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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say im bbw...asi have plenty of meat on me..big belly n ass lol..im a size 16/18...everyone has different ideas of what size bbw is...im happy being me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say im bbw...asi have plenty of meat on me..big belly n ass lol..im a size 16/18...everyone has different ideas of what size bbw is...im happy being me x"
You look curvy to me which I find v attractive x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say im bbw...asi have plenty of meat on me..big belly n ass lol..im a size 16/18...everyone has different ideas of what size bbw is...im happy being me x
You look curvy to me which I find v attractive x"
Thank u x |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. "
Bigger than " normal"???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dress size means nothing. Someone who is 5ft tall and a size 18 will look a lot different to someone 5ft 10 of the same size. I'm a size 18 and whilst I'm not slim by any means, I would consider myself curvy, not a BBW. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are so many people hung up on how women describe themselves and whether they are big/big enough/bigger than normal(whatever that means!)/bbw/curvy/ample/fat/large/
fabulous etc?
Do a search, look at a profile if it appeals, if its not what you are looking for move on to find one that is ..... there is far more to women than their size and whether they wobble when they move for goodness sake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"surely it depends on the ladies height?
We should be talking BMI's, not dress sizes.
For me 30+"
That's not a great way of measuring it either as it doesn't take into account muscle mass. My BMI is 30.3 but I don't consider myself obese or a BBW. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are so many people hung up on how women describe themselves and whether they are big/big enough/bigger than normal(whatever that means!)/bbw/curvy/ample/fat/large/
fabulous etc?
Do a search, look at a profile if it appeals, if its not what you are looking for move on to find one that is ..... there is far more to women than their size and whether they wobble when they move for goodness sake "
 Totally agree. Everyone's opinion of what a BBW is, as with everything, will differ. Like the look of someone, message, don't like the look, move one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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using BMI is more helpful than dress sizes. But as you say it is imperfect.
We can't find a perfect measure though!
Maybe it's more fun seeing how other people define what bbw means to them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Average size for a UK female is 16 .... so BBW cannot start there, as that is average."
Just because it's the average size doesn't mean that it's not big..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Average size for a UK female is 16 .... so BBW cannot start there, as that is average."
why can average not be BBW? It just means woman are getting bigger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. "
14 and upwards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. 14 and upwards "
see I'm size 14 and i have ample on my profile because i consider myself large built but most people who mail me tell me in not ample, I'm glad someone agrees with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads make me more inclined to leave than any other, why don't we have threads like this about men? All this is is an excuse for men to be shining knights, normal beautiful women to be self depreciating telling people their big when they clearly aren't and making others feel just a little bit shitter about themselves. I really wish they would take the stupid body shape box off of the profiles and let people just look for themselves. Rah!!!! |
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"Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. "
ermmmmm define normal OP ! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Does it really matter? If you like the look of someone, you like them regardless of a box they ticked to try and narrow down what they look like. The main issue for me is that big tends to be subjective based on how the woman sees herself and beautiful is even more subjective. I'm not small by any means and could easily call myself big. Since beauty is something truly special as far as I'm concerned I'll call myself curvy since there wasn't a tick box for "a bit podgy but scrubs up OK"
Sorry, had to fix a typo! |
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Flamehaired makes a good point. A lot depends on height and build. Having worked as an auditor as a holiday job during college in Evans, I think this piqued my interest in ladies of the curvaceous variety!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. 14 and upwards
see I'm size 14 and i have ample on my profile because i consider myself large built but most people who mail me tell me in not ample, I'm glad someone agrees with me "
Who says large is not attractive though Size 8 here but i do love women size 8 to 16 Their figures are often stunning x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's a difference between being big and a BBW
all because someone carried extra weight don't make them a BBW in my opinion
I'm 5ft 10 and a size 14 so indisputably I'm large built, i don't think id class myself as a BBW though
to me a BBW is obese, you can be big without being obese |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I think there's a difference between being big and a BBW
all because someone carried extra weight don't make them a BBW in my opinion
I'm 5ft 10 and a size 14 so indisputably I'm large built, i don't think id class myself as a BBW though
to me a BBW is obese, you can be big without being obese "
I thik that is fair.. I imagine BBW as someone with rolls of fat.
rightly or wrongly, but that is the image I see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there's a difference between being big and a BBW
all because someone carried extra weight don't make them a BBW in my opinion
I'm 5ft 10 and a size 14 so indisputably I'm large built, i don't think id class myself as a BBW though
to me a BBW is obese, you can be big without being obese
I thik that is fair.. I imagine BBW as someone with rolls of fat.
rightly or wrongly, but that is the image I see."
i was going to say fetish big but i thought that may cause a stir  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there's a difference between being big and a BBW
all because someone carried extra weight don't make them a BBW in my opinion
I'm 5ft 10 and a size 14 so indisputably I'm large built, i don't think id class myself as a BBW though
to me a BBW is obese, you can be big without being obese "
5'10" and size 14 is perfect  |
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"I think there's a difference between being big and a BBW
all because someone carried extra weight don't make them a BBW in my opinion
I'm 5ft 10 and a size 14 so indisputably I'm large built, i don't think id class myself as a BBW though
to me a BBW is obese, you can be big without being obese
I thik that is fair.. I imagine BBW as someone with rolls of fat.
rightly or wrongly, but that is the image I see."
You been looking at my profile View?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BBW?
Big = depends on perspective
Beautiful = in the eye of the beholder
Woman = speaks for itself
There are some ladies who get hung up on labels. A larger lady who is a stunner (in my eyes) doesnt need a label. I see no dress size label when the clothes hit the floor |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I think there's a difference between being big and a BBW
all because someone carried extra weight don't make them a BBW in my opinion
I'm 5ft 10 and a size 14 so indisputably I'm large built, i don't think id class myself as a BBW though
to me a BBW is obese, you can be big without being obese
I thik that is fair.. I imagine BBW as someone with rolls of fat.
rightly or wrongly, but that is the image I see.
You been looking at my profile View?
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no but I did think long and hard before pressing send. It was the image I was thinking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a 16-18 and many say I'm not BBW including other women, have also been told 'You're not as fat as you think you are' so I think it is also down to how we see ourselves.
I'm fat (tummy) but curvy with it so I would describe myself as curvy but fuller figured curvy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a 16-18 and many say I'm not BBW including other women, have also been told 'You're not as fat as you think you are' so I think it is also down to how we see ourselves.
I'm fat (tummy) but curvy with it so I would describe myself as curvy but fuller figured curvy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexy does not come from dress size..
Its from within..
Dress for your shape... We can't all be or like the same...
I won't be shoved into a "type"..somebody will always be bigger or smaller than me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me BBW is when a lady stops having that hour glass shape.
Curves lumps and bumps are all womanly and alluring.
When a lady gets to the point that she is becoming round then I would say BBW.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me BBW is when a lady stops having that hour glass shape.
Curves lumps and bumps are all womanly and alluring.
When a lady gets to the point that she is becoming round then I would say BBW.
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Not all women have an hour glass figure whether they are a size 8 or 16. I wish I did as I think I could carry my weight off a bit more. I think I am round but not a BBW x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure it's a dress size thing tbh it's the hight weight proportions really.
Your pics don't show enough of you for me to truthfully comment.
Tho I'd have to agree you do have a cracking pair of boobies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me BBW is when a lady stops having that hour glass shape.
Curves lumps and bumps are all womanly and alluring.
When a lady gets to the point that she is becoming round then I would say BBW.
Not all women have an hour glass figure whether they are a size 8 or 16. I wish I did as I think I could carry my weight off a bit more. I think I am round but not a BBW x"
No sorry that was a generalisation on my part, boobs and hips is What I mean.
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I've never understood why people don't just look at the pictures and make there own mind up if there attracted to someone or not. No pictures then move on to the next profile, there is absolutely no reason why someone can't put body pictures up. I've never looked at the body size type on here I let my eyes make the decision.
But if were making generalisations I've always though of size 18 and upwards as bbw as that's where the outsized clothes used to start in shops but now they put all the sizes together
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 14/16 and get messages from guys saying they love to meet BBW. I don't like that label so ignore the messages."
I'm a 14 and i get that too, i had a guy mail me the other day asking me if i could help him with his BBW fantasy....bless but then i get others telling me to change my profile as I'm not ample
there's no definitive answer to this question as everyone sees big different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 14/16 and get messages from guys saying they love to meet BBW. I don't like that label so ignore the messages.
I'm a 14 and i get that too, i had a guy mail me the other day asking me if i could help him with his BBW fantasy....bless but then i get others telling me to change my profile as I'm not ample
there's no definitive answer to this question as everyone sees big different "
Your quite a tall lady so you can carry it off more easily than some one shorter. I wouldn't say dress size 14 was a BBW unless the lady in question was 3'11
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont get why all the emphasis goes on that first B!!!! Its much more important in my _iews to aim for the second B...if you find someone beautiful their size is irrelevant.this goes for males or females....this kind of thread leaves some embarrassed and hurt and also down about who they are on the outside when its what the inside is like that matters....too much vanity!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone can be a size 12 and not be curvy, and others can be. Every body shape is different. a bbw to me is someone who has a big belly and arse"
Oh shit!!!!! |
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"I dont get why all the emphasis goes on that first B!!!! Its much more important in my _iews to aim for the second B...if you find someone beautiful their size is irrelevant.this goes for males or females....this kind of thread leaves some embarrassed and hurt and also down about who they are on the outside when its what the inside is like that matters....too much vanity!!! "
surely if someone is happy and confident with themselves it shouldn't make a difference what anyone else thinks. I'm fat and couldn't give a toss, you can't be attractive to everyone whether your a size 6 or 26 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah if only that were true, but we all know it isn't.
A method for selecting perspective partners is necessary unfortunately the only one available is some ones outward appearance.
Which is a shame really cos I'm kind sensitive and funny.
People want to hang out with the cool attractive kids just a fact of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get why all the emphasis goes on that first B!!!! Its much more important in my _iews to aim for the second B...if you find someone beautiful their size is irrelevant.this goes for males or females....this kind of thread leaves some embarrassed and hurt and also down about who they are on the outside when its what the inside is like that matters....too much vanity!!! "
i agree personalty matters but so do looks, we would do away with pictures if they didn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get why all the emphasis goes on that first B!!!! Its much more important in my _iews to aim for the second B...if you find someone beautiful their size is irrelevant.this goes for males or females....this kind of thread leaves some embarrassed and hurt and also down about who they are on the outside when its what the inside is like that matters....too much vanity!!!
i agree personalty matters but so do looks, we would do away with pictures if they didn't "
Has to be spark from the first picture/meeting then the personality will shine thou if the spark is there..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said it's difficult to put a size on where it starts. I'd say an 18 myself, because up to 16 seems to be the more average size historically. Although height will pay a big factor in it too. I'm an 18/20 and 5ft 6 so I'm definitely bigger than most ladies my height. Working on reducing it though. I've decided I personally prefer the term rubenesque to BBW, or actually no label at all would be far better. |
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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago
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"Alot of women say there bbw but dont look that big. I love women who are bigger then normal. What size would you start to say there a bbw. Id have to say 20+ and size 16 and 18 are cuddley size I think. "
i am so sick of hearing this term, you don't classify slim or medium size ladies so why the f do curvier girls need to be classified.
everyone is just them, you like them you like, u don't u don't !
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By (user no longer on site)
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i am so sick of hearing this term, you don't classify slim or medium size ladies so why the f do curvier girls need to be classified.
everyone is just them, you like them you like, u don't u don't !
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Actually people do classify slim and average ladies cos like it or not we are all something, and everyone else in the world will need a point of reference.
I am what I am, would you shag me?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are so many people hung up on how women describe themselves and whether they are big/big enough/bigger than normal(whatever that means!)/bbw/curvy/ample/fat/large/
fabulous etc?
Do a search, look at a profile if it appeals, if its not what you are looking for move on to find one that is ..... there is far more to women than their size and whether they wobble when they move for goodness sake
Totally agree. Everyone's opinion of what a BBW is, as with everything, will differ. Like the look of someone, message, don't like the look, move one."
Love your status btw .... smiling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I say im bbw...asi have plenty of meat on me..big belly n ass lol..im a size 16/18...everyone has different ideas of what size bbw is...im happy being me x
You look curvy to me which I find v attractive x
Thank u x"
You look damn fine.... very sexy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads make me more inclined to leave than any other, why don't we have threads like this about men? "
I posted one the other day- some people said I look fine, some said that a guy should never put Curvy as a body type (im not large by any means, but ample doesn't fit right either IMO).
and one person made me feel like hiding in a dark room till I could see my ribs sticking out because I'm grotesque and fat |
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This is a can of worms, you can not go on dress size at all. I have a female friend who is a size 18, due to her being 6'4 she has curves to die for. The other end of the scale I work with a woman 4'2 and a size 14, who sadly looks very cuddly 'her words'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"BBW?
Big = depends on perspective
Beautiful = in the eye of the beholder
Woman = speaks for itself
There are some ladies who get hung up on labels. A larger lady who is a stunner (in my eyes) doesnt need a label. I see no dress size label when the clothes hit the floor "
I totally agree with this cause everyone is beautiful in there own way and tbh when it comes to bbws the bigger the better but Id say from about size 16 up is bbw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a can of worms, you can not go on dress size at all. I have a female friend who is a size 18, due to her being 6'4 she has curves to die for. The other end of the scale I work with a woman 4'2 and a size 14, who sadly looks very cuddly 'her words'."
id love to see both those women especially the 4'2 one |
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I really hate the term BBW I am a size 18 on top (due to most weight being on my boobs) and a size on my stomach which would be flatter if i hadnt lost weight so quickly!
Weight and bmi dont work either people are shocked when they find out how much I way due to muscle mass as I am an ex rugby player, archer and i lift weights at the gym!
I am actively trying to lose weight so when someone turns round and calls me a BBW it hurts.. I ignore the second B as honestly if its my weight you are seeing you arent looking at my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is just too many people trying to put people into groups for me from the bi/gay/straight boxes to the skinny/chubby/bbw brackets does it really matter and are boundaries that important.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's really interesting to glimpse how people _iew themselves.
In every day life you wouldn't normally get that insite.
From the straight guys who are straight cos they only suck cock occasionally.
To the larger ladies who label themselves as curvy.
We all have a vision of ourselves in our minds eye, it's amazing how this can differ from what every one else sees |
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