We are far from begins when it comes to the world of swinging. We used to have a profile which we met some very nice people and had lots of fun times but we decided to have a break. Having come back 6 months later it seems like everything has gone upside down.
Every other person seems not to be verified (it takes 30 seconds) and all we seemed to do is get abused by people claiming to be genuine (the last one we asked for a face picture because they say on their profile they're not into blind dates and all they would send is of everything but then when we ask again we get accused of picture collecting) what's happened to this world.....
Where have all the genuine normal people gone?? |
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over a year ago
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There are a lot of freaks out there and that's why I now mostly meet at clubs, I do still meet privately but usually with someone I've met before but even that is no guarantee of meeting someone safe as I found out recently. Stay safe people and don't think that everyone out there is as nice as you are. |
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I have been on and off for last 5 year and concluded that the last year has been hard to get replys, meet, and sift through fake profiles. The male to fem/cpl ratio has expanded and its impossible to start a message relay with anyone. Just how it is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It does seem to get more difficult. I have been off and on the site for years but when I come off I delete the profile, so verifications etc. disappear. There do seem to be more fantasists and people with very specific desires, but what can you do?
I often wonder whether the people that used to be on here, fun and relaxed have gone to another site and I often wonder whether using a paid for site might reduce the amount of chaff.
Having said all that, there are some nice folks here. Perhaps if only allowing 5 messages per day if not photo verified (anyone can do that) might mitigate some issues |
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I think it'd make sense that people must be verified within a month of joining!! You look through profiles and see there's no photo or meet verifications and they've been a member longer than a year!!! Really?? X |
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"I think it'd make sense that people must be verified within a month of joining!! You look through profiles and see there's no photo or meet verifications and they've been a member longer than a year!!! Really?? X"
Then filter unverified people out! |
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"I think it'd make sense that people must be verified within a month of joining!! You look through profiles and see there's no photo or meet verifications and they've been a member longer than a year!!! Really?? X"
Verified how? |
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"I think it'd make sense that people must be verified within a month of joining!! You look through profiles and see there's no photo or meet verifications and they've been a member longer than a year!!! Really?? X"
Must be verified within a month, Or what ?
Take their Keyboard away
Make them sit on the naughty step
tell their Mum ?
Come the Revolution brothers we will all be equal, My kind of equal of course 
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"I think it'd make sense that people must be verified within a month of joining!! You look through profiles and see there's no photo or meet verifications and they've been a member longer than a year!!! Really?? X"
Are you verified?
Is it photo verification?
What exactly does that prove, Ive never been sure. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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To use the old cliché, this site is what you make it. Is has tools to prevent certain members from contacting you, and it does take some experience to recognise a chancer or fantasist when they message you (although I recently got caught out by one. Even years after joining I do let one through now and then).
I guess the important thing is that sex is not the be all and end all of our lives, and this should be fun. Take everything with a pinch of salt, and it should become more enjoyable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Our advice is don't take it too seriously. It's a free website, lots of people that want to have fun and lots that dream about it.
Use the filters and lots of common sense.
Oh and have FUN!
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"Our advice is don't take it too seriously. It's a free website, lots of people that want to have fun and lots that dream about it.
Use the filters and lots of common sense.
Oh and have FUN!
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"We are far from begins when it comes to the world of swinging. We used to have a profile which we met some very nice people and had lots of fun times but we decided to have a break. Having come back 6 months later it seems like everything has gone upside down."
I always find it odd how people eat their way through strangers. Surely, by your own admission, you already know "some very nice people" who you can have "lots of fun times" with? So why not get back in touch with them and have lots more fun times with them   |
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