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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all - would be interesting to know how many new messages you all receive in a day compared to how many you reply to? For me (Billy no mates!) it's more like 1 received per week, and I always reply! GO!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we first joined we were getting over 100 messages a day. All from single guys. We replied to maybe 30 but the rest clearly had not read our profile and had they done so would have known not to bother. Now we no longer show up in new profile searches we only get about 10 a day. Apart from the odd one who again clearly has not read the profile we do now answer them all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When we first joined we were getting over 100 messages a day. All from single guys. We replied to maybe 30 but the rest clearly had not read our profile and had they done so would have known not to bother. Now we no longer show up in new profile searches we only get about 10 a day. Apart from the odd one who again clearly has not read the profile we do now answer them all."
So it definitely is a sausage fest on here then!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we first joined we were getting over 100 messages a day. All from single guys. We replied to maybe 30 but the rest clearly had not read our profile and had they done so would have known not to bother. Now we no longer show up in new profile searches we only get about 10 a day. Apart from the odd one who again clearly has not read the profile we do now answer them all.
So it definitely is a sausage fest on here then! "
The number of single men vastly outnumbers women and couples and a large proportion of them make little to no effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Between 6-10 a day. Some from friends, but most from men who have not bothered to read our profile. The ones that have do get a reply even if it is a no thanks |
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Agree most clearly dont read profile
Some claim to have done so which is lies unless they have read it and just totally disregarded everything i want and messaged anyway
Neither impress me and many times result in a block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of people look at the latest pics and then message them. Then wonder why no reply. The whole site see those pics and they must get 100's of messages in a short space of time.
Interest always increases when you put a new pic up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we first joined we were getting over 100 messages a day. All from single guys. We replied to maybe 30 but the rest clearly had not read our profile and had they done so would have known not to bother. Now we no longer show up in new profile searches we only get about 10 a day. Apart from the odd one who again clearly has not read the profile we do now answer them all.
So it definitely is a sausage fest on here then! "
Definitely!! My filters are on so thankfully messages are minimal (I prefer to do the hunting lol) Filters were off the other day. 20 messages in half an hour. Only one had read profile so he got a reply. Thank god for filters!! |
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I clear my sent/received messages every morning. I can easily receive 100 messages a day, but they are mostly ongoing conversations with friends.
From new contacts, depends what day of the week it is. Thurs,Fri and Saturday I may get 10 1st messages, during the week 1 or 2.
I always look at their profile before opening the mail, boring 1 liner with a hows you message won't normally be answered. Any that obviously haven't read my profile ie meet for coffee, prob won't receive an answer either. But if it is a nice message I usually reply, even if it is a sorry no.
Today 14 messages from 5 people, 3 of those friends, 12 replies. |
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People can actually reply to messages? Here was me thinking my inbox was broken?