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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I make a few very selective and tentative messages to some profiles.
I get a few no responses, a very polite no, and someone interested.
We chat a little, discuss likes etc and then I give my number.
We talk on the phone, it all seems great and they ask me to meet for an afternoon coffee.
Perfect idea in my humble opinion so I agree, we set the place etc and all seems good in my world.
A confirmation call from them an hour before sets my day right up and I get there in time to order 3 lattes before they arrive.
Which they don't...
And now their profile has disappeared.
Pretty sure I couldn't have done much more to prevent having my day ruined other than actually asking for their number but I reckoned for their peace of mind, they withheld it for other reasons than to lead me on.
Was there anything more you think I could have done? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes people are just arsewipes regardless of you doing what you can to prevent being let down
Im sure there will be posts telling you you should have cammed,asking you if they were verified and had a recent CRB check and then telling you it was all your fault anyway,try not to blame yourself though,just refer to the first line of this post  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah that's the one thing I thought would have secured it completely!
I do feel pretty lousy to be fair but I'm also a tad concerned about them. I hope they're ok and this whole thing hasn't been detrimental to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably got a kick out of it. Could have even been there watching and deciding you wasn't for them. Maybe chickened out. Either way no need just cowardly. |
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"Yeah that's the one thing I thought would have secured it completely!
I do feel pretty lousy to be fair but I'm also a tad concerned about them. I hope they're ok and this whole thing hasn't been detrimental to them.
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If anything awful had happened to them they wouldn't have logged on here to delete their profile. Whatever happened to them has nothing to do with anything you've done. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Sometimes people are just arsewipes regardless of you doing what you can to prevent being let down
Im sure there will be posts telling you you should have cammed,asking you if they were verified and had a recent CRB check and then telling you it was all your fault anyway,try not to blame yourself though,just refer to the first line of this post "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've hardly ruined your day, unless you were daft enough to make major changes to plans for them?
Plus, you've learned a lesson. Always get a contact number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I make a few very selective and tentative messages to some profiles.
I get a few no responses, a very polite no, and someone interested.
We chat a little, discuss likes etc and then I give my number.
We talk on the phone, it all seems great and they ask me to meet for an afternoon coffee.
Perfect idea in my humble opinion so I agree, we set the place etc and all seems good in my world.
A confirmation call from them an hour before sets my day right up and I get there in time to order 3 lattes before they arrive.
Which they don't...
And now their profile has disappeared.
Pretty sure I couldn't have done much more to prevent having my day ruined other than actually asking for their number but I reckoned for their peace of mind, they withheld it for other reasons than to lead me on.
Was there anything more you think I could have done?"
Out of interest OP, were they verified? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't think of anything else you could of done. Some sad people out there. People have suggested you get their contact number but not everyone will give one (I wouldn't) and only contact people i don't know via the site. Dust ya self down and better luck next time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers everyone.
They were verified but only on cam if I recall.
I didn't ask for their number out of respect. I figured they'd get loads of guys calling them repeatedly if they gave it out. I'm sure I'd be reluctant to ad a cpl.
It's done now, New day and all that! |
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