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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why is it that we are inundated with single guys that feel the need to say there I.T professionals or similar ? WE DONT CARE ! you can be on the dole for all we care ! its a swinging site not a dating site ! recreational sex ! nothing more .
the last one we found out works in a second hand cooker shop cleaning cookers ! but said he was working in london on a new pc operating system ROFL  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"because some people will say anything to get their leg over...
men, women, TV/TS's & couples."
exactly... its not just a single man trait...
if i had a quid for every time you see a "professional couple" or "seeking a professional couple" I'd be as rich as the professional couple they are seeking..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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professional cpl is another good one
but we are just honest and really dont care about other folks careers ect ! its not our business ! after all we are all just here to "get our leg over" lol |
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"because some people will say anything to get their leg over...
men, women, TV/TS's & couples.
exactly... its not just a single man trait...
if i had a quid for every time you see a "professional couple" or "seeking a professional couple" I'd be as rich as the professional couple they are seeking....."
Aah, but single men bashing is a daily sport on here. It wouldn't have the desired effect if "people" were used instead of single men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMO your status or wealth or profession is totally irrelevant - it's all about the person - if we get on and your skint, so what ???? If we get on and your minted - so freaking what !!! We both have the same amount of cash lying naked together on a bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because some people will say anything to get their leg over...
men, women, TV/TS's & couples.
exactly... its not just a single man trait...
if i had a quid for every time you see a "professional couple" or "seeking a professional couple" I'd be as rich as the professional couple they are seeking.....
Aah, but single men bashing is a daily sport on here. It wouldn't have the desired effect if "people" were used instead of single men!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're a professional couple and describe ourselves as such. If people don't like that they can choose not to message us. Seriously why does this term cause such angst amongst some people? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"IMO your status or wealth or profession is totally irrelevant - it's all about the person - if we get on and your skint, so what ???? If we get on and your minted - so freaking what !!! We both have the same amount of cash lying naked together on a bed "
unless your a millionaire lottery winner ? or would that be double standard ?  |
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"IMO your status or wealth or profession is totally irrelevant - it's all about the person - if we get on and your skint, so what ???? If we get on and your minted - so freaking what !!! We both have the same amount of cash lying naked together on a bed "
Whilst I see the point you're trying to make, it can matter. If someone is skint they can't go halves on hotel costs. I've met someone so skint he asked me not to flush the toilet as he had a water meter and only flushed it once a day.
A shower would have been out of the question then...I didn't linger! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I want to meet people that I am likely to get on with, get a great connection with and enjoy our time together.
Will that exclude certain types of people, probably.
I don't apologise for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment  "
Ha! You must of bought a cheap one we've never had such issues with ours and if we did our onboard technical engineers would swiftly rectify it |
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"We're a professional couple and describe ourselves as such. If people don't like that they can choose not to message us. Seriously why does this term cause such angst amongst some people? "
Inverted snobbery and an inferiority complex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment
Ha! You must of bought a cheap one we've never had such issues with ours and if we did our onboard technical engineers would swiftly rectify it "
But I never have problems in my Lear Jet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're a professional couple and describe ourselves as such. If people don't like that they can choose not to message us. Seriously why does this term cause such angst amongst some people?
Inverted snobbery and an inferiority complex!"
excellent response  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment
bet u have a better signal than I get on my private jet!"
Gee guys, get with the programme. A private moonbase is where the action is nowdays lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment
Ha! You must of bought a cheap one we've never had such issues with ours and if we did our onboard technical engineers would swiftly rectify it
But I never have problems in my Lear Jet "
Ah yes we use ours to fly to our private island, can't fault them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment
Ha! You must of bought a cheap one we've never had such issues with ours and if we did our onboard technical engineers would swiftly rectify it
But I never have problems in my Lear Jet
Ah yes we use ours to fly to our private island, can't fault them "
Yes I tend to use one for Uk meets only and the other one I have for overseas travel |
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"why is it that we are inundated with single guys that feel the need to say there I.T professionals or similar ? WE DONT CARE ! you can be on the dole for all we care ! its a swinging site not a dating site ! recreational sex ! nothing more .
the last one we found out works in a second hand cooker shop cleaning cookers ! but said he was working in london on a new pc operating system ROFL
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TBH if I get a message from a profile that has the "P" word on it but they can't spell it I delete the message but hey ho, each to their own. |
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"We're a professional couple and describe ourselves as such. If people don't like that they can choose not to message us. Seriously why does this term cause such angst amongst some people?
Inverted snobbery and an inferiority complex!
excellent response "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peoples jobs do nor bother me at all, you cant judge someone by there job, my eldest daughter is in her 5 year training to be a vet, she has qualifications coming out her arse hole, but she works part time in Tesco to earn some cash, if she was on here and people asked what she did for a living and she said she worked at tesco would she be deemed as a lesser person by all these professionals seeking the same even though she may well be more intelligent?
your jobs don't always prove anything about your life |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Peoples jobs do nor bother me at all, you cant judge someone by there job, my eldest daughter is in her 5 year training to be a vet, she has qualifications coming out her arse hole, but she works part time in Tesco to earn some cash, if she was on here and people asked what she did for a living and she said she worked at tesco would she be deemed as a lesser person by all these professionals seeking the same even though she may well be more intelligent?
your jobs don't always prove anything about your life "
I don't think all professionals would think that
I have seen more venom aimed towards the have's from the have not's than I have the other way round.. |
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The thing is if you're employed you're probably professional. I'm professional at work! Cleaners are professional. Dog walkers are professional. It's a bit of a nonsense on a profile in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have heard of people with a low income asking for lifts to and from a meet plus cigs and drinks plus a hotel room paid for.
Its anyones choice to take them up on their offer..
Or not.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manual worker ( hi viz & hob nail boots suited and booted or uniform it dont matter as long as it is clean and presented well you don't ask to see pay packet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Peoples jobs do nor bother me at all, you cant judge someone by there job, my eldest daughter is in her 5 year training to be a vet, she has qualifications coming out her arse hole, but she works part time in Tesco to earn some cash, if she was on here and people asked what she did for a living and she said she worked at tesco would she be deemed as a lesser person by all these professionals seeking the same even though she may well be more intelligent?
your jobs don't always prove anything about your life
I don't think all professionals would think that
I have seen more venom aimed towards the have's from the have not's than I have the other way round.. "
to be totally honest with you so have i |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i (male) am a fully coded welder, ie a professional, we have never put this on our profile and never would, it makes no difference to us, you are who you are and income don't matter |
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Not somthing thats anyones business what we both do for a living... To be honest if someone had £1 in their pocket or £1000 its it irrelevant! For us its about chemisty , being on same wave length and attraction! Are some out there who feel they have to flash the cash ( so to speak) to fit in .... Regular 'real' people are those who we like to be aquainted with |
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"We're a professional couple and describe ourselves as such. If people don't like that they can choose not to message us. Seriously why does this term cause such angst amongst some people? "
I think you know that as well as I do why it is the same reason people get all sensitive about the words "intelligent" "fit" and "slim" |
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Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
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"Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
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Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People put professional for whole range of reasons - could be for discretion with the nature/ line of work or simply for the type/class people they prefer or want to attract.
Unfortunately We live in a society that's been divided by media and government.
Personally I'm not too fussed as long as it's fun and filthy then I'm game! Ha |
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"Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
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I have known many a person thro the years who have worked hard, made tons money and live very comfortably , yet have not forgotton where they started and dont feel the need to be ostentatious at all! People like them for who they are, not what they have....
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"why is it that we are inundated with single guys that feel the need to say there I.T professionals or similar ? WE DONT CARE ! you can be on the dole for all we care ! its a swinging site not a dating site ! recreational sex ! nothing more .
the last one we found out works in a second hand cooker shop cleaning cookers ! but said he was working in london on a new pc operating system ROFL "
I'm always wealthy on payday... but poor the day after |
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"Peoples jobs do nor bother me at all, you cant judge someone by there job, my eldest daughter is in her 5 year training to be a vet, she has qualifications coming out her arse hole, but she works part time in Tesco to earn some cash, if she was on here and people asked what she did for a living and she said she worked at tesco would she be deemed as a lesser person by all these professionals seeking the same even though she may well be more intelligent?
your jobs don't always prove anything about your life
I don't think all professionals would think that
I have seen more venom aimed towards the have's from the have not's than I have the other way round.. (thumb,"
Ain't that the truth!  |
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"Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
I have known many a person thro the years who have worked hard, made tons money and live very comfortably , yet have not forgotton where they started and dont feel the need to be ostentatious at all! People like them for who they are, not what they have....
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Yes so why can't we like someone who is a bit posh then? Being better off isn't an insult to other people any more than being poor is neither is being from a different background. All snobbery is bad inverted too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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says a fair bit about the people wanting to meet people with money too - no idea what any of that has to do with getting along with folk and enjoying some sexy fun |
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"We're a professional couple and describe ourselves as such. If people don't like that they can choose not to message us. Seriously why does this term cause such angst amongst some people? Please explain what makes you professional? I certainly wouldn't not contact someone because they describe themselves as such,but fail to understand why it is necessary...
Inverted snobbery and an inferiority complex!"
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"Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
I have known many a person thro the years who have worked hard, made tons money and live very comfortably , yet have not forgotton where they started and dont feel the need to be ostentatious at all! People like them for who they are, not what they have....
Yes so why can't we like someone who is a bit posh then? Being better off isn't an insult to other people any more than being poor is neither is being from a different background. All snobbery is bad inverted too."
i do like them! Have friends from every walk of life... Point being, what ever the person has or don't have , it isn't all that makes the person |
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"Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
I have known many a person thro the years who have worked hard, made tons money and live very comfortably , yet have not forgotton where they started and dont feel the need to be ostentatious at all! People like them for who they are, not what they have....
Yes so why can't we like someone who is a bit posh then? Being better off isn't an insult to other people any more than being poor is neither is being from a different background. All snobbery is bad inverted too. i do like them! Have friends from every walk of life... Point being, what ever the person has or don't have , it isn't all that makes the person "
So we agree and I'm arguing...typical of me that is |
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"Describing myself as 'professional' is about attitude, not affluence. It's short hand and not to be taken too seriously.
It helps people skip over my profile. I'm a bit posh; if you're looking for someone rough and ready - pass me by.
I have known many a person thro the years who have worked hard, made tons money and live very comfortably , yet have not forgotton where they started and dont feel the need to be ostentatious at all! People like them for who they are, not what they have....
Yes so why can't we like someone who is a bit posh then? Being better off isn't an insult to other people any more than being poor is neither is being from a different background. All snobbery is bad inverted too. i do like them! Have friends from every walk of life... Point being, what ever the person has or don't have , it isn't all that makes the person
So we agree and I'm arguing...typical of me that is "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care what people have to be honest.
If a meet is arranged with whoever, proberly best everyone is on the same wavelength.
If a meet was out of our budget at the time, set another, it is down to a bit of patience sometimes.
I always put my hand in my purse to what I can at the time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this has just reminded me of a profile where the people insisted on going out to a top restaurant for their necessary initial social meet - they werent paying for the other party so this would elimiate so many just on money - we just ignored and moved on |
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"this has just reminded me of a profile where the people insisted on going out to a top restaurant for their necessary initial social meet - they werent paying for the other party so this would elimiate so many just on money - we just ignored and moved on "
We've read profiles that say quite clearly by implication if you don't have a standard of living equal to ours don't bother, so we don't. Everyone's happy that way we don't bother them and they are meeting the type of people they want to meet. What is the point of getting cross about what people you are never going to meet put on their profile? That is a big part of the elimination process surely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found the men who have most wealth don't shout it from the rooftops. Same with the most professional of people,they don't feel the need to wear a badge. Except on here where it's a way of eliminating people they don't want to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment
bet u have a better signal than I get on my private jet!
Gee guys, get with the programme. A private moonbase is where the action is nowdays lol."
Moon base? How quaint. I'm having a little place built on Mars at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Class and snobbery is a very British trait. Some people are unable to converse with people from other classes which is a shame. I consider myself to be a working class lad made good. However I can converse with people from a higher class without them even knowing my working class secret. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The first message I send is . " Could you please tell me your annual income " I am not just gonna meet any old riff raff
if we told you our annual income you'd laugh "
i cry at mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should being a professional necessarily be associated with wealth?
I work in a professional environment and have a good career but in no way do I think I am loaded. I think the key issue is people who simply flaunt material wealth to get a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people don't realy need to say what sort of work they do or how much they earn, you can tell more about them by their pictures and the type of language they use. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Some time ago I received a message from a guy whose username was based on a sports car. All of his pics had the sports car in - he was leaning on it, or in it, but mainly incidental to the car itself. He wanted to know if I fancied being driven in said sports car to a dogging location where we could have fun.
I wasn't sure if the sports car had the profile or he did or if I was to be knocked out by the fact he had got a pricey car.
People are strange and he put a smile on my face, albeit not in the way he had hoped to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some time ago I received a message from a guy whose username was based on a sports car. All of his pics had the sports car in - he was leaning on it, or in it, but mainly incidental to the car itself. He wanted to know if I fancied being driven in said sports car to a dogging location where we could have fun.
I wasn't sure if the sports car had the profile or he did or if I was to be knocked out by the fact he had got a pricey car.
People are strange and he put a smile on my face, albeit not in the way he had hoped to. "
we have just had the same again LOL the daft thing is ... well never mind but in terms of professional my hubbys credentials are checkable ONLINE ! but so what ? its a lil fun not a relationship !! |
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By *omMLMan
over a year ago
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"I just worry about the intermittent signal I'm currently getting from my yacht at the momment
bet u have a better signal than I get on my private jet!
Gee guys, get with the programme. A private moonbase is where the action is nowdays lol."
I just passed your moon base in my space ship on the way to Venus. lol |
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