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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just wondering who sends people messages for meets or to talk etc, and who waits for people to message them?
I used to message people my self when I 1st started on the site but as time goes on I message less and less people and just wait for people to message me, so yeah what do most people do? |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
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I used to message people my self when I 1st started on the site "
Did you just delete it or did you send a polite 'thanks but no thanks' message to yourself?
Manners cost nothing you know... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to message people my self when I 1st started on the site
Did you just delete it or did you send a polite 'thanks but no thanks' message to yourself?
Manners cost nothing you know..."
Should do stand up comedy you -_- |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do both, we're proactive when it comes to meeting people. If we get the urge we'll go looking, by the same token though we'll gladly wait for messages too. Depends on our urges at the time |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"just wondering who sends people messages for meets or to talk etc, and who waits for people to message them?
I used to message people my self when I 1st started on the site but as time goes on I message less and less people and just wait for people to message me, so yeah what do most people do?"
When actively looking/meeting we will often make first contact with people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far every single bit of messaging, banter, potential meets etc has come from them contacting me first.
My messages are fine - seem to tally up to exactly what the ladies say we should be sending. So I adopt the "wait for them to say hi" approach, and go from there.
This site has plenty of other things to offer - advice, good forums etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if I waited for contact I would prabably never meet anyone. I have been swinging 14 years and always made contact.After all single males are not the most popular now are they?"
Depends on the male to be honest, I never have any trouble and get plenty of messages |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
If I am actively looking for a meet then I'll message, but I am usually reactive and happy to choose from amongst the lovely men who message me. The main problem is that when I have messaged guys they have rarely replied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just wondering who sends people messages for meets or to talk etc, and who waits for people to message them?
I used to message people my self when I 1st started on the site but as time goes on I message less and less people and just wait for people to message me, so yeah what do most people do?"
Depends how horny you are i would guess but as some referred to. .single M generally do more of the leg work. .so to speak but not always |
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