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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it wrong of me to not want my partner to meet people outside of club environment on his own? Am I being unreasonable? |
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well I personally don't think its wrong at all if one of you isn't happy with some thing then plain enough shouldn't happen. xxxxxx |
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Why do you think your feelings are wrong? Lol. If you swing together? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is he a partner or a FB? Only asking as there's no mention of a partner in your profile. If it's someone that you just meet for sex, then yes I would say it's unreasonable to ask them not to meet outside a club, if it's your partner then discuss your issues with them.
Good luck |
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"Is he a partner or a FB? Only asking as there's no mention of a partner in your profile. If it's someone that you just meet for sex, then yes I would say it's unreasonable to ask them not to meet outside a club, if it's your partner then discuss your issues with them.
Good luck "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He is partner. This is single profile we have a joint one. I don't mind what happens in clubs and will happily meet as a couple outside of club but don't want him meeting alone outside, and I think maybe it's a unreasonable request. He loves sex and says he is a swinger, which I am but not to degree he is, s o ifi d it hard him wanting to meet outside feel it disrespectful to our relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is about being open and agreeing to boundaries as a couple. What he wants is beyond the boundaries - he basically wants to openly cheat. It's cheating because it's outside of the agreed limits
He would be out on his ear hole if he was mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He is partner. This is single profile we have a joint one. I don't mind what happens in clubs and will happily meet as a couple outside of club but don't want him meeting alone outside, and I think maybe it's a unreasonable request. He loves sex and says he is a swinger, which I am but not to degree he is, s o ifi d it hard him wanting to meet outside feel it disrespectful to our relationship"
Then you need to talk to him if he's your partner, and does he know that your asking a forum for advice on this? Seeing as he's a member on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well guess I need to talk to him then when he gets bac,k he's on holiday. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
If he is also a member here then he might not be too happy about being discussed on the forums so Im going to close this sorry |
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