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Percentage of timewasters on Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know I am not alone in encountering timewasters on here,men pretending to be a couple,dreamers,etc but what percentage would you estimate are on here and have no intention of ever meeting anyone off here,I guess around 70%,to high or to low?

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By *000_6ftMan over a year ago

Norwich

Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't waste your time worrying about it

Not that high I wouldn't think, all depends on your definition of a time waster, everyone's seems to be different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am not worried,just curious.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

90%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say that 90% are dreamers lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 60% of meets we arranged have no showed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *itten-xxxWoman over a year ago

North West

I think you will probably find that women are not time wasters their inundated and usually by disrespectful people. I bet the time wasting women are men pretending to be women.

I've had plenty of men wasting my time unfortunately it's just the sort of people this website attracts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In our experience I'd say it would be 50/50 x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have had a few timewasters and couples have been the worst for it !!!!!"

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

The answer is 42

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In 2yrs ive had one who stood me up , so its hard to judge as thats how I see a timewaster, many people see timewasters differently, I was called a timewaster once for not meeting a guy I had not arranged to meet so I couldnt work that out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it takes persistence and dedication to actually get a meet but after that they are usually successful. So I out most timewasters early on.

Only 2 that I can think of that were deliberate timewasters off a previous site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory! "

Please enlighten us to what you think the site should be about ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know I am not alone in encountering timewasters on here,men pretending to be a couple,dreamers,etc but what percentage would you estimate are on here and have no intention of ever meeting anyone off here,I guess around 70%,to high or to low?"

I think there are very few timewasters as you put it I do think there are a number of people who are selective who they meet and like to get to know people before they meet.

I also think there are a lot of frustrated guys who think everyone should be mad to meet them no matter what and its a disappointment they don't see the big picture.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I made it clear on my profile that im not bothered if I get any meets. The forums and talking to new people on here keep me entertained. But I gather that there is a large amount of timewasters on here.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've never had a timewaster but I have had a few fantasists over the years!

They're quite easy to spot to be honest

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

Please enlighten us to what you think the site should be about ......"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone's _iew of a time waster is probably different. Some may say you're a time waster for wanting a social meet first, a time waster if you chat then realise they're not for you so decline, a time waster for not meeting there and then etc etc. I've seen many status updates naming people as time wasters but when you look at their profile they have many up to date veri's so I guess to some, a time waster is someone who won't meet them!!!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Not had many, i find most to be single guys who dont tead profiles wasting their own time by messaging me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there are very few timewasters as you put it I do think there are a number of people who are selective who they meet and like to get to know people before they meet.

I also think there are a lot of frustrated guys who think everyone should be mad to meet them no matter what and its a disappointment they don't see the big picture.

^^^This!^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not had many, i find most to be single guys who dont tead profiles wasting their own time by messaging me

Ditto!

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

When you actually encounter as in meet someone they tend not to be timewasters. It's just a matter of ing out those who have no intention of meeting,men pretending to be couples or single women etc. Experience usually teaches you how to spot them fairly early on.

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Not had many, i find most to be single guys who dont tead profiles wasting their own time by messaging me

Ditto!

Yep

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

So far, by my definition of a timewaster - where you plan a meet and don't show, I'm at 0%

I'm pretty harsh though, someone starts messing about regarding meeting without an explanation or fair notice then thats it, no more chances.

And I do meet socially first, and chat for a while on here before meeting.

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By *unkydesignCouple over a year ago

Manchester

No time wasters regarding arranged meets but we've had a few who start chatting, they suggest a meet then when we agree and ask when they are free they stop responding. We're guessing that they just want their ego stroking??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory! "

had to be a bloke that said that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its quite high.

Although fantasist n cam only users are different to tm I think.

That's not limited to a specific group though.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

had to be a bloke that said that"

Still waiting for an opinion as to why!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are exactly 38.5279% of members that are time wasters. I've just counted em all before breakfast.

Next question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not had many, i find most to be single guys who dont tead profiles wasting their own time by messaging me

Ditto!

Very true

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By *icefellatwoMan over a year ago

hastings

"There are exactly 38.5279% of members that are time wasters. I've just counted em all before breakfast.

Next question

whats for breakfast

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are exactly 38.5279% of members that are time wasters. I've just counted em all before breakfast.

Next question

whats for breakfast

Bacon sarnie and a brew.

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By *icefellatwoMan over a year ago

hastings

"There are exactly 38.5279% of members that are time wasters. I've just counted em all before breakfast.

Next question

whats for breakfast

Bacon sarnie and a brew."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I waste A LOT of time on here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No time wasters regarding arranged meets but we've had a few who start chatting, they suggest a meet then when we agree and ask when they are free they stop responding. We're guessing that they just want their ego stroking??"

Had loads of that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

never had one stand me up ....I like regular chat before meeting if they dont do this i dont meet them.....its worked so far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory! "

What do you mean?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

it's all the very bad men's fault... they are very, very bad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

Please enlighten us to what you think the site should be about ......"

Still no response. Come on surely you have the answer! Of course women not knowing what the site is about is ruining it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you will probably find that women are not time wasters their inundated and usually by disrespectful people. I bet the time wasting women are men pretending to be women.

I've had plenty of men wasting my time unfortunately it's just the sort of people this website attracts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couple that I have flagged up,the male part of a couple will put a posting in the site

Asking for guys to come and have fun with wife

Or partner,but he has not got them to agree to play ie a fake posting the site should stat to clamp down on fake posting uñ"

and it's against site rules to name and shame.

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By *oulou45Woman over a year ago

Bucks

I think there are very few timewasters as you put it I do think there are a number of people who are selective who they meet and like to get to know people before they meet.

I also think there are a lot of frustrated guys who think everyone should be mad to meet them no matter what and its a disappointment they don't see the big picture.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

sadly there are males, females and couples on here that appear to "timewaste" we personally dont let it get us down we just think "sad folk, their loss" and move on perhaps if less people worried about it there would be less negativeness about the site which lets face it is one of few provided free for those of us that are genuine (and yes perhaps thats why their are timewasters but other pay sites seem as bad tbh)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm pretty harsh though, someone starts messing about regarding meeting without an explanation or fair notice then thats it, no more chances.

And I do meet socially first, and chat for a while on here before meeting."

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"it's all the very bad men's fault... they are very, very bad."

to some it seems that way but trust us we have had as many couples mess us about as single males (in fact maybe more) and they have been couples as we have spoken to both parties on the phone!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would say that 90% are dreamers lol."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The answer is 42

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"never had one stand me up ....I like regular chat before meeting if they dont do this i dont meet them.....its worked so far"

I do this but had two no shows.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"never had one stand me up ....I like regular chat before meeting if they dont do this i dont meet them.....its worked so far

I do this but had two no shows. "

I think I've just been lucky in that way x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone is good act maths perhaps they could work out the percentage.

We went out to brum for the night a few weeks ago. We gave 6 guys off fab our telephone number who said they wanted to meet us. We had a hotel room booked so we could be private. Our friend also invited 3 guys to meet at there hotel. Only one turned up, all the others had reasons why they let us down. 1 chap out of 9. ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lot of couples seem to talk a good game but bottle it when it comes to meeting, very easy to flirt online but to do it face to face takes confidence, wouldn't class it as timewasting just folk reaching their limits quickly.

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple over a year ago

Bristol

The answer is loads ,but can be easy to spot. Tons who are not , we can't keep up with the offers from people

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By *abcouple11Couple over a year ago

Truro

Seems to us a lot like "sieving" - significant proportion (over half who contact us?) are "dreamers" or some other category who talk but that has no "action" counterpart in reality.

It seems hard work at times setting up meets or - for really hard work - setting up a group session.

That said, we've had "the real world" make demands on us and cause us to withdraw from arrangements we've been forming.

So I guess - be broad-shouldered, don't judge, "keep irons in the fire", don't imagine conspiracies if folk drop out, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"never had one stand me up ....I like regular chat before meeting if they dont do this i dont meet them.....its worked so far"

I do this too and been accused of timewasting for it. Some people see getting to know potential meets as a waste of their time, as if they think you'll jump into bed with them with no interaction beforehand.

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By *anetandNickCouple over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Couples (if you've had a girl-girl phone chat first) 0%

TVs 0%

Single guys 90-95% (but, for the few who are OK, it's worth it)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone's _iew of a time waster is probably different. Some may say you're a time waster for wanting a social meet first, a time waster if you chat then realise they're not for you so decline, a time waster for not meeting there and then etc etc. I've seen many status updates naming people as time wasters but when you look at their profile they have many up to date veri's so I guess to some, a time waster is someone who won't meet them!!!"

I have never had someone not turn up for an arranged meet and only two couples not turn up for a party. So my experience has been a good one.

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

alot of women on here like to talk about meets but have no intention of meeting same in clubs they like to get all dressed up but wont actually fuck just like to to gossip but hey each to there own im gonna say 70% and above are dreamers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"alot of women on here like to talk about meets but have no intention of meeting same in clubs they like to get all dressed up but wont actually fuck just like to to gossip but hey each to there own im gonna say 70% and above are dreamers

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

had to be a bloke that said that

Still waiting for an opinion as to why!

you know this dude is NEVER coming back to this thread.... because he is still trying to extract his foot from his mouth.......

you know that thing about giving people rope and eventually they will find away to hang themselves with it.... if he answers it the noose with tighten....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"About 60% of meets we arranged have no showed. "

Really?

I'm a single bloke and my percentage is way lower...probably in single figures as far as no shows...but I think I'm good at spotting fake profiles (cpl or fem) and most of the true time wasters are guys....married and either dreaming or gutless.

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By *lowstick66Man over a year ago

90% timewasters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couples (if you've had a girl-girl phone chat first) 0%

TVs 0%

Single guys 90-95% (but, for the few who are OK, it's worth it)"

It was indeed worth it...a nice walk, fun in the tub, and more later!

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had a no show as a single male or as a couple.

Fairly strict filters mean that timewasters and fantasists are a virtually non-existent irrelevance.

People that say the figure is high should look at what they are doing wrong and what they can change.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"About 60% of meets we arranged have no showed. "
avoid married men , they have a wife to trick and shit on and sometimes cant get away

simples

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if some people are encountering a 70% timewaster rate it always makes me wonder how they go about their selection process.....

I know i have the rep of being an "unsympathetic hard nosed git".... but since I can count the amount of people I can count as timewasters on the fingers of 1 hand over 7ish years.... I often wonder

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

had to be a bloke that said that

Still waiting for an opinion as to why!

you know this dude is NEVER coming back to this thread.... because he is still trying to extract his foot from his mouth.......

you know that thing about giving people rope and eventually they will find away to hang themselves with it.... if he answers it the noose with tighten....

Yes indeed. We are still waiting to be enlightened as to what the "self-explanatory" purpose of the site is...Clearly the many women referred to have a different _iew and probably steering well clear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

had to be a bloke that said that

Still waiting for an opinion as to why!

you know this dude is NEVER coming back to this thread.... because he is still trying to extract his foot from his mouth.......

you know that thing about giving people rope and eventually they will find away to hang themselves with it.... if he answers it the noose with tighten....

Yes indeed. We are still waiting to be enlightened as to what the "self-explanatory" purpose of the site is...Clearly the many women referred to have a different _iew and probably steering well clear"

My money is on 'we are all here for the same reason' Closely followed by 'It's a sex site - you have to fuck everyone who messages you' What do I win???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if some people are encountering a 70% timewaster rate it always makes me wonder how they go about their selection process.....

I know i have the rep of being an "unsympathetic hard nosed git".... but since I can count the amount of people I can count as timewasters on the fingers of 1 hand over 7ish years.... I often wonder"
To be honest Fabio weve been messaged by many but selection process has meant we have been let down once in 4 years....we really do not come across a lot of timewasters on here and think our profile deters them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

had to be a bloke that said that

Still waiting for an opinion as to why!

you know this dude is NEVER coming back to this thread.... because he is still trying to extract his foot from his mouth.......

you know that thing about giving people rope and eventually they will find away to hang themselves with it.... if he answers it the noose with tighten....

Yes indeed. We are still waiting to be enlightened as to what the "self-explanatory" purpose of the site is...Clearly the many women referred to have a different _iew and probably steering well clear

My money is on 'we are all here for the same reason' Closely followed by 'It's a sex site - you have to fuck everyone who messages you' What do I win???

A night out with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have a problem with timewasters so my percentage is going to be 0%

Other people have differrent experiences and also different interpretations of what a timewaster is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So far, not including the unanswered messages we send... with people sending winks or message to us saying they want to talk, we send message saying we are interested in talking & then hear nothing back from them.

In our experience - 100%. Still not met anyone after being here for a year.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In our experience - 100%. Still not met anyone after being here for a year. Getting disillusioned with it all.

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By *issyyourbadWoman over a year ago

Dorset

About 95%

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple over a year ago

Bradford

75-80%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

Please enlighten us to what you think the site should be about ......"

can't wait for this reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!"

I'd say they had done the complete opposite of waste your time. They've made it clear they're not meeting so you can move on to another profile and not waste your time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!

I'd say they had done the complete opposite of waste your time. They've made it clear they're not meeting so you can move on to another profile and not waste your time. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!"

The only people who have wasted time in that situation is you. They have been truthful about whether they are meeting if you chose to not move onto the next profile is that their fault? Or are you going to demand they meet?People are allowed to take a break

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!"

How are they wasting anyone's time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have met 4 off here and they will vouch i aint a time waster

but ive encountered folk who talk a good one lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have met a few from here not always for sex

There have been a few on here recently with may be fake eg email addy on there profile and say the same thing as each other when messaged

Either selling sex or are male

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely encounter proper time wasters however I have had my share of 'just trying my luck' guys who message and even meet but dont carry through. I guess people have their own needs and reasons. I would hate to be labelled a time waster because I did not fancy someone I had met.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

70% far too low try 90-95%. Having said that 100% with the meets I have had.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Luckily, have not encountered any time wasters. I think maybe because we go to a club. Did meet a nice guy off here a couple of times. But he kept just arranging pub meets. I think he was just nervous. Not a time waster though.

I am still not entirely sure what a time waster is. I would say it's somebody who doesn't let you know that they can't meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very telling that in this thread it's mainly men saying it's a high percentage.

Guessing its because of their high expectations and low brain power when aroused.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

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mr

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 2 time waster .... Couple profile but only a single person behind the messages and I know this now after being on here so long!!!! They start spurting out similaritys to other profiles new to fab ie ... Only been on here mins and the messages oh!!! We can't keep up so please don't get angry if we can't reply .... Bullshit profile only 1 or 2 pics run of the mill ...

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

and we check out the profile and it looks good joined in the last few weeks not really got to many pics up but that can be changed then we start to read the smaller stuff the dos and donts when looking over there profile and messaging them ??? Then it hits you there that couple who are always on the lookout for the best meet possible !!!!!

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

I don't think any of your examples are timewasters. They are easy to spot and easy to avoid. No time wasted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

I don't think any of your examples are timewasters. They are easy to spot and easy to avoid. No time wasted."

Mr again .... They are time wasters and arnt that easy to spot if your not accustomed to the ways of your typical fabber !!!! We recently made the mistake of pointing out to a couple that showed all the classic signs of bieng a singleton that indeed he was just that !!!! However a phone call and chat with him and mrs and then an arranged meet the fallowing week we felt

just a tad lol

Not all easy to see and time wasters x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

I don't think any of your examples are timewasters. They are easy to spot and easy to avoid. No time wasted.

just a tad lol

Not all easy to see and time wasters x"

But you followed your instinct and checked him out because it seemed odd. No time wasted but it could have been. Trust your instinct.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

I don't think any of your examples are timewasters. They are easy to spot and easy to avoid. No time wasted.

just a tad lol

Not all easy to see and time wasters x

But you followed your instinct and checked him out because it seemed odd. No time wasted but it could have been. Trust your instinct.

x"
mr again

Just going for the biggest ever posted repost on the history of fab

And I'm correct on the time wasting part of rather long thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

I don't think any of your examples are timewasters. They are easy to spot and easy to avoid. No time wasted."

And using filters to block unverified and newbies eliminates most of those scenarios

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

we have started to see a trend in the swinging couples we have chatted with or not as some don't even bother a simple thanx but no ta

No 1 time waster .... Couple profile but only he is there and wants to know the ins and outs of what we are looking / wanting from a poss meet with said couple

No 3 ..time waster ... My personal fav

cos we all have done it at some point !!!

The couple are looking for a meet another couple

shock horrer I no ...

But we can message them ( let's face not the worst looking or unfun couple going around )

But they are on a hiding to nothing on here lol

Then the status goes up got a meet sorted for tonight

but hey the couple they have erranged to meet are still on the lookout for something better !!....

And in the end later on at night you see the status of some of the peeps .... Feckin time wasters this site is shit ..!!! Does anyone actually meet on here ???

What a load of bullshitters on here !!!

Even has one guy put on his status : fuckin Scottish time wasters up here you would not get this shit down south !!

As I put only on our status last night a saying or quote from a very good film :::: riddick Vin Diesil ... You should have taken the first offer tombs !!!!!

Bottom line with time wasters is what goes around comes around and bites you on the ass

I don't think any of your examples are timewasters. They are easy to spot and easy to avoid. No time wasted.

And using filters to block unverified and newbies eliminates most of those scenarios

"
fair point !!! But only for us and not to all those that are getting there time wasted by the time wasters on here

Still going for it

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Just going for the biggest ever posted repost on the history of fab

And I'm correct on the time wasting part of rather long thread

but again to me that is not timewasting... because you not doing something you wouldn't be doing anyway, which in your examples is being on here!!

but then, and this is "_abio the hard hearted git" coming out... if you dont learn you are doomed to make the same mistakes again and again and again!

We say bluntly to a lot of people "pick better".. and part of that is learning, and adapting.... so if you get to a stage where you sense where things are going and its not good... move on!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Saying that time wasters should be banned is like saying burglars should be banned. Great idea... never going to happen.

People need to learn to protect themselves- don't leave your gold watch on the front step... Use common sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been here for about six weeks and are generally pleased with the site. Lots of interesting folk around who are pretty upfront about any potential constraints around meets etc when chatting/setting up. This is especially true of women, whether single or as part of a couple. Our _iew is that the majority of members aren't here to waste anyone's time deliberately. If a meet doesn't come off for some reason and you've invested time to set up, sure it's disappointing, but not indicative of wilful time-wasting.

However, please ignore all of the above when it comes to "single men" who say they are "happy" to meet socially before soft swinging (our preferred initial contact). To those users, that DO flagrantly waste our time with no intention of ever making a meet, we politely make this request:

Gents, instead of wasting our time investing in lengthy threads about likes and dislikes, are you free NOW, can you send sum (sic) xxx pics etc etc, please use that time to learn how to string a proper sentence together so that you can tell us succintly, and clearly, that you're only chatting to us because you want to come and fuck my wife whilst yours is out on the school run.

Thank you.

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By *jandjbCouple over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"We've been here for about six weeks and are generally pleased with the site. Lots of interesting folk around who are pretty upfront about any potential constraints around meets etc when chatting/setting up. This is especially true of women, whether single or as part of a couple. Our _iew is that the majority of members aren't here to waste anyone's time deliberately. If a meet doesn't come off for some reason and you've invested time to set up, sure it's disappointing, but not indicative of wilful time-wasting.

Thank you. "

Couldn't agree more!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

@coffeencream: hilarious! it's the epitome of the single man who can't get meets and then starts a moony thread about it

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Moony? Moany!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to think that I have quite a good system for ensuring my time is not wasted. Wouldn't meet unverifieds/newbies etc etc but even I have had a few no shows lately. I think the reality for alot of men is that they bottle it. Would I really want to meet someone that spineless? Really they are doing me a favour. Never meet outside a club so their loss - I still get to play.

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By *punkyhelmet5Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

Not really. You don't have to sign a contract when you join to meet x amount of people whilst on here and there are many people who are here just to chat or use the forums etc. I have spoken to a disabled guy who is unable to meet but enjoys the site very much. Difference is, time wasters won't make that clear on their profile although I find with experience, gut instinct and use of message filters, most are easy to avoid.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Seems to us a lot like "sieving" - significant proportion (over half who contact us?) are "dreamers" or some other category who talk but that has no "action" counterpart in reality.

It seems hard work at times setting up meets or - for really hard work - setting up a group session.

That said, we've had "the real world" make demands on us and cause us to withdraw from arrangements we've been forming.

So I guess - be broad-shouldered, don't judge, "keep irons in the fire", don't imagine conspiracies if folk drop out, etc.

There is another thread running at the moment about organising gangbangs which touches on the theme of guys bailing on them at the last moment.

The ones I have attended, which are more like group sex sessions rather than GBs, ie no more than 3 men, have been arranged with guys that they have met before, either in group or 121, and have consistently turned up.

He has been able simply to switch the mix of known guys but, because of their track record and reliability, all of them turn up. For slightly larger gatherings they can risk including the odd "newbie" but always insists on a social meet first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

Definitely not. Nobody dictates whether I will meet or not. That would be open to abuse by people who have been turned down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

How would you implement this? How long do people have? If people haven't met after 3 months should they be struck off? 6 months? 12? What if they have some veris but haven't met for several months or a year or two? Should they be struck off? What if they just want to come on here and chat to people they know, read stories and contribute to the Forums? Sadly, there will always be people who are all talk and no action on sites such as these but no easy way of ing them out. Can't see an easy way of addressing that, personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

Can you not see how ridiculous that sounds when you read it back?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

had to be a bloke that said that

Still waiting for an opinion as to why!

you know this dude is NEVER coming back to this thread.... because he is still trying to extract his foot from his mouth.......

you know that thing about giving people rope and eventually they will find away to hang themselves with it.... if he answers it the noose with tighten....

..and he's probably thinking he shouldn't have to, after all, apparently, according to him, it's self explanatory

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

There might be any number of reasons why people haven't met. They might choose not to meet, not have found anyone suitable, or have just not been capable of attracting anyone as is the case in all the It's-not-fair-I-can't-get-a-meet threads.

Should their profiles all be deleted?

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By *rsIdiotWoman over a year ago

Bedworth

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

So, I'm not prepared to meet because at the moment as I only want to share my sex life with my fiancé right now. Does that mean that I should be deleted too? That I should be prevented from enjoying the banter in the chatrooms with my friends that I have known for a couple of years?

What a crock of shite!

People use this site for many reasons, some of them social rather than sexual. If you encounter people who do not wish to meet then move on to the next profile. Use fab as you see fit and leave the rest of us to do the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I concur. The amount of people making arrangements to meet then blanking you is ridiculous. Spoiling it for the genuine people here

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By *punkyhelmet5Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Not as ridiculous as you might think would get rid of alot of fakes on here and people who "just wanna chat" can use facebook instead.Alot of people on here seem to enjoy the chase but bottle it when it comes down to it which is why club meets are so much more a reliable way of meeting people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so the people that meet but dont get verified - the voyeurs - people who have friends here but choose just use chatroom/forums - all the willing guys that are not getting any response - all these and more probably should be deleted because they dont or appear to not meet - OH MY DAYS - such a crazy idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not as ridiculous as you might think would get rid of alot of fakes on here and people who "just wanna chat" can use facebook instead.Alot of people on here seem to enjoy the chase but bottle it when it comes down to it which is why club meets are so much more a reliable way of meeting people"

So meet in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you are banning people from chatting on here and suggesting they use facebook instead. Some women dont fall for the 'fancy a fuk' messages and have to see if they are compatible with potential playmates. Maybe what you need is an escort site where a fuck is guaranteed with no small talk. Your idea is ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So meet in clubs"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you will probably find that women are not time wasters their inundated and usually by disrespectful people. I bet the time wasting women are men pretending to be women.

I've had plenty of men wasting my time unfortunately it's just the sort of people this website attracts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

70%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

50% of couples I have encountered have been dreamers, male half hoping to twist the females arm, in many cases she is not even aware of her partners actions.

But there are many who feel its within their right to treat single guys just as they wish just because the site is awash with single guys.

Many single people come and go because they are also seeking serious relationships on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many people meet up and have a great time from the site too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

38%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

ain't you the lucky one wots the secret lol

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

It seems pretty pointless in guessing the percentage and much more useful to be able to recognise the signals that you're dealing with a timewaster, and those are mostly based on common sense

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

I think its about 110%

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By *exycleanerWoman over a year ago

pontefract

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"
was utter tosh ive got veri,s on my profile from months ago i said i would meet cpls but 1 cpl i was going to meet the guy kept texting me to meet me on his own ,another cpl recently wanted to meet ,chatted arranged a date but few days before suddenly stopped all contact .i live alone so i come on here to join the forums when im not doing anything else so to say i should chat on f/book is bollox

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me a timewaster is someone who arranges a meet but has no intention of meeting. I've had plenty of these but fortunately not had any no shows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not had many, i find most to be single guys who dont tead profiles wasting their own time by messaging me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory! "

Please do elaborate on this.....what do you think the site is about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

So I'd be deleted then by this rule....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its different for everybdy because everybody has a differnt idea of what constitutes a "time waster"

Its very subjective. One (Wo)mans timewaster is another (Wo)mans perfect gentleman/Lady.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

Prepared to meet? Or prepared to meet anyone?

There's a huge difference !

There's many we wouldn't dream of meeting in a thousand years - others we'd be happy to if time permitted.

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Never had any myself.

I've had long chats with people that have never led to a meet and I've had meets cancelled, but I don't regard that as timewasting - just the nature of the game.

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By *andyblokeMan over a year ago

birmingham

Had loads of that

me too

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

One no show in the 3 years I've been on here, a small handful of fantasists who, after a bit of conversation, never intended actually meeting, a couple of cancelled meets for "dodgy" reasons, several cancelled meets for valid reasons and a couple of hundred bloody brilliant social and sexual meets...only the first of my list is counted as a proper time waster in my eyes - even the fantasists aren't really wasting my time as I'd probably be online perving anyhow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never had any myself.

I've had long chats with people that have never led to a meet and I've had meets cancelled, but I don't regard that as timewasting - just the nature of the game. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One no show the rest all turned up done the deed and gone, some come back, some i wont have back, some never to be seen again, some deleted profiles.

I dont know why but i seem to detect if there wasting my time, usually by reading profiles, how long they have been a member, or i look at pictures and think " no fuckin way" and move on

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"In my experience I've encountered 0 % time wasters

Same for me and I've been here seven years!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

You haven't met for 8 months. Prime candidate.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!

I'd say they had done the complete opposite of waste your time. They've made it clear they're not meeting so you can move on to another profile and not waste your time. "

Exactly!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

Ridiculous! Not everyone on here wants to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???

Ridiculous! Not everyone on here wants to meet."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!"

How is that wasting your time?

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would class a timewaster as leading someone on to meet but stops messaging and don't show up lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Weed em out before expending too much time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

and just of curiosity how do you police this??

Do you ask them?? Cause iam pretty sure most would say yes??

Or perhaps if you hadnt had a meet for a while...shall we say 6 months?? Well that would mean your deleted!!

Yes theres dreamers.....fantasists....its a free website so comes with the territory.....we have never had a problem....0% time wasters...but on the other hand we could be deemed time wasters as we have chatted t couples and singles but never followed it through because unfortunately we have what is called a 'life' outside of this world that takes priority....work...family etc. Oh how i wished we could party all the time...globe trot the world partying but unless we win the euro millions for us this life will always take 3rd 4th or possibly place in our priorities!

I suggest do a little more ground work and stop worrying about the time wasters.

Our 2 pence

The Supers xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woah

Some people meet but dont want veris

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only ones we see as timewasters are the ones with profiles that say not meeting! Is there a bigger waste of time or what!

How is that wasting your time?"

Of course they are timewasters - they have clearly stated that they are not meeting. Lots of ambiguity there. You spend your time crafting a 'u wanna fuk' message for them to turn you down. Jeez the cheeky of the way some people run their profiles!

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"One no show the rest all turned up done the deed and gone, some come back, some i wont have back, some never to be seen again, some deleted profiles.

I dont know why but i seem to detect if there wasting my time, usually by reading profiles, how long they have been a member, or i look at pictures and think " no fuckin way" and move on

Exactly!

It's called using your common sense,

helped along by the veris, the profile, the messages, and the photos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

‘Timewaster’ and ‘fake’ are the flags held in either hand by the rejected and frustrated as we see it.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???"

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol.

I have got so much better at identifying the so called 'timewasters'.

Having said that I still get it wrong,i have met guys who have only been on here 5 mins.(no veri's etc) and have been let down with others who have veri's photo's etc, and may I say often old enough to know better..

As for what percentage fuck about,i haven't a clue..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"‘Timewaster’ and ‘fake’ are the flags held in either hand by the rejected and frustrated as we see it."

Begining to wonder if this is exactly what the issue is here. The closest we have come to a time waster was a couple who clearly was not going to show up, we went out on a shopping trip, then went for a meal and then popped to the pub and waited for them, they didn't show but we had a really nice day and can't say our time was wasted.

I've often wondered if people who get sucked in by fakes and time waster are being too over eager, gullible or too desperate to think things through properly. Having been on the scene myself for over 10 years it's never been a thing that I have had much if any experience with.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

this..

its too easy to blame someone else when in reality part of the issue will be for the things correctly said here..

whilst there will always be those looking to dupe or con others there also have to be a percentage of people who fall for the 'timewaster/fake'..

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Im all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted anybody else agree ???

no"

I read more or less this idea on here a while ago, and I'm wondering if suggestions like this are triggered by guys getting turned down for 121 meets and feeling so peeved, so that the question should probably read:-

"all in favour of people who are not prepared to meet me at some stage or another on Fab should have their profile automatically deleted..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory!

Please enlighten us to what you think the site should be about ......"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Weve had 1 couple didnt turn up after we travelled 90 mile round trip.

Another couple didnt turn up to a mfmfmmm which was ok for Pip lol. We didnt arrange thatm

Meet btw.

Thats about it. Weve had plenty of lies and exaggeration from singles but careful filtering and sticking to what we want has helped keep the meets real.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"‘Timewaster’ and ‘fake’ are the flags held in either hand by the rejected and frustrated as we see it."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to think that I have quite a good system for ensuring my time is not wasted. Wouldn't meet unverifieds/newbies etc etc but even I have had a few no shows lately. I think the reality for alot of men is that they bottle it. Would I really want to meet someone that spineless? Really they are doing me a favour. Never meet outside a club so their loss - I still get to play."

Got another club meet up for today. Guess what those fantasists are out in form today. Maybe i should start running a book for how may say 'see you in the club v the reality'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got another club meet up for today. Guess what those fantasists are out in form today. Maybe i should start running a book for how may say 'see you in the club v the reality'"

That's been par for the course when I've done similar. People, guys in particular, will always follow the path of least resistance. If you chuck a paywall like a club in front of them which means they have to expend some effort to meet you then they won't be arsed and just watch some porn instead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"‘Timewaster’ and ‘fake’ are the flags held in either hand by the rejected and frustrated as we see it."

I'm going to have to disagree with you on that generalisation. It could be correct for some.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"‘Timewaster’ and ‘fake’ are the flags held in either hand by the rejected and frustrated as we see it.

I'm going to have to disagree with you on that generalisation. It could be correct for some."

Yes I would agree with that.

It's true that "Fake" and "Timewaster" are insults freely and frequently hurled by the rejected and the frustrated, but it doesn't mean that there aren't a good proportion of each out there...

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By *oulou45Woman over a year ago

Bucks

"Not sure on the percentage, but I am finding a lot of women who don't know what the site is about. Surely it is self explanatory! "
what is it about?

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By *aidtobespankedCouple over a year ago

Chester

Probably less than 70.

Id say 25%. The verification thing is a good tool. This site works far better than similar ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The percentage is irrelevant. Trust your gut feeling...

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