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Single women vs single men message ratio
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think we've had one single fem message and about 6347 single male messages.
Is there a reason for this? Do single ladies wait to be messaged first?
Just curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we've had one single fem message and about 6347 single male messages.
Is there a reason for this? Do single ladies wait to be messaged first?"
With ratios like that, they can afford to wait and be picky. My ratios are about 2/3 women and couples, 1/3 guys - though these are mostly winks rather than messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are 6347 men to every woman on here 
Very good point, didn't think of that. Next message will be a single woman then?"
Should be. Most people on here patiently wait their turn to send a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have sent out a few first messages, i have never had a reply from anyone i have messaged first so i see it as a waste of time, i now just mail back guys that i like who message me first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally only message 1st in response to a forum post from someone I've had my eye on.
Don't really have the inclination to look thru profiles & message, not at the moment anyway. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I search and message first. Couples, guys and other single females.
I'm proactive in getting what I like.
Doesn't stop people pissing about tho, and some do take a first message as being desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi
i'm interested in meeting couples, and although i've read a few lovely profiles about couples making a person feel relaxed, i am still nervous about meeting two people when i will be on my own.
i think i will find myself a couple of fuckbuddies i can trust and meet couples with them.
glad you mentioned this because it made me think and i will change my profile to reflect this, then change back to interested in couples when i am ready. forgot i even put in on tbh been that busy on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i say couple of fuckbuddies and meet with them i don't mean both at once lol, unless the couple wants to obviously.
but just one would do then i'm not on my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband will message for me if we see a guy I like. Trouble is the young guys will chat for a bit and then not message me for a week or so. No use at all. Want to chat regularly before meeting. They will then come back maybe a fortnight later and wonder why Im not interested anymore. Bit obvious really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll message people who I like the look of or who interest me on the forums. Don't always get or expect a reply. I'm the same on my couple profile (suppose I'm the gobby one lol)  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
Ironically, when I've had first contact out of nowhere from a lady, I've been suspicious and responded cautiously.
Generally, the situation ends one of two ways - it turns out to be related to a forum post, and all is well, or the content becomes too good to be true, usually with no profile pic.
I may have missed out on as many as one meet this way |
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