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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you wonder if the number of people youve had sex with is too high? Would you be embarrassed to answer truthfully?
I know my parents would be ashamed of me if they knew. They were of the era of no sex before marriage and have only slept with eachother. Well thats what they tell me anyway 
Whats too high? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200"
Have you been swinging a long time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have no idea how many women ive slept with hundreds lol as for men actual sexual intercourse only two it was one up untill about 2 months ago then i slept with the second guy..... i need to get out more i think lol x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200
Have you been swinging a long time?"
Hahaha your joking I would barely of lost my virginity if that was the case!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No real idea. I realised recently that the guesstimate I had been using hadn't changed for around 15 years. I'd guess around 4-500 but suspect that's being rarely conservatice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200
Have you been swinging a long time?
Hahaha your joking I would barely of lost my virginity if that was the case!!"
You could have had a few 'regulars'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ar im not too bothered ha! Think u learn at my age how to make a dick of urself and hopefully in a few years lol ill be a smooth talker And i think not sure lol! Thats how to get sex! And laughter ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you define as sex? Any intimate touching etc? So in one night at a club with those parameters I'd say I have sex with about ten people. Go to a club about once a week, been going for about eighteen months.....so,......800 roughly plus all the meets and the stuff before we started swinging, say, ball park 1K??? Me, bad!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200
Have you been swinging a long time?
Hahaha your joking I would barely of lost my virginity if that was the case!!
You could have had a few 'regulars' "
Iv had 2 accounts in the past one couple and single iv had 5 meets from this site but to be fair on the site I don't even try to meet women here. I got my numbers up on other sites and travelling around |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up until my late 30s it was 1. Now,I have no idea and i don't think that it matters. It's not something I lay awake at night pondering. That number is too high when I don't want to have sex with anyone else. And as for what others think? I couldn't give a Damn. It's none of their business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200
Have you been swinging a long time?
Hahaha your joking I would barely of lost my virginity if that was the case!!
You could have had a few 'regulars' "
P's iv got regulars that's probably why iv not got the hunger to chase to hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you wonder if the number of people youve had sex with is too high? Would you be embarrassed to answer truthfully?
I know my parents would be ashamed of me if they knew. They were of the era of no sex before marriage and have only slept with eachother. Well thats what they tell me anyway
Whats too high? "
dont believe parents sex in the sixties remember free love lol plus my brother was a week old in my parents wedding photo's there not that innocent. I remember when she became single,when my mum use to bring a diff man home some weekends after nights out.
so dont think they could judge me for going out roughly weekly for a bit of nookie at a party or club lol I have lost count in last two years though I dont collect notches, just having some fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had sex with around 20..which is no where near enough men!! Haaaa x
Youve come to the right place to change that
Oh yes !)"
I can help bump your numbers |
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Absolutely no idea, hundreds possibly.
As for the pious, like my 94 year old mother, who was pregnant when she met my father and had to marry him once pregnant with my brother, sex before marriage always happened. We are simply more liberated now to accept and embrace it.
She, however, remains a liar and ashamed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over a hundred. Most of those were between the ages of 18 & 25 when I was d*unk & stupid lol. The number since joining fabs is very low. "
Why arent u d*unk and stupid more?? Ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had sex with around 20..which is no where near enough men!! Haaaa x
Youve come to the right place to change that
Oh yes !)
I can help bump your numbers "
Oh really ;-p |
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I only had about 3 until my mid thirties but around 33 now lol,
but in that time there have been two other halves and a few regular friends.
love to bump up a few mutual figures great to meet new friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have no idea how many women ive slept with hundreds lol as for men actual sexual intercourse only two it was one up untill about 2 months ago then i slept with the second guy..... i need to get out more i think lol x "
*wiggles eyebrows in suggestive flirty manner*  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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The last time I went for a check up and was asked about my activities in the last few months, I told the Doc the number I thought it was, but if he wanted a more definite one, I could look on my website (no longer got it) and check |
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I stopped counting in my mid 20s when an ex asked me how many and then it caused a massive row because my number was higher than his...guess he wanted to be a man of the world...or maybe he thought I was more innocent
Some very low numbers here for a swinging site...maybe I'm just a slut lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By the age of 18 and 2 months, I'd had sex with 19 people. Then i met my ex, joined here, started escorting too... Now (2 and a half years later) I'd say around 200. Maybe more, maybe a little less... But I don't keep track! And I still don't have a 'bucket' - hell yeah!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my first when I was 14 , in my teenage years I would go clubbing on an average I would go out with one to two girls a week probably have sex with one of them, in my twenties it probably got down to one every two weeks then I got married would have sex every other day for the next 14 years then divorced, out on town for 5 years probably one girl every month , got married again sex every other day for the first 5 years then for the next 15:years probably once a week now we dont at all because we had a small boy with autism and we just dont get the time , still good friends but that's all shame, probably it's pay back for all the years , im 60 now in my life I have had hundreds I would think ,it's surprising im still alive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought.....if women are counting their encounters with other women we aren't just limiting numbers to those we have had intercourse with are we? So any foreplay, wanking, licking, sucking, diddling counts? I'm surprised, in this case at the low numbers in a supposedly promiscuous subset of the population  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems a bit weird to keep count.  "
Phew! Not just me then.....it reminds me of when we were at school and we used to keep a list of all the boys we'd snogged together with a score out of 10! I'm happy to say I grew up and stopped doing that |
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Roughly around the 50 mark I think, probably more women than men but unless I sat down and actually listed them all, it's just a rough guess...I'm hoping to double that number that tonight and tomorrow at Phukt though hahahaha!!! Will post a higher number on Sunday, a much higher number! Haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems a bit weird to keep count.
Phew! Not just me then.....it reminds me of when we were at school and we used to keep a list of all the boys we'd snogged together with a score out of 10! I'm happy to say I grew up and stopped doing that "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200"
Say 12 sexually active years thats 18 women per year,so every month without fail you have banged near on two different women,please dont tell us you had stable relationships in that time too
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I honestly couldn't tell you how many women iv had in the last year, iv got no idea in my life, more than one less than 200Say 12 sexually active years thats 18 women per year,so every month without fail you have banged near on two different women,please dont tell us you had stable relationships in that time too"
whoops that is if its nearer the 200 |
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Until 3 years ago only my husband. But since joining Fab I would guestimate over 100, mostly men. Only 4 this year though, took a bit of a swinging break but back now and hoping to get back in the swing of things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Until 3 years ago only my husband. But since joining Fab I would guestimate over 100, mostly men. Only 4 this year though, took a bit of a swinging break but back now and hoping to get back in the swing of things wow  over 100 in 3 years!!! Are you not fussy or is that a daft question..lol
Any need to be so judgemental and rude?
It's the second judgmental post they've made on this thread.
I have never understood why anyone on a swinging site would judge people for the amount of meets they've had  "
Yes I noticed that too |
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since I became sexually active (age 16 years and 3 days)....many many...never bothered to count. My teenage motto for life was "if it feels good - do it!!!"...now I just think...so many people....so little time |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Until 3 years ago only my husband. But since joining Fab I would guestimate over 100, mostly men. Only 4 this year though, took a bit of a swinging break but back now and hoping to get back in the swing of things wow over 100 in 3 years!!! Are you not fussy or is that a daft question..lol
Fuck me! You think 100 in 3 years a lot in this lifestyle? No fucking hope for me. Perhaps I'm not fussy either? Wow calm down people !! Just surprised at such large numbers in such a short time ,we love playing with others but limit it to 3 maybe 4 times a year as its hard to find others where yer all compatible ! judgemental my arse as jim would say
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So what was the 'not fussy' remark for then? Was that meant to be complimentary? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Until 3 years ago only my husband. But since joining Fab I would guestimate over 100, mostly men. Only 4 this year though, took a bit of a swinging break but back now and hoping to get back in the swing of things wow over 100 in 3 years!!! Are you not fussy or is that a daft question..lol
Fuck me! You think 100 in 3 years a lot in this lifestyle? No fucking hope for me. Perhaps I'm not fussy either? Wow calm down people !! Just surprised at such large numbers in such a short time ,we love playing with others but limit it to 3 maybe 4 times a year as its hard to find others where yer all compatible ! judgemental my arse as jim would say
So what was the 'not fussy' remark for then? Was that meant to be complimentary? "
Likewise the other comment earlier in the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Until 3 years ago only my husband. But since joining Fab I would guestimate over 100, mostly men. Only 4 this year though, took a bit of a swinging break but back now and hoping to get back in the swing of things wow over 100 in 3 years!!! Are you not fussy or is that a daft question..lol
Fuck me! You think 100 in 3 years a lot in this lifestyle? No fucking hope for me. Perhaps I'm not fussy either? Wow calm down people !! Just surprised at such large numbers in such a short time ,we love playing with others but limit it to 3 maybe 4 times a year as its hard to find others where yer all compatible ! judgemental my arse as jim would say
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For what it's worth. I didn't think you were being judgemental. |
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