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By *op corn OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just wanted to ask the single men...if you could would you bypass the 'getting to know you' boring stuff and just get down to it would you? Sometimes we see them working so hard chatting to people in clubs just for the couple to up and leave after 30 minutes of trying so hard! Call me a softy but I feel so sorry for them. What do you think? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like getting to know people. Especially those I may have had contact on here with.
Sometimes skipping the small chat, yes, would be good but I'm a social guy. I like talking to people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like getting to know people. Especially those I may have had contact on here with.
Sometimes skipping the small chat, yes, would be good but I'm a social guy. I like talking to people "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like getting to know people. Especially those I may have had contact on here with.
Sometimes skipping the small chat, yes, would be good but I'm a social guy. I like talking to people "
Chatting is all part of the flirting build up for me  |
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By *op corn OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just realised if men admit that they can't be bothered talking for hours they wouldn't get any action because so many people do it to socialize (no really they want to make good friends!). Personally I love the no nonsense let me just suck your knob! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats why i personally never bother with all the "getting to know you stuff".
Personally i think if a couple or single female like your profile then they will give you a chance regardless of whether or not you send a one liner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just realised if men admit that they can't be bothered talking for hours they wouldn't get any action because so many people do it to socialize (no really they want to make good friends!). Personally I love the no nonsense let me just suck your knob! "
You can do both,
Chat to someone while someone else sucks you  |
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By *op corn OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Im a huge flirt and a big tease. That's a big part of sex for me. I need to engage in that before I really get down to sex. "
so while youre still talking I'm already busy with my mouth full lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like long personal chats. I can tell quite quickly by a man's mannerisms and facial expressions if I want him. If we're chatting and I'm thinking about sucking him I'm probably going to kiss him |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Im a huge flirt and a big tease. That's a big part of sex for me. I need to engage in that before I really get down to sex. so while youre still talking I'm already busy with my mouth full lol x"
Thats fine, each to their own, but if I haven't talked to you, I won't be having sex with you. I might as well go and have a wank as far as I'm concerned. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I've turned down meets because I don't know them or chatted to them.
Yes - me turn down a meet. Whatever next."
I've done it too - Just because you are a single male doesn't mean you are supposed to jump at anything you are offered. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to ask the single men...if you could would you bypass the 'getting to know you' boring stuff and just get down to it would you? Sometimes we see them working so hard chatting to people in clubs just for the couple to up and leave after 30 minutes of trying so hard! Call me a softy but I feel so sorry for them. What do you think? X"
not for me... because the "getting to know you" phase isn't something I do with an end motive... its something I do because I like doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
Getting to know people is fun. If I don't know somebody, I have literally no idea if I want to have sex with them. "
there has to be an attraction before you can have any sort of fun. Talking first is important it's good to get to know people a bit first x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if you wanna know them to much as its just a shag end of the day lol."
ye but you can't shag someone if you're totally repulsed by them can you? It's not the same as meeting someone in a club for a one night stand, maybe that's just me lol x
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"Im a huge flirt and a big tease. That's a big part of sex for me. I need to engage in that before I really get down to sex. so while youre still talking I'm already busy with my mouth full lol x"
now I remember why I like clubs. Go with zero expectations and hope to meet fun people. Most are fun even socially  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a huge flirt and a big tease. That's a big part of sex for me. I need to engage in that before I really get down to sex.
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flirting is always fun too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted to ask the single men...if you could would you bypass the 'getting to know you' boring stuff and just get down to it would you? Sometimes we see them working so hard chatting to people in clubs just for the couple to up and leave after 30 minutes of trying so hard! Call me a softy but I feel so sorry for them. What do you think? X"
Needs to made clear thats what they want but some of us look for the challenge or just think flirting is the normal social convention |
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By *op corn OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Not sure if you wanna know them to much as its just a shag end of the day lol."
its supposed to take 90seconds for the brain to work out whether you like someone. I prefer body language its tells far more truth! Yum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like getting to know someone, with no end goal really, to see if there's a connection etc, if there isn't then it's pointless jumping in, so to speak x |
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