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Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell! 
Just sayin!  |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
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over a year ago
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
Too many men have flicked through their wives copies of "50 shades if grey"
And because they have some tie wraps in the garage somewhere it makes them and experianced dom |
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
Too many men have flicked through their wives copies of "50 shades if grey"
And because they have some tie wraps in the garage somewhere it makes them and experianced dom |
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"never enters my mind to say anything sexually via messages..I'm neither dom nor sub"
I am happy for people to define themselves how they want...its their own sexuality after all. But its the opening lines that make me laugh. As if I should suddenly sit up straight and pay attention! I can't take it seriously because it just makes me laugh!
Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!! |
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin!
Too many men have flicked through their wives copies of "50 shades if grey"
And because they have some tie wraps in the garage somewhere it makes them and experianced dom"
Lol!!!! Tie wraps! I am sure they sell them in poundland!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never enters my mind to say anything sexually via messages..I'm neither dom nor sub
I am happy for people to define themselves how they want...its their own sexuality after all. But its the opening lines that make me laugh. As if I should suddenly sit up straight and pay attention! I can't take it seriously because it just makes me laugh!
Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!! "
get on your knees..now..
er...please..pwetty please!
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"never enters my mind to say anything sexually via messages..I'm neither dom nor sub
I am happy for people to define themselves how they want...its their own sexuality after all. But its the opening lines that make me laugh. As if I should suddenly sit up straight and pay attention! I can't take it seriously because it just makes me laugh!
Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
get on your knees..now..
er...please..pwetty please!
see am dominant"
Oh yes sir! Absolutely sir! Do you want sugar with that sir??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
I would say its not you that they are trying to convince its themselves that they can play that role not realiseing its a state of mind and how someone is rather than a role. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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because they have some tie wraps in the garage somewhere it makes them and experianced dom "
" Lol!!!! Tie wraps! I am sure they sell them in poundland! "
Fifty sheds of grey |
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" Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
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Very true..
The problem is most online Doms are just role players,and it can be hard until you have experience of naturally Dominant guys to spot the difference..
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin!
I would say its not you that they are trying to convince its themselves that they can play that role not realiseing its a state of mind and how someone is rather than a role. "
Oh quite agree! But makes me laugh anyway....especially when they get so cross when you dont fall into line! Hilarious! Such a transparent act! Why cant people just be themselves? ??? You are what you are! |
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" Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
Very true..
The problem is most online Doms are just role players,and it can be hard until you have experience of naturally Dominant guys to spot the difference..
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....and I think thats it exactly. Those of us who have experienced naturally Dominant guys....can spot the 'actors' straightaway.... |
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over a year ago
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" Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
Very true..
The problem is most online Doms are just role players,and it can be hard until you have experience of naturally Dominant guys to spot the difference..
....and I think thats it exactly. Those of us who have experienced naturally Dominant guys....can spot the 'actors' straightaway...."
Hi,
i'm Vin deisel |
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" Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
Very true..
The problem is most online Doms are just role players,and it can be hard until you have experience of naturally Dominant guys to spot the difference..
....and I think thats it exactly. Those of us who have experienced naturally Dominant guys....can spot the 'actors' straightaway....
Hi,
i'm Vin deisel"
If you WERE Vin Diesel. ....i would be in my car and at your place prompto!!! God he makes me wet myself!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin!
I would say its not you that they are trying to convince its themselves that they can play that role not realiseing its a state of mind and how someone is rather than a role.
Oh quite agree! But makes me laugh anyway....especially when they get so cross when you dont fall into line! Hilarious! Such a transparent act! Why cant people just be themselves? ??? You are what you are! "
Its a website I guess people think they can re-invent themselves, tits get bigger cocks longer people taller other thinner the binman becomes an accountant and the wishy washy guy a master dom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
Very true..
The problem is most online Doms are just role players,and it can be hard until you have experience of naturally Dominant guys to spot the difference..
....and I think thats it exactly. Those of us who have experienced naturally Dominant guys....can spot the 'actors' straightaway....
Hi,
i'm Vin deisel
If you WERE Vin Diesel. ....i would be in my car and at your place prompto!!! God he makes me wet myself!! "
come round, he's here sucking my cock and acting like a bitch tonite  |
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin!
I would say its not you that they are trying to convince its themselves that they can play that role not realiseing its a state of mind and how someone is rather than a role.
Oh quite agree! But makes me laugh anyway....especially when they get so cross when you dont fall into line! Hilarious! Such a transparent act! Why cant people just be themselves? ??? You are what you are!
Its a website I guess people think they can re-invent themselves, tits get bigger cocks longer people taller other thinner the binman becomes an accountant and the wishy washy guy a master dom. "
Lol!!!!!! You are funny! And so right!!! |
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" Genuine Dominant guys dont need to act anything. They just are!!!!
Very true..
The problem is most online Doms are just role players,and it can be hard until you have experience of naturally Dominant guys to spot the difference..
....and I think thats it exactly. Those of us who have experienced naturally Dominant guys....can spot the 'actors' straightaway....
Hi,
i'm Vin deisel
If you WERE Vin Diesel. ....i would be in my car and at your place prompto!!! God he makes me wet myself!!
come round, he's here sucking my cock and acting like a bitch tonite "
Ha! You wish! He would make you eat your own cock then suck his! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
I would say 89% of the men on here will say anything for a shag its a real turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha |
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha"
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat.. |
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over a year ago
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat.."
I know the difference, I'm just saying it reminded me of something that made me smile. Anyway your not aloud to call me names it's against the rules lol |
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat..
I know the difference, I'm just saying it reminded me of something that made me smile. Anyway your not aloud to call me names it's against the rules lol"
So sorry,in that case anyone who thinks its funny to throw some into a wall is a twat..
And I highly doubt you have any idea what real Dominance is or the submissive mind..ever put a woman into subspace? Made her cum from a spanking?
Or is the rough sex all a submissive needs,why waste time getting into her head and making her want to submit to you when you can just throw her around and make her do it right..
I think you just made the OPs point.. |
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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat..
I know the difference, I'm just saying it reminded me of something that made me smile. Anyway your not aloud to call me names it's against the rules lol"
Shame you don't know the difference between 'aloud' and 'allowed' |
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat..
I know the difference, I'm just saying it reminded me of something that made me smile. Anyway your not aloud to call me names it's against the rules lol"
It made you SMILE when you threw a girl down and she hit her head against the wall???????
I think a few more people have just added you to their block list!
Nevermind D/s...you should be locked up if thats what makes you smile!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Such a shame you're out of my age range, Kitten. I love this website, but I know BDSM isn't for everyone so as much as my profile is about it and I am. It's not something I'd use to practice my fetish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could only be dominant with someone I know really well,
With the knowledge that she enjoys everything that we are doing and not just doing it because she is submissive |
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin!
Too many men have flicked through their wives copies of "50 shades if grey"
And because they have some tie wraps in the garage somewhere it makes them and experianced dom"
This made me laugh
Im a natural dom and I've never gone near 50 shades.
My mrs is my sub, recently been learning shibari
So much more to a D/s then people think. It's more then just master/sir and being a good girl
The more you know ay :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well at least they've read your profile lol....
saying that I get those kind of messages along with a variety of others ~ I guess it's another angle people use to engage with someone ~ sometimes with success, sometimes not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat..
I know the difference, I'm just saying it reminded me of something that made me smile. Anyway your not aloud to call me names it's against the rules lol
It made you SMILE when you threw a girl down and she hit her head against the wall???????
I think a few more people have just added you to their block list!
Nevermind D/s...you should be locked up if thats what makes you smile!!!! "
Hahaha yes and its making me smile again now thinking about it, clearly I didn't smile at the time as I was concerned and shocked, but she looked up at me when I said sorry it was a accident and said I like it..... This girl was slightly insane.
Oh no, Not the block list!!! Haha |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I didn't even realise I was dominant until a few women mentioned it to me. It Wasn't something I chose.
This has just reminded me of a girl that I threw on the sofa and she smacked her head on the wall behind it!! Haha
That's not being Dominant,thats being a twat..
I know the difference, I'm just saying it reminded me of something that made me smile. Anyway your not aloud to call me names it's against the rules lol
It made you SMILE when you threw a girl down and she hit her head against the wall???????
I think a few more people have just added you to their block list!
Nevermind D/s...you should be locked up if thats what makes you smile!!!!
Hahaha yes and its making me smile again now thinking about it, clearly I didn't smile at the time as I was concerned and shocked, but she looked up at me when I said sorry it was a accident and said I like it..... This girl was slightly insane.
Oh no, Not the block list!!! Haha"
Got to admit, this did smack of Feldhofer behaviour and not the subtly that develops (in my world, must I add) of "rough play".
It worries me slightly when peoples identity (who I am) gets mixed with a behaviour/competence.
Do I have Dominate tendencies - sexually yes. However I am aware of them cognitively, and focus them accordingly.
My nature is my nature and I wouldn't have as many friends (or family) if I wasn't aware of this part of me and it effect..........
.........Allegedly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That book has a lot to answer for, however it may have had an element of a positive effect if it has allowed people to explore certain elements that they otherwise wouldn't have acknowledged as being acceptable.
it has of course made a lot of people (a lot of men) think that Dom/Sub is about spanking and rough sex. This does play its part, however the relationship in my opinion is so much deeper than this, its a mental thing as well as physical. Control is not pain etc.
There are a number of different levels though i guess and its perhaps for the people involved to interpret it as they see fit.
Posters are correct though, the I'm dom submit to me message aren't likely to cut it. |
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The term "dominant " can be very subjective, and mean different things to different people. I have played with many men who I would class as dominant , but how that comes across can be very different depending on the person. Variety is the spice of life and just because a person has a different view on the subject , they shouldn't be slagged off for just being different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
i had to.remove anything from my profile about me been a dominant man because of the number of questions i was getting and woman asking what id do to them. Everyone thinks 50shades of grey when they read dom but im not like that at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
I used to say on my profile that I'm submissive but removed it because of all of the dimdoms who approached me with lines similar to those you quoted. I now only tell people I'm interested in, it makes life a lot easier.
I also agree with those who have stated that a Dom is someone it comes naturally to rather than acting a certain way. So a big from me for this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! "
loving this thread... Im by no means a sub but i do like it rough... Not abused if someone was to bang my head on a wall in jest or not.. I would bite their cock off.. The problem i have experienced is there are too many alpha males that believe they are doms and these alpha males think its ok to rough women up |
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! i had to.remove anything from my profile about me been a dominant man because of the number of questions i was getting and woman asking what id do to them. Everyone thinks 50shades of grey when they read dom but im not like that at all"
So you removed Dominant from your profile because you was getting to many messages from women..
Ok..but two question spring to mind..
1.Why would a Dom remove what he is from his profile,makes the whole thing abit pointless..Because as a Dom you would only be interested in submissive women right?
2.How does a single guy on a sex site get too many messages from women?
Have you thought about selling your old profile..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The term "dominant " can be very subjective, and mean different things to different people. I have played with many men who I would class as dominant , but how that comes across can be very different depending on the person. Variety is the spice of life and just because a person has a different view on the subject , they shouldn't be slagged off for just being different. "
There's a fair few views of what D/s should and shouldn't be. It's much like swinging, it can be whatever you want it to be. Judging people's preferences is never a good thing - unless you don't mind being judged yourself. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Yeah cos talking to you like shit makes you dominant doesn't it
If I get ordered to do ANYTHING my first response is to do the opposite
In all walks of life
Bratty.....always"
Don't be submissive!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I sexually submissive. ....and say so on my profile...
But its making me smile lately...the number of messages i recieve with the opening line...
'I am an experienced Dom'
Or....
'Do as i say slave...sub...subby...... (variants of the above!)'
Trust me.....I will KNOW if a man is an experienced Dom and I will KNOW if he is right for me! Without the hard sell!
Just sayin! i had to.remove anything from my profile about me been a dominant man because of the number of questions i was getting and woman asking what id do to them. Everyone thinks 50shades of grey when they read dom but im not like that at all
So you removed Dominant from your profile because you was getting to many messages from women..
Ok..but two question spring to mind..
1.Why would a Dom remove what he is from his profile,makes the whole thing abit pointless..Because as a Dom you would only be interested in submissive women right?
2.How does a single guy on a sex site get too many messages from women?
Have you thought about selling your old profile..lol"
firstly i didnt say all from women i got for than 3/4 from bi or gay men. Secondly i was getting my time wasted with remedial questions from people who just had no idea but fancied the c.grey idea. Also some thought i was a sugar daddy. I had alot of detail as to what i sought on my profile but kept getting silly questions. |
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"I think you'd know after a few messages if the guy is genuinely "dominant" "
Nope..some guys are very good online and have been online Doms for awhile so know what say in a email..
The phone is where they slip up..as no time to google words and copy and paste..lol
The problems is with new subs who let these guys take control online because they think that been sub is just submitting to anyone calling themselves a Dom..
And if they don't submit,well they not really a sub then..Its a trap that quite a few inexperienced sub get in..As there's a lot more online Dom's than real ones..
In fact there's less real Dom's than real subs in the real world..(real as in looking for D/s and not just bedroom play and are what it says on the tin)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never enters my mind to say anything sexually via messages..I'm neither dom nor sub"
Apparently these days, according to the messages I get I must be one or the other??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never enters my mind to say anything sexually via messages..I'm neither dom nor sub
Apparently these days, according to the messages I get I must be one or the other??? "
Only small minded people thin you have to categorise everyone in reality you can be what you want including both and neither. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never enters my mind to say anything sexually via messages..I'm neither dom nor sub
Apparently these days, according to the messages I get I must be one or the other???
Exactly!
Only small minded people thin you have to categorise everyone in reality you can be what you want including both and neither. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't trust anyone who claimed to be a dom. They don't need to mention it if they truly are.
so true "
This. I am naturally domineering (assertive?) in my "real world" to the point of being intimidating. When I meet for sex, I convey a dominant demeanour which some men and women love, but deep inside, a submissive me lurks. 2 men I meet have recognised this and I have the best sex ever with them. And it has nothing to do with dressing up and role playing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How I adore the 'Bull'. The stance, the ability to bring out your inner slut but with respectful play. A true Dom knows how to treat his woman outside of the bedroom to bring out the best in him/her within it. Dominance is so much more than telling someone what to do. My bull treats me like a queen which is why I love submitting to him. If he treated me any other way our dynamics wouldn't not work. |
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