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if a female is bi its cool if a male is some think its odd any ideas on this x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to have a bee in his bonnet about being bi!!
Lost count of the number of threads he's started today about it!!!
Hope you find what you're looking for OP!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"  i know its going to spark a row with me again of certain folk on here lol xx was just seeking an answer xx 
People's preferences - nothing more nothing less!  "
I think there is more to it than 'peoples preferences'. It's tied in to societal attitudes about sexuality. Men are men and women are sex objects. Like it or not there are many people who choose a sexuality for it's popularity and there are those who really think that the choice they make was their own. So many external influences tell us that men should be macho and like women. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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" i know its going to spark a row with me again of certain folk on here lol xx was just seeking an answer xx
People's preferences - nothing more nothing less!
I think there is more to it than 'peoples preferences'. It's tied in to societal attitudes about sexuality. Men are men and women are sex objects. Like it or not there are many people who choose a sexuality for it's popularity and there are those who really think that the choice they make was their own. So many external influences tell us that men should be macho and like women. "
Still people's preferences as to what they think about it - nothing more nothing less
I was answering the OP's original question and not why people choose what to show as their sexuality on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"read the question twice now and havent a clue what the op means !!.. translate anyone !
same here  "
I think the OP is asking why is it bi fems are acceptable but bi men are seen as odd.
I don't have an answer though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" i know its going to spark a row with me again of certain folk on here lol xx was just seeking an answer xx
People's preferences - nothing more nothing less!
I think there is more to it than 'peoples preferences'. It's tied in to societal attitudes about sexuality. Men are men and women are sex objects. Like it or not there are many people who choose a sexuality for it's popularity and there are those who really think that the choice they make was their own. So many external influences tell us that men should be macho and like women.
Still people's preferences as to what they think about it - nothing more nothing less
I was answering the OP's original question and not why people choose what to show as their sexuality on their profile. "
I know exactly what you were saying - there's no need to explain. No one knocked your points.
I merely added mine. |
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I think it is a turn on knowing if the men are bi or not. hubby is strait but if he wasn't I would love it. I do feel an amazing amount of women are bi and often wonder if it is merely to turn men on more of if in fact they actually passionately want to be with women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it is a turn on knowing if the men are bi or not. hubby is strait but if he wasn't I would love it. I do feel an amazing amount of women are bi and often wonder if it is merely to turn men on more of if in fact they actually passionately want to be with women."
Correct ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it is a turn on knowing if the men are bi or not. hubby is strait but if he wasn't I would love it. I do feel an amazing amount of women are bi and often wonder if it is merely to turn men on more of if in fact they actually passionately want to be with women.
Correct !"
If women really are going with other women just to please men, then i think that is really sad.
But if the op thinks bi women ar emore 'acceptable' than bi men, ot may have something to do with the fact that a lot of straight men and women love to watch girl on girl action, whereas guy on guy is not *as* popular, except among the male gay/bi community. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Many thanks to you all for your opinions all very good angles on this still cant tell the lads that i might be bi lol ,maybe one day they will choke on there beer when i tell them ,or they will think i am havin a larf xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi women are accepted more than bi men for many reasons, but I guess the root of it all is that two women together can enhance the beliefs that women are the sensuous ones, two women together can and often does still look very 'feminine', more so with the sensual way they touch and kiss.
with a man, it questions his masculinity as two masculine guys together can look clumsy, and two effeminate guys is not masculine.
Now, some will like that and some wont.
Once upon a time, women could not vote, homosexuality was a sin, society is slowly becoming more tolerant.
I imagine there wouldn't be many guys stating bi in their profile if this site was as strong 10/20 years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it is a turn on knowing if the men are bi or not. hubby is strait but if he wasn't I would love it. I do feel an amazing amount of women are bi and often wonder if it is merely to turn men on more of if in fact they actually passionately want to be with women.
Correct !
If women really are going with other women just to please men, then i think that is really sad.
But if the op thinks bi women ar emore 'acceptable' than bi men, ot may have something to do with the fact that a lot of straight men and women love to watch girl on girl action, whereas guy on guy is not *as* popular, except among the male gay/bi community."
Disagree somewhat.
Whenever gay porn is raised on the forums lots of women post they find it a turn on: myself included.
I have no desire to play with a bi male but find gay porn a turn on but MFM with a bi male not! |
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