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My submissive g/f is going to get all her lovely long brown locks cut off on Friday x
I've instructed her to go short and blond x
I spoke to the stylist last week and expressed my desires x
Stylist thinks to go straight to platinum isnot good for the health of her hair so she will have full head of foils x
I've booked a repeat appt end of August for all over block colour x
I've told my slut she must masterbate before her appt and plug her arse x
I can't wait to meet her in a hotel room next Friday and punish her for recent errors x |
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Has anyone else been instructed or instructed a partner to submit in this way?
I've posted a pic if her gorgeous brown locks that will be getting chopped ( it's currently pending approval )
If you are a hairdresser or have an opinion a style that would suit my sub then pm me or leave a message x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beautiful hair and I understand (sort of) your asking her because of your relationship. I also have long hair and still growing it, but it's a shame she is cutting it but this is not a criticism just my opinion so I hope I've not offended you and I'm sure the new style will look great too. I hope you post the new pic when it's done  |
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Thank you for your sensitive post x
I'm defo not offended cos you got to have thick skin when you start a topic in fab! X
It's a part of our relationship we have discussed and ultimately it's her call x
I'm proud that she has considered this and at the end if the day as much as it will alter her appearance il still adore her and it's not forever! X |
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I guess what works for you and your girlfriend is great for you but I'm fairly sure I'd never let someone else dictate what I did with my hair.
People are fascinating! 
I hope she doesn't regret it. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Sub has just sent me a pic of Kimberly Wyatt ex pussy cat doll with very Minxy sexy short hair x
Think this is the style she will suit x"
Now that is what I am talking about..maybe even a tiny bit shorter. J |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"I guess what works for you and your girlfriend is great for you but I'm fairly sure I'd never let someone else dictate what I did with my hair.
People are fascinating!
I hope she doesn't regret it. "
I'm with you there...I guess I wasn't born to be submissive!
But each to their own and I hope you are both pleased with the results |
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"I guess what works for you and your girlfriend is great for you but I'm fairly sure I'd never let someone else dictate what I did with my hair.
People are fascinating!
I hope she doesn't regret it.
I'm with you there...I guess I wasn't born to be submissive!
But each to their own and I hope you are both pleased with the results "
That's just it though... I was but if he told me to cut my hair I'd tell him to get to fuck!
I dare say we're all different in our boundaries but my submissive side most definitely does not overlap into my every day life.  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I guess what works for you and your girlfriend is great for you but I'm fairly sure I'd never let someone else dictate what I did with my hair.
People are fascinating!
I hope she doesn't regret it.
I'm with you there...I guess I wasn't born to be submissive!
But each to their own and I hope you are both pleased with the results
That's just it though... I was but if he told me to cut my hair I'd tell him to get to fuck!
I dare say we're all different in our boundaries but my submissive side most definitely does not overlap into my every day life. "
That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world. "
A contrary submissive.. now that would be fun!! lol x |
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world.
A contrary submissive.. now that would be fun!! lol x"
Hmmm... I think challenging was the last description I heard. I guess I can live with that!  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world.
A contrary submissive.. now that would be fun!! lol x
Hmmm... I think challenging was the last description I heard. I guess I can live with that! "
Your master must have so much fun with you so!! J x |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Your master must have so much fun with you so!! J x
Had.
But back to haircuts... hijacking is frowned upon!!
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Ha ha you are a feisty one... apologies OP did not mean to hijack your thread. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world.
A contrary submissive.. now that would be fun!! lol x
Hmmm... I think challenging was the last description I heard. I guess I can live with that! "
You're not the only challenging one 
I'm told i 'overthink' , top from bottom, and that I'm a fighter. Frankly, my submission has to be earned by someone. Few are capable of earning it, which is why i am unclaimed right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, platinum blonde may not suit your sub's skin tone. It can make many ladies look washed out. Have you tried on wigs or an online app to find the best tone? You want her to look hot, so I'm asking because it can severely damage her hair to colour it again if you aren't satisfied with the shade once it's done. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world.
A contrary submissive.. now that would be fun!! lol x
Hmmm... I think challenging was the last description I heard. I guess I can live with that!
You're not the only challenging one
I'm told i 'overthink' , top from bottom, and that I'm a fighter. Frankly, my submission has to be earned by someone. Few are capable of earning it, which is why i am unclaimed right now. "
And that is the most important thing when it comes to a sub and master relationship. Earning the sub trust and submission. Once that is in place the fun begins for all concerned. J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world.
A contrary submissive.. now that would be fun!! lol x
Hmmm... I think challenging was the last description I heard. I guess I can live with that!
You're not the only challenging one
I'm told i 'overthink' , top from bottom, and that I'm a fighter. Frankly, my submission has to be earned by someone. Few are capable of earning it, which is why i am unclaimed right now. And that is the most important thing when it comes to a sub and master relationship. Earning the sub trust and submission. Once that is in place the fun begins for all concerned. J "
True, though I'm not looking for a master, I'm looking for a dom. And a particular type of dom at that. |
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You're not the only challenging one
I'm told i 'overthink' , top from bottom, and that I'm a fighter. Frankly, my submission has to be earned by someone. Few are capable of earning it, which is why i am unclaimed right now. "
Nothing wrong with overthinking stuff as long as it doesn't drive you mad. I can't change who I am and I don't have any desire to. I'm strong and independent and have no desire to be claimed or controlled. I'll rebel against all of that so I don't actively look for it because I'm not sure there's anyone out there who fits that particular role or indeed one who could handle it.
I'm complicated. Perhaps too complicated but submission is a gift, it's not easy for me to give that away. Contradiction again.
Lots of men talk the talk but I haven't found one who can walk the walk. It's a specialist area and we're all different so I think it's hard to find that perfect match. I find those who shout about how Dom they are, aren't necessarily as good as they think they are. The ones who don't need to shout about it, I generally find better.
Apologies... again nothing to do with haircuts!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You're not the only challenging one
I'm told i 'overthink' , top from bottom, and that I'm a fighter. Frankly, my submission has to be earned by someone. Few are capable of earning it, which is why i am unclaimed right now.
Nothing wrong with overthinking stuff as long as it doesn't drive you mad. I can't change who I am and I don't have any desire to. I'm strong and independent and have no desire to be claimed or controlled. I'll rebel against all of that so I don't actively look for it because I'm not sure there's anyone out there who fits that particular role or indeed one who could handle it.
I'm complicated. Perhaps too complicated but submission is a gift, it's not easy for me to give that away. Contradiction again.
Lots of men talk the talk but I haven't found one who can walk the walk. It's a specialist area and we're all different so I think it's hard to find that perfect match. I find those who shout about how Dom they are, aren't necessarily as good as they think they are. The ones who don't need to shout about it, I generally find better.
Apologies... again nothing to do with haircuts! "
I very much know where you are coming from, on many of those levels. I'm intelligent and educated, so not thinking deeply just isn't going to happen for me. And i will advocate for myself when i feel the need. I am 'unclaimed' because the type of dom who recognizes the benefits of a sub like me are thin on the ground, and because i won't play in certain ways. And because i have standards. It'll happen when it happens. The is one..... One dom i trust enough that i would play with from time to time because he earned that over months, but he has a sub and i want a dom of my own so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for your sensitive post x
I'm defo not offended cos you got to have thick skin when you start a topic in fab! X
It's a part of our relationship we have discussed and ultimately it's her call x
I'm proud that she has considered this and at the end if the day as much as it will alter her appearance il still adore her and it's not forever! X"
I admit to being a bit sensitive but skin is getting thicker. I couldn't cut my hair but I have my reasons and thank you for your lovely reply |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
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You're not the only challenging one
I'm told i 'overthink' , top from bottom, and that I'm a fighter. Frankly, my submission has to be earned by someone. Few are capable of earning it, which is why i am unclaimed right now.
Nothing wrong with overthinking stuff as long as it doesn't drive you mad. I can't change who I am and I don't have any desire to. I'm strong and independent and have no desire to be claimed or controlled. I'll rebel against all of that so I don't actively look for it because I'm not sure there's anyone out there who fits that particular role or indeed one who could handle it.
I'm complicated. Perhaps too complicated but submission is a gift, it's not easy for me to give that away. Contradiction again.
Lots of men talk the talk but I haven't found one who can walk the walk. It's a specialist area and we're all different so I think it's hard to find that perfect match. I find those who shout about how Dom they are, aren't necessarily as good as they think they are. The ones who don't need to shout about it, I generally find better.
Apologies... again nothing to do with haircuts! "
I would have to agree. Those who shout about been great at something generally are not that great at all. Find the match for you is the tricky bit. J |
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So today is the day x
I'm writing this from my hotel room
I checked in earlier x
I've had a drink at the bar and been in the spa x
I facetimed my slut this morning x
Today is the the day she is going to get all her long
Hair cut off x
She has been thinking about it for a while x
It's has been a fantasy of ours since she accepted her collar x
She wants to show me how serious she is about her submission x
I've instructed her to masterbate before setting off to the salon x
She Txtd me she has completed this task x
I've asked her to insert her butt plug to remind her of her worth x
She has informed me it's in place x
She has recently sent me a teaser pic of lengths of hair on the floor x
She tells me she has a head of foils in turning her brown hair blond x
I'm excited and aroused about seeing her later x
I've placed her collar on the bed x
Our wand by her bed x
I've treated her to a new corset for her to wear for her to
Wear as she submits to me x
I've packed everything else to make our night perfect x
Spanker x lube x blindfold x gag x and gag x
So not long now
I'm ready and waiting for my slut x |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Her hair looks amazing x
She is spent out snoozing on our bed x
In a warm safe space sub glow xmy day has been perfect x
#happymaster"
Are we going to get to see the finish product? J |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"The fab police won't let me upload the picture because it contains an image of some one else x
If you pvt message me I can email you x"
It won't let em mail you as you have filtered out males? J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have long hair down my back then went drastic i got it shaved not all of it but i felt sexy i even went completely dark haired too but i didnt like it so now back to my natural red again but still get hair shaved the style in my pp is what it is now and i love it  |
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Just checked out your profile x very adoreable! Xx
Yes my subs hair very much like yours x
A question from sub x.... What products do you use on it ? And how do you style it " differently" for when you are going out? |
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"Just checked out your profile x very adoreable! Xx
Yes my subs hair very much like yours x
A question from sub x.... What products do you use on it ? And how do you style it " differently" for when you are going out?"
Thanks I only use putty on mine not loads just a fingertip rub it in the palms of your hands and style it I have a side fringe but I fluff up the back so it's got volume hope this helps and your sub looks great |
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Went out last night with sub to the pub x
She had straightened her fringe down and across and behind her ear x very sleek ! She had used a moose to back comb the reverse part of her hair and it sat up and spiked nicely x |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world. "
I might have to steal that description next time I get told off for not doing everything I'm told to in public. I can be extremely submissive but rarely in my daily life and never ever at work; I wouldn't enjoy it as much if it was a constant thing. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
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That's just it..everyone is different which is what makes it so intriguing.
For sure... I'm genuinely fascinated.
I think I'm quite possibly the most contrary submissive person in the world.
I might have to steal that description next time I get told off for not doing everything I'm told to in public. I can be extremely submissive but rarely in my daily life and never ever at work; I wouldn't enjoy it as much if it was a constant thing."
Sounds like you are fairly advance into the sub scene but would like to take it further. Hopefully you find the right dom for you. J |
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It's been almost 8 weeks since I last post detailing the journey my subby was undertaking from long brunette to short blond platinum bob
If you read previous posts you will remember that Sub is now short and mid brown blond with a full head of highlights
Sub has been very good and treating her hair x conditioning it and went for a trim a few weeks back
Nature has taken it's course and there is eveidence of some gentle flecks of grey along the main parting x
Sub had my permission to use a dye of a soft mid brown for full head coverage prior to her salon visit x
The colour she chose complimented her new natural blonder tones and is the perfect base for her next set of full head highlights x
Sub went to the salon on Monday for follow up cut and full head colour
I'm very excited about meeting up with her in Manchester on Friday x
We are having our own dressing up party with lots of PVC and naughty toys
Subby has been instructed to bring her anal beads and special vibrating toy x
I'm going to pay particular attention to her gorgeous nipples and breasts
So our journey to platinum blond bob hair oddessy continues as does subbies exploration of her limits x |
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