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Can you really give a woman multiples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One would be good

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By *am123Man  over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"One would be good

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My oh seems to manage very well with giving me multiple orgasms..and im not complaining. They do get very intense so much so I suffered for a while with headaches due to the intensity of the orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I imagine it's much like the men who guarantee to make you squirt...The quality of the experience of what they do varies immensely...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man. "

No, both

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

"

Why the sad face?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man.

No, both"

Great when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends mostly on the lady.

I remember a while ago i thought i was doing well. The lady in question was moaning and gasping for hours....it was only afterwards i realised she was asthmatic.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

if you ever get told ... dont stop ... well .. dont stop... lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man.

No, both"

If she doesn't want to, it will never happen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes and I would say its down to both too. I have to be comfortable and tuned into someone to let myself go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I imagine it's much like the men who guarantee to make you squirt...The quality of the experience of what they do varies immensely... "

I hate when guys "guarantee" that they will make you do this and that. No one can guarantee anything as each sexual partner is different, what works with one might not work with others.

For example I don't squirt or cum more then once on a meet and the amount of guys that say "you've just never been with an experienced/real man". Like hell I haven't, I think when a guy guarantees anything it's a very very arrogant and unsexy statement.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Let's just put it this way sometimes even simple tasks like counting orgasms become impossible

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends entirely on the lady and how she feels about you. When Kat and I have 1:1 sex she has multiple orgasms virtually every time with some so big they make her pass out. She has orgasms with other guys but not to the same intensity or same number.

I have however never met a woman like her so would never boast I could give another woman the same pleasure. Kat is, in my not inconsiderable experience, an exceedingly lucky lady to be able to experience this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes they are possible. I've met a couple of guys where the orgasms just keep coming.....I have to agree with those that have said that it is down to both the man and the woman. For me I think a lot has been down to the chemistry, but the technique definitely helps

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let's just put it this way sometimes even simple tasks like counting orgasms become impossible "

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By *irralswingersCouple  over a year ago

Chester

My man can make me cum multiple times during a session. Either by licking or fucking or playing with my nipples. He is great at making me cum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes and I would say its down to both too. I have to be comfortable and tuned into someone to let myself go "

I agree its the woman who has to feel very attracted to the other person, and let herself go fully, only then can you achieve the multiple one after another never ending orgasm...just my observation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes and I would say its down to both too. I have to be comfortable and tuned into someone to let myself go "

same here, if I don't feel any chemistry then it wont happen, no matter how good his technique may be.

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By *zanyCouple  over a year ago

truro

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yes some men have by giving me oral or fingering me.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan  over a year ago

belfast

I believe it's down to both, the girl needs to be totally relaxed and focused but I rarely had a girl that didn't cum at all. Multiples do happen quite a lot.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"My oh seems to manage very well with giving me multiple orgasms..and im not complaining. They do get very intense so much so I suffered for a while with headaches due to the intensity of the orgasms. "

"My oh seems to manage very well with giving me multiple orgasms..and im not complaining. They do get very intense so much so I suffered for a while with headaches due to the intensity of the orgasms. "

That could well be to do with a 'Highered Blood pressure' from the exhilaration of multiple orgasms

Work checking out with GP

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

When you say multiples how long in between each one? Is it literally one after the other?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I imagine it's much like the men who guarantee to make you squirt...The quality of the experience of what they do varies immensely...

I hate when guys "guarantee" that they will make you do this and that. No one can guarantee anything as each sexual partner is different, what works with one might not work with others.

For example I don't squirt or cum more then once on a meet and the amount of guys that say "you've just never been with an experienced/real man". Like hell I haven't, I think when a guy guarantees anything it's a very very arrogant and unsexy statement."

As soon as anyone starts saying stuff like that I stop talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When you say multiples how long in between each one? Is it literally one after the other?"

yep near as one continual orgasm beautiful sight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When you say multiples how long in between each one? Is it literally one after the other?"
for me yes one after another mostly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it is possible but not with anybody..it takes time and patience..we are 22 years together and can now but only over last 5 years or so has it been possible..

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By *osweet69Couple  over a year ago

portsmouth

Yes you can but it takes two to tango.

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By *icefellatwoMan  over a year ago

hastings


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

Every Lady is different not all can have one let alone multiple.

The men that say they can give multiple are just telling you ladies what you want to hear to get in your bed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

"

Same here as never had one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't do it with everyone but if the right guy pushes the right button my orgasms are in a hair trigger and one can start before the other has properly finished. It can be overwhelming, but at the same time i don't fight it....it feels too good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man.

No, both

If she doesn't want to, it will never happen. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men that guarantee anything get my hackles up. Having said that, my body seems to respond to continued pressure on my clit during orgasm that seems to make it cycle over and over, but, as many have said, it takes the right man in the right circumstances and nothing is guaranteed.

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By *icefellatwoMan  over a year ago

hastings


"One would be good

Same here as never had one "

That is sad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes and I would say its down to both too. I have to be comfortable and tuned into someone to let myself go

same here, if I don't feel any chemistry then it wont happen, no matter how good his technique may be. "

Yep got yo agree

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

Nic has multiple orgasms and starts to squirt after the 3 rd or 4th . I don't give here them, she gives herself them. I just provide the right conditions for her to have them. I know a few buttons to press that works for her , and staying hard for a long time helps, however she works the sex to make herself come. men that think otherwise are deluding themselves and probably not that experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

Same here as never had one "

you havnt met the right man then maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've experienced it once... And it made me cry it was intense!

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By *horltzMan  over a year ago

heysham

Depends on the individual , male or female . I had an ex once , once she started it was non stop orgasms , I used to sit back thinking "boy I'm good". Yet other times with other women , no joy

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By *abcouple11Couple  over a year ago

Truro

privilege of being female - multiple orgasms. What causes them? Females don't come with an instruction manual telling you that. Fucking hard, fucking gently, foreplay, fisting, flogging, ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet a man who said that would be too arrogant and most of the ones who say how good they are just aren't that good anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All i say is. She has to trust you. Be able to relax, unwind and let herself go. If she doesn't do that. No matter how hard you try. You're not going to do fuck all.

Just use her body as a guide and you will see.

...now, that i've told my secret. Anyone up for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agree it's all about chemistry, attraction, the ability to relax. I have cried a few times as it's been overwhelming . I'm not in control of my own body.

But , it's very very rare to find someone who can tune in with me to create it .

when it happens it is amazing

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire

Buy a Hitatchi Magic Wand and practice ours is very good at producing multiples!

We have done it regularly, but never on a meet only when we are alone together. I think it's hard to truly relax and let go enough when there's so much going on, on a meet or in a club.

Well that's how it's been for us so far anyway, still working on it

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple  over a year ago

Fareham

I've never had a multiple and I don't miss what I've never had. I enjoy the single, massive orgasms I DO have and would be very wary of a guy who 'guaranteed' multiples or squirting etc as I wouldn't want a meet with someone who was on a single-minded mission.

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play"

Wow Sounds like she wouldn't be missing out on much with that attitude

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By *encarolCouple  over a year ago

Tyneside

Amazing what our tounges can do

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By *not69Man  over a year ago

Lancashire

yes they are possible and like previously mentioned, it's down to both. the intensity of the physical attraction and the ability of the guy to read how the woman is responding and adapt. Its more to do with compatibility rather than whether someone is good or not. guys who promise such things are taking out their arises in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My oh seems to manage very well with giving me multiple orgasms..and im not complaining. They do get very intense so much so I suffered for a while with headaches due to the intensity of the orgasms. "

Vamp has this problem with headaches....she has had such intense orgasms sometimes, and we have had to end the meet early, just so she can get home, and recover....lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is all in the Head.I have had many.

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

Wow Sounds like she wouldn't be missing out on much with that attitude"

Tad personal and prejudgemental

I'm surprised at you ?

I enjoy a ladies orgasm, I enjoy her having more than one ?

If a woman says she has never cum I'm not going to change that.

Rightly or wrongly I cannot change the subtle deflated feeling I would have if she did not orgasm

This is not saying I can't handle said inevitable but as I have a choice I feel it a reasonable preference to choose orgasmic women over non orgasmic .

The physical and psychological pleasure I derive from a woman's orgasm is intense .

If i had said I only meet black women would you have smeared my sexual abilities ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

Same here as never had one

you havnt met the right man then maybe."

Nope it's a two way thing but more that I don't relax and too scared to let go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

Wow Sounds like she wouldn't be missing out on much with that attitude

Tad personal and prejudgemental

I'm surprised at you ?

I enjoy a ladies orgasm, I enjoy her having more than one ?

If a woman says she has never cum I'm not going to change that.

Rightly or wrongly I cannot change the subtle deflated feeling I would have if she did not orgasm

This is not saying I can't handle said inevitable but as I have a choice I feel it a reasonable preference to choose orgasmic women over non orgasmic .

The physical and psychological pleasure I derive from a woman's orgasm is intense .

If i had said I only meet black women would you have smeared my sexual abilities ? "

That's a shame as would love to meet you but given the above even a social meet would be pointless

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

no man on here who has never met you can guarantee you anything

how can someone who knows nothing about your body possibly make such an offer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

the only thing i will guarantee is my orgasm lol

him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"the only thing i will guarantee is my orgasm lol

him"

even if i have to finish myself off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

Wow Sounds like she wouldn't be missing out on much with that attitude

Tad personal and prejudgemental

I'm surprised at you ?

I enjoy a ladies orgasm, I enjoy her having more than one ?

If a woman says she has never cum I'm not going to change that.

Rightly or wrongly I cannot change the subtle deflated feeling I would have if she did not orgasm

This is not saying I can't handle said inevitable but as I have a choice I feel it a reasonable preference to choose orgasmic women over non orgasmic .

The physical and psychological pleasure I derive from a woman's orgasm is intense .

If i had said I only meet black women would you have smeared my sexual abilities ? "

I'm sure you have amazing sexual abilities. It just sounded like you were a bit result driven rather than just enjoying the journey. The idea of being with someone who had such strong opinions on whether I would orgasm or not... and whether they could be bothered with me depending upon how I answered that... well... lets just say we look at this issue very differently

For me swinging opens up a whole chocolate box of possibilities... some of which involve orgasms... some of which don't. I like to try and make my sexual partner orgasm. But if they don't I'm more than happy just to enjoy whatever fun and games we do get up to... and I'm sure they'd feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"the only thing i will guarantee is my orgasm lol

him

even if i have to finish myself off "

well you do like to be independant lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My oh seems to manage very well with giving me multiple orgasms..and im not complaining. They do get very intense so much so I suffered for a while with headaches due to the intensity of the orgasms. "

I can with my rabbit and get the brain freeze syndrome

Not through intercourse though

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Have them but only Mr can make it happen.... Amazinggggggg!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I really don't think i could have this, i get so sensitive after i have cum i really don't think i could let a guy carry on, i need a bit of a break to calm down between orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I imagine it's much like the men who guarantee to make you squirt...The quality of the experience of what they do varies immensely...

I hate when guys "guarantee" that they will make you do this and that. No one can guarantee anything as each sexual partner is different, what works with one might not work with others.

For example I don't squirt or cum more then once on a meet and the amount of guys that say "you've just never been with an experienced/real man". Like hell I haven't, I think when a guy guarantees anything it's a very very arrogant and unsexy statement."

Nothing worse than being told .. Yea but you haven't had ME . . then he turns out to be as ham fisted as the rest of em

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

Wow Sounds like she wouldn't be missing out on much with that attitude

Tad personal and prejudgemental

I'm surprised at you ?

I enjoy a ladies orgasm, I enjoy her having more than one ?

If a woman says she has never cum I'm not going to change that.

Rightly or wrongly I cannot change the subtle deflated feeling I would have if she did not orgasm

This is not saying I can't handle said inevitable but as I have a choice I feel it a reasonable preference to choose orgasmic women over non orgasmic .

The physical and psychological pleasure I derive from a woman's orgasm is intense .

If i had said I only meet black women would you have smeared my sexual abilities ?

I'm sure you have amazing sexual abilities. It just sounded like you were a bit result driven rather than just enjoying the journey. The idea of being with someone who had such strong opinions on whether I would orgasm or not... and whether they could be bothered with me depending upon how I answered that... well... lets just say we look at this issue very differently

For me swinging opens up a whole chocolate box of possibilities... some of which involve orgasms... some of which don't. I like to try and make my sexual partner orgasm. But if they don't I'm more than happy just to enjoy whatever fun and games we do get up to... and I'm sure they'd feel the same "

I'm glad you enjoy your chocolate box , just as I enjoy mine .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My gf has multiple orgasms, I'm so jealous, I never have, I have one massive one then I'm all but useless for about 15 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All i say is. She has to trust you. Be able to relax, unwind and let herself go. If she doesn't do that. No matter how hard you try. You're not going to do fuck all.

Just use her body as a guide and you will see.

...now, that i've told my secret. Anyone up for a meet?

"

I tell you what Pops, when I see your profile pic I'm halfway there already . . beautiful mouth mmm mmm mmm

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By *how m3 the ropesMan  over a year ago

llanelli

Pmsl bless ya

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play"

bloody hell you're going to be popular then

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I really don't think i could have this, i get so sensitive after i have cum i really don't think i could let a guy carry on, i need a bit of a break to calm down between orgasms "

That's how I am. Right after orgasm I'm unbelievably sensitive, so much so I can literally jump if he touches me!

I do have a magic wand but never carried on using it after I've orgasmed....maybe I shouldn't turn it off right away, but again, I'm very sensitive.

I'd really really like to experience multiples as it does sound like heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I cum very easily. Only takes me a couple of mins for the first one, then its one after another. It doesn't matter if its on my own or with someone its always the same

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I really don't think i could have this, i get so sensitive after i have cum i really don't think i could let a guy carry on, i need a bit of a break to calm down between orgasms

That's how I am. Right after orgasm I'm unbelievably sensitive, so much so I can literally jump if he touches me!

I do have a magic wand but never carried on using it after I've orgasmed....maybe I shouldn't turn it off right away, but again, I'm very sensitive.

I'd really really like to experience multiples as it does sound like heaven. "

Took us some practice. But once through that stage omg mind blowing. Can't do it on my own though as I tend to lose control, so assistance is greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes and I would say its down to both too. I have to be comfortable and tuned into someone to let myself go "
best sex ever

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

bloody hell you're going to be popular then "

Sometimes I am sometimes I'm not ?

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By *qua vitaeWoman  over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

I recall the first one that I ever had - they just kept on coming and coming. Now I can still have them, but only after stimulating myself again - which is still enjoyable.

I think no one can actually guarantee multiples...if it happens, terrific, but if not, it's not the be all and the end all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A man shouldn't promise that, they come when they are good and ready

Her

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

Wow Sounds like she wouldn't be missing out on much with that attitude

Tad personal and prejudgemental

I'm surprised at you ?

I enjoy a ladies orgasm, I enjoy her having more than one ?

If a woman says she has never cum I'm not going to change that.

Rightly or wrongly I cannot change the subtle deflated feeling I would have if she did not orgasm

This is not saying I can't handle said inevitable but as I have a choice I feel it a reasonable preference to choose orgasmic women over non orgasmic .

The physical and psychological pleasure I derive from a woman's orgasm is intense .

If i had said I only meet black women would you have smeared my sexual abilities ?

I'm sure you have amazing sexual abilities. It just sounded like you were a bit result driven rather than just enjoying the journey. The idea of being with someone who had such strong opinions on whether I would orgasm or not... and whether they could be bothered with me depending upon how I answered that... well... lets just say we look at this issue very differently

For me swinging opens up a whole chocolate box of possibilities... some of which involve orgasms... some of which don't. I like to try and make my sexual partner orgasm. But if they don't I'm more than happy just to enjoy whatever fun and games we do get up to... and I'm sure they'd feel the same "

Look up taoism I understand and advocate the journey x however we all have a route choice and subjectively some routes are more enjoyable.its bizarre you feel because I enjoy a woman's insides pulsating over me and the depth of strength when squeezed by her arms that somehow I miss out on other pleasurable games ? Orgasmic women also enjoy diverse fun and games x

If sleeping with every woman on the site was my game and I had to play daily my selection process might differ , however I'm here for a small number of people who match my preference and at this moment if I had the choice between two lovely ladies and one was orgasmic and one not sorry it's not bad form to choose my preference .

I may add that I don't usually ask , I like surprises sometimes however if I hear perhaps in a forum a lady is not orgasmic then I'm not as inclined to pursue xx

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By *ymrocruMan  over a year ago

penygroes

Been known as the magic toung, always made the ladies orgasm, some even squirt, some have multiple orgasms, the only thing i would guarantee is i will try my best to make you orgasm at least once during our encounter. That is without me getting my cock out of my pants. Lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play"

The person is what interests me... their story, their joy, their sensual engagement, their play. Your statement suggests that, even if there is sexual attraction there, if a woman tells you she doesn't orgasm... you will walk away i.e. that the orgasm is more important than the person. I just feel that's a bit unsexy, let alone un-romantic. I trust you are not actually like that... but that's how your blunt words came across

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If a lady informs me she can't orgasm I would normally not play

The person is what interests me... their story, their joy, their sensual engagement, their play. Your statement suggests that, even if there is sexual attraction there, if a woman tells you she doesn't orgasm... you will walk away i.e. that the orgasm is more important than the person. I just feel that's a bit unsexy, let alone un-romantic. I trust you are not actually like that... but that's how your blunt words came across "

Just flip this round and for one moment imagine I'm a lady who has choices ? Not seen you criticise ladies who prefer dark men or big cock or men of certain age or height ?,I meet many people who interest me orgasmic women are interesting too x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of it depends on the woman's ability to orgasm. If anyone's as sensitive as me it doesn't take much to get one lol. Best advice for the really sensitive women is to get a clit one then a gspot one then just keep alternating for it to be multiple. Need breaks too but sometimes going with it after one or two before a break results in more intense ones

Typo on the last one hence the deletion

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm moving to Cork

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm moving to Cork "

Don't do it cause you'll be bored in no time lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes you can. Listening to a woman helps.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes you can. Listening to a woman helps."

"Pick your socks up!"

"What time do you call this?!"

"No you can't go out with your mates, stay in and watch this romantic movie with me."

"Put the seat down!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes you can. Listening to a woman helps.

"Pick your socks up!"

"What time do you call this?!"

"No you can't go out with your mates, stay in and watch this romantic movie with me."

"Put the seat down!"

"

what a bloke hears

"what socks?"

"anything you want it wont answer back"

"go out with your mates you spent enough time with me today"

(ok i agree this one)

"put the seat down"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes you can. Listening to a woman helps.

"Pick your socks up!"

"What time do you call this?!"

"No you can't go out with your mates, stay in and watch this romantic movie with me."

"Put the seat down!"

what a bloke hears

"what socks?"

"anything you want it wont answer back"

"go out with your mates you spent enough time with me today"

(ok i agree this one)

"put the seat down""

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

You realise if we divulge our secrets, there will be more competition now dont ya!

A multiple is one long orgasm that continues, both peaking and going back to a sizzle, peaks and sizzles think the longest I have sustained with it is about 20 mins maybe half hour - 40mins.. You loose track of time really.

Essentially for the guy - it is to do with stamina and technique.

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By *how m3 the ropesMan  over a year ago

llanelli

At least knowing she can't come so it's not you would be helpful. I mean personally I'm not satisfied unless the lady is satisfied whether she comes or not xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!

You realise if we divulge our secrets, there will be more competition now dont ya!

A multiple is one long orgasm that continues, both peaking and going back to a sizzle, peaks and sizzles think the longest I have sustained with it is about 20 mins maybe half hour - 40mins.. You loose track of time really.

Essentially for the guy - it is to do with stamina and technique. "

Omg has that really happened? I want that, I want that feeling one day, before I get too old to even know what an orgasm is....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have multiples, once the right spot has been hit once I am on a role. It tends to be with fingers first, but then they come quick and fast with either penatration, rubbing my clit with his cock head, just fab Ohh and it helps that my fella knows what buttons to press x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I (mrs) tend to have very intense orgasms with Mr. No other man has ever brought me to tears with an orgasm like he does. But last night was the multiple of a lifetime. Our new Lelo wand and him doing magical things to me and I didn't think it was ever going to stop. Tears and instant headache.....but by god, well worth it!! Slept like a baby. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As all women are different then any man who says he "guarantees" it is full of shit and probably a time wasting dreamer.

However there are techniques which help ... And if a woman is capable of this trick (a fair few actually are) then it can be quite likely.

What far too many men forget ...or never actually knew..is that a woman's largest sex organ is her brain....so it all depends on the situation, the attitude and the rapport.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I (mrs) tend to have very intense orgasms with Mr. No other man has ever brought me to tears with an orgasm like he does. But last night was the multiple of a lifetime. Our new Lelo wand and him doing magical things to me and I didn't think it was ever going to stop. Tears and instant headache.....but by god, well worth it!! Slept like a baby. Lol"

I love lelo...

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

Yes, women CAN have multiples.. but as with any good dance, it takes two to tango. Once you're dance steps are in sync and you're locked in a frenzy of electricity meeting chemistry, sparks (and fireworks) really do fly.

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By *amagra lovegraCouple  over a year ago

telford

when im doing it and she wants multi I think about the shopping lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I imagine it's much like the men who guarantee to make you squirt...The quality of the experience of what they do varies immensely...

I hate when guys "guarantee" that they will make you do this and that. No one can guarantee anything as each sexual partner is different, what works with one might not work with others.

For example I don't squirt or cum more then once on a meet and the amount of guys that say "you've just never been with an experienced/real man". Like hell I haven't, I think when a guy guarantees anything it's a very very arrogant and unsexy statement."

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By *nlyfun3Woman  over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

i have multiple orgasms. i cant count them. tjey sre one ontop of the other. i cum in many different ways. some men just start to bring me up n then stop. why! lol u need to keep playing the whole body to shake and spasm lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i have multiple orgasms. i cant count them. tjey sre one ontop of the other. i cum in many different ways. some men just start to bring me up n then stop. why! lol u need to keep playing the whole body to shake and spasm lol"

Are you not just having one really long one. My one orgasm can last ages. With each one it takes a build up then bam!!! The way you describe it, there is no build up to each one . This is where I get confused. So is there a build up to the first one and then the next ones after don't do the same and happen in an instant or is your first one just as quick and you come the instant you are touched. Just wondering because I see a lot of women say this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Depends mostly on the lady.

I remember a while ago i thought i was doing well. The lady in question was moaning and gasping for hours....it was only afterwards i realised she was asthmatic."

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By *enninemarkMan  over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

In my experience it is about both the giver and reciever. The woman has to be relaxed, happy and ready. The giver needs to be responsive, watching and responding to her body and her response to what they are doing. I would never be arrogant enough to guarantee I can give a woman multiple orgasms and it definately hasnt always happened. However it has happened on many occasions especially when fingering or licking them sometimes leading to when I have penetrated them too.

In my mind its about responding to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I can... me. Why depend on someone else for pleasure?

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By *aveandkate35Couple  over a year ago

telford


"In my experience it is about both the giver and reciever. The woman has to be relaxed, happy and ready. The giver needs to be responsive, watching and responding to her body and her response to what they are doing. I would never be arrogant enough to guarantee I can give a woman multiple orgasms and it definately hasnt always happened. However it has happened on many occasions especially when fingering or licking them sometimes leading to when I have penetrated them too.

In my mind its about responding to each other."

This is the point, all women are different and it has very little to do with man.

So to the Op, enjoy yourself, if it's going to happen it will, focus on being with people that you can relax andvhavevfun with and you never know...

Oh and avoid like the plague anyone who says "guaranteed" it is the universal meaning if "haven't got a clue".

D

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!

You realise if we divulge our secrets, there will be more competition now dont ya!

A multiple is one long orgasm that continues, both peaking and going back to a sizzle, peaks and sizzles. Think the longest I have sustained with it is about 20 mins maybe half hour - 40mins.. You loose track of time really.

Essentially for the guy - it is to do with stamina and technique.

Omg has that really happened? I want that, I want that feeling one day, before I get too old to even know what an orgasm is...."

age is nothing to do with it. If anything you are less concerned with what you are doing/looking like, and more relaxed about your own body.

As others have said - there are no guarantees with multiples at all - and it really does depend on the guy lasting, I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes and I would say its down to both too. I have to be comfortable and tuned into someone to let myself go "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

"

Really...thats not good hun x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

Yep, im sure loads of blokes can do it but I have only given multiples orally...but apparently im realy good at it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do that all the time

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By *nlyfun3Woman  over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"i have multiple orgasms. i cant count them. tjey sre one ontop of the other. i cum in many different ways. some men just start to bring me up n then stop. why! lol u need to keep playing the whole body to shake and spasm lol

Are you not just having one really long one. My one orgasm can last ages. With each one it takes a build up then bam!!! The way you describe it, there is no build up to each one . This is where I get confused. So is there a build up to the first one and then the next ones after don't do the same and happen in an instant or is your first one just as quick and you come the instant you are touched. Just wondering because I see a lot of women say this."

i have a build up cum then the feeling subsides only to go up once more . this can carry on over and over again. it doesnt happen straight away it with prolonged play generally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I quite often get 3-5 in one session when the mister is working his magic! First one builds me up and then the rest just keep on coming as I'm already so sensitive and turned on. Usually feel the next one when we do a different position though. It's amazing, leaves me quivering inside!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I quite often get 3-5 in one session when the mister is working his magic! First one builds me up and then the rest just keep on coming as I'm already so sensitive and turned on. Usually feel the next one when we do a different position though. It's amazing, leaves me quivering inside! "

Now I'm confused. Is that just having 'another' orgasm? I can have lots but have a minute or so rest in between. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

A strategically placed Magic Wand while we are having sex does the trick for my Wife

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They may be separate but I still feel the previous one in my system by the time the next one comes so with each one they get stronger and stronger

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They may be separate but I still feel the previous one in my system by the time the next one comes so with each one they get stronger and stronger "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I give the wife 4 or 5 at a time with a vibrating egg on her clit, but to say you can guarantee it is pure bullshit, every women is different and no man on earth can know what every women needs to orgasm once never mind multiple times!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I (mrs) tend to have very intense orgasms with Mr. No other man has ever brought me to tears with an orgasm like he does. But last night was the multiple of a lifetime. Our new Lelo wand and him doing magical things to me and I didn't think it was ever going to stop. Tears and instant headache.....but by god, well worth it!! Slept like a baby. Lol

I love lelo... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Miss Kinkyboots, nothing is for certain, but there's a lot more than just technique. Sadly I see you're not taking new friends, but don't lose hope.

The starting point is beyond the physical. Stimulate the mind and the body will follow.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Miss Kinkyboots, nothing is for certain, but there's a lot more than just technique. Sadly I see you're not taking new friends, but don't lose hope.

The starting point is beyond the physical. Stimulate the mind and the body will follow."

Not losing hope just don't see it as a big deal, yes it would nice to experience one but millions of women die without experiencing one and if I'm one of those, so be it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

Same here as never had one "

But then again miss kinky....you did leave my bed rather wet!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Easy, send wife to her lover's house for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes you can. Listening to a woman helps.

"Pick your socks up!"

"What time do you call this?!"

"No you can't go out with your mates, stay in and watch this romantic movie with me."

"Put the seat down!"

what a bloke hears

"what socks?"

"anything you want it wont answer back"

"go out with your mates you spent enough time with me today"

(ok i agree this one)

"put the seat down"

"

Never heard either after being told how good my tongue is, and not just for talking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

Same here as never had one

But then again miss kinky....you did leave my bed rather wet!"

However that isn't an orgasm is it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When men say they can give multiple orgasms, even guarantee them, I always wonder if that's true.

Men: if true, how do you do it?

Women: have you experienced multiples?

I guess you could say I've experienced 2 or 3 in one session but not so close together to call them multiples. I just love the idea of one after the other in quick succession....how intense that would be!!"

Trick is to tease with the tongue, bringing her near then backing off. After a few times like this she may find it harder and harder to peak BUT a combination of humming, flicking and a crooked finger inside on the right spot will do it. Then a deep, french kiss will keep you orgasming constantly till I relent

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By *ornyandwellhungMan  over a year ago

belfast


"Miss Kinkyboots, nothing is for certain, but there's a lot more than just technique. Sadly I see you're not taking new friends, but don't lose hope.

The starting point is beyond the physical. Stimulate the mind and the body will follow.

Not losing hope just don't see it as a big deal, yes it would nice to experience one but millions of women die without experiencing one and if I'm one of those, so be it"

I really find it hard to believe that some girls never experienced one. Can this be true?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One would be good

Same here as never had one

But then again miss kinky....you did leave my bed rather wet!

However that isn't an orgasm is it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Easy, send wife to her lover's house for the night."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Miss Kinkyboots, nothing is for certain, but there's a lot more than just technique. Sadly I see you're not taking new friends, but don't lose hope.

The starting point is beyond the physical. Stimulate the mind and the body will follow.

Not losing hope just don't see it as a big deal, yes it would nice to experience one but millions of women die without experiencing one and if I'm one of those, so be it

I really find it hard to believe that some girls never experienced one. Can this be true?"

Yes it is and I can't believe you are that naive!! What about women who have no interest in sex? Nuns? Women who's sole interest for sex is children? Disabled women maybe? Women who find it hard to relax and let go?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to think multiple orgasms were a myth. Neither of my xh ever gave me any. Now I know different as I have turned into a very prolific cumer lol

It all depends on the chemistry between people. I think it's a mixture of whether the mans talent matches the lady's needs, and how much the lady is really into it.

Dance x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man. "

I've been seeing a woman for a while now and apparently I'm the first guy in her 36 years to give her multiple orgasms guaranteed, but don't know how lol just use my normal tongue finger cock combos lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had them at the most unexpected times with men I haven't known long. One I will never forget was through missionary while he kissed me. It got rather intense and it was like he was tuned into me. He moved position from holding me close to moving up onto his arms and then kneeling,hardly missing a beat. Then stroked me all over. He was gentle but firm and deliberate

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By *heHoneymonstersCouple  over a year ago

cambridge

I did'nt have my first orgasm till I meet my now hubby 11yrs ago and 99% of the time I always have multiple with him, chemistry is defo a factor as it only seems to work between the 2 of us xxx heres to the next 11yrs of multiples xx

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple  over a year ago

Fareham

I find it a tad insulting to say having multiples comes down to a combination of chemistry between the couple and technique - the chemistry between me and my man is second to none and his technique is amazing... I orgasm HARD every time. But I've never had a multiple. I don't miss what I've never had - one single, mind-blowing orgasm which lasts for minutes is quite enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it a tad insulting to say having multiples comes down to a combination of chemistry between the couple and technique - the chemistry between me and my man is second to none and his technique is amazing... I orgasm HARD every time. But I've never had a multiple. I don't miss what I've never had - one single, mind-blowing orgasm which lasts for minutes is quite enough for me "

You're being over-sensitive. Women orgasm differently and enjoy different orgasms. I don't particularly like hard orgasms. I can have them with almost anyone but that doesn't mean I can only have multiple orgasms with someone special. It's just a different dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it a tad insulting to say having multiples comes down to a combination of chemistry between the couple and technique - the chemistry between me and my man is second to none and his technique is amazing... I orgasm HARD every time. But I've never had a multiple. I don't miss what I've never had - one single, mind-blowing orgasm which lasts for minutes is quite enough for me

You're being over-sensitive. Women orgasm differently and enjoy different orgasms. I don't particularly like hard orgasms. I can have them with almost anyone but that doesn't mean I can only have multiple orgasms with someone special. It's just a different dynamic "

I you BadNanna.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My orgasms are so intense I can't bear to be touched in that area for a short while , so no multiple orgasms for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My last couple if meets have had them and they luv it especially when it makes them squirt all over me

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple  over a year ago

Fareham


"My orgasms are so intense I can't bear to be touched in that area for a short while , so no multiple orgasms for me "

How it is for me

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By *orthyorkypairCouple  over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"They are talking rubbish. It's down to the woman, not the man.

No, both

If she doesn't want to, it will never happen. "

agree 100%

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