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over a year ago
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"Easier said than done"
Plenty of lube, relax and dont tense. This should be done slowly with a lot of pausing. Also try using a butt plug first, this will help to open you up a bit xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easier said than done"
Practice makes perfect - more guys should become better acquainted with anal play via anal masturbation, it'll give them more respect for their ladies anuses and realise that you can't just ram it in porno style and pound away.
After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relax and lube up, gently does it to start with as most have said , try small butt plugs at first then work up. I adore using my strap on, on the OH I feel empowered and excited and very horny whilst I fuck his ass. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We enjoy this immensely. Part of the appeal is the slow kinky build up which when done well in the hands of a skilled operator it should not hurt at all.
Plenty of lube tongue toys and trust. |
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over a year ago
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth "
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx |
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx"
Oh I will!! Xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx"
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love this post as I have wanted to buy this misses a strap on for a while. Iv had few thing up there including a butt plug think we defo need to take the next step and buy a strap on ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *onkersMan
over a year ago
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth "
LOVE IT where's the pics ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz"
Neither can I xxxxx |
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over a year ago
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz
Neither can I xxxxx"
Make me moan like a slut mmmmmmmmmmm xxxx |
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By *rynewMan
over a year ago
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This is a huge fantasy of mine. I even have my own strap on just no one to use it lol.
However having used various sized butt plugs the advice would be lube lube and more lube and plenty of patience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have found that time and patience is key, also like others said plugs are a good start to help you get used to being stretched out a bit. Work your way up and in no time you will be surprised at how easy it has become. The use of oil on the perineum helps the skin to stretch better, take time to discover your g spot there.
Have to say in response to the question "what do women get out of it ?", sometimes a lady will enjoy something different and just may fancy something a little more kinky, some enjoy watching a man give their permission and have their turn in being sodomised, others feet are firmly grounded in the domme realms and love the power exchange and the submission of their man enables them to get off on his discomfort, albeit in a safe sane and consensual manner.
Don't buy a cheap strap on, buy quality and preferably with changeable toys so you can work your way up in size.
Only my opinion from personal experience, all in all I'd say those who don't are missing out ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz
Neither can I xxxxx
Make me moan like a slut mmmmmmmmmmm xxxx"
You will I promise! Xxxx |
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By *rynewMan
over a year ago
warrington |
"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz
Neither can I xxxxx
Make me moan like a slut mmmmmmmmmmm xxxx
You will I promise! Xxxx"
Can I add my name to list as a willing participant lol ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz
Neither can I xxxxx
Make me moan like a slut mmmmmmmmmmm xxxx
You will I promise! Xxxx
Can I add my name to list as a willing participant lol "
Could be arranged ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *rynewMan
over a year ago
warrington |
"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth
Mmmmmmm take me hard n deep xxxxx
Oh I will!! Xxxxx
Mmmmmmm thank you, cant wait xxxxz
Neither can I xxxxx
Make me moan like a slut mmmmmmmmmmm xxxx
You will I promise! Xxxx
Can I add my name to list as a willing participant lol
Could be arranged "
Crossing fingers in hope ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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over a year ago
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Use lots lube and then more lube. Start with a finger when you get used to feeling it there use the thumb. Breath out as it's been inserted if you've used poppers they help relax the muscles but don't use poppers and Viagra together it has bad side effects on some people.
After the thumb start using more fingers and small toys if it hurts with a toy leave it in till you get used to the size keep applying lube.
I used an inflatable butt plug after I got used to certain sizes it worked fine.
The lady that enjoys pegging me said that she enjoys the feeling of power and control she gets over a man and enjoys making me squeal like a girl. Don't rush take your time have a drink relax and remember to breath if your tense it will not happen xxxxx Rebecca ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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over a year ago
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The woman gets two things. First they get to please their man with an intimacy that cannot be underestimated. Second, the man learns how it feels to be fucked. I have learned the difference between slow and fast, gentle and rough, entry and deep, and I've learned when to be still. Many men never learn these things. |
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Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once "
Lucky guy!! |
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once "
Brilliant news you enjoyed it! It's all about the relaxing and lube lol! |
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once
Brilliant news you enjoyed it! It's all about the relaxing and lube lol!"
Trust me you'll enjoy having your cock sucked whilst being pegged xx |
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once
Brilliant news you enjoyed it! It's all about the relaxing and lube lol!
Trust me you'll enjoy having your cock sucked whilst being pegged xx"
Another thing I can't wait to do with you!! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once
Brilliant news you enjoyed it! It's all about the relaxing and lube lol!
Trust me you'll enjoy having your cock sucked whilst being pegged xx
Another thing I can't wait to do with you!! "
Also you pegging me whilst i'm sucking cock xx |
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once
Brilliant news you enjoyed it! It's all about the relaxing and lube lol!
Trust me you'll enjoy having your cock sucked whilst being pegged xx
Another thing I can't wait to do with you!!
Also you pegging me whilst i'm sucking cock xx"
Possibilities are getting even better than before xx |
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"Tried pegging yesterday for the first time I was worried it would hurt but was surprised that infact it didn't and I enjoyed it what I would like now is to be pegged and have my cock sucked at the same time it was an eye opener and I suggest every 1 tries it at least once "
I concur, it can become pretty addictive though |
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"Thinking of letting the mrs do me with a strap on has any guy tried it and got any info on what to do to stop it hurting lol"
Have her let you use it on her first, so she can appreciate the pain threshold ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Well that killed the convo so enlighten us on the best way to clean"
Sorry!
Simple. Pop on lovehoney and spend a tenner on one of their douches. Then just follow the instructions!
(Pretty simple really - fill with warm soapy water, shove up your arse and squeeze! Repeat until what comes out looks like what went in! )
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When inserting if you push back onto the phallus then you can control when you go further. You have two sets of muscles to contend with and if you go in too quickly you can spasm...(not good can put you right off something you will enjoy). Once you relax push in a bit further.. When she's nudging you in nicely look for your G.spot if she hits it you'll find your cock leaking... It's normal and you probably won't care because of how good it feels xxxx enjoy xx |
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I concur, it can become pretty addictive though "
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"The times I've done this with men I've taken it slowly to begin with easing in gently. Maybe try with her lying down and you straddling then you can take it at your own pace and depth "
Plus it looks better on webcam. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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MrsB here the thing that turns me on more than anything else is seeing the other person turned on/ enjoying what you're doing. So anal play and pegging (if done right) are usually guaranteed to get Mr excited. If he's excited my god am I! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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