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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many ladies like to be on top during sex.
I've know a few ladies who are a little self conscious in this position.
I'd be interested in the consensus of opinion.
From a guys perspective the view is amazing, even/especially if a lady is of a more voluptuous build |
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"How many ladies like to be on top during sex.
I've know a few ladies who are a little self conscious in this position.
I'd be interested in the consensus of opinion.
From a guys perspective the view is amazing, even/especially if a lady is of a more voluptuous build"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I like revers cowboy but prefer to be able to see the lady's face and eye, love it when she starts getting into it and throws her head back, just something about seeing hair cascade down her shoulders as she rhythmically rides me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies I've been intermate with have always say they liked it cos it have them such control over where my cock pressed inside then, they could direct it to the most sensitive areas |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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It's a weird one for me. It's not my favourite.. I don't get a lot out of it feeling wise, but I do like it for the view for the guy.. I like him enjoying seeing me on top of him, and me leaning back so he can admire the view and play with my breasts and run his hands along my body while I am sat on his cock.
I need more experience in riding a guy properly I think.. I go over them and try and fuck them like a guy doing missionary - maybe if I leaned back more and changed my riding style I could get better penetration and angle and stuff. (NO that isn't an invite for guys to offer being a teacher lmao) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a weird one for me. It's not my favourite.. I don't get a lot out of it feeling wise, but I do like it for the view for the guy.. I like him enjoying seeing me on top of him, and me leaning back so he can admire the view and play with my breasts and run his hands along my body while I am sat on his cock.
I need more experience in riding a guy properly I think.. I go over them and try and fuck them like a guy doing missionary - maybe if I leaned back more and changed my riding style I could get better penetration and angle and stuff. (NO that isn't an invite for guys to offer being a teacher lmao)"
Yes yes yes, the view can be amazing, not much beats it infact.
I think the trick is to roll your hips, so the cock moves around inside you if you lean back the cock presses against the front wall of your pussy. Girl on top isn't a frantic pounding position, it's subtle and requires fineness. I sometimes grab the ladies hips or bottom, regulating the rythum and stroke. Plus even tho I'm pinned between her thighs I can still alter the sensation for her by tensing my cock and making it bulge inside her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love a mix of positions but cowgirl is best
Yes verity is key, it varies the sensations. "
Also variety is pretty good, I don't know who this verity woman is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is my favourite but i am quite shy about doing it with new people  "
I think a lot of ladies are self conscious, but actually it's rather a flattering position. The eyes and hands are naturally drawn to your chams |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So up to now every one is positive about cowgirl,
Is there anyone that doesn't like it?"
I'm actually not keen on it. Part is self conscious and part is difficulty sending rhythm with someone. Usually when I'm on top, the guy just grabs my hips, holds, and fucks from underneath. Few men I've slept with have let me find the right rhythm and angle and just explore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So up to now every one is positive about cowgirl,
Is there anyone that doesn't like it?
I'm actually not keen on it. Part is self conscious and part is difficulty sending rhythm with someone. Usually when I'm on top, the guy just grabs my hips, holds, and fucks from underneath. Few men I've slept with have let me find the right rhythm and angle and just explore. "
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"I love it if the guy is sat up, like on a sofa etc squatted over him, arms round neck having a nice snog "
Was gushed over last night in just that position. More horny as my balls were warmed as she ground against me. Her orgasmic breath into my mouth was the cherry  |
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" Usually when I'm on top, the guy just grabs my hips, holds, and fucks from underneath. Few men I've slept with have let me find the right rhythm and angle and just explore.
Completely agree with this "
I would (puts hand up repeatedly) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm that's interesting, so the best thing for you is to be allowed to find your own rythum, "
Yes, that's part of it. It's the rhythm, the angle, how to move in a way that gets a positive reaction from him. All while I'm trying not to feel self conscious of my body and inadequate about not getting it right and praying i will do it in a way that gives him pleasure. Being on top causes me more stress than it gives pleasure, usually. The odd exception, but that's the norm in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm that's interesting, so the best thing for you is to be allowed to find your own rythum,
Yes, that's part of it. It's the rhythm, the angle, how to move in a way that gets a positive reaction from him. All while I'm trying not to feel self conscious of my body and inadequate about not getting it right and praying i will do it in a way that gives him pleasure. Being on top causes me more stress than it gives pleasure, usually. The odd exception, but that's the norm in my experience. "
You've said exactly what I wanted to say but I just didn't know how to word it. I don't like the position because my rhythm is terrible and I worry I won't do it right, I am very self conscious though |
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"Hmm that's interesting, so the best thing for you is to be allowed to find your own rythum,
Yes, that's part of it. It's the rhythm, the angle, how to move in a way that gets a positive reaction from him. All while I'm trying not to feel self conscious of my body and inadequate about not getting it right and praying i will do it in a way that gives him pleasure. Being on top causes me more stress than it gives pleasure, usually. The odd exception, but that's the norm in my experience.
You've said exactly what I wanted to say but I just didn't know how to word it. I don't like the position because my rhythm is terrible and I worry I won't do it right, I am very self conscious though "
You have my attention lol you really need not be self concious x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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You've said exactly what I wanted to say but I just didn't know how to word it. I don't like the position because my rhythm is terrible and I worry I won't do it right, I am very self conscious though "
Ah so too many things to think about and not enough time getting wrapped up in the experience.
Some things to remember that might help.
Men love a woman who wants to be involved in sex.
As has been stated the view is very flattering for all figures.
If the rythum isn't right for the man then a little guidance is ok.
And lastly if you get it wrong it's perfectly fine, change an do another position.
Most men like to change as being in the same position for an extended period desensitises.
Just chill out an bonk his and your brains out |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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You've said exactly what I wanted to say but I just didn't know how to word it. I don't like the position because my rhythm is terrible and I worry I won't do it right, I am very self conscious though
Ah so too many things to think about and not enough time getting wrapped up in the experience.
Some things to remember that might help.
Men love a woman who wants to be involved in sex.
As has been stated the view is very flattering for all figures.
If the rythum isn't right for the man then a little guidance is ok.
And lastly if you get it wrong it's perfectly fine, change an do another position.
Most men like to change as being in the same position for an extended period desensitises.
Just chill out an bonk his and your brains out "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love being on top. Used to feel self conscious , but then realised how empowering that position can be. Guys love it too, plus for having nipples sucked at the same time - it's a great position! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love being on top. Used to feel self conscious , but then realised how empowering that position can be. Guys love it too, plus for having nipples sucked at the same time - it's a great position! "
Ah yes there is all the fun of playing with boobs, for a man this is great, you get to have sex but at the same time get lost in some beautiful boobs. An you can concentrate on playing with them cos the lady is doing all the sex work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ladies when we are on top the rhythm is to get us off not them.. The grinding of the pelvis and the pubic bone.. We cannot get it wrong; it's what ever feels good for you.. This is the best way to achieve an internal clitoral orgasm for me... If you are enjoying it then I can guarantee the men will be getting off on it... I do like to pound when I'm top.. And that is solely for their pleasure... |
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I love to tease when on top. Giving a lovely clit wank, bringing him to the edge, possibly stop to allow him to recover his composure before teasing once more. Love it when he grabs my hips and presses himself into me, and then I grind down on to him. Or he can't take it any more, chucks me off, and fucks me stupid in whatever position he likes! mmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm that's interesting, so the best thing for you is to be allowed to find your own rythum,
Yes, that's part of it. It's the rhythm, the angle, how to move in a way that gets a positive reaction from him. All while I'm trying not to feel self conscious of my body and inadequate about not getting it right and praying i will do it in a way that gives him pleasure. Being on top causes me more stress than it gives pleasure, usually. The odd exception, but that's the norm in my experience.
You've said exactly what I wanted to say but I just didn't know how to word it. I don't like the position because my rhythm is terrible and I worry I won't do it right, I am very self conscious though "
Be more assertive. Use his cock, feel it inside you and move however it feels good. I don't care how I look, I'm usually having too much fun grinding down. I've never had a guy try to take control when I'm on top. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies when we are on top the rhythm is to get us off not them.. The grinding of the pelvis and the pubic bone.. We cannot get it wrong; it's what ever feels good for you.. This is the best way to achieve an internal clitoral orgasm for me... If you are enjoying it then I can guarantee the men will be getting off on it... I do like to pound when I'm top.. And that is solely for their pleasure... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies when we are on top the rhythm is to get us off not them.. The grinding of the pelvis and the pubic bone.. We cannot get it wrong; it's what ever feels good for you.. This is the best way to achieve an internal clitoral orgasm for me... If you are enjoying it then I can guarantee the men will be getting off on it... I do like to pound when I'm top.. And that is solely for their pleasure... "
totally agree cowgirl is for the womens pleasure if it feels good it cant be wrong,
mildred always cums this way too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I enjoy riding cowgirl. Forward or reverse
But I do enjoy when forward as that's when I give a real wet fuck then I sit upright and and grind my hips and hear the squelch. |
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I like to ride and find it great to change speed and motion, I like to rock my hips so his cock slides in and almost out of my pussy, then slide back down and grind onto him, sometimes I circle my hips so I can feel him moving in me and find this touches my gspot, I also like it if he grips my bum and thrusts up into me as this makes me gush, I prefer to be facing so we can kiss, I like orgasm when we are face to face and moaning into his mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find the best way to do cowgirl for all you self conscious ladies out there is to squat and cross your arms in front of you putting your hands on their chest, thus covering most of your boobs and belly
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"I like to ride and find it great to change speed and motion, I like to rock my hips so his cock slides in and almost out of my pussy, then slide back down and grind onto him, sometimes I circle my hips so I can feel him moving in me and find this touches my gspot, I also like it if he grips my bum and thrusts up into me as this makes me gush, I prefer to be facing so we can kiss, I like orgasm when we are face to face and moaning into his mouth "
I would love that done to me too and sure we would cum together.  |
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I love this position but have only done it once, it made me cum way to quickly which meant I wasn't even thinking about any possible wobbly bits of the lady I was just thinking how great she was.
So ladies please don't worry if you are more on show the guy will not care he will just love what you are doing for him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" You don't look fat to me. Great position, great view. I love being ridden!
My rear view hides a lot. the front, well, thats another story. thank youyou sound just great to me.x "
Thank you. nice pics yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm in my element on top never feel self conscious either as I think I look my best on top the guys under love me too, think about the great view they have , I love the control and can use my strong pelvic floor muscles to stimulate the cock
Oh even before sex just on a soft cock it's lovely rubbing your clit or teasing it by sliding on top or feeling it despatatly wanting to go in .. It's all good |
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I like riding cowgirl.
However due to my dodgy hips it can cause a few issues. I once rode an ex until he came then had a cuddle for a moment. When I went to move I couldn't! My hips were literally not budging. He actually had to wriggle out from underneath me and move me like you'd reposition a mannequin. I'd only been on there for 20 mins!  |
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"Have gotta say thou Captain......doggy....makes me weak at the knees everytime "
Ah well everyone likes a bit of doggy, least in my experience. From a mans point of view doggy is also awesome. Again the view is second to none, and the amount of control is incredible. Only down side to doggy is there isn't that connection as you can't see your partners face and eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have gotta say thou Captain......doggy....makes me weak at the knees everytime
Ah well everyone likes a bit of doggy, least in my experience. From a mans point of view doggy is also awesome. Again the view is second to none, and the amount of control is incredible. Only down side to doggy is there isn't that connection as you can't see your partners face and eyes. "
Unless you pull their hair back and they look back at you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it if the guy is sat up, like on a sofa etc squatted over him, arms round neck having a nice snog
Was gushed over last night in just that position. More horny as my balls were warmed as she ground against me. Her orgasmic breath into my mouth was the cherry "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I look at my guy when I'm being fucked from behind. Ok...its not straight on and I might look a bit of a mess.....oh, getting turned on! LOVE IT ALL!!
No winks....that sounds like it could be amazing. Love my wand....its Gems new best friend! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I have had a lady slip a vib in her bottom as I filled the front hole. That was rather an intense feeling the vibrations stimulating us both from inside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got Mr Red to explode big style last night just by squatting on him, few strokes and boom, he can't stay long with me in that position ha ha."
Doggystyle is my achilles heel,
Just looking at her arse makes me go weak at the knees |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like the feeling of being on top and in control but I'm far to paranoid about my body to totally let go and enjoy  "
Babe you've defo nothing to worry about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many ladies like to be on top during sex.
I've know a few ladies who are a little self conscious in this position.
I'd be interested in the consensus of opinion.
From a guys perspective the view is amazing, even/especially if a lady is of a more voluptuous build"
I love it!!
I think it's the best but yes, self concious does come into play some times! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I struggle with it as u broke my pelvis so it hurts and makes me look really unfit when I am actually in pain "
I don't mean u lol I mean me , lol I broke it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm that's interesting, so the best thing for you is to be allowed to find your own rythum,
Yes, that's part of it. It's the rhythm, the angle, how to move in a way that gets a positive reaction from him. All while I'm trying not to feel self conscious of my body and inadequate about not getting it right and praying i will do it in a way that gives him pleasure. Being on top causes me more stress than it gives pleasure, usually. The odd exception, but that's the norm in my experience. "
I feel like this, very little enjoyment due to worrying too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Straddle his thighs, smile at him as you slowly lower your pussy over his cock, take him all the way in, lean forward close to his face, grab hold of his hands and pin them down and whisper in his ear "your all mine now"
It's not about what he wants its about what he is going to get
Ms Lovepuppies |
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"I struggle with it as u broke my pelvis so it hurts and makes me look really unfit when I am actually in pain
I don't mean u lol I mean me , lol I broke it lol "
I was going to say, I've never even met you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Straddle his thighs, smile at him as you slowly lower your pussy over his cock, take him all the way in, lean forward close to his face, grab hold of his hands and pin them down and whisper in his ear "your all mine now"
It's not about what he wants its about what he is going to get
Ms Lovepuppies "
Oh my good god, this! |
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