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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a personal choice thing we feel. We like both, but my preference is house parties. The safety aspect, is really a state of mind, confidence thing, as we have never seen or experienced anything untoward at either. House parties tend to be more intimate as you are usually there by invitation, although not always. Clubs are open to the general public basically.
If you play with singles, perhaps clubs on "singles nights" are your best bet for entertainment, but some house parties can be themed to cover every want or need we might have.
Try them both and see for yourself....you will enjoy your experiences, I'm sure..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been to both as iam a member of chams.But i also have been to Party's where ppl looked like they going bold out the door any minute.And i held a couple of Party s myself great fun.But at the moment all i get is invites to gang bangs and then iam not so sure about. |
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"I used to go to clubs a lot but I don't bother since I got on a really good party circuit"
And we're all the poorer for it, for me it's clubs, being single and male makes it harder to get party invites that are genuine..... once got invite to 'select party in Woking Flat, must have been about 300 single males and 3 couples
just a money grab for somebody...
though if you want to invite me to onei'd love to come.... |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to go to clubs a lot but I don't bother since I got on a really good party circuit
And we're all the poorer for it, for me it's clubs, being single and male makes it harder to get party invites that are genuine..... once got invite to 'select party in Woking Flat, must have been about 300 single males and 3 couples
just a money grab for somebody...
though if you want to invite me to onei'd love to come...."
Always wise when going to a party if male female or a couple is to ask how many of your sex are going so how many single guys are going to how many couples and single fems, then the chance of being caught out in that situation is decreased.
I would hate to have been once of the couples in attendance. Especially if you have paid toward the party |
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"I used to go to clubs a lot but I don't bother since I got on a really good party circuit
And we're all the poorer for it, for me it's clubs, being single and male makes it harder to get party invites that are genuine..... once got invite to 'select party in Woking Flat, must have been about 300 single males and 3 couples
just a money grab for somebody...
though if you want to invite me to onei'd love to come....
Always wise when going to a party if male female or a couple is to ask how many of your sex are going so how many single guys are going to how many couples and single fems, then the chance of being caught out in that situation is decreased.
I would hate to have been once of the couples in attendance. Especially if you have paid toward the party"
yes left a bad taste.... excuse the pun
I was deliberately told a 'select party with only 4 or 5 single males and maybe 40 couples..... it was total con and I would have felt the sameif i was couple there as well....
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
Only go to party's nowadays, same one each month, great fun and now great friends.
We found on the half dozen or so times we had been to clubs we were ignored. Like they had the regulars in attendance, a sort of clique who would only play with each other.
Even personal meets are only for us to play with single guys, save the couples meets for the party! |
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lot to be said for both... we started off clubbing and mostly have house get-togethers now. clubs are great for the raunchy atmosphere and lots of casual sex. homes are great for fun with friends, plus you can sleep over! |
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By *adDutchCouple
over a year ago
hastings |
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just a money grab for somebody...
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We are not interested in our friends money, we are solely interested in their bodies!
Also our parties are single men free, but always ask as we may have the services of a good massage specialist.
Anyone interested in over sexed matures in East Sussex, contact us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as part of a couple because as the above poster stated most house parties tend to be "single guy free" we tend to enjoy clubs, I am greedy and do enjoy the company and pleasure of more then one man and the house parties we have been to tend to be couples swapping with couples which is great as long as you both like the look of both people in the couple and they like you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had any fancy at all for clubs full stop.
The idea of using facilities that have been previously used by God knows how many other people during the same session fair turns us sick.
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we love spa's - no pressure to play wth others if you dont want to and you do what you please. If you want to be watched, to play with others etc there is the freedom to do it.
less frustration too trying to get dates and times to fit everyone. You never know what you are walking into when you go to a house. we have been very very lucky but you hear stories about cleanliness and alsorts.
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Well we used to love going to clubs but must say over the last 12 months the numbers of people when you go has dropped dramatically. We have also been to some really good parties in the past and have decided to hold 1 of our own but for the first 1 it will only be people we have met before so it should be rather a safe bet. well we hope so lol
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"Well we used to love going to clubs but must say over the last 12 months the numbers of people when you go has dropped dramatically. We have also been to some really good parties in the past and have decided to hold 1 of our own but for the first 1 it will only be people we have met before so it should be rather a safe bet. well we hope so lol
Steve "
Of course and your in control..... but downsidemust be how do you get to meet new friends this way????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love the idea of parties but have always been worried that the couples there would mainly be into full swap which isn't our thing right now ...
We love our trips to chameleons as we always know what to expect   |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
its an interesting question....
the one thing with both the party and club circuit is that if you stick to one or the other is that you can tend to end up meeting the same people......
which in the end can end up being stale....
so its not a case of one versus the other as I think if you stick exclusively to one then you miss out on meeting a lot of people, its more a case of varying what I do... |
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Well our thoughts are if the party goes well then we can keep adding folk to the pot so to speak to keep the thing fresh.
I guess we will end up with a core of folks we always invite first but then a few new folks we have met along the way.
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