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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ey guys, not a pleading message exactly, but I don't seem to be having much luck getting responses here.
Was just wondering if I've made some daft mistake on my profile that I haven't noticed and might be keeping people away? All help gratefully received! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
It's not especially bad, just not especially good. It's especially middle of the road in a special way. Add something about what makes you special. Go for some humour. Make it stand out, same goes for the pics.
Do some clubs and some socials.  |
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"[Removed by poster at 27/07/14 11:36:54]"
Personally, anytime I read "just out of a long term relationship and here to find what I've been missing" I shudder and stop reading.
I doubt I'm alone in that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 27/07/14 11:36:54]
Personally, anytime I read "just out of a long term relationship and here to find what I've been missing" I shudder and stop reading.
I doubt I'm alone in that!"
You're not. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
what are "text people" makes me think you're only after phone sex.
You talk about having a fun sense of humour, but there is no evidence of it at all in your profile and in your pics you look miserable.
You've had one meet - for some single lads that would be a bonus. What are your expectations of the site? |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
Don't rely on fab solely. This is only part of the scene. Not the whole scene. Clubs, socials etc. Get yourself involved and known. Helps you work out exactly what you want as well.
I used fab as a starting point but met most people through the other methods. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what are "text people" makes me think you're only after phone sex.
You talk about having a fun sense of humour, but there is no evidence of it at all in your profile and in your pics you look miserable.
You've had one meet - for some single lads that would be a bonus. What are your expectations of the site?"
"Text" was a typo thanks to autocorrect on my phone! Haha! Now removed.
I'll certainly put up some chirpier pics and shake up my profile text a little.
I'm not complaining about the meet I had - I had an awesome time. All I'm thinking is that in an open community like this there might be more opportunities and I wanna maximise me chances is all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't rely on fab solely. This is only part of the scene. Not the whole scene. Clubs, socials etc. Get yourself involved and known. Helps you work out exactly what you want as well.
I used fab as a starting point but met most people through the other methods. "
Thanks, great advice |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"what are "text people" makes me think you're only after phone sex.
You talk about having a fun sense of humour, but there is no evidence of it at all in your profile and in your pics you look miserable.
You've had one meet - for some single lads that would be a bonus. What are your expectations of the site?
"Text" was a typo thanks to autocorrect on my phone! Haha! Now removed.
I'll certainly put up some chirpier pics and shake up my profile text a little.
I'm not complaining about the meet I had - I had an awesome time. All I'm thinking is that in an open community like this there might be more opportunities and I wanna maximise me chances is all "
Its not insta-shag and for many, this is a very social hobby, with added adult fun. Get involved as has been suggested, use the forums (altho a tiny percentage of fab members are on here, you can make some great connections)
On fab as well, for single fellas some of it is luck... single fems are very much in demand... got a pulse and willing to meet = out the door with requests, regardless of looks/personality/humour etc, but it is tougher for single guys. Was really brought home to me when my fella briefly joined fab (not his scene but he wanted to see one of my "hobbies") when I joined, within 24 hours I had well over 400 messages, and thats from MAMOBA Scotland (Miles And Miles Of Bugger All) and he got 3 - all "straight" guys offering to suck his cock! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what are "text people" makes me think you're only after phone sex.
You talk about having a fun sense of humour, but there is no evidence of it at all in your profile and in your pics you look miserable.
You've had one meet - for some single lads that would be a bonus. What are your expectations of the site?
"Text" was a typo thanks to autocorrect on my phone! Haha! Now removed.
I'll certainly put up some chirpier pics and shake up my profile text a little.
I'm not complaining about the meet I had - I had an awesome time. All I'm thinking is that in an open community like this there might be more opportunities and I wanna maximise me chances is all
Its not insta-shag and for many, this is a very social hobby, with added adult fun. Get involved as has been suggested, use the forums (altho a tiny percentage of fab members are on here, you can make some great connections)
On fab as well, for single fellas some of it is luck... single fems are very much in demand... got a pulse and willing to meet = out the door with requests, regardless of looks/personality/humour etc, but it is tougher for single guys. Was really brought home to me when my fella briefly joined fab (not his scene but he wanted to see one of my "hobbies") when I joined, within 24 hours I had well over 400 messages, and thats from MAMOBA Scotland (Miles And Miles Of Bugger All) and he got 3 - all "straight" guys offering to suck his cock!"
Thanks _adybee77. I know it isn't insta-shag - I'm willing to put the work in. I like to get to know someone before a meet, I'm happy to do social meets and I appreciate that sometimes it just wouldn't click. That's life.
I get that it isn't going to be like turning on a tap here, I know the women can have their pick of the bunch - and why not? Like I said, I just wanna make sure I'm not writing myself out of the story! haha |
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