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DP, question for those who have done it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's on out "to do" list, just need to find the right guy and situation.
So here's a question, it seems having watched many DP porn scenarios that the guy lying on his back doesn't get to thrust as much as the one who is squating (hope that makes sense).
Do the ladies who have tried it prefer cow girl or reverse cowgirl best? I'm guessing with cowgirl the ass gets more attention and reverse cowgirl the pussy does?
Your (ahem  ) input would be appreciated people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having had dp i was on the bottom and i think first one in gets to thrust most. But the situation more than the feeling is more sexy of the two .
I think a demo would explain better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This has been on our to do list for ages. Be interesting for you to do a little review on it!! "
Shame your so far away, could have checked off each other's list at same time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has been on our to do list for ages. Be interesting for you to do a little review on it!!
Shame your so far away, could have checked off each other's list at same time "
Road trip!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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one hole does always get penetrated more to be honest depending on position, its just how it goes if they were further apart it would be easier but shit happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have done dvp, seemed to be no problems there.
May I ask if it hurt the woman/women ever? "
I was worried that the position she (wife) was supporting herself in may have hurt her arms, but apparently not an issue. No pain "below" by the way lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This has been on our to do list for ages. Be interesting for you to do a little review on it!!
Shame your so far away, could have checked off each other's list at same time
Road trip!!!!!!!!!! "
Manchester next Friday ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet a guy with two penises?
ive actually had a crazy/stupid thought in the past is it possible for a guy to wear a strap on? if so then game on"
To be fair many guys don't even know how to use one penis right, let alone two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet a guy with two penises?
ive actually had a crazy/stupid thought in the past is it possible for a guy to wear a strap on? if so then game on
To be fair many guys don't even know how to use one penis right, let alone two."
i reckon i could rock 2 cocks haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet a guy with two penises?
ive actually had a crazy/stupid thought in the past is it possible for a guy to wear a strap on? if so then game on"
We've done it with a strapless strap on and got one part in the monkey too... 
On the original subject...It was easier for one person to stay still as a good base for movement but they could equally take turns...It wasn't the thrusting that made it feel so good, it was the all round stimulation of being so full...but the monkey always gets my arse because I don't trust anyone else to go there..
Never done dvp because it just doesn't work for me but the monkey has done it with friends of ours and she loves it... |
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Done it a few times and yes the one on top does get to thrust more the trick is to get the guy on the bottom as far in as you can before the other guys slides in. And no none of the the ladys were in any pain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been involved in DVP but not DP. It was very unexpected but all part of the fun.
Well well, there's hope for you yet!"
Surprised you did I
Don't judge a book by its cover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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easiest first time:
is guy 1 on his back.
girl on top facing guy 1
guy 2 behind the girl.
give the trust to the guy behind for anal.
plenty of foreplay and lube if needed.
and talk to each other.
Guys take it slow and build up, girls give the guys instructions...
hey presto it's and orgasm zone for everyone....
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I have to be in the right mood, but when i have been its been fab. I find being entered in my ass reverse cowgirl first is best for me , I can control the speed and depth. Once comfortable it's quite easy for the other guy to enter my pussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have done dp with a ex, once both holes were well lubed an relaxed, proceeded to use a vibe in her pussy while I had my cock in her arse, she loved it an it turned into a regular thing for us."
Have done the whole toy thing to death. Time to move onto the real thing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only done it once - but would dearly love it to happen again!
I was face down on top of a guy, with him (quite lagree!) in my pussy. The, unexpectedly (but nice!) the other guy (also quite large!) knelt behind me and slid into my bum - it went in very easily and it felt awesome!!!!
The guy behind me did all the work and we had a fabulous time - I do so recommend it...!
Any offer for a repeat would be seriously considered....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In effect, whoever is on the bottom is just filling the hole, the one on top is doin the fucking, so all depends when u've got the cocks in u, do u want ur pussy or ass fucking!! |
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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago
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"Have done dp with a ex, once both holes were well lubed an relaxed, proceeded to use a vibe in her pussy while I had my cock in her arse, she loved it an it turned into a regular thing for us.
Have done the whole toy thing to death. Time to move onto the real thing. "
Yeah we do it all the time with a toy. I bet the real thing is so much more fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have done dvp, seemed to be no problems there.
May I ask if it hurt the woman/women ever?
I was worried that the position she (wife) was supporting herself in may have hurt her arms, but apparently not an issue. No pain "below" by the way lol."
Lol I'm a bit worried of tearing. Two men to worry about instead of one |
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I've done both dp and dvp. Best for me was lying on my back, the lady facing me, her hubby entering her from behind either her pussy or bum. He did most of the thrusting. I was there kissing and playing with her nipples. All very fulfilling for all 3 of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have done dp with a ex, once both holes were well lubed an relaxed, proceeded to use a vibe in her pussy while I had my cock in her arse, she loved it an it turned into a regular thing for us.
Have done the whole toy thing to death. Time to move onto the real thing.
Yeah we do it all the time with a toy. I bet the real thing is so much more fun."
Would you like to try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a male harness that has a ring round the shaft fastened to another that holds a dildo that presses flat (ish alas) against the abdomen.
Works well enough (apart from being a faff to put on) and gives a DP type sensation with more freedom to move positions. Main problem in changing positions is if Soz turns over then at least one appendage is moving from the front to the back and putting a condom on a dildo takes me back to sex education classes!
Still, it'll suffice til the real thing comes along! |
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We did it once, a long time ago and have to say, it was truly amazing. One guy lied down, me on top and other guy from behind. The guy from behind does most of the work, but the one the bottom is also able to do some movement, but its mainly stimulation for him.
I'm not the best when it comes to anal and tense up, so often have to abandon the idea, but on this particular night, managed to relax and it was truly out of this world.
DEFINATELY something would love to try again and although we done it with toys a few times, it is just not the same as with two guys you feel very comfortable with, and who you trust. |
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"We have a male harness that has a ring round the shaft fastened to another that holds a dildo that presses flat (ish alas) against the abdomen.
Works well enough (apart from being a faff to put on) and gives a DP type sensation with more freedom to move positions. Main problem in changing positions is if Soz turns over then at least one appendage is moving from the front to the back and putting a condom on a dildo takes me back to sex education classes!
Still, it'll suffice til the real thing comes along!"
Well judging by your profile and pictures I'm sure that you are going to be inundated with offers.
I have to say to do the full mmf is a fantasy that I wish to fulfill, mff was great but there is just something about it that turns me on even at the thought of it.  |
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By *arehamMan
over a year ago
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I've done this a few times with a mate and his wife,I used to lie down on my back and she would sit on my dick,and he would come behind her and stick his dick in her arse hole she used to love it,but it is hard for both of us to get a rhythm up,he did all the work,he would pull out and make her suck his dick.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it a few times, different positions. I think best is cowgirl, with guy on top in her arse.
Reverse cowgirl can get a bit uncomfortable for the guy on the bottom. I remember doing it once at a party, sat on a sofa. Lady got on reverse cowgirl and then another guy joined in... I just ended up getting squashed on the bottom lol.
I'm my experience, cow girl is best, whichever hole you are in
Reverse cowgirl tends to be better for DV though, makes it easier for both guys to slide in. |
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By *himaeraWoman
over a year ago
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"Meet a guy with two penises?
ive actually had a crazy/stupid thought in the past is it possible for a guy to wear a strap on? if so then game on
To be fair many guys don't even know how to use one penis right, let alone two."
Oh that is so true!! |
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We as a couple did it with another couple and my wife was in heaven. We would love to try it again and will do as soon add we can find the right couple/guy.
It's not the DP that difficult but find the right people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's on out "to do" list, just need to find the right guy and situation.
So here's a question, it seems having watched many DP porn scenarios that the guy lying on his back doesn't get to thrust as much as the one who is squating (hope that makes sense).
Do the ladies who have tried it prefer cow girl or reverse cowgirl best? I'm guessing with cowgirl the ass gets more attention and reverse cowgirl the pussy does?
Your (ahem ) input would be appreciated people"
We have done DP on a couple of occasions and you seem to have done a significant amount of research as you describe exactly how we experienced it.
She says by swapping positions, she has different sensations due to the attention being focused on one area over another. She says they are different but equally nice.
We have also done DV but for that it has to be reverse cowgirl she says. Other positions don't have the same intensity or so she says.
Anyway you have done your research, well by the sounds of it, so now you need to get out into the field and gain practical experience.
Please keep us updated with your findings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's on out "to do" list, just need to find the right guy and situation.
So here's a question, it seems having watched many DP porn scenarios that the guy lying on his back doesn't get to thrust as much as the one who is squating (hope that makes sense).
Do the ladies who have tried it prefer cow girl or reverse cowgirl best? I'm guessing with cowgirl the ass gets more attention and reverse cowgirl the pussy does?
Your (ahem ) input would be appreciated people"
We have done DP on a couple of occasions and you seem to have done a significant amount of research as you describe exactly how we experienced it.
She says by swapping positions, she has different sensations due to the attention being focused on one area over another. She says they are different but equally nice.
We have also done DV but for that it has to be reverse cowgirl she says. Other positions don't have the same intensity or so she says.
Anyway you have done your research, well by the sounds of it, so now you need to get out into the field and gain practical experience.
Please keep us updated with your findings. |
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"I've done both dp and dvp. Best for me was lying on my back, the lady facing me, her hubby entering her from behind either her pussy or bum. He did most of the thrusting. I was there kissing and playing with her nipples. All very fulfilling for all 3 of us. "
Yes it was pretty good |
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"I've done both dp and dvp. Best for me was lying on my back, the lady facing me, her hubby entering her from behind either her pussy or bum. He did most of the thrusting. I was there kissing and playing with her nipples. All very fulfilling for all 3 of us.
Yes it was pretty good "
I'll settle for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having had dp i was on the bottom and i think first one in gets to thrust most. But the situation more than the feeling is more sexy of the two .
I think a demo would explain better"
hahahaha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have helped a few couples to enjoy their first dp. It''s just so hot and sexy.
I have found that the best position is where the female is doggystyling it. The guy underneath goes in first and then when he is in he remains still. Then using plenty of lube both in and around the females ass the guy behind puts the tip of his cock in her ass. She then pushes back on him, he does not try to force his cock in, she controls the entry until her ass muscles have relaxed. Then when she is relaxed the guy underneath can thrust his hips up, which isn't that much to be honest, and the guy behind can start to gently ride het hot and well lubed tight little asshole.
If its done right, and to achieve this the guys cocks should be very hard and the female should be very turned on, its one of the downright horniest things possible. |
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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago
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"I've done this a few times with a mate and his wife,I used to lie down on my back and she would sit on my dick,and he would come behind her and stick his dick in her arse hole she used to love it,but it is hard for both of us to get a rhythm up,he did all the work,he would pull out and make her suck his dick. "
Ever thought of writing erotic literature ? |
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
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The two most important things are trust and lube!
My ex was into it in a big way but she always wanted me in the back door as she trusted me not to thrust too fast and until she was fully relaxed!
It also helps to be comfortable with each other, the more relaxed the better
Enjoy the experience! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet a guy with two penises?
ive actually had a crazy/stupid thought in the past is it possible for a guy to wear a strap on? if so then game on"
Oh yes it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have done dvp, seemed to be no problems there.
May I ask if it hurt the woman/women ever? "
it can do but only if you don't prepare properly. It requires lots of foreplay and a lot of lube either natural or otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done dp and dv often and it is always a struggle for the guy underneath to move. It is however a great experience for the girl so go get it. Any anally experienced girl should be able to do dp without difficulty so long as she is warmed up anally first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Defiantly on my to do list, just trying to find a willing couple to play with. Love the idea of playing with a bi couple and getting deep down n horny lol |
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The wife and I tried this recently and is not as easy as the porn stars make it look. Problem is the legs. Trying to get 6 legs all aligned to allow easy access was something that needs a bit of orchestrating . We did me on the bottom with my wife with her back against my chest and me up her A, so that the other guy could do her V pretty much in missionary position. As I said, would have worked if it wasn't for the pesky legs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I have to say is - it isn't as easy as it looks in the movies  "
Then you're doing it wrong it's easy if you do it as everyone says. Dvp all the time |
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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago
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The first time we tried this wasn't great but the second time was wow, he had done this before & we had lots of anal play before going for the DP, loved it and would do again in a shot |
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I've tried it twice now, both with ladies as part of couples on Fab and enjoyed it...I found that whoever pushes up the rear is really steering and dictating(!) the pace, and it can be tricky for the man below to keep up the rhythm, but it worked out fine on both occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only done dvp, which was a rather lovely experience, although could have used more lubrication. It seemed that the man underneath couldnt thrust as much, in fact I think he kept still lol. Yet to try dp, think I need some poppers for that h aha
Miss Jay x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have tried it but yes, legs can be a problem!!
I would love to do it successfully cas I would say it's an unreal feeling!
Gonna kee an eye on this post! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd suggest having the guys sitting on comfy chairs and you go in the middle. Probably the best way for the female to actually control the situation. But you'd need a fair amount of strength in the legs for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've mainly had it with me laying down and their partner hubby in her arse as I've never done anal but would like to go anal as don't know how that feels |
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tried it before but was just a little to awkward to manage. However this toy is fab just broke ours and need a new http://www.bondara.co.uk/anal-strap-on-dildo
well thats a weird post to pop my forum cherry on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been swinging for over 6 years and I'd be lying if I say I wud be shitting myself try it? just to scared of the mess?...done dvp loads but not anal?..why as a woman I'm so scared of this?..probs got OCD!.. |
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I done my first last week. I was riding a guy when my guy came behind and pushed me down to kiss him. Then slowly pushed his cock in my ass. The feeling of fullness was amazing. Then after he stuck it in my pussy giving me my first dv!
So two in one day lol
I came very quickly with the dv... so did my guy while both cocks was inside me. Seeing My guys cums all over the over guys cock was amazing
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"I done my first last week. I was riding a guy when my guy came behind and pushed me down to kiss him. Then slowly pushed his cock in my ass. The feeling of fullness was amazing. Then after he stuck it in my pussy giving me my first dv!
So two in one day lol
I came very quickly with the dv... so did my guy while both cocks was inside me. Seeing My guys cums all over the over guys cock was amazing
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Sounds amazing wish I could join you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best method for DP I have seen is in porn where two guys face each other while standing while the girl is in the middle being supported by the two guys.
In this position both cocks are able to equally thrust in and out.
This position does require the guys to be quiet strong and the girl not too heavy though. |
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Having done this a few times it seems that the angle of the two cocks can obstruct or block each other a little, but if both are in tune it's easy
one thrusting in as the other sliding back ready for his thrust taking turns almost.
DVP is good too and doesn't matter as both can just slide in and out at will once they've got going.
All very horny tho love it !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I done my first last week. I was riding a guy when my guy came behind and pushed me down to kiss him. Then slowly pushed his cock in my ass. The feeling of fullness was amazing. Then after he stuck it in my pussy giving me my first dv!
So two in one day lol
I came very quickly with the dv... so did my guy while both cocks was inside me. Seeing My guys cums all over the over guys cock was amazing
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 sounds amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is so high up on my to do list ... Have done dp with my man and a toy and it's lush but so want 2 guys ,.... And really wanna try dvp ...it's just finding the right time & guy . |
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"I done my first last week. I was riding a guy when my guy came behind and pushed me down to kiss him. Then slowly pushed his cock in my ass. The feeling of fullness was amazing. Then after he stuck it in my pussy giving me my first dv!
So two in one day lol
I came very quickly with the dv... so did my guy while both cocks was inside me. Seeing My guys cums all over the over guys cock was amazing
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What I'd give to be the other male in a mmf with you both!!!!!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always endeavour to meet couples who like similar interests / requirements to myself however, communication is obviously the most important factor thus eliminating any awkward moments later on... Having regular experienced both DP & VDP, I would highly recommend VDPBB as it's so fucking horny - most guys won't even contemplate it as their naked cocks may 'touch' each other hence my bi status... as for the woman, it's the most intense sexual experience she can have but guys, you just have to be patient, take your time, relax and enjoy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done this twice and from experience would say that whoever has the biggest cock needs to get in there first and hold on tight
Yet to "fill" that position myself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only done DP and DVP with cowgirl but I'd say reverse would probably be easier as you can hold yourself up and more thrusting gets done if that makes sense.
I tend to ride the smaller dick cause I love anal with a big one haha! So that could be an issue for who gets more thrust in as well.
Good luck with it, it's a great thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only done DP and DVP with cowgirl but I'd say reverse would probably be easier as you can hold yourself up and more thrusting gets done if that makes sense.
I tend to ride the smaller dick cause I love anal with a big one haha! So that could be an issue for who gets more thrust in as well.
Good luck with it, it's a great thing "
Let me know if you're ever down manchester way |
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