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Single guys. How much action?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None. But I was invited to a gangbang last night at very short notice which I was unable to make. So it *could* have been 1

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By *omMLMan over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

None but I really have no expectations of a meet from here. I mostly use the forums to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couples of meets

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By *orset manMan over a year ago

Bournemouth

Loads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a couple I have taken up....turned down or put on hold a few more as I have a life outside of fab...but tbh that involves an ex fab member with a caravan for weekends and who lives close by for other times....if that counts as direct fab stuff...then probably at least a dozen in the last month?

What is wrong with single guys on here....get out there n get involved!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads "

You've only had 2 meets this year, so not exactly "loads"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nobody meets on this site...wish people would realize that..FFS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads

You've only had 2 meets this year, so not exactly "loads""

They may not of verified him. ( might have been a crap shag lol )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Zero from the site and that's a fact.

Outside of fab -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing but then I don't hardly email anyone, but using the forum instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads "

wanking over profile pics don't count as direct action as a result of this site

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

No meets in august but had 2 meets during July, and september is looking to be a good month so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Zero from the site and that's a fact.

Outside of fab -

Let's hope that changes on the 9.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a result from this=0 since my verification

Thankfully have a wee bird I know that likes to suck ma cock 2/3 times a month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a woman and i haven't had a meet this month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a woman and i haven't had a meet this month

thats a long period...and a lot of tampons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Zero from the site and that's a fact.

Outside of fab -

Let's hope that changes on the 9.

Ooh yes please.

To be fair, i've been quite busy and not actively been looking to meet as such nor have i been in the chatrooms. That's how i used to usually meet people.

...be back to meeting soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a woman and i haven't had a meet this month

Last year I went 8 months without a meet.

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan over a year ago

Derby

"I'm a woman and i haven't had a meet this month

Last year I went 8 months without a meet. "

That's how slow Sky broadband is to log in!

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

3 meets this month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a woman and i haven't had a meet this month

Last year I went 8 months without a meet.

That's how slow Sky broadband is to log in! "

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By *rimsbycplCouple over a year ago

Grimsby

as a couple we have met single guys off here, also some m on m meets mostly done short notice by us advertising a meet today - however, it helps if you "single" men can accommodate.

to us/me single means not married and not attached, to some guys, single means playing behind partners back, that's not single, thats MARRIED or LIVING WITH SOMEONE - these blatant lies do no one any favours

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By *nked_DomMan over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking."

More than most,less than some..

It helps to have more to offer than just your cock,unless its 10 inches then just go with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads

You've only had 2 meets this year, so not exactly "loads"

They may not of verified him. ( might have been a crap shag lol )

Haha! *high five*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking."

I never kiss and tell...

Oh and quality beats quantity every time!

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

most couples are looking for other couples or single women

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking.

I never kiss and tell...

Oh and quality beats quantity every time!"

Quite.

I've had no shortage of meets. Do I show verifications?

Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads

You've only had 2 meets this year, so not exactly "loads""

How do you know how many meets he's had?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

In the last month I have had 1 blow job at Vanilla Alternative, some oral both ways with a woman from this site and a BJ from another site lady.

I also met a couple at a hotel which was aborted after about 30 minutes as the female started bleeding heavily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I aint doing bad for a old git

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I joined in 2011 seemed much easier and had approx 15 meets, but on rejoining in 2012 only 2 meets and on my 3rd time of joining this year only 1 meet this year, that was recently so hoping luck is changing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah 2011 was a good mating season so im told

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads

You've only had 2 meets this year, so not exactly "loads"

They may not of verified him. ( might have been a crap shag lol )

they may not **have**

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining"

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It does not matter how much effort one puts in . If they are not attracted to yer it aint happening

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By *omMLMan over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

"I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it. "

I'll agree with you on that. But it does seem like a significant number if females and couples have the same problem.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking."

Plenty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One but she cant do a veri and either can i any ideas why? We was both new was my first meet and hers also, she wants to fuck again so im sure it would be a good veri lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it.

I'll agree with you on that. But it does seem like a significant number if females and couples have the same problem. "

That's only because of couple cliques that exist in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It does not matter how much effort one puts in . If they are not attracted to yer it aint happening "

Which is why I have turned down chances too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking.

Plenty

Whats the secret then Brighton Steve.

Do share!

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By *astersfuckpigCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking.

Plenty

Whats the secret then Brighton Steve.

Do share!"

He's bi and lives in brighton

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Repeat meets, friends of swingers, socials to make contacts, messaging on here, yapping on the fora, reasonable profile, good interpersonal and communication skills, etc.

But really, it depends on whether people want to have sex with you or not. All the above is useless if they don't want sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking.

Plenty

Whats the secret then Brighton Steve.

Do share!

He's bi and lives in brighton

Ah say no more.

In Brighton the gays are at it 24/7.

Lucky bastards!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I haven't met masters fuckpig yet though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know."
It would have to be a very small fukin horse i can tell yer

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP: I'm not gay, I'm bi and mostly have sex with either women or couples.

I think a good attitude counts for a lot too.

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By *et a roomCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"One but she cant do a veri and either can i any ideas why? We was both new was my first meet and hers also, she wants to fuck again so im sure it would be a good veri lol "

Only members already verified can verify someone else. Try a social to get verified then you can verify your friend.

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By *astersfuckpigCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I haven't met masters fuckpig yet though!

Masters taking me to BGHS today..He normally puts me in the open room and lets everyone use me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know."

I'd say his personality and general good, respectful attitude. Haven't chatted to him but I have seen how he treats people in a social environment, and people clearly like him.

'Strugfling' guys on here need to stop being so fucking creepy and be more like toshn and Brighton Steve.

(I am friends with neither, this is just my observation as a female. And I'm not looking for a fuck either- it's purely subjective.)

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

Nowt off here?

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By *issy louWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

I'd say his personality and general good, respectful attitude. Haven't chatted to him but I have seen how he treats people in a social environment, and people clearly like him.

'Strugfling' guys on here need to stop being so fucking creepy and be more like toshn and Brighton Steve.

(I am friends with neither, this is just my observation as a female. And I'm not looking for a fuck either- it's purely subjective.)"

Exactly this!!! You can really tell WHY some single guys struggle! !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

I'd say his personality and general good, respectful attitude. Haven't chatted to him but I have seen how he treats people in a social environment, and people clearly like him.

'Strugfling' guys on here need to stop being so fucking creepy and be more like toshn and Brighton Steve.

(I am friends with neither, this is just my observation as a female. And I'm not looking for a fuck either- it's purely subjective.)

Exactly this!!! You can really tell WHY some single guys struggle! !

Oh yes, forum posts can tell a lot about a person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Repeat meets, friends of swingers, socials to make contacts, messaging on here, yapping on the fora, reasonable profile, good interpersonal and communication skills, etc.

But really, it depends on whether people want to have sex with you or not. All the above is useless if they don't want sex "

He slips them a tenner

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it. "

Maybe because what they're "putting in" isn't the kind of effort that's either productive, positive, what single females or couples are either attracted to or the slightest bit interested in - or that effort is not showing them in a particularly good light?

There are plenty of single guys loving their life on Fab and in the lifestyle in general.

Rarely do they moan in the forums, need to ask advice, bemoan their peers or question why they're not getting the 'results' they desire.

The common denominator amongst them is a complete lack of any sense of entitlement or expectancy.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

it is a long time since I had a meet from this site, I remain on it because I enjoy the banter in the forums.

When I was meeting, I never struggled and that was nothing more than using my personality in the chat rooms, going to socials in Scotland and attending a club. I put myself out there and then reputation takes over and you get invites. I have never sent a proactive message on this site. I also accommodated in my home and that is something I would never, ever do again.

On the reverse of that, once you become successful in the Swinging World, jealously can creep in from others who deem you to be having too much fun, up yourself etc... you just have to ignore that bullshit and continue enjoying yourself.

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By *astersfuckpigCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know."

Calling everyone on the site who enjoys bdsm 'mentally ill' is probably not going to help much..lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

Calling everyone on the site who enjoys bdsm 'mentally ill' is probably not going to help much..lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't seem to have any problems with meets, even had some when in a cast and on crutches lol, so it's not that difficult.

The hardest thing is finding the time to squeeze them in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it.

There are plenty of single guys loving their life on Fab and in the lifestyle in general.

Rarely do they moan in the forums, need to ask advice, bemoan their peers or question why they're not getting the 'results' they desire.

The common denominator amongst them is a complete lack of any sense of entitlement or expectancy.

I never expect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

I'd say his personality and general good, respectful attitude. Haven't chatted to him but I have seen how he treats people in a social environment, and people clearly like him.

'Strugfling' guys on here need to stop being so fucking creepy and be more like toshn and Brighton Steve.

(I am friends with neither, this is just my observation as a female. And I'm not looking for a fuck either- it's purely subjective.)"
Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

used to get quite a few meets of here now ts quite to be honest I get more seual meets of plenty of fish than this site but saying thtat half the woman are on both sites x

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"It does not matter how much effort one puts in . If they are not attracted to yer it aint happening

Which is why I have turned down chances too

And because you were really nice to me you slipped into the friend zone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

I'd say his personality and general good, respectful attitude. Haven't chatted to him but I have seen how he treats people in a social environment, and people clearly like him.

'Strugfling' guys on here need to stop being so fucking creepy and be more like toshn and Brighton Steve.

(I am friends with neither, this is just my observation as a female. And I'm not looking for a fuck either- it's purely subjective.)

Exactly this!!! You can really tell WHY some single guys struggle! !

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"used to get quite a few meets of here now ts quite to be honest I get more seual meets of plenty of fish than this site but saying thtat half the woman are on both sites x"

I'm not on POF, then again I haven't met you anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It does not matter how much effort one puts in . If they are not attracted to yer it aint happening

Which is why I have turned down chances too

And because you were really nice to me you slipped into the friend zone

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"I was quite successful when I first joined.

However after taking some time out fir work commitments I have struggled and have had nothing at all...

And yes I put the effort in and

No I'm not complaining

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it.

There are plenty of single guys loving their life on Fab and in the lifestyle in general.

Rarely do they moan in the forums, need to ask advice, bemoan their peers or question why they're not getting the 'results' they desire.

The common denominator amongst them is a complete lack of any sense of entitlement or expectancy.

I never expect

I expected someone would say that

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

Location does help if your I the sticks within an hours travel in say Birmingham you could have a thousand couples abduction singles in a rural area maybe 20

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It does not matter how much effort one puts in . If they are not attracted to yer it aint happening

Which is why I have turned down chances too

And because you were really nice to me you slipped into the friend zone

"
i am nice and did not slip in anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wish I was a bloke

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here."
Really ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her"
wish i was a lady then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her wish i was a lady then.

"
You get all the action

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her"

Ghey Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here."

I can quite see that it is hard for a variety of reasons but this is something we do not hear about anywhere near as often as single guys whining about how hard it is..

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I have been lucky to have met quite a few from here. I was lucky because I got verified by a couple I know who I found on here by mistake.

I then met PappillonNoir on an early social, impressed, had a second meet and impressed again. She has helped my education massively and is looking to do so even more.

However, it helps that I actually like and respect women, have a laugh and banter, and an inquisitive nature with partners.

If I told you how many times I met this month, both on and off the site and inc repeat meets, most would say I was lying.

Looking in the mirror, that would include me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her wish i was a lady then.

You get all the action

Her"
No i give all the action

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loads

You've only had 2 meets this year, so not exactly "loads""

Lol I knew someone would catch you out

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here."

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

But having such tight parameters is precisely what makes it tough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her wish i was a lady then.

You get all the action

Her No i give all the action

"
That's it a giver young man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her wish i was a lady then.

You get all the action

Her No i give all the action

That's it a giver young man

"
im.deffo a giver but not a young man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish I was a bloke

Her wish i was a lady then.

You get all the action

Her No i give all the action

That's it a giver young man

im.deffo a giver but not a young man

"
Ah get away Tosh

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By *etentMan over a year ago

maidstone

None..zero..zilch..0

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here. Really ?

Yep.

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"It does not matter how much effort one puts in . If they are not attracted to yer it aint happening

Which is why I have turned down chances too

And because you were really nice to me you slipped into the friend zone

i am nice and did not slip in anywhere

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By *astersfuckpigCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

Man..Its hard to meet anyone on here..Means anyone with a fanny.

Woman..Its hard to meet anyone on here..Means vin diesel and statham are busy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We set our standards quite high but if you want a seat by the band then you must make the effort dear boy.

We know one single bloke who is on here and he is forever having to turn people down. His verifications and pictures speak a thousand words. It does help he is well groomed and urbane with a massive piece. His birthday party consisted of a reverse gangbang where he was treated by some of his couple friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does anyone ACTUALLY MEET on here !!!! Waste of time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

Man..Its hard to meet anyone on here..Means anyone with a fanny.

Woman..Its hard to meet anyone on here..Means vin diesel and statham are busy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

Man..Its hard to meet anyone on here..Means anyone with a fanny.

Woman..Its hard to meet anyone on here..Means vin diesel and statham are busy.

I don't find it difficult to meet. I'm not looking for "The One"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a woman and I only had 2....do I care? no, as both were top quality.

Quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a woman and I only had 2....do I care? no, as both were top quality.

Quality over quantity."

This every time, apart from the im a woman part lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here. Really ?

Yep."
i find that hard to believe . Surely a lady on here has the choice of many

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here. Really ?

Yep. i find that hard to believe . Surely a lady on here has the choice of many

Nope. We get lots of messages yes, but after you whittle out the ones that are 100s of miles away, the ones with fake pics, the ones who can only meet alternative Easters (married!), the ones who live with their kids/siblings/parents, the ones you've met before and thought 'over my dead body', and the ones who are just not attractive at all, you get down to one, maybe two a month, and one of those will have left before the meet is arranged.

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By *arriorMonk60Man over a year ago

Liverpool

Hi Could any women in the site,or Female-male couples let me know what they think of my profile and pics.Any advice would be most welcome

Jim

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well now you put it like that i guess your right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooops forgot to reply and quote

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By *astersfuckpigCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Hi Could any women in the site,or Female-male couples let me know what they think of my profile and pics.Any advice would be most welcome

Jim"

Try smiling

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here. Really ?

Yep. i find that hard to believe . Surely a lady on here has the choice of many

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

September will be good

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple over a year ago

Oxfordshire

It's easy to meet if you put the effort in and are actually single!!!!

So many single profiles, yet 90% can't accommodate......why not???

Chat rooms are good so people can interact with each other. But in the same breath it's nice to chat if someone's on cam to their face rather than their cock!

The age old adage of can't show face pics due to a job is a true one.

If that's the case go to a club on a social evening (no sexy fun), and get to know people, then go back on a normal night and you'll see people then who you may have met at the social, who'll know you and will have already made a decision on wether they want to engage in any sexual activities!!

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

So being single is the major contributing factor here according to many.

If only I had done this years ago

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By *DFL6828Man over a year ago

Leicester

I've been on and off here for about 4 years and have had zero meets from here. Most of my messages were deleted with no response, even tho i have tried lots of different angles. I do read the profile and put something in that is relevant to that person. 95% of times i don't get a response. So i don't bother any more.

I get more luck when i go to clubs and have started using the forum as well.

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

The age old adage of can't show face pics due to a job is a true one.

!!"

Yes but how do they manage to go to a club where everyone can see their full face as I'm sure their not wearing a balaclava

Even a simple face to face cam on Skype is to hard for many men whom seem to have every excuse under the sun

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By *DFL6828Man over a year ago

Leicester

So many single profiles, yet 90% can't accommodate......why not???

I live on a military camp, so i cant accommodate..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

I don't have tight requirements I just want to fancy them. Age, height, shoe size, I don't care. Yes there's loads of guys but most are disrespectful. If that's all that's on offer... I have self respect and would rather just stay home.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Met 4 people & a couple in the last month or so. But then, I can also go months where nothing happens. It just so happens it's a good time atm.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

I don't have tight requirements I just want to fancy them."

Ditto. If I spent some time thinking about it I'm sure I could think up some specific criteria that really excites me about a woman and I'm sure a woman could for a man, but ultimately you'll know within moments of making contact with someone whether you fancy them or not.

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

I don't have tight requirements I just want to fancy them.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

The age old adage of can't show face pics due to a job is a true one.

Yes but how do they manage to go to a club where everyone can see their full face as I'm sure their not wearing a balaclava

Even a simple face to face cam on Skype is to hard for many men whom seem to have every excuse under the sun

Cam ?

Id be in the car and on the way before you finish typing 'lets meet'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here. Really ?

Yep by the time you sort through all the attached/married men and those with repellant personalities, the pool of available single guys is smaller than the single women, IMO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My heart bleeds for the single woman and couples that find it sooooo difficult to meet anyone on here.

Pull the other one!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Second time on here. I live in a little village in the middle of nowhere, I've had a fair bit of attention but I think it's down to me being polite, reading the female, couples profile.. If I don't match what they're looking for I won't try. I typue using correct English and Grammar.. Just make myself look genuine and confident

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

We often hear the time worn line.." put the effort in and you will be rewarded"

But I don't think guys are getting as much out of it as they are putting into it. "

and I think your expectations and perceptions as revealed in other posts are way out of kilter with the realities of swinging.....

attitudes play a lot in deciding whether people play as much as a lot of the other things... what you write, how you come across, what you look like......

to be honest I tend to avoid another who calls it "action" because for me, and this is the snobishness in me, is that they are unlikely to see swinging in the same way I do......

so focused on the end result and the quickest way of getting there as opposed to enjoying the journey along the way meeting people.... and THAT is how a lot of people stand out and can make themselves different....

so how often have I played..... enough that I am happy and not complaining, enough that meeting nice people is fulfilling enough....

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"My heart bleeds for the single woman and couples that find it sooooo difficult to meet anyone on here.

Pull the other one!!!"

Well I know why you struggle to get meets

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"My heart bleeds for the single woman and couples that find it sooooo difficult to meet anyone on here.

Pull the other one!!!

Well I know why you struggle to get meets"

Well he does get one meet a year to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My heart bleeds for the single woman and couples that find it sooooo difficult to meet anyone on here.

Pull the other one!!!

Well I know why you struggle to get meets"

We all know why...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking."

Directly from this site iv met a big fat 0

I use it for the forums mainly but without blowing my own trumpet to loudly I get my leg over when I want it so I don't have the hunger to send messages or chase women on here. That being said there are some sexy ladies on here iv spoken to recently that I would like to get my hands on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking.

Directly from this site iv met a big fat 0

Actually I'm telling lies again iv met 5 but that was on a old account.... Totally forgot sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

But alas like most men I don't. And I get blocked by woman JUST because I happen to say something in the forum they don't like or agree with. Whatever happened to respecting others opinion and live and let live?

As I have stated before, this is sex not rocket science and I am not going to write some ass kissing, long winded begging letter to a woman that she doesn't even read as she bulk deletes her hundreds.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over."

Lol if I had half brain I wouldn't agree with you....... But your bang on

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By *uitar_antiheroMan over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd like a happy medium where there is more than 0 messages in my inbox, but less than the hundreds of really shit ones women get. But it isn't going to happen. However, I'm a believer in being yourself & by doing so, some will eventually be interested.

It can be hard for women too, if they have standards (which the vast majority do) then of the hundreds of messages they receive maybe one or two might be worth considering.

I also feel that having moans & rants & complaining about women on the forums will not make a man more appealing. To anyone. Ever.

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over."

Hence you being blocked

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

that actually is not true, I have seen many single guys couple up and start screaming no guys, no guys, no guys... the relationship goes tits up and he becomes a single guy with a little more humble pie to swallow.

I am not someone who fawns at the alter of the women in swinging, I get weary of the constant male bashing from people on the site a week, a month, or longer but I do know how to go about getting fun on here.

and the one golden nugget that I can give is....... negativity attracts negativity.

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By *astersfuckpigCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over."

You say "Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes" but you being judgemental is why you are on a lot of women's blocked lists.

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

You say "Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes" but you being judgemental is why you are on a lot of women's blocked lists."

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over."

to be honest my finger has also been hovering over the block button, just because I think at most times you are here to troll and instigate... so i am not surprised others have, you should see my private notes....

see you say "this is sex, not rocket science"

here is the thing that you seem not to understand (or the kicker)... for a lot of people it is not JUST about the sex!

the sex may be the end product...

people may come here originally for the sex as a main focus... but its not just about the sex otherwise the social scene wouldn't be what it is...

if it was solely sex and nothing else... you are better off picking a card out of a phone box... or visiting one of these "whores" you like to go on about......

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

see you say "this is sex, not rocket science"

here is the thing that you seem not to understand (or the kicker)... for a lot of people it is not JUST about the sex!

the sex may be the end product...

people may come here originally for the sex as a main focus... but its not just about the sex otherwise the social scene wouldn't be what it is...

if it was solely sex and nothing else... you are better off picking a card out of a phone box... or visiting one of these "whores" you like to go on about......"

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Oh look -another one!

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By *omMLMan over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

Why are you in here OP? All you seem to do is moan and rant. If you put the same amount of time and positivity into it. You might just get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over."

I do know how hard it is for guys as I have spoken to many and also seen for myself. That's why I do sympathise with (some) single guys.

I also know and agree that (some) swinging women (and couple and men and tv's) have their head up their arse.

I like your threads. You raise interesting discussions about allsorts of topics.

I think underneath the anger you're actually a nice guy. (You've let that slip on a few threads and showed you're ok.)

I think that the knockbacks and nasty comments at you have pissed you off and that's why you are angry. But there are ways of saying things and sometimes you don't come across very well. And that's why people react to you a certain way.

I think you would be much happier in a different environment. I know you really couldn't give a shit but this female doesn't hate you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing at all not even a convo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over."

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anything I wanted to say in the grander scheme of things has been said by others (as always Fabio, you're on point).

To answer the original question, 1 meet in August and if not for logistics, and other factors on either side, that number would have been 4. That's little, skinny old me (a fact I haven't lied about on my stats, lol) with the quirky/odd sense of humour who hasn't seen a swinging club since I came back to the site (something I've started to work on). I mention that because what I've had on here lends itself to the idea that engaging with people on a personality/social level is important and is desirable.

I sigh when I see people (usually fellow single men) raise the point about not having success and nearly always, the phrase or sentiment 'this is a sex site' emerges. I've already said more than I intended, but there is a distinction between a sex site (of which virtually none exist) and a swinging site. Basically, there has to be interest before anything occurs. Simply wanting to meet someone to have sex isn't enough.

Are you what they want, looks and personality-wise (and vice versa)? Do you have a positive message? Do you make them laugh? Can you accommodate? Or prepared to travel a possible distance?

Are you actually interested in the person/people you are contacting?

If the answer to to any (or many) of the above, then the simple want of sex will most likely not prevail.

More (profound) points have been handled more succinctly, but I thought I'd chime in. Have a good day all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Well said my friend!!

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By *unPeteMan over a year ago

Near Bristol

"Guys

We all know it can be fucking difficult for single guys to get some action on here, so how much have you seen in the last month as a direst result of this site?

By action im talking about oral either way and/or fucking."

" ... as a direst result of this site?"

I laughed, a typo or do you mean direst?

Perhaps you're not getting "action" because only a few women satisfy your un-essential likes :-

(taken from your profile)

-She should be fully shaven or totally Au Naturale. Nothing in between.

-She should enjoy swallowing a mans cum.

-She should enjoy anal sex.

-She should like to be fisted.

-She should enjoy rimming both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for women to get meets too on here.

You do have quite set requirements though. Most single guys cannot afford to set such tight perameters when searching

But having such tight parameters is precisely what makes it tough. "

Having tough parameters, or "standards" as they are sometimes known add to the fun of it all.

I don't mean the "have to looks of Brad Pitt with the money of Beckham, the length of a horse and the wit of Ricky Gervais" hoops to jump through, but some guys will try and nail anything that is still relatively warm, never mind a pulse.

I have tried my luck with ladies that I don't meet the criteria of, and got on really well with them.

Enjoy the thrill of the chase.

But ladies, it isn't that hard for you to find a meet, the hard part is finding the kind of meet you want.

Sometimes casting your net a little wider can pay dividends

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Then why send a message???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Then critisize him, he cant hear you from a mile away, and you have his shoes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dunno what some single guys are doing wrong..but then, there are many couples etc doing it wrong too.

If you want to distance yourselves from the thousands of others who complain about getting no meets..a simple excercise is looking at what type of meet they are looking for, and what type of meet they havent tried.

my advice as always, if you are struggling online: get to some kind of gathering, club,social.

its a start no/

unfortunately over the several years I've been on the site, the same question comes up...and on most counts...they never accept the answers given...then continue to moan...then it becomes other peoples faults.

just for the record, I hate sounding like a boasting know it all..I just know its not rocket science...its using some common sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Then why send a message???"

I dont, I stopped its just that I see this forums of lads saying its hard getting a meet so there...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its funny how some guys antics on here actually have a genitive effect on the chances of a meet after all who would want to met a an ignoramus.

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Then why send a message???

I dont, I stopped its just that I see this forums of lads saying its hard getting a meet so there...

No hang on, you need to back up what you said about your eyes bleeding for looking at women once their in the street.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Well said my friend!!"

... And if not for sex sites like this an unused condom would get more cock than some of those women that are stuck up their own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messaoges a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Then why send a message???

I dont, I stopped its just that I see this forums of lads saying its hard getting a meet so there...

No hang on, you need to back up what you said about your eyes bleeding for looking at women once their in the street."

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had plenty . And im not bi . Or live in Brighton

Is that cos your hung like a fucking horse?

Do share your secrets.

The struggling masses wanna know.

I'd say his personality and general good, respectful attitude. Haven't chatted to him but I have seen how he treats people in a social environment, and people clearly like him.

'Strugfling' guys on here need to stop being so fucking creepy and be more like toshn and Brighton Steve.

(I am friends with neither, this is just my observation as a female. And I'm not looking for a fuck either- it's purely subjective.)"

Jules

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can understand guys frustrations on not getting meets . But i can not understand them moaning and blaming everyone but themselfs for not getting meets . I am 53 years old and getting meets . So look at yourself and question what are you doing wrong . Look at the 1000s of tips given and change something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand guys frustrations on not getting meets . But i can not understand them moaning and blaming everyone but themselfs for not getting meets . I am 53 years old and getting meets . So look at yourself and question what are you doing wrong . Look at the 1000s of tips given and change something "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mind your own beeswax

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that"

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

.......problem is it goes in one ear, comes out the other.... and thats when the "victim" mentality kicks in!!

too easy to blame everything else because that leaves them blameless.. they could do nothing else!!!

if they need anymore advice than "time, patience and basic common sense"... I worry for then and how they function as human beings....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???"
Plead the 5th ammendment mate before yer bury yerself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???"

Leerise why can't you be more local?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, there are a few on this thread that I can fully understand why they don't get meets!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

.......problem is it goes in one ear, comes out the other.... and thats when the "victim" mentality kicks in!!

too easy to blame everything else because that leaves them blameless.. they could do nothing else!!!

if they need anymore advice than "time, patience and basic common sense"... I worry for then and how they function as human beings....

"
You always explain things a lot better than i do . Makes me sick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, there are a few on this thread that I can fully understand why they don't get meets!"
They just need a PA like i had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Well said my friend!!

... And if not for sex sites like this an unused condom would get more cock than some of those women that are stuck up their own"

I wonder if this misogyny came across in your messages?

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???

Leerise why can't you be more local?

I live in Manchester hun that's just down the motorway from you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???

Leerise why can't you be more local?

I live in Manchester hun that's just down the otorway from you

"
Aye and if i was 20 years younger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???

Leerise why can't you be more local?

I live in Manchester hun that's just down the motorway from you

But Manchesters like some sort of impregnable swinging fortress (at least in my experience)!

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I cant say names but i've seen some women from fab in a shopping centre or places like that

So you're saying that the Irish women on here are the ones you're talking about???

Leerise why can't you be more local?

I live in Manchester hun that's just down the motorway from you

But Manchesters like some sort of impregnable swinging fortress (at least in my experience)!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

trying to work the magic on one seriously sexy lady in my area at the min

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is an old saying.

"Do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes"

Single woman and couples will never know how difficult it is for single men in the swinging world.

Id love to receive hundreds of messages a day like many woman do.

In my opinion a lot of swinging woman are up their own ass.

Rant over.

I agree... Its single lads fault we stroke their ego by bombarding them with messsages this makes them feel like a model but in reality your eyes would bleed for looking at them once in the streets

Well said my friend!!

... And if not for sex sites like this an unused condom would get more cock than some of those women that are stuck up their own

I wonder if this misogyny came across in your messages? "

Now now in what way is this misogyny, what had to be said was said

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"trying to work the magic on one seriously sexy lady in my area at the min"

Good luck hun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"trying to work the magic on one seriously sexy lady in my area at the min"

Good luck man.. I feel you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"trying to work the magic on one seriously sexy lady in my area at the min

Good luck hun

"
spank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading lots of forums you would know exactly who you didn't want to meet from them. Always the usual names you know would be a real treat from conversations. Brighton Steve, _abio, toshn, sexy brain and numerous others including some sexy ladies. Forums are a great place to check profiles out and who to avoid. Have met several from forums

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By *eeriseWoman over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"trying to work the magic on one seriously sexy lady in my area at the min

Good luck hun

spank you

Yes and you will get your spanking from the lady you meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i need everyone on this thread to throw some luck my way

i really really really wanna bang this chick

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had another meet yesterday, actually.

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