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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just lately every time i look at a ladies profile id say 80% of the ladies are on the big side .
Thats absolutly fine its not a bash the big person thread i was just wondering if that was a reflection on society or are big ladies more sexual hence there seems alot on here ?
Oh and a little caviat to my post
Maybe put body type in the search facility ?
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"Just lately every time i look at a ladies profile id say 80% of the ladies are on the big side .
Thats absolutly fine its not a bash the big person thread i was just wondering if that was a reflection on society or are big ladies more sexual hence there seems alot on here ?
Oh and a little caviat to my post
Maybe put body type in the search facility ?
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why!? You found 80 % of em! Lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just lately every time i look at a ladies profile id say 80% of the ladies are on the big side .
Thats absolutly fine its not a bash the big person thread i was just wondering if that was a reflection on society or are big ladies more sexual hence there seems alot on here ?
Oh and a little caviat to my post
Maybe put body type in the search facility ?
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Ooo you have opened yourself up for a bit of abuse here... What would you call big??? I'm a 16 and class myself as average... I carry extra weight but would not classify myself as big... |
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over a year ago
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Of course its a reflection on society, the Uk has the 3rd biggest obesity problem in the world, we are a rich country and food is plentiful, so it stands to reason there will be more over weight people on here because there are more over weight people in general |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not here to offend anyone
It was just a observation i had .
If anyone clicks on the " women online search button and look at the fist dozen profiles and see for yourself .
I was only relaying my findings .
Not trying to offend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Of course its a reflection on society, the Uk has the 3rd biggest obesity problem in the world, we are a rich country and food is plentiful, so it stands to reason there will be more over weight people on here because there are more over weight people in general "
Now thats a proper answer
An informed opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just lately every time i look at a ladies profile id say 80% of the ladies are on the big side .
Thats absolutly fine its not a bash the big person thread i was just wondering if that was a reflection on society or are big ladies more sexual hence there seems alot on here ?
Oh and a little caviat to my post
Maybe put body type in the search facility ?
why!? You found 80 % of em! Lol "
cheers that made me spit my coffee out then  |
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The average dress size for women in the UK is a size 16. So it's no surprise you're finding plenty of larger ladies. Compare that to a size 10 in France. I recently looked up a list of overweight countries and surprisingly the UK and the USA weren't top of the list. But as a globe we're getting fatter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The average dress size for women in the UK is a size 16. So it's no surprise you're finding plenty of larger ladies. Compare that to a size 10 in France. I recently looked up a list of overweight countries and surprisingly the UK and the USA weren't top of the list. But as a globe we're getting fatter. "
But is this a choice we make ?
I choose to eat carefully and exercise so are we not doing this as a nation ?
Oh and by the way it may be the same for males but i dont look at there profiles |
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"Just lately every time i look at a ladies profile id say 80% of the ladies are on the big side .
Thats absolutly fine its not a bash the big person thread i was just wondering if that was a reflection on society or are big ladies more sexual hence there seems alot on here ?
Oh and a little caviat to my post
Maybe put body type in the search facility ?
why!? You found 80 % of em! Lol
cheers that made me spit my coffee out then "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course its a reflection on society, the Uk has the 3rd biggest obesity problem in the world, we are a rich country and food is plentiful, so it stands to reason there will be more over weight people on here because there are more over weight people in general
Now thats a proper answer
An informed opinion"
One of which you could have goggled yourself to find out the answer. ... |
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Is how you perceive it all i feel... I am what I am and never has it hindered me in any way ( even growing up when being bigger wasn't the norm!) always lived my life to the full ... Do make me chuckle a bit when i read stuff and think wow! Think its hard these days being bigger? 
Yes there are a variety of people on and off of fab... If that person just aint doing it for ya ( for whatever reason) move on and consentrate on what does instead of slagging off people... Too many haters in the world ... Speaks volumes to me ... Their problem!
This thread will turn into the usual fat busting thread ... Know it wasn't you intention OP Just watch! Lol do make me chuckle! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well Angel thats my other point ..
Why dont some people save something for a meet instead of baring all .
I like to keep my naughty bits hidden "
but your pics are still provoctive without showing your most sacred parts .
Very nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Angel thats my other point ..
Why dont some people save something for a meet instead of baring all .
I like to keep my naughty bits hidden but your pics are still provoctive without showing your most sacred parts .
Very nice"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Is how you perceive it all i feel... I am what I am and never has it hindered me in any way ( even growing up when being bigger wasn't the norm!) always lived my life to the full ... Do make me chuckle a bit when i read stuff and think wow! Think its hard these days being bigger?
Yes there are a variety of people on and off of fab... If that person just aint doing it for ya ( for whatever reason) move on and consentrate on what does instead of slagging off people... Too many haters in the world ... Speaks volumes to me ... Their problem!
This thread will turn into the usual fat busting thread ... Know it wasn't you intention OP Just watch! Lol do make me chuckle! "
i really hope it doent become a Fat busting thread thats not why i started this . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps."
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps.
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception "
I am about 14 and see myself as large. It curvy for certain !!! But put curvy on here as I'm not as big as the people who put large |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps.
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception
I am about 14 and see myself as large. It curvy for certain !!! But put curvy on here as I'm not as big as the people who put large "
Large at 14?? Holy crap I need to revaluate my size... I'm obviously much fatter then I thought... Ffs ladies... size 16 is average today in this fat world that we live in.. Anything below a 16 is not average anymore... Maybe 20 years ago when the national average was a size 12... Thank goodness I have enough confidence to see past my humongous size and enjoy life regardless lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps.
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception
I am about 14 and see myself as large. It curvy for certain !!! But put curvy on here as I'm not as big as the people who put large
Large at 14?? Holy crap I need to revaluate my size... I'm obviously much fatter then I thought... Ffs ladies... size 16 is average today in this fat world that we live in.. Anything below a 16 is not average anymore... Maybe 20 years ago when the national average was a size 12... Thank goodness I have enough confidence to see past my humongous size and enjoy life regardless lol "
Sorry but I do see myself as large  . Just because you don't don't mean others feel the same ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps.
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception
I am about 14 and see myself as large. It curvy for certain !!! But put curvy on here as I'm not as big as the people who put large
Large at 14?? Holy crap I need to revaluate my size... I'm obviously much fatter then I thought... Ffs ladies... size 16 is average today in this fat world that we live in.. Anything below a 16 is not average anymore... Maybe 20 years ago when the national average was a size 12... Thank goodness I have enough confidence to see past my humongous size and enjoy life regardless lol "
Just because people have on average gotten fatter does not change how fat someone is.
I always find it odd though the amount of euphemisms people need to use to say fat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps.
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception
I am about 14 and see myself as large. It curvy for certain !!! But put curvy on here as I'm not as big as the people who put large
Large at 14?? Holy crap I need to revaluate my size... I'm obviously much fatter then I thought... Ffs ladies... size 16 is average today in this fat world that we live in.. Anything below a 16 is not average anymore... Maybe 20 years ago when the national average was a size 12... Thank goodness I have enough confidence to see past my humongous size and enjoy life regardless lol "
I'm a size 14 and i would class myself as large built too, yeah a size 16 maybe the average size now days but that does not mean a size 16 is no longer big it just means more women are over weight, if in 30 years a size 20 is the average dress size does that mean a size 20 woman is no longer fat?
woman of a size 14 are over weight regardless of what the national average is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agree with what you are saying ladies.. I'm by no means under the misconception that I'm not over weight.. I know I am...What I was trying to say is that a size 14 is not large... my 14 year old is a size 14 and is not overweight at all, so to read you ladies saying you are large just gets to me a little... It's people with perceptions such as yours that are going to make her paranoid about her weight and make her feel she's fat.. And before you ask.. It's not me that says she not over weight... It's the health professionals.. |
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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm a size 14 and i would class myself as large built too, yeah a size 16 maybe the average size now days but that does not mean a size 16 is no longer big it just means more women are over weight, if in 30 years a size 20 is the average dress size does that mean a size 20 woman is no longer fat?
Woman of a size 14 are over weight regardless of what the national average is"
Oh dear at "women of a size 14 are overweight"... I wear a size 12/14 top depending on where I shop, and I can assure you I'm within the healthy weight range for my height. I would like to be slimmer, but I'm certainly not overweight, just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree with what you are saying ladies.. I'm by no means under the misconception that I'm not over weight.. I know I am...What I was trying to say is that a size 14 is not large... my 14 year old is a size 14 and is not overweight at all, so to read you ladies saying you are large just gets to me a little... It's people with perceptions such as yours that are going to make her paranoid about her weight and make her feel she's fat.. And before you ask.. It's not me that says she not over weight... It's the health professionals.."
I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm over weight so if she's not classed as over weight she must be bloody tall |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree with what you are saying ladies.. I'm by no means under the misconception that I'm not over weight.. I know I am...What I was trying to say is that a size 14 is not large... my 14 year old is a size 14 and is not overweight at all, so to read you ladies saying you are large just gets to me a little... It's people with perceptions such as yours that are going to make her paranoid about her weight and make her feel she's fat.. And before you ask.. It's not me that says she not over weight... It's the health professionals..
I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm over weight so if she's not classed as over weight she must be bloody tall"
It is calculated on weight as well.. Not just dress size... you obviously weigh more then she does... Just because two people wear the same size clothes does not mean they are the same weight
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"Its subjective to how people feel about themselves.
I have my body type as average - i'm a 10/12 but don't think I'm slim as I have curves and bumps.
that's just it... It's how we see ourselves.. 10/12 is defiantly slim in my book regardless of how may lumps and bumps you have... But in most online retail shops a 14 is xl ... So no wonder people have that perception
I am about 14 and see myself as large. It curvy for certain !!! But put curvy on here as I'm not as big as the people who put large
Large at 14?? Holy crap I need to revaluate my size... I'm obviously much fatter then I thought... Ffs ladies... size 16 is average today in this fat world that we live in.. Anything below a 16 is not average anymore... Maybe 20 years ago when the national average was a size 12... Thank goodness I have enough confidence to see past my humongous size and enjoy life regardless lol
Just because people have on average gotten fatter does not change how fat someone is.
I always find it odd though the amount of euphemisms people need to use to say fat. "
why odd? would you be a bit miffed if others questioned how you choose to describe Yourself? Others can describe themselves how they want. ... Is just nasty people making detrimental comments to others that can get a tadd tiresome for some... Would be like you... Call your own brother exactly what you like... But someone eles aint gonna get away with it ( just an example!) I don't get nasty people making comments to me.. Wouldnt accept it even if i did either!! Why should anyone? Ps : some HAVE fat! It is not all that defines people |
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"The average dress size for women in the UK is a size 16. So it's no surprise you're finding plenty of larger ladies. Compare that to a size 10 in France. I recently looked up a list of overweight countries and surprisingly the UK and the USA weren't top of the list. But as a globe we're getting fatter.
But is this a choice we make ?
I choose to eat carefully and exercise so are we not doing this as a nation ?
Oh and by the way it may be the same for males but i dont look at there profiles"
Personally I think it's down to a number of factors. Largely a more sedentary lifestyle and fast food being more easily accessible and affordable than healthy food.
With each generation people also get taller, so it's no wonder that people on average get larger in build as well, coupled with the 2 points above.
I could lose weight if I really wanted to, but the fact for me is that I've never been within a 'healthy' weight range my entire life, if you go by BMI.
If, however, you go by bone density, muscle to fat ratio etc, I have been within a healthy range, but the bmi scale would still class me as obese! I have good cholesterol, blood pressure and blood sugar levels. And I can swim a mile. I'm not habitually unhealthy and I exercise several hours a week (much more than some slim people I know) Simply, i'm not made to be small. And i'm fine with that! |
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"I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm overweight so if she's not classed as overweight she must be bloody tall
But you don't look overweight."
well according to my doctor i am, apparently I'm supposed to weight between 8st 10 and 10 st 2 for my hight and i weight more than 10st 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree with what you are saying ladies.. I'm by no means under the misconception that I'm not over weight.. I know I am...What I was trying to say is that a size 14 is not large... my 14 year old is a size 14 and is not overweight at all, so to read you ladies saying you are large just gets to me a little... It's people with perceptions such as yours that are going to make her paranoid about her weight and make her feel she's fat.. And before you ask.. It's not me that says she not over weight... It's the health professionals..
I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm over weight so if she's not classed as over weight she must be bloody tall
It is calculated on weight as well.. Not just dress size... you obviously weigh more then she does... Just because two people wear the same size clothes does not mean they are the same weight
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of course it don't, nobody of my dress size who is 5ft 4 or below will weight the same as me as I'm half a foot + taller than them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm overweight so if she's not classed as overweight she must be bloody tall
But you don't look overweight.
well according to my doctor i am, apparently I'm supposed to weight between 8st 10 and 10 st 2 for my hight and i weight more than 10st 2"
Does your weight have a negative impact on your life? X |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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BMI is utter crap. I'm a 10/12 and according to my BMI (28.8) I'm very overweight heading towards obese. However, I exercise about 8 hours a week, am quite muscular and am training to be a personal trainer/gym instructor as well as my regular day job.
Am I overweight? Yes, am I fat, a bit... does this make people hung up on weight and paranoid, maybe they need to be - excess weight is a killer... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm overweight so if she's not classed as overweight she must be bloody tall
But you don't look overweight.
well according to my doctor i am, apparently I'm supposed to weight between 8st 10 and 10 st 2 for my hight and i weight more than 10st 2
Does your weight have a negative impact on your life? X"
only when guys turn me down
seriously no of course it don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a size 14 and 5ft 10 and I'm overweight so if she's not classed as overweight she must be bloody tall
But you don't look overweight.
well according to my doctor i am, apparently I'm supposed to weight between 8st 10 and 10 st 2 for my hight and i weight more than 10st 2
Does your weight have a negative impact on your life? X
only when guys turn me down
seriously no of course it don't"
Then i wouldnt worry about what the doctor said x |
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