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Best way to start conversation?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I'm not looking for sex but if you are then I am too. If not then can we just chat and be friends....unless you're wanting sex in which case I'm your man.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I no lady's don't like when us men say ho how are you but what's the point of us men writing some really long message only got you not to even look at it and delete it if you replied and said I'm fine how are you that polite and then we would start a convo. Lady's this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging so come lady's give men a break  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on the amount of cock pic avatars the ideal solution seams to be walk over to their table whip your Wang out and slap them in the face with it, followed by "hi, how's it going?".
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"Hi my names dick, would you like it,  "
A mate of mine at Uni used this all the time...but its 'do you like it ?' Leaves it easy to come back rather than a straight knock back.
Always worked for him with his upper class accent and George Micheal looks.
Another guy tried it and got 'what...Head ?' straight back at him. His knees almost buckled
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no lady's don't like when us men say ho how are you but what's the point of us men writing some really long message only got you not to even look at it and delete it if you replied and said I'm fine how are you that polite and then we would start a convo. Lady's this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging so come lady's give men a break "
and I bet that post was five times as long as any message you've sent! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do woman want . you wouldn't come up to a lady in the street and tell them your life story straight away you ask them if there ok . I no this isn't the street but come on lady's we are trying to be polite I could spend ten min on writing a full length starter message for you lady's just to delete. I do put effort into messages but then I get the whole delete sign so you tell us lady's what do u want from us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See and you get lady's like these who don't even no you and say silly things "
Is that's aimed at me? Try using the quote button so we know who you're complaining about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See and you get lady's like these who don't even no you and say silly things
Is that's aimed at me? Try using the quote button so we know who you're complaining about "
I'm not complaining at all just try to make my point the same as you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no lady's don't like when us men say ho how are you but what's the point of us men writing some really long message only got you not to even look at it and delete it if you replied and said I'm fine how are you that polite and then we would start a convo. Lady's this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging so come lady's give men a break "
I said basically this on yesterdays single man thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See and you get lady's like these who don't even no you and say silly things
Is that's aimed at me? Try using the quote button so we know who you're complaining about
I'm not complaining at all just try to make my point the same as you "
So who were you referring to when you said ladies like these who say silly things?? 
Oh and as for silly comments, I think 'this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging' is as silly as they come! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I no lady's don't like when us men say ho how are you but what's the point of us men writing some really long message only got you not to even look at it and delete it if you replied and said I'm fine how are you that polite and then we would start a convo. Lady's this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging so come lady's give men a break
I said basically this on yesterdays single man thread "
And I see that thank you for posting that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See and you get lady's like these who don't even no you and say silly things
Is that's aimed at me? Try using the quote button so we know who you're complaining about
I'm not complaining at all just try to make my point the same as you
So who were you referring to when you said ladies like these who say silly things??
Oh and as for silly comments, I think 'this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging' is as silly as they come! "
Don't you just love it when people clutch at straws |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See and you get lady's like these who don't even no you and say silly things
Is that's aimed at me? Try using the quote button so we know who you're complaining about
I'm not complaining at all just try to make my point the same as you
So who were you referring to when you said ladies like these who say silly things??
Oh and as for silly comments, I think 'this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging' is as silly as they come!
Don't you just love it when people clutch at straws "
lol I don't need to clutch at straws sweetheart. I'm more than happy with my life on Fab thanks and get more than enough decent messages to keep my busy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See and you get lady's like these who don't even no you and say silly things
Is that's aimed at me? Try using the quote button so we know who you're complaining about
I'm not complaining at all just try to make my point the same as you
So who were you referring to when you said ladies like these who say silly things??
Oh and as for silly comments, I think 'this site is not just for lady's it's for us men too and if it wasn't for us men there wouldn't be any swinging' is as silly as they come!
Don't you just love it when people clutch at straws
lol I don't need to clutch at straws sweetheart. I'm more than happy with my life on Fab thanks and get more than enough decent messages to keep my busy "
And I'm pleased for you never said once you wasn't happy on here and I hope you get many more nice message but I'm not your sweetheart happy swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"get more than enough decent messages to keep my busy
OI Legs! Nice Legs, what time do they open?  "
Thanks, they open on the hour so you've just missed out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"get more than enough decent messages to keep my busy
OI Legs! Nice Legs, what time do they open?
Thanks, they open on the hour so you've just missed out "
Is this gonna be like one of those swiss clocks where some guy comes out of your little door whacking a little drum and two trumpeters either side blast out a fanfare? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"get more than enough decent messages to keep my busy
OI Legs! Nice Legs, what time do they open?
Thanks, they open on the hour so you've just missed out
Is this gonna be like one of those swiss clocks where some guy comes out of your little door whacking a little drum and two trumpeters either side blast out a fanfare? "
lol Oh I wish, but if any man want's to blast a fanfare upon seeing my legs then step this way |
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"get more than enough decent messages to keep my busy
OI Legs! Nice Legs, what time do they open?
Thanks, they open on the hour so you've just missed out
Is this gonna be like one of those swiss clocks where some guy comes out of your little door whacking a little drum and two trumpeters either side blast out a fanfare?
lol Oh I wish, but if any man want's to blast a fanfare upon seeing my legs then step this way "
Get Tosh to pick me up on his next visit
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"Hello, my name is Inigo Montoya, you killed my father, prepare to die" always serves as a nice ice breaker.
Alternatively, "Hello, who's your favourite serial killer?" is a sure-fire conversation starter.
Hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it that when guys opens with "Hi, how are you?", then they don't know how to respond to my answer?
I mean, he's asked how I am, so when I reply honestly with how I'm fed up with the rain outside, can't be bothered to start the housework, feel miserable about some problem or other and just generally want to moan, he doesn't understand....
He asked - I answered....
If he'd said that he liked some aspect of my profile and would like to get to know me, then he'd have got an entirely different response - but they never say that, do they?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to send a fairly lengthy introduction message. Yes, it's a cut and paste which means a few ladies delete straight away as they recognise it as such, but I spent a while creating it as a further intro to who I am and what I'm looking for.
If it's read and/or deleted with no response, I put a private note on that account so I don't hassle the lady again with any further notes.
I get perhaps 10% of ladies who reply to say no thanks (always appreciated) and possibly about 1% that want to know more.
I honestly don't think those percentages were any different went I tried to hand craft each intro mail (and even when you do, you tend to fall into the same phrasing, and so you might as well have done a cut n paste). |
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