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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago
Crawley |
"I don't allow anysort of controlling or manipulative behaviour from anyone on here
Its an instant bye bye from me  "
The skilled manipulator can manipulate without you ever knowing they're doing it.  |
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The last play party I attended there was a guy that had obviously thought he was Grey..... His date was an escort and I hope she stripped his wallet of all its gold. As for the rest of us, I'd be surprised if anyone played to his tune....
I've played with some of the best female doms in London and happy to submit as I know I'm safe. But too many people think they know what they're doing and are just abusing subs that know no better |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"The last play party I attended there was a guy that had obviously thought he was Grey..... His date was an escort and I hope she stripped his wallet of all its gold. As for the rest of us, I'd be surprised if anyone played to his tune....
I've played with some of the best female doms in London and happy to submit as I know I'm safe. But too many people think they know what they're doing and are just abusing subs that know no better "
Sadly, a lot of people don't know the different between dominant and domineering: they think they have to come off shouty/barking/aggressive to be dominant whe in actual fact, some of the world's best dom's do so with the most gentle of natures.
A true dom is a "guide" for the sub,.. not a military barracks drill instructor! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen and been involved in many different forms of control.. I myself like to be in control when on a meet or in a club and i ensure the people i play with knows that... That doesn't mean i control other people just the situation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 2 months ago I met a lady who shortly after become very apparent and disapproved with who I was meeting or who I had met previously.
Apparently her meeting whoever she wanted was ok but when I did it was an issue. I kindly reminded her I was single and could see whoever I wanted.
Easiest block I've ever done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again "
Me too! I don't think the twat realised I was older and stronger than him and I'd swing him off every wall in the fecking house before he could touch me lol. He even told me to straighten my hair before I could get in bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again
Me too! I don't think the twat realised I was older and stronger than him and I'd swing him off every wall in the fecking house before he could touch me lol. He even told me to straighten my hair before I could get in bed "
xxxx i could write an essay - you could too i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The last play party I attended there was a guy that had obviously thought he was Grey..... His date was an escort and I hope she stripped his wallet of all its gold. As for the rest of us, I'd be surprised if anyone played to his tune....
I've played with some of the best female doms in London and happy to submit as I know I'm safe. But too many people think they know what they're doing and are just abusing subs that know no better
Sadly, a lot of people don't know the different between dominant and domineering: they think they have to come off shouty/barking/aggressive to be dominant whe in actual fact, some of the world's best dom's do so with the most gentle of natures.
A true dom is a "guide" for the sub,.. not a military barracks drill instructor!"
We have the same trouble when looking for suitable bulls. They try to control my hubby and belittle him....they don't realise that they need to have him on side if it's going to work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no control on here - had 20 yrs of that from a bastard of an ex - never again
Me too! I don't think the twat realised I was older and stronger than him and I'd swing him off every wall in the fecking house before he could touch me lol. He even told me to straighten my hair before I could get in bed
xxxx i could write an essay - you could too i guess "
Oh I could! Dumped him after 3 months lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a guy with a cock that was about 3 foot long who I messaged saying no thanks J doesn't like huge cocks. He replied with can I please txt your wife she'll understand me better than you will! I think he understood us as we pushed the delete and block button... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't allow anysort of controlling or manipulative behaviour from anyone on here
Its an instant bye bye from me "
Me to. I can spot a controlling freak from fifty paces. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I once had an idiot take my handbag and told me to get on my knees and do something. I took my handbag back and made it quite clear thst I do things when I want. Not just because anyone tells me to.
Met a guy who in messages said he would have me on my knees servicing him when he wanted. I laughed at him as anyone knows me understands I call the shots. Not anyone else! |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"What elements of control and or controlling behaviors have you experienced on here? Good or Bad "
none so far! and if anyone tried it, the request would be met with a glasgow kiss!! 
had one bf try that controlling shit and i escaped. no way i am letting it invade my fun time in life!
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