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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why do guys message you asking to meet "now" ?
a polite "sorry don't meet strangers" is often replied with' well i'm verified so what's the problem?.
jesus try thinking with your brain instead of your balls for once! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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because some people do meet at very short notice, they put a 'meet today' up, not every person meets people that they have spoken to before...
there is no guaranteed formula.
delete, move on.
there will be more that want to chat, than don't... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile even says I wont meet spontaneously. ..n guess what..I still get can u meet me now or im in a hotel for the night...blah blah blah...annoying!!!...x lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age old problem!
Most guys seem to have lost the ability to read profiles so whatever you put in it seems to be ignored.
Not bothering to read your profile doesn't really give a good impression, but the desperate ones play the numbers game.
Then they moan on here that they cannot get no meets... |
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Part of the problem is men think women are like them.
Vast majority would jump at such an offer from a woman so their context for a refusal is taken personally.
They cannot empathise with a need for safety and a connection so they become ruffled by rejection
Block and ignore
Simples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" why do guys message you asking to meet "now" ?
a polite "sorry don't meet strangers" is often replied with' well i'm verified so what's the problem?.
jesus try thinking with your brain instead of your balls for once!"
The same reason couples message at 1am and say can you get here in 30 mins. They are horny and want action now!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If guys can't be bothered to read profile and message us with the shortest of messages we treat them with the contempt they deserve.
A guy messaged couple weeks ago and simply wrote "I'm at the Travelodge at xxxxx now" so we replied well done did you get there all by yourself and do you need help finding the entrance?
He called us wankers which made us laugh but had the desired effect, don't get to hung up on them just play them along in time they will either change or give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With you on that completely!
It is just plain old good manners to read a profile first and make sure that you fit in with what the others want. If you don't, you simply leave them alone.
Funny thing is just how many single guys (and a few couples) don't seem to have any manners...
Never ceases to amaze us. |
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