, Dick or Harry on FAB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on a while myself and no meets - now have the technogy to hopefully get at least a cam verification tonight . Quite excited - can anyone tell me how to go about this ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy.."
If someone tries to get out of a phone chat then I'd move on. They can easily phone you and withhold their number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy..
If someone tries to get out of a phone chat then I'd move on. They can easily phone you and withhold their number."
There are some valid reasons for people not talking on the phone but saying that if someone avoids for more than 2/3 days there is something not right and you can assume the worst.  |
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"She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy.."
seriously, are you for real, many people, dont use verifications, they dont ask for them or give them, in fact some even ask not to be given them, many people do not talk on the phone at all, and many people will not send pics unless they are going to meet someone, unless this person has agreed to meet you and wont send pics then theres no reason for you to be concerned with her profile or how she runs it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on here for at least 4 months before deciding to meet someone, various reasons...
however, if someone won't speak on the phone then I wouldn't bother perusing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if we published all our veris still wouldnt show a true picture of all our meets - many not verified - so not having any doesnt mean shes not worthy of a green tick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy.."
If you're not happy then simply don't bother talking to them, really simple isn't it  |
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By *ewels85Woman
over a year ago
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Iv not had a new veri in 5 months yet meet regularly. I actually ask not no be verified cos brings out the crazys n get hundreds of messages for says later just saying fansy a shag. No worth the hassel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy..
seriously, are you for real, many people, dont use verifications, they dont ask for them or give them, in fact some even ask not to be given them, many people do not talk on the phone at all, and many people will not send pics unless they are going to meet someone, unless this person has agreed to meet you and wont send pics then theres no reason for you to be concerned with her profile or how she runs it."
Umm no... actually I agree with him being cautious. If it was me I would break contact because it does indeed sound fishy. Some people won't talk on the phone... but I won't meet them. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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If we have any doubts whether verified or not, we tend to say we have changed our mind and stop contact. Yes we might be wrong on occasion and miss out on a good meet, but that's life. Our approach works well for us and we don't have no shows or cancellations like some people constantly complain about. |
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"Please explain why we should take precautions with her just because she hasn't had any verifies.
Maybe she has, but chooses not to show them, or admit that she has them"
If she has been verified and chooses not to show them, then it still says Verified Genuine Profile on their profile page. |
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"She isn't photo verified either that's he problem. Like basic start up signs to a profile arnt there. She's added me on kik and I asked for webcam or a quick phone call and I was told she doesn't like giving her number out.. Surprise surprise lol just a bit too fishy..
seriously, are you for real, many people, dont use verifications, they dont ask for them or give them, in fact some even ask not to be given them, many people do not talk on the phone at all, and many people will not send pics unless they are going to meet someone, unless this person has agreed to meet you and wont send pics then theres no reason for you to be concerned with her profile or how she runs it.
Umm no... actually I agree with him being cautious. If it was me I would break contact because it does indeed sound fishy. Some people won't talk on the phone... but I won't meet them. "
yes break contact and move on, she doesnt suit what hes looking for, but no need to come on the forums and warning about her like shes the plague, this is a very good example of why naming and shaming isnt and never will be allowed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there some unwritten rule that says women have to have met on here after 4 months to prove she is real? I know single men whine about not getting meets but believe me it ain't all plane sailing for women. Got to sift a lot of shite!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take precautions? When asked why was told awaiting veris from a meet a week ago..."
Thats sometimes the case. Im still waiting for a veri from a meet 3 weeks ago. Some folk lead busy lifes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol"
Why would a woman with many veris be more likely to have a STI? It only takes one bareback shag to get an infection, and some of us prefer condoms and regular checks.
Sorry, I've got far too many verifications to think you'd want to meet me. Go for someone more choosy maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol
Why would a woman with many veris be more likely to have a STI? It only takes one bareback shag to get an infection, and some of us prefer condoms and regular checks.
Sorry, I've got far too many verifications to think you'd want to meet me. Go for someone more choosy maybe?"
Well wyrd. I would have more veris but nobody wants to meet me.
By the way I always would take precautions |
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol"
That's quite unfair. I have a number if veris, some I don't even show so you dont know the true amount of how many meets ive actually had. Some are from people who have met me more than once. I havent shagged my way thru Fab, ive been here over two years and on average thats one meet every 14 days. And as for disease free.... majority of peeps use protection and are checked regularly at clinic, including myself.... 
And yes I do meet unverified people regardless how long they have been on here. Everyone starts somewhere and there may be a valid reason why they may have been on here for months and not got one. |
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol
Why would a woman with many veris be more likely to have a STI? It only takes one bareback shag to get an infection, and some of us prefer condoms and regular checks.
Sorry, I've got far too many verifications to think you'd want to meet me. Go for someone more choosy maybe?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can show yourself on cam
You can talk on the phone
You can be verified by meet
If somebody is not willing to do any of these simple things. Or has not met anybody else how serious are they really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol"
A lady could have 2000 verifications and displays one. You met her and buy your logic have every disease going now  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Maybe they have met but the people have not been verified themselves so they cannot verify each other or, there again, maybe they are choosy and waiting for the right one to meet.
Myself I would rather meet a female with no, or very few verifications rather than those verified by every Tom, Dick or Harry on FAB."
I have met a Tom but not a Dick or Harry, yet....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol"
Just a tad judgemental there! Yes she may have 1000 veris. Who knows they maybe all social, the ones shes played with she may have used protection. However that one fella may have barebacked. Can't believe in 2014 women who enjoy sex are still viewed as 'shagging there way through the site' but men- well give that fella a slap on the back. Pathetic! |
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"I have 1 verification. I'd be scared to meet a lady with over 1000 veris.. Sounds like she's shagged her way through the site and picked up many a disease on the way.
Any northeast ladies want to verify me by meeting? Lol
Just a tad judgemental there! Yes she may have 1000 veris. Who knows they maybe all social, the ones shes played with she may have used protection. However that one fella may have barebacked. Can't believe in 2014 women who enjoy sex are still viewed as 'shagging there way through the site' but men- well give that fella a slap on the back. Pathetic! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a lot of trust that's the problem here for the wrong reason so others who enjoy our sexual preferences get tarred with the same brush not good really and frustrates me jst wanna chat with likeminded people. |
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"Please explain why we should take precautions with her just because she hasn't had any verifies.
Maybe she has, but chooses not to show them, or admit that she has them"
If that was the case she'd still have the green tick. |
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