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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x"
It's like playing Russian roulette played by selfish people. I'd say that at least 50% of men on here have a partner (and play away without their knowledge or consent) so when they have dipped their todger in a potentially life threatening hole they take it home and dip it into their wife/partner.
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It's about the same as far as I can see. Still the same amount of people with safe sex only on their profile happy to lay back waiting for me to jump on unprotected then express surprise when we produce condoms. It often seems that in their rush to get ready condoms slipped their minds  |
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x
It's like playing Russian roulette played by selfish people. I'd say that at least 50% of men on here have a partner (and play away without their knowledge or consent) so when they have dipped their todger in a potentially life threatening hole they take it home and dip it into their wife/partner.
T"
Russian roulette, assuming you hold the gun straight, has a 1 in 6 chance of death, barebacking a random on here whilst not very sensible is nowhere near as risky and probably less dangerous then a lot that people already do on here
I agree in clubs etc I've seen lots of safe sex and haven't noticed a trend otherwise
Assume everyone barebacks and look after your sexual health is always the best policy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1"
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x"
Having been on here a long time I have been surprised by the number of people who don't use condoms. It does make you wonder are they stupid or don't they care. |
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x
It's like playing Russian roulette played by selfish people. I'd say that at least 50% of men on here have a partner (and play away without their knowledge or consent) so when they have dipped their todger in a potentially life threatening hole they take it home and dip it into their wife/partner.
T"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I haven't noticed an increase.
Either on site or in clubs.
What evidence are you basing your comment on?
The amount of people we have started talking to and then they've said 'we only play bareback' when there is nothing on their profiles about it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
T"
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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So do you REALLY know what to look for ? Do you carry a speculum and endoscope to meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
T"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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it just gets better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean."
Because you can see germs and all the other nasty shit you can catch. Good luck with your disease free diagnosis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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Maybe educate yourself, before saying that.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
T"
No.
No it doesn't! 
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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I think your off your trolley. STI's don't recognise clean people and avoid them.
If anyone asked me to do bareback i'd tell them to do one...
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
T"
omg!? Really? You think someone with HIV has a smelly pussy and thats what you base your decision on?? The mind boggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
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I think you have just lost 99% of your chances for having sex with any Woman on here (that has standards anyway) lol
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
I think you have just lost 99% of your chances for having sex with any Woman on here (that has standards anyway) lol
T"
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean."
And you can tell who is STD free due to them appearing clean? You will save the NHS millions!
These posts are great for showing us who to avoid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Red bare back and catching something Black condoms and safe - being happy and healthy for next years... Simple as that.
You can't see if some one has HIV just from a shaved cock or pussy |
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
I think you have just lost 99% of your chances for having sex with any Woman on here (that has standards anyway) lol
T"
I think the poor women you've had BB sex with would also have problems getting sex with many others especially oral sex receiving or giving without oral damns or condoms.
Note to self. Don't play with anyone whos played with this idiot. |
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better ."
How will it feel when you are told you have a drug resistant STD or will you take it on the chin and carry on fucking bareback, spreading the "good word"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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Sorry but its what you can't see. that's going to cause the damage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ...
T"
OMG Why am I always shocked at how naive some adults are on this site? I have to google a lot of things but Dear Lord this is basic sex awareness isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better .
How will it feel when you are told you have a drug resistant STD or will you take it on the chin and carry on fucking bareback, spreading the "good word"?"
Not sure what I would do IF it happened lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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Words fail me!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes"
lol classic |
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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago
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It is quite shocking how people hazard with their health and are willing to hazard with others...we've had quite a steamy email exchange with a couple,when they suggested BB and we said sorry,but no can do,never heard from then again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better ."
Maybe that's why after being on here longer than a year you have no verifications! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I used to go dogging (on my own before Bangers) I saw a Woman get barebacked to completion by at least 15 guys, and I wondered how many went straight home and shagged their wives/partners. It actually put me off dogging for quite a long time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better .
Maybe that's why after being on here longer than a year you have no verifications! "
No its not as I am not actively searching, using the forums more |
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better .
How will it feel when you are told you have a drug resistant STD or will you take it on the chin and carry on fucking bareback, spreading the "good word"?Not sure what I would do IF it happened lol."
Priceless, are you aware people can read your posts?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better .
How will it feel when you are told you have a drug resistant STD or will you take it on the chin and carry on fucking bareback, spreading the "good word"?Not sure what I would do IF it happened lol.
Priceless, are you aware people can read your posts? "
Yes I do. I am supriced you haven't hijacked that the op also said they liked bareback or is it just for single men?lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean."
At least you are honest, now people can make their own decision as to whether they meet you or not.
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean.
At least you are honest, now people can make their own decision as to whether they meet you or not.
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I agree I am happy for people to state that they enjoy bare back and wish that others would stop slating them. As with everything in this game honesty and transparency are the best ways forward. |
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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago
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Most likely the reason for an increase in bareback sex is the overall improvement of medical science. More and more std's can be treated and cured. Even now I'll bet a ire for HIV will become avaliable in the. It too distant future.
But of course without knowing for sure if somebody's disease free a condom is best. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I used to go dogging (on my own before Bangers) I saw a Woman get barebacked to completion by at least 15 guys, and I wondered how many went straight home and shagged their wives/partners. It actually put me off dogging for quite a long time.
T"
Oh my god no way. Why do people risks themselves and others in that way |
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"When I used to go dogging (on my own before Bangers) I saw a Woman get barebacked to completion by at least 15 guys, and I wondered how many went straight home and shagged their wives/partners. It actually put me off dogging for quite a long time.
T
Oh my god no way. Why do people risks themselves and others in that way"
It's way more common than you think. We aren't frequent club goers and we've witnessed similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head!
Posts like this do make me wonder whether certain people have any clue about sexual health.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head!
Posts like this do make me wonder whether certain people have any clue about sexual health.
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we here folk who shop in tesco's have more std,s than Asda shoppers
Women who don't wear underwear and use public transport are much more likely to have something they can pass on , but if they smell really nice it's ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like bareback to and looking for it to, love a bare penis in the pussey, nothing feels better .
How will it feel when you are told you have a drug resistant STD or will you take it on the chin and carry on fucking bareback, spreading the "good word"?Not sure what I would do IF it happened lol."
there,s nothing you could do
you,d literally be well and truly FU**ED |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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Do you check their teeth like as in buying a horse?
Freddy Mercury never looked unclean to me and you can tell an unclean woman a mile off as she stinks of haddock from 3 blocks away!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x"
I would say the same as there ever was though the ones who are honest are the tip of the iceberg there probably 5 times more who do but don't say. |
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
T"
I'd disagree: not stupid, scary! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
T"
Ha!! whaaaat?!! if they look healthy?!! hehe
Ah hes tanned and has a few extra pound on him..must be clean as a whistle...
Durrrrrrrr |
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"When I used to go dogging (on my own before Bangers) I saw a Woman get barebacked to completion by at least 15 guys, and I wondered how many went straight home and shagged their wives/partners. It actually put me off dogging for quite a long time.
T
Oh my god no way. Why do people risks themselves and others in that way
It's way more common than you think. We aren't frequent club goers and we've witnessed similar. "
There's a married man that appears on my updates nearly every day as he posts the latest pictures of his bare back conquests. All I think is: his poor wife! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone who does bareback with a total stranger is just mad!
Having bareback with a partner is fine in my books so long as you both get tested regularly - but you must trust each other and if in doubt don't do bareback - simples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean."
So you can SEE syphilis, chlamydia and AIDS ? |
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Barebacking on the swing scene is an early gateway to funeral parlour.people think Hiv is no more automatic death sentence because there are drugs to prolong surfer's longevity.is better to play safe and enjoy your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean.
So you can SEE syphilis, chlamydia and AIDS ? "
I thought he was referring to the Canadian version of The Great British Bake off!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last two couples, plus one guy I arranged to (but didn't) meet dropped in, "we only play bareback" at the last minute.
I replied that wouldn't work for me and I felt it dishonest that they listed "Safe Sex" as an interest. One of the couples said they never use condoms with anyone.
My humble opinion, without skating anyone's choice is:
I think people should be upfront and honest about bareback at the beginning. Not drop it in as a surprise.
To me, safe sex means using condoms but maybe I'm missing something.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
T
I'd disagree: not stupid, scary! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would play bearbake! But with only people that are non to me or with new peoples that it looks there are clean.
So you can SEE syphilis, chlamydia and AIDS ? "
To be very frank you can see syphilis - if some one has caught Syphilis at an early stage hair can fall out in clumps, rashes develop and bumps on the skin appear. These can break open "weeping"..
If not treated eyes turn yellow and the brain gets infected..in early times lead to madness...
But as one op answer said..all these illness were treated with antibiotics but more and more strains are resistant to antibiotics... So wait do we learn ? Use a condom !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 weeks ago a female on here was asking for male participants for a bareback gang bang and she stated she wanted everyone to ejaculate up her backside.
I checked her verifications the following day and duly blocked them all.
How stupid can one woman and three men (those that verified her) be?
Its just so risky it's untrue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Jez do wonder what the draw of bareback is for some. Is it the sensation or for couples does it just look hornier when you are watching each other. As it stands we feel its each to their own. If people are going bare then its simple dont meet them if its not your thing. |
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Seems to go in and out of "fashion" on here one months its highly looked down on
Next months everyones reminded thats its personal preference
Then the following months seams everyone is at it
The it goes back to being looked down on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 weeks ago a female on here was asking for male participants for a bareback gang bang and she stated she wanted everyone to ejaculate up her backside.
I checked her verifications the following day and duly blocked them all.
How stupid can one woman and three men (those that verified her) be?
Its just so risky it's untrue."
I saw that too and know of white a few women who have done the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 weeks ago a female on here was asking for male participants for a bareback gang bang and she stated she wanted everyone to ejaculate up her backside.
I checked her verifications the following day and duly blocked them all.
How stupid can one woman and three men (those that verified her) be?
Its just so risky it's untrue.
I saw that too and know of white a few women who have done the same."
Whoops...quite a few women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's unbelievable that in 2014 you still have a lot of people playing Russian roulette with theres and also other peoples lives. Don't they realise that good health is a precious thing to have and should be looked after. |
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That is a SCARY!!!! reading.
And some of ppl here attitude is horrifying.
I know a story of a woman, who only sexual partner ever was her husband. And she got HIV.
How? How was it possible? She worked as a nurse, so first thought was hospital.
But her husband got tests, they had serious conversation and he admited, he cheated on her. Oh, only ones.
"But how was that possible, she was so clean, educated, she smelled so well, I don't understand"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are still not 100% safe whilst using condoms, so please think of visiting a GUM or family planning clinic. You'll get free condoms too and 100% discretion.
I've come across many people that are under the illusion that they are protected using condoms. They are not 100% safe and you can still contract STDs through oral and can even get it in the eyes.
Swing safer folks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive never understood why other peoples sexual preferences ruffle so many feathers if you aint ever going to meet them"
No! But you may meet their past or future 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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Oh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
T"
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ..
I think you have just lost 99% of your chances for having sex with any Woman on here (that has standards anyway) lol
T
I think the poor women you've had BB sex with would also have problems getting sex with many others especially oral sex receiving or giving without oral damns or condoms.
Note to self. Don't play with anyone whos played with this idiot."
I'm so glad this topic has appeared again.
I look at photos on profiles and if I spot bareback......I'm gone!
I'm stunned that someone can think oh he looks clean, he must be d&d free
I also look at verifications and track where people have been...... That can be very disturbing as far as unprotected sex is concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
That is quite literally the stupidest thing I've heard all week.
Do you expect that someone with an STI to look like a Meth Head?
No but you know when a woman has some prob because it smells here pussy ..
I think you have just lost 99% of your chances for having sex with any Woman on here (that has standards anyway) lol
T
I think the poor women you've had BB sex with would also have problems getting sex with many others especially oral sex receiving or giving without oral damns or condoms.
Note to self. Don't play with anyone whos played with this idiot.
I'm so glad this topic has appeared again.
I look at photos on profiles and if I spot bareback......I'm gone!
I'm stunned that someone can think oh he looks clean, he must be d&d free
I also look at verifications and track where people have been...... That can be very disturbing as far as unprotected sex is concerned "
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The shocking ignorance/stupidity of a very small minority of people on this post absolutely horrifies me!!
.....BUT I will say, that reading through posts like this restores my faith in fellow swingers, as the overwhelming majority have expressed as much disgust at the thought of bareback as we do.
We would NEVER play roulette with our sexual health
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ow silly not to rap your willy. My wife's pet is the only women other I have had unprotected sex with but she is only having sex with us. When the relationship got more serious we all where tested and we barebacked for the first when she was clear. It was one hell of a night.
All the other ladies that I've played with I use a condom. We have one night we played and the other couple they did not want to use condoms and drop that on us after we where in full swing that shut the party down right quick and that's why the wife lost interest in the male half of couples. |
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I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people. |
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people."
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp"
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things. |
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things. "
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x"
Just of late I have seen more and more bareback pics being uploaded to single guys profiles. I don't care who or what relation the lass is to the guy. It's an instant no for me. My health is way more important than a quick shag with some random... I will never understand why people would put themselves at such risk. The mind boggles |
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Get educated people."
It isn't a death sentence but it I'd a life sentence with no parole. |
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Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things. "
He signs himself Gimp but it does cause confusion. |
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp "
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Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp "
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
It isn't a death sentence but it I'd a life sentence with no parole. "
Not really. I have HIV and it makes no difference to my life at all in terms of health and general well being; of course there is a social stigma associated with it thanks to many people making assumptions about how I got it and what lifestyle I lead.
I take a pill a day, and that's it. No side effects other than the occasional crazy dreams which is hardly bad. I have worse side effects from the antihistamines I have to take for my allergies. |
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Get educated people.
It isn't a death sentence but it I'd a life sentence with no parole.
Not really. I have HIV and it makes no difference to my life at all in terms of health and general well being; of course there is a social stigma associated with it thanks to many people making assumptions about how I got it and what lifestyle I lead.
I take a pill a day, and that's it. No side effects other than the occasional crazy dreams which is hardly bad. I have worse side effects from the antihistamines I have to take for my allergies."
Unless a cure is found you in your lifetime I'm guessing you will have the disease for life? That's what I meant by life sentence. |
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I take a pill a day, and that's it. No side effects other than the occasional crazy dreams which is hardly bad. I have worse side effects from the antihistamines I have to take for my allergies.
Unless a cure is found you in your lifetime I'm guessing you will have the disease for life? That's what I meant by life sentence."
Yes, but I have to take antihistamine and probably will for the rest of my life. Downing a pill isn't exactly a chore. And I'm undetectable, so can't pass it on.
Anyone on here who is HIV negative has a higher chance of catching HIV from someone who thinks they are HIV negative, and using a condom, than they do catching it from me if we bareback and I cum in them. |
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I take a pill a day, and that's it. No side effects other than the occasional crazy dreams which is hardly bad. I have worse side effects from the antihistamines I have to take for my allergies.
Unless a cure is found you in your lifetime I'm guessing you will have the disease for life? That's what I meant by life sentence.
Yes, but I have to take antihistamine and probably will for the rest of my life. Downing a pill isn't exactly a chore. And I'm undetectable, so can't pass it on.
Anyone on here who is HIV negative has a higher chance of catching HIV from someone who thinks they are HIV negative, and using a condom, than they do catching it from me if we bareback and I cum in them."
I take a levothyroxine tablet daily, it doesn't inconvenience me either but it will be for life and the pedants among us would argue that my phrase "life sentence" could be accurately used to describe either of our conditions.
I know very little about HIV but what little I have read tells me that being undetectable means the risk of passing it on can be hugely reduced but you have said you can't pass it on |
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I take a pill a day, and that's it. No side effects other than the occasional crazy dreams which is hardly bad. I have worse side effects from the antihistamines I have to take for my allergies.
Unless a cure is found you in your lifetime I'm guessing you will have the disease for life? That's what I meant by life sentence.
Yes, but I have to take antihistamine and probably will for the rest of my life. Downing a pill isn't exactly a chore. And I'm undetectable, so can't pass it on.
Anyone on here who is HIV negative has a higher chance of catching HIV from someone who thinks they are HIV negative, and using a condom, than they do catching it from me if we bareback and I cum in them.
I take a levothyroxine tablet daily, it doesn't inconvenience me either but it will be for life and the pedants among us would argue that my phrase "life sentence" could be accurately used to describe either of our conditions.
I know very little about HIV but what little I have read tells me that being undetectable means the risk of passing it on can be hugely reduced but you have said you can't pass it on "
It's an on going debate, but there's no confirmed case of an undetectable person passing on HIV. There was a statement made a few years ago by a Swiss research group that said undetectable people couldn't pass on HIV which caused uproar simply because health services don't like the word "Never". The PARTNER study has been going for a few years now and in 40,000 documented cases of unprotected sex between serodiscordant couples (I.e. one with one without HIV) no transmissions occurred. Three people in the study did contract HIV but not from their partners. |
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp."
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
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Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp.
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
Mr Gimp"
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I take a pill a day, and that's it. No side effects other than the occasional crazy dreams which is hardly bad. I have worse side effects from the antihistamines I have to take for my allergies.
Unless a cure is found you in your lifetime I'm guessing you will have the disease for life? That's what I meant by life sentence.
Yes, but I have to take antihistamine and probably will for the rest of my life. Downing a pill isn't exactly a chore. And I'm undetectable, so can't pass it on.
Anyone on here who is HIV negative has a higher chance of catching HIV from someone who thinks they are HIV negative, and using a condom, than they do catching it from me if we bareback and I cum in them.
I take a levothyroxine tablet daily, it doesn't inconvenience me either but it will be for life and the pedants among us would argue that my phrase "life sentence" could be accurately used to describe either of our conditions.
I know very little about HIV but what little I have read tells me that being undetectable means the risk of passing it on can be hugely reduced but you have said you can't pass it on
It's an on going debate, but there's no confirmed case of an undetectable person passing on HIV. There was a statement made a few years ago by a Swiss research group that said undetectable people couldn't pass on HIV which caused uproar simply because health services don't like the word "Never". The PARTNER study has been going for a few years now and in 40,000 documented cases of unprotected sex between serodiscordant couples (I.e. one with one without HIV) no transmissions occurred. Three people in the study did contract HIV but not from their partners."
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"The last two couples, plus one guy I arranged to (but didn't) meet dropped in, "we only play bareback" at the last minute.
I replied that wouldn't work for me and I felt it dishonest that they listed "Safe Sex" as an interest. One of the couples said they never use condoms with anyone.
My humble opinion, without skating anyone's choice is:
I think people should be upfront and honest about bareback at the beginning. Not drop it in as a surprise.
To me, safe sex means using condoms but maybe I'm missing something...."
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World Health Organisation information
More than 1 million people acquire a sexually transmitted infection (STI) every day.
Each year, an estimated 500 million people become ill with one of 4 STIs: chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis and trichomoniasis.
More than 530 million people have the virus that causes genital herpes (HSV2).
More than 290 million women have a human papillomavirus (HPV) infection.
The majority of STIs are present without symptoms.
Some STIs can increase the risk of HIV acquisition three-fold or more.
STIs can have serious consequences beyond the immediate impact of the infection itself, through mother-to-child transmission of infections and chronic diseases.
Drug resistance, especially for gonorrhoea, is a major threat to reducing the impact of STIs worldwide.
Resistance of STIs—in particular gonorrhoea — to antibiotics has increased rapidly in recent years and has reduced treatment options. The emergence of decreased susceptibility of gonorrhoea to the “last line” treatment option (oral and injectable cephalosporins) together with antimicrobial resistance already shown to penicillins, sulphonamides, tetracyclines, quinolones and macrolides make gonorrhoea a multidrug-resistant organism. Antimicrobial resistance for other STIs, though less common, also exists, making prevention and prompt treatment critical.
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp.
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
Mr Gimp
I think you should change your name to Lord Gimp or Viscount Gimp.......no possible confusion there "
Lord Archibald Tarquin Spiffin Tiffin Viscount of the Womens Realm Gimp has a certain ring to it Dontcha thing wat wat Tallyho chaps
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Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp.
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
Mr Gimp
I think you should change your name to Lord Gimp or Viscount Gimp.......no possible confusion there
Lord Archibald Tarquin Spiffin Tiffin Viscount of the Womens Realm Gimp has a certain ring to it Dontcha thing wat wat Tallyho chaps
Lordy Lordy Archie Gimp CDM n a bar of Wholenut "
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp.
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
Mr Gimp
I think you should change your name to Lord Gimp or Viscount Gimp.......no possible confusion there
Lord Archibald Tarquin Spiffin Tiffin Viscount of the Womens Realm Gimp has a certain ring to it Dontcha thing wat wat Tallyho chaps
Lordy Lordy Archie Gimp CDM n a bar of Wholenut
quite a lot to type out at the end of a post though "
One doesnt type oneself Mydear, One has staff to carry out the menial tasks, Btw theres no need to Curtsy obe may arise
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Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp.
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
Mr Gimp
I think you should change your name to Lord Gimp or Viscount Gimp.......no possible confusion there
Lord Archibald Tarquin Spiffin Tiffin Viscount of the Womens Realm Gimp has a certain ring to it Dontcha thing wat wat Tallyho chaps
Lordy Lordy Archie Gimp CDM n a bar of Wholenut
quite a lot to type out at the end of a post though
One doesnt type oneself Mydear, One has staff to carry out the menial tasks, Btw theres no need to Curtsy obe may arise
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"Anyone who does bareback with a total stranger is just mad!
Having bareback with a partner is fine in my books so long as you both get tested regularly - but you must trust each other and if in doubt don't do bareback - simples!"
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"I'm all for people making their own choices. I'm astounded by the number of posts on here from people who think either they can spot STIs just by looking at someone's pics but also by people who are clearly living in the 80s and think HIV is a death sentence.
Get educated people.
I'm so glad that they have finally found a cure, Thanks for educating me
Gimp
Good to see people aren't descending to name calling. Just shows that you don't have a clue what you're talking about and it's Muppets like you who prevent serious and considered debate about these things.
education wise i was taught at School to always sign my name at the bottom left of any letter i write and have naturally progressed to doing the same on all Emails and Messages, It also helps to differentiate between which half of this couple is contributing to a thread or sending a Message.
But hey you name call away fella if thats what floats your Boat
Muppet Gimp
Sorry, didn't realise that was the name you went by on here. Just looked like you were calling me gimp.
No Problem Fella, As Mrs Nice said it does cause confusion sometimes, The lack of ability to change Font doesn't Help
Mr Gimp
I think you should change your name to Lord Gimp or Viscount Gimp.......no possible confusion there
Lord Archibald Tarquin Spiffin Tiffin Viscount of the Womens Realm Gimp has a certain ring to it Dontcha thing wat wat Tallyho chaps
Lordy Lordy Archie Gimp CDM n a bar of Wholenut
quite a lot to type out at the end of a post though
One doesnt type oneself Mydear, One has staff to carry out the menial tasks, Btw theres no need to Curtsy obe may arise
Sir Argie Bargie Gimp Exhumed
I wasn't curtseying oh mighty one I was weeing on your floor "
Oh my you Are a Frisky little Filly arnt you, One doesnt usually get started on the saucy shenanigans until after ones mid morning ablutions followed by a quick rub down with the times supplement, I shall get my Batman to take those damp Bloomers off for you and you may make yourself more comfortable
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"Really if they look clean ull bareback. Nunuthat you health should always be no 1
I mean if they look healthy enough and also clean and hygienic yes..
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"Is it just us or are more and more people looking for people to play bareback with. What are your thoughts on this x"
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