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Why is no one on here looking for a 19 year old?!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm 19 and I just wanna play with some older couples or even an older woman!!but most of them don't want it! :/ if any couples or sexy single women married or not want a young guy to fuck them, hmu!!!!  ) |
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it is difficult for younger guys I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But why?  i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is not all about fucking |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"But why? i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ "
okay... blunt question time...
would you answer your own profile? really???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But why? i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ "
It's not just about a fuck, single women young and old are far from desperate here they get their pick of who they fancy. You have to work very hard to get what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately age is a big issue, most dear people aren't interested in anyone the same age as their kids, some for other reasons. Your one line profile implies it's all about you and your satisfaction nothing about what you can offer so unless you improve your profile, I doubt you will find what you want |
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"But why? i at least wanna fuck an older single woman!! :/ I made this thing to get into swinging early! But I haven't had the chance! :/ "
I think you come across as just being in it for what you can get and while some women might be happy with that I don't know many.
There is a very high ratio of women to men on here so you need to make a bit of effort.
What were you hoping it would be like? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
Swinging tends to be something that couples get into later in their marriage. Often this happens when their kids have left, or are getting close to that age.
Which often leads to off putting comparisons when they consider their required age ranges.
Obviously there are exceptions to this, but you will find that your pool of potential partners is a lot smaller as a result.
I shouldn't say this, but adding 3 years to your age would probably help, assuming you carry off the improved maturity! |
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By *iguy39Man
over a year ago
manchester |
I'm looking for a 19 year old! But a pretty one who is a girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile comes across very immature, even for it only being two lines
We all know why we're here. You just need to sell yourself better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Idk! :/ could u guys help me out? Like should i explain what I'm good at? Like, I really love giving oral to women!! Is that something that I should include? I'm really new to this and I don't really know what to put! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also too many dick picks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Idk! :/ could u guys help me out? Like should i explain what I'm good at? Like, I really love giving oral to women!! Is that something that I should include? I'm really new to this and I don't really know what to put! "
If you can't even work out what you should write about yourself then maybe reevaluate why you're here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Idk! :/ could u guys help me out? Like should i explain what I'm good at? Like, I really love giving oral to women!! Is that something that I should include? I'm really new to this and I don't really know what to put! "
And the fact you are "really new" - obviously at 19 means ladies don't want to have to teach you what to do...they prefer experience most times. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
Write in English, not Prince-speak.
Dial back the emoticons.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because you're 19 |
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"Idk! :/ could u guys help me out? Like should i explain what I'm good at? Like, I really love giving oral to women!! Is that something that I should include? I'm really new to this and I don't really know what to put! "
Yes, say what you like but also what you can give.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why does profile text say you are 24? |
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Go on, shave, wear a wig, Basque, knickers, hold ups, learn how to make up, and walk in heels. I'll fuck you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 32 WITH a 6pack and its hard for me lol, yes we are just to young  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you're 19"
His profile says he is 24!!!! |
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"Why does profile text say you are 24?"
Possibly because earlier on someone suggested he stuck a few years on his age? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Why does profile text say you are 24?"
when in doubt... lie!!!
thats going to help win people over now....  |
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"Because you're 19
His profile says he is 24!!!!"
That's because someone advised him to add some years to his age.
Op women value truth unless their bum really does look.big in it...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha ha he lies about his age on profile but his status still says 19.
Fail |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's exactly what it is! I added a few years in hopes of maybe getting my foot in the door! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Swinging tends to be something that couples get into later in their marriage. Often this happens when their kids have left, or are getting close to that age.
Which often leads to off putting comparisons when they consider their required age ranges.
Obviously there are exceptions to this, but you will find that your pool of potential partners is a lot smaller as a result.
I shouldn't say this, but adding 3 years to your age would probably help, assuming you carry off the improved maturity!"
no offence... encouraging people to lie is really disapointing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does profile text say you are 24?"
I was wondering that to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why I don't go near little boys |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
Being older and mildly jaded has always worked well for me.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately at 19 there's not much in it for us. You can be as eager as you like, you're just not very good. I know, it sucks, but its true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read the forums for the time being before you message anyone,
Take your time and get to know the person And look at other male profiles for tips on how to make your profile stand out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3 |
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"That's exactly what it is! I added a few years in hopes of maybe getting my foot in the door! "
Seriously it is very.difficult for single men and young single men in particular. Be honest and be true to yourself, I don't know if they have socials where you are but if they do go to one. I know you're keen but you do need a lot of patience in this type of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmm would I ???
Yup  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and don't lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A name like rideme doesn't help either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How would you know no one's looking for a 19 year old? Have you read ALL of the profiles?  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"
You do know this is the internet, don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You accuse people of being rude when you admit your profile is now inaccurate and deceptive.
If people are not interested in teenagers it's for a reason not a personal slight.
Respect the choices of others and do not lie to people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"
Showing your age and maturity levels here. You asked for help and advise and got it. Either take it on board like an adult or don't.
People aren't going to tell you what YOU want to here. They will tell you the truth and that's that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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*hear |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"
the problem is this.... you have shown in the last few post that you are prepare to say (and lie) about anything to get your leg over than be true to yourself....
so its all well and good lashing out at everyone else... no one forced to listen and change your profile (and lie)
only you know you.... if you can't sell yourself no one is going to be able to do it for you!!!!
i tend to say the same things... time, patience, basic common sense... lieing doesn't full under "basic common sense" |
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When I was in my teens and most of my twenties I was really into shagging older women. They were fantastic, knew what they wanted and how to get it. Now with all the legal stuff that's going down from the seventies and eighties I'm quite relieved that there's little from those days that could come back to bite me in the bum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*hear"
Another example of immaturity. Can't think of anything decent to say so you result to correcting spelling.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am 32 WITH a 6pack and its hard for me lol, yes we are just to young "
When people said in another thread that you tend to mention your six pack a lot, I thought they were Lieing ....
Ha ha ha fuck me, you sure do mention it a tad |
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Cut the guy some slack! Youth and inexperience are not crimes and I hope people can learn by example some of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"
Get used to it hahaha but common your 19 get out there. When your tied down with a busy career then come back. |
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"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3
the problem is this.... you have shown in the last few post that you are prepare to say (and lie) about anything to get your leg over than be true to yourself....
so its all well and good lashing out at everyone else... no one forced to listen and change your profile (and lie)
only you know you.... if you can't sell yourself no one is going to be able to do it for you!!!!
i tend to say the same things... time, patience, basic common sense... lieing doesn't full under "basic common sense""
It reminds me of when my daughter was at college and I dropped her off and picked her up for her first interview for a part time job. Me 'How did it go?' Her 'Okay but they asked some strange questions.' Me 'Like what?' Her 'What did I think was my worst feature?' Me 'What did you say?' Her 'Time keeping.' Me 'You haven't got the job.' Her 'Why?' To be honest she went on to get a first with honours at Uni, but she still needs to improve her marketing skills |
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i had a lot in common with this guy when i was 19 - i was horny - i loved older - i was a total immature clueless knob that hadn't a scrap of understanding about what experience and life was about and how it added to things. Advice: chill out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a lot in common with this guy when i was 19 - i was horny - i loved older - i was a total immature clueless knob that hadn't a scrap of understanding about what experience and life was about and how it added to things. Advice: chill out"
What guy his age didnt i know im on the same boat still am cant risist an sexy mature woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey if everyone wants to lead by example and exercise some maturity, simply stop replying to the thread where it's no longer necessary. This isn't going to teach him anything but never to be honest ever again |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Wow like 98% of u people are extremely rude, thanks for the people with constructive feedback and criticism! I appreciate the help! :3"
My constructive feedback is if you are going to tell fibs about your age its probably not a good idea to advertise it on the forums  |
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