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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For an older woman is having a you not a turn on or is it just the opposite way round? something about being with an older woman really does it for me |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age..."
#easy targets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age..."
Probably the same as you've mentioned ~ they're looking for experience or fulfilling the Mrs Robinson type fantasy... |
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets "
I'm an older woman and I'm not anywhere close to being an easy target...  |
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets
I'm an older woman and I'm not anywhere close to being an easy target... "
Nor me, there seems to be this myth that older women are all desperate old hags wired on HRT  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets
I'm an older woman and I'm not anywhere close to being an easy target... "
Who said you were? We said young guys see older women as an easy target |
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets
I'm an older woman and I'm not anywhere close to being an easy target... Who said you were? We said young guys see older women as an easy target "
to be fair you didn't, your comment was highly ambiguous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets "
Actually I think the reverse is true. Older women are more decisive and demanding. They know what they want and how to get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x  "
If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets |
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets"
 this elder is reading it properly and its still ambiguous but I get what you mean.
Elder! lol |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets"
Wait til I dust off my reading spectacles
I honestly think I'm harder to get with now than ever... I'm fussier, know what I like, and want, and will not settle for anything less, whereas younger, I'd likely have fallen for the BS (but was in LTR through most of my younger years so don't know for definite but know thats why I put up with a lot then that they'd be told to jog on for now) |
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets"
The trouble with text can be taken different ways!
I'm not sure if young guys do see older woman that way ~ maybe they'll comment on here & enlighten us all |
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets
Wait til I dust off my reading spectacles
I honestly think I'm harder to get with now than ever... I'm fussier, know what I like, and want, and will not settle for anything less, whereas younger, I'd likely have fallen for the BS (but was in LTR through most of my younger years so don't know for definite but know thats why I put up with a lot then that they'd be told to jog on for now)"
they don't mean that us elders are easy targets but that young men think we are.
I can't help it I keep chuckling about elder, I'm going to call myself that from now on |
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets
Wait til I dust off my reading spectacles
I honestly think I'm harder to get with now than ever... I'm fussier, know what I like, and want, and will not settle for anything less, whereas younger, I'd likely have fallen for the BS (but was in LTR through most of my younger years so don't know for definite but know thats why I put up with a lot then that they'd be told to jog on for now)"
We got that sick of lads younger than our kids asking for a fuck we filtered out anyone under 40 incase they lie about their age  at 18 /19 why would you be trawling the net for sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets
Wait til I dust off my reading spectacles
I honestly think I'm harder to get with now than ever... I'm fussier, know what I like, and want, and will not settle for anything less, whereas younger, I'd likely have fallen for the BS (but was in LTR through most of my younger years so don't know for definite but know thats why I put up with a lot then that they'd be told to jog on for now)
they don't mean that us elders are easy targets but that young men think we are.
I can't help it I keep chuckling about elder, I'm going to call myself that from now on "
Forum elders as in elderly than others..its in the english dictionary under getting owld lol |
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I must agree, I really enjoy being with an older woman and yes why is anyone trawling the net for sex below 30. Get yourself out in town and use your lingo!! |
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"I must agree, I really enjoy being with an older woman and yes why is anyone trawling the net for sex below 30. Get yourself out in town and use your lingo!!"
People under thirty are "trawling the net for sex" fro the same reasons that people over thirty are I imagine, what's their age got to do with it? |
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"Im not an easy target...I meet young lads fr social first sum r more mature than others x If all you elders can read the thread properly the previous poster asked what the young lads seen in mature women...we said easy targets
Wait til I dust off my reading spectacles
I honestly think I'm harder to get with now than ever... I'm fussier, know what I like, and want, and will not settle for anything less, whereas younger, I'd likely have fallen for the BS (but was in LTR through most of my younger years so don't know for definite but know thats why I put up with a lot then that they'd be told to jog on for now)
they don't mean that us elders are easy targets but that young men think we are.
I can't help it I keep chuckling about elder, I'm going to call myself that from now on Forum elders as in elderly than others..its in the english dictionary under getting owld lol"
I suppose what's making me laugh is that we had "Elders" in our church when I was a kid |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"I must agree, I really enjoy being with an older woman and yes why is anyone trawling the net for sex below 30. Get yourself out in town and use your lingo!!"
Why the cut off at 30?
I know I'm over 30, but I use the net because it suits my lifestyle and free time. I don't want to trawl pubs and have a series of unfulfilling one night stands. Why should someone younger not have the same facility? Who are you to decide what age is it acceptable to swing at - after all fab is not a sex site, its a swinging site, and there is a whole lot more to it than just a shag.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must agree, I really enjoy being with an older woman and yes why is anyone trawling the net for sex below 30. Get yourself out in town and use your lingo!!
People under thirty are "trawling the net for sex" fro the same reasons that people over thirty are I imagine, what's their age got to do with it?"
Nothing, fair point just thinking back to the halcyon days of being 18 -26 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets
I'm an older woman and I'm not anywhere close to being an easy target... "
Hear hear well said me either  |
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"To be fair I think it's the experience that an older woman has to offer is a massive turn on"
I think a lot of younger men think like that, it isn't as if they're thinking long term or relationship it's just sex on both sides. |
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I think everyone is entitled to their own option , this being an open forum and all, equally, everyone also has a choice about who they meet or don't meet.
From my own point of view, it's very sweet and flattering and I enjoy talking to younger guys and prepared to give everyone a fair chance, but you can generally get a gist by the conversations with them of just how mature they are etc etc, given the choice though, I will always go for an older more experienced guy purely on the basis that younger guys talk the talk but rarely walk the walk as it were |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest. I don't really like it when some say that we lack experience or we meet older women to gain experience. That's not the case you know, well it's not for me anyway. I like to think i inow what i'm doing and even we can share a few things or two.
I've never really sought out someone just because they are older. It's just a coincidence that they happen to be older and we just clicked. I haven't really met much around my age. Not regularly anyway - is that saying something about me? I'm not sure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to be hooked on older ladies, when I was younger, but this was purely down to a few early (amazing) experiences, including loosing my virginity to someone 20+ years my senior, whilst at the same period of my life, having a few relatively disappointing experiences with girls my own age.
I'm over it now though lol, and age is irrelevant (within reason!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont agree with the easy target comment.
I think its the fantasy of women being sexually experienced, mature in attitude, a different type of mother figure (not to be confused with men who seek out women who resemble their mothers), a teacher figure, a nurturing figure, a dominant figure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, a toy boy does nothing for me. I'd much rather have someone with a bit of experience that I have something in common with.
Besides, I do always wonder what toy boys see in older ladies when they can have younger/fitter girls their own age...#easy targets
I'm an older woman and I'm not anywhere close to being an easy target... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I meet a guy a heck of a lot younger than me. But when we are together we forget about the age gap, it doesnt exsist. He is far more experienced and mature than his age. We meet up because yes the sex is good but also because we enjoy each others company too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair I think it's the experience that an older woman has to offer is a massive turn on"
A huge number of the women I know around my age have only ever been with one man, are massively high maintenance because they're neurotic as hell and think sex is something they have to endure because it's somehow dirty or what they reward their husbands with on birthdays and Christmas...any other lazy porn stereotypes I can help you with? |
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