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Dom, Sub or Switch

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Would you class yourself as any of these three ? Can you start out your sexual adventures as one and end up as another ?

I always considered myself as more submissive sexually, however recently I've thought that I could switch. It's something I'll experiment with at some point.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple over a year ago

Blandford ish

Marc's dom Sophs sub but we used to live in a ds relationship so it's quite clear with us!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im passive i would say but can be a little devil if encouraged

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

switch can't take as much as I am willing to dish out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like to let the man take the lead but secretly im always in control of the situation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Odd this, I find myself being Dom with a lady, but Very Very submissive with a man..... Does that make me switch, or just a bit odd?

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple over a year ago

South wales

"Odd this, I find myself being Dom with a lady, but Very Very submissive with a man..... Does that make me switch, or just a bit odd?

That would make u a switch

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple over a year ago

South wales

I'm sub always have been and always will be

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit of both more sub but it depends on the man but I don't think I have ever shown a man on here my dom side fully no one brings it out of me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jake: very sub to guys but swich with women

Kate: swich with both women and men

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By *eggaeloverMan over a year ago

Bristol

I'm trying to push my boundaries, I'm sub really but never felt very comfortable with it so I am trying to be dom.

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By *otTheReal01Man over a year ago

London

Definitely Dom.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman over a year ago

Greater London

I prefer switch. Surprised a couple of men in the past regarding this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's dependant on the kind of woman I am with for me switch is me then really isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im dom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Labels make people worry to much x I'm not sub with most people... In fact a man that can or could dominate me is very very rare... I however could not dominate a man...

I can dominate a woman though but could never submit to one..

I don't worry if I'm switch.. I'm just me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My problem with these labels are lot don't even really know what they mean, i have met a few guys who claim to be dom when really they arnt they are just lazy fookers who don't give oral and hide behind the dom labels to justify it, to me a dom guy isn't a guy who just orders you to satisfy him

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By *ewbee1972Couple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I class myself as sub have tried being dom but wasn't right I like the female to be dom and in charge its the sense of not being in charge

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By *ot4ujoWoman over a year ago

Eccles

I was alway sub but recently I've been switching and enjoying it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

switch, but i like to be more sub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am very sub and much prefer my men to be Dom but feel a Dom who has experienced the sub / slave lifestyle very good trainers as they have experienced your thoughts and feelings and understand the dynamics x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm switch. But I much prefer being a brat. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sub

Switch with a fem tho

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

Dom, can't switch as being sub just wouldn't do it for me

Plus I couldn't help myself wanting to be a Dom when if I tried switching!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Submissive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a switch but i want to Domme far less than i want to sub.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We live a D/s lifestyle

I am sub (her) while he although is my Dom can and will switch with others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A sub to the core

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dom, sub or switch? Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are just Labels, and can be misleading. People who are very sure what they are, I tend not to believe....

I am just me - not a Dom, not a Sub...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely sub. nothing turns me on more than an Alpha Dom guy who takes control and fucks me senseless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are just Labels, and can be misleading. People who are very sure what they are, I tend not to believe....

I am just me - not a Dom, not a Sub...

Don't believe me then

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By *mallteaserWoman over a year ago

Central

Very sub x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Switch. Very indecisive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very switch, but have only ever found one guy who was totally in time with that. It was awesome. Sadly ended with he decided to get married!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very switch, but have only ever found one guy who was totally in time with that. It was awesome. Sadly ended with he decided to get married! "
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Oops! In Tune with that. The switching was seamless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely a switch, Love to be in control and incharge of making a woman cum, but love to relinquish control and be at their mercy...any switchers in or around Pompey?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

Another switch here. Best of both worlds

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By *eggaeloverMan over a year ago

Bristol

"My problem with these labels are lot don't even really know what they mean, i have met a few guys who claim to be dom when really they arnt they are just lazy fookers who don't give oral and hide behind the dom labels to justify it, to me a dom guy isn't a guy who just orders you to satisfy him

Yes I agree, prudishness and selfishness doesn't make you dom. Dom and sub are labels for special love and trusting relationships to aspire to states of mind and activities to achieve self-awareness and special states of mind, with understanding and training. How far can you go to please your lover, how far can your lover push you before you rebel?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both Switches so have both sides of fun and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sub here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Switch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very switch, but have only ever found one guy who was totally in time with that. It was awesome. Sadly ended with he decided to get married! "

I'd have married him too!

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By *abrina59TV/TS over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Def submisdive girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it all depends on your demeanour and experience. I would class myself as submissive but I also have "switched" as it's known. I have the experience to be able to switch and at a level dom but I would never consider myself a dom as that is not who I am. We can and often do take on slightly different personas during sex as role play and foreplay and often people reside in either a submissive role or dominant, but switching is only done as a personal thing for me as I do not enjoy overpowering women quite the reverse. Obviously this is not true of many it's just not my bag. Many switches enjoy both the power rush and the power exchange and are lucky enough to have that aspect in their lives

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