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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have a laugh while you play, weve got friends who we play with regularly and sturdy night at chams we had a right giggle, especially when one of the ladies went arse over tit on the swing. What I'm asking is is it appropriate we enjoy the sex and a laugh but I know some people don't like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have a laugh while you play, weve got friends who we play with regularly and sturdy night at chams we had a right giggle, especially when one of the ladies went arse over tit on the swing. What I'm asking is is it appropriate we enjoy the sex and a laugh but I know some people don't like it "
Laughter is part of having a good time in my opinion. But I guess it's all about the timing and the context! haha |
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Some people seem to be able to laugh and joke the entire time and still be turned on. Each to their own and if that works for them then fine - it doesn't do it for me though. I'm not saying I never enjoy a light moment when having sex but generally I need a sensual, erotic atmosphere to really get in the zone. If someone started laughing and giggling when I was on the run up to an orgasm, that'd be the mood broken for me and I simply wouldn't be able to come at all.
Like everything else though, it's very much a case of horses for courses. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I was playing with a friend at Connections once, I'd jokingly said I'd give him a shag if there was no-one else around...I'm on all fours with him fucking me and he says "I hope you realise I'm not enjoying this"...cue me starfished in fits of laughter with the voyeurs wondering wtf was going on...so yeah, I like to have a laugh as well as a good seeing to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have a laugh while you play, weve got friends who we play with regularly and sturdy night at chams we had a right giggle, especially when one of the ladies went arse over tit on the swing. What I'm asking is is it appropriate we enjoy the sex and a laugh but I know some people don't like it "
We love it... Laughing is sexy x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people seem to be able to laugh and joke the entire time and still be turned on. Each to their own and if that works for them then fine - it doesn't do it for me though. I'm not saying I never enjoy a light moment when having sex but generally I need a sensual, erotic atmosphere to really get in the zone. If someone started laughing and giggling when I was on the run up to an orgasm, that'd be the mood broken for me and I simply wouldn't be able to come at all.
Like everything else though, it's very much a case of horses for courses."
I think for me I can enjoy a laugh and a giggle with meets before, during and after play when it's in context (for example when we change position and I nearly get thrown off the bed!), but there are points in play where I guess the more passionate side kicks in too and in those moments, such as the build to an orgasm, the laughter naturally takes a back seat and returns when the intensity drops off a bit |
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"Some people seem to be able to laugh and joke the entire time and still be turned on. Each to their own and if that works for them then fine - it doesn't do it for me though. I'm not saying I never enjoy a light moment when having sex but generally I need a sensual, erotic atmosphere to really get in the zone. If someone started laughing and giggling when I was on the run up to an orgasm, that'd be the mood broken for me and I simply wouldn't be able to come at all.
Like everything else though, it's very much a case of horses for courses.
I think for me I can enjoy a laugh and a giggle with meets before, during and after play when it's in context (for example when we change position and I nearly get thrown off the bed!), but there are points in play where I guess the more passionate side kicks in too and in those moments, such as the build to an orgasm, the laughter naturally takes a back seat and returns when the intensity drops off a bit"
 exactly this ... And do know when ta hush n not do laughing police man impressions throughout! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for me I can enjoy a laugh and a giggle with meets before, during and after play when it's in context (for example when we change position and I nearly get thrown off the bed!), but there are points in play where I guess the more passionate side kicks in too and in those moments, such as the build to an orgasm, the laughter naturally takes a back seat and returns when the intensity drops off a bit"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to have a laugh. How you going to have good sex without laughing? The only way to shut them up is by kissing them.
can think of a few other ways!  "
Do tell..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a good laugh is a must in our book 
This."
unless they do it just after you've taken your clothes off, that's never going to make for a good session |
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By *layerzCouple
over a year ago
Swansea |
Love to laugh and that for me is one of the main differences between swinging and "loving" your partner.
Swinging is fun, a great time for all, and whilst being passionate it is nowhere near as passionate as we like to get when on our own
Not dissing swinging at all, on the contrary, but it is definitely fun fun fun and a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life has to be fun and laughter is one of the best ways to relax everyone.
We're more likely to meet people again who we've had fun with (not just the sex). Some people are just to serious all the time, doesn't suit us, we like a good giggle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a couple of times with my husband and someone else I met I have started laughing because they were so serious and I got nervous, my hubby got annoyed and said I put him off but the more annoyed he got the more I couldn't stop giggling because he made me nervous. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
I think it allows you to really let go and me totally comfortable with the other person/people.
Makes it much better as you are not too concerned about making an ass of yourself any more x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Laughter is a great medicine so the saying goes and yes we always have a good giggle ,especially when its just us two as we have the same soh.
We both have a dry sense of humour and tend to meet people with the same so its all good fun ,laughter and madness and mayhem and that then turns into great sex. Just what swinging in our mind is all about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell yes.. laughter is key for me. People who take it too seriously actually scare me. I would find someone who does not laugh creepy in fact. Of course there will be those deeply horny moments when nobody is laughing but it is called "play" for a reason. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you have a laugh while you play, weve got friends who we play with regularly and sturdy night at chams we had a right giggle, especially when one of the ladies went arse over tit on the swing. What I'm asking is is it appropriate we enjoy the sex and a laugh but I know some people don't like it "
I saw Mr B fall off the bed once when we were having a 4some. The male half of the couple was not impressed and got really shirty that I giggled and made a joke about it.
The evening soon came to an end after that...
But then I do have a habit of giggling at the wrong times and it's usually worse when I am nervous.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have a laugh while you play, weve got friends who we play with regularly and sturdy night at chams we had a right giggle, especially when one of the ladies went arse over tit on the swing. What I'm asking is is it appropriate we enjoy the sex and a laugh but I know some people don't like it
I saw Mr B fall off the bed once when we were having a 4some. The male half of the couple was not impressed and got really shirty that I giggled and made a joke about it.
The evening soon came to an end after that...
But then I do have a habit of giggling at the wrong times and it's usually worse when I am nervous.
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How could anyone not laugh at someone falling off the bed. |
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