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just ignored if you're not in the in crowd?
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"Someone say something??? "I love you, (but I'm too old). | |||
"why would you want to be in any 'in crowd' ? just be yourself" He didn't say he wanted to be in it. Just not be ignored by it | |||
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"why would you want to be in any 'in crowd' ? just be yourself He didn't say he wanted to be in it. Just not be ignored by it " if he wasn't ignored, he may feel in the 'in crowd'  | |||
"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well" welcome and enjoy | |||
"why would you want to be in any 'in crowd' ? just be yourself He didn't say he wanted to be in it. Just not be ignored by it if he wasn't ignored, he may feel in the 'in crowd' "That's true | |||
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"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well" There are plenty of people here who will interact when something they are interested in comes up. I don't bother with some threads because I know why the person has started it and who will join in. Plenty of other threads to join in with | |||
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"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well" On the forums? It can feel that way. Best to develop a thick skin and join in in a positive way  | |||
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"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well" To be fair your first post on the Forums was just over half an hour ago. Why do you think you've not been treated well? But welcome to the Forums, hope you enjoy | |||
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"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well" Do you mean you don't feel well treated on the forum or on fab as a whole? Because it seems you've just started posting. It takes time...and a desire to interact to make it work. Good luck..... | |||
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"There's a bit if fun going on in this thread. It is easy to feel out of place when you first join. But join in the general banter and all should go well. Welcome and have fun." We all love a bit of fun | |||
"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well" How "well" exactly do you expect to be treated. Maybe that's what is wrong, it doesn't pay to have expectations, interest is not guaranteed on a site like this. People start threads and others contribute, sometimes the same people and sometimes not, some regularly and some not, that's the way of the forum. | |||
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"There's a bit if fun going on in this thread. It is easy to feel out of place when you first join. But join in the general banter and all should go well. Welcome and have fun. We all love a bit of fun "Oh yes we do. Lol | |||
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 its a shame that was your first experience of the forums ! And hotty is right it was very impatient of you !!! Join in and have some fun don't take it personally x | |||
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There are a small bunch of people on here who do tend to follow each other's msgs and respond to them. But that's more than likely because they fancy the pants off each other more than anything else more sinister Don't worry...be happy  | |||
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"why would you want to be in any 'in crowd' ? just be yourself" | |||
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I'm 47 and not a little girl I don't do crowds.
I am me, liked or lumped, I go along in my own way.
Her | |||
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"Hun its not about being in the "in crowd" its about the thread, you thread was more of a story , not a question or a discussion, and unfortunately no one at that time wanted to comment! That's how it goes sometimes its a shame that was your first experience of the forums ! And hotty is right it was very impatient of you !!! Join in and have some fun don't take it personally x " | |||
"just seems a closed group! i'm new to this and i don't feel treated well There are plenty of people here who will interact when something they are interested in comes up. I don't bother with some threads because I know why the person has started it and who will join in. Plenty of other threads to join in with " This...and I've been here six years! | |||
"You posted you first thread 48 minutes ago and 26 minutes later you are saying your getting ignored? Have a bit of patience!! " I m an unrivalled thread killer, I don t worry I keep posting, | |||
"This has made me laugh I'm 47 and not a little girl I don't do crowds.
I am me, liked or lumped, I go along in my own way.
Her"Best approach, I don't go out there in the world, physically or on line expecting to be instantly loved, (perhaps very wisely). However I have met a lot of great people through here, many I now consider friends. Just get involved and be natural, you should have fun. | |||
"This has made me laugh I'm 47 and not a little girl I don't do crowds.
I am me, liked or lumped, I go along in my own way.
Her
Best approach, I don't go out there in the world, physically or on line expecting to be instantly loved, (perhaps very wisely). However I have met a lot of great people through here, many I now consider friends. Just get involved and be natural, you should have fun."Oh I do, we have met some great people, and would like to meet them again.
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"You posted you first thread 48 minutes ago and 26 minutes later you are saying your getting ignored? Have a bit of patience!! I m an unrivalled thread killer, I don t worry I keep posting, "I'm the thread killerqueen | |||
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"did Bryan Ferry sing about the 'in crowd'..?" Originally sung by Dobie Grey and was written by his brother but yes Bryan Ferry also did a version | |||
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"did Bryan Ferry sing about the 'in crowd'..? Originally sung by Dobie Grey and was written by his brother but yes Bryan Ferry also did a version "ty.. | |||
"thank you _iew, banana cake and others who where positive x" Are you this cryptic/drip feeding in all your interactions with people? as the way your acting now makes you an effort to speak to and so quickly dropped and ignored. | |||
"thank you _iew, banana cake and others who where positive x" Are you this cryptic/drip feeding in all your interactions with people? as the way your acting now makes you an effort to speak to and so quickly dropped and ignored. | |||
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"did Bryan Ferry sing about the 'in crowd'..?" its humming in my head x hate that song | |||
"just ignored if you're not in the in crowd?" we are all ignored time to time.personally I wouldnt bother posting if it bothered me.im acknowledged at times.alot of it with me is I dont have alot of time to talk tea and biscuits.i usually pop a post down and run I come back and my conversation may be lost way back, I mite have wrote boring shite or ive killed a thread or it closed x
im not one for being in a 'in crowd' I prefer to be me.forums are for everyone to join in how they please | |||
"did Bryan Ferry sing about the 'in crowd'..? Originally sung by Dobie Grey and was written by his brother but yes Bryan Ferry also did a version "Love the Dobie Grey version and danced to on many an occasion at Wigan Casino. Can't dance like that any more thought. Lol | |||
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"did Bryan Ferry sing about the 'in crowd'..? Originally sung by Dobie Grey and was written by his brother but yes Bryan Ferry also did a version "i just know it was .... in the 70's and im feeling old as thats.... 40 yrs ago arhhhhh x | |||
"try not spamming with the same thread numerous times. Get involved, some topics get responses, others don't. If it bothers you, grow a thicker skin, or perhaps fab isn't right for you if you feel its a personal slight" | |||
"And a quick read of your other two threads yes you are. Look man no one is here to do others a favour your here to satisfy your selfish desires for the sexual kink your missing otherwise so is everyone else here. No one wants to have to tease out information and conversation from a stranger when there a hundred more willing to satisfy them without the excruciating effort it seems to take to talk to you. People aren't here for reality they're here for their fantasises. Now have you ever fantasied about a moapy whiner? No one else has either, so man up quit whining and be a happy positive character that people think will be a fun and fantastic meet. " | |||
"The IT Crowd? Have you tried turning it off and on again? "I want a job in IT, cos that is all they say at work | |||
OP, it doesn't matter whether it's these Fab forums, or a forum for brain surgeons, you'll always find a group of regular posters. Some pop in every few days and make a comment. Some are on every day, some are on and off all day, posting here there and everywhere.
But they're not members of an 'in crowd', they're just...............posters. And if you want to join this 'club', then simply............post. But post constructively and positively, cos people don't like moaners!
And OP, if you're on here hoping to meet people for sexual 'high jinks', then you're not doing yourself any favours with this sort of stuff.
Happy posting! | |||
"Wow, I'm impressed, I haven't seen any mention of the 'c' word!
OP, it doesn't matter whether it's these Fab forums, or a forum for brain surgeons, you'll always find a group of regular posters. Some pop in every few days and make a comment. Some are on every day, some are on and off all day, posting here there and everywhere.
But they're not members of an 'in crowd', they're just...............posters. And if you want to join this 'club', then simply............post. But post constructively and positively, cos people don't like moaners!
And OP, if you're on here hoping to meet people for sexual 'high jinks', then you're not doing yourself any favours with this sort of stuff.
Happy posting! " | |||
"The IT Crowd? Have you tried turning it off and on again?
I want a job in IT, cos that is all they say at work "It works for 99% of problems.... what you need to do is try that first and tell them you have "cycled the power" when you ring them. Then they'll know you're an expert like them. | |||
"The IT Crowd? Have you tried turning it off and on again?
I want a job in IT, cos that is all they say at work
It works for 99% of problems.... what you need to do is try that first and tell them you have "cycled the power" when you ring them. Then they'll know you're an expert like them."And that you have the internet in a box. | |||
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"just ignored if you're not in the in crowd? we are all ignored time to time.personally I wouldnt bother posting if it bothered me.im acknowledged at times.alot of it with me is I dont have alot of time to talk tea and biscuits.i usually pop a post down and run I come back and my conversation may be lost way back, I mite have wrote boring shite or ive killed a thread or it closed x
im not one for being in a 'in crowd' I prefer to be me.forums are for everyone to join in how they please "oh I've killed many a thread!! Lmfao S x | |||
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"I don't really like 'oh woe is me,everyones ignoring me' types but keep posting and you'll soon be part of the furniture "Wanna sit on me  | |||
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"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. " That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead. | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. " with the moaners gone the happy people might post more and bring joy to the world | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. with the moaners gone the happy people might post more and bring joy to the world "Now lets everybody sing: Joy to the World , the Lord is come! Let earth receive her King; Let every heart prepare Him room, And Heaven and nature sing, And Heaven and nature sing, And Heaven, and Heaven, and nature sing. Joy to the World, the Savior reigns! Let men their songs employ; While fields and floods, rocks, hills and plains Repeat the sounding joy, Repeat the sounding joy, Repeat, repeat, the sounding joy. No more let sins and sorrows grow, Nor thorns infest the ground; He comes to make His blessings flow Far as the curse is found, Far as the curse is found, Far as, far as, the curse is found. He rules the world with truth and grace, And makes the nations prove The glories of His righteousness, And wonders of His love, And wonders of His love, And wonders, wonders, of His love. The words and lyrics of the old Christmas carol 'Joy to the World' were written in 1719 by Isaac Watts (1674-1748). | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. with the moaners gone the happy people might post more and bring joy to the world
Now lets everybody sing:
Joy to the World , the Lord is come!
Let earth receive her King;
Let every heart prepare Him room,
And Heaven and nature sing,
And Heaven and nature sing,
And Heaven, and Heaven, and nature sing.
Joy to the World, the Savior reigns!
Let men their songs employ;
While fields and floods, rocks, hills and plains
Repeat the sounding joy,
Repeat the sounding joy,
Repeat, repeat, the sounding joy.
No more let sins and sorrows grow,
Nor thorns infest the ground;
He comes to make His blessings flow
Far as the curse is found,
Far as the curse is found,
Far as, far as, the curse is found.
He rules the world with truth and grace,
And makes the nations prove
The glories of His righteousness,
And wonders of His love,
And wonders of His love,
And wonders, wonders, of His love.
The words and lyrics of the old Christmas carol 'Joy to the World' were written in 1719 by Isaac Watts (1674-1748).
"I can't wait for Christmas! | |||
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"good old isaac watts. do you know when he wrote that. nobody bothered to sing it. but here we are 250 years later and we all love singing this at christmas. op stick in there me old son and in 250 years time the in crowd will give you a membership" | |||
Thick skin and tin hats are needed in here and a huge dose of salt.... | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. with the moaners gone the happy people might post more and bring joy to the world "It would get a bit dull though | |||
"just ignored if you're not in the in crowd?" I have been reading and posting on the forums for around 3 years now. Half of the time my comments get ignored or lost amongst the others, do I care, no. Doesn't stop me posting rubbish and the occasional gem of wisdom.
I use the forums for fun and to pass some time. Certainly not to belong to any club or in crowd.....
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"just ignored if you're not in the in crowd? I have been reading and posting on the forums for around 3 years now. Half of the time my comments get ignored or lost amongst the others, do I care, no. Doesn't stop me posting rubbish and the occasional gem of wisdom.
I use the forums for fun and to pass some time. Certainly not to belong to any club or in crowd.....
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"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. with the moaners gone the happy people might post more and bring joy to the world
It would get a bit dull though" | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead." So it's fine for this mindless twat to follow people about and write goading comments, but not to respond in what I'd tried to be an honest but mature manner? I may as well give my honest opinion and then be on my way then. I enjoyed these forums about a year ago when there were plenty that disagreed with my _iews but enjoyed exchanging opinions. Is there an 'in crowd' or clique? No, there are several. Some that are very nice, many that will only comment on the opinions of friends or people that have been accepted, but also simpleton wankers like this bloke that contribute nothing other than stabs and digs. I'd usually make my point and move on, but it seems I'm not permitted to do so and yet he can be left to continue unchallenged. This will of course be deleted, but on behalf of anybody that has been similarly provoked or felt they'd rather not get involved I'd just like to say in the politest possible way - get a life you prick
Have fun folks | |||
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"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead. So it's fine for this mindless twat to follow people about and write goading comments, but not to respond in what I'd tried to be an honest but mature manner? I may as well give my honest opinion and then be on my way then. I enjoyed these forums about a year ago when there were plenty that disagreed with my _iews but enjoyed exchanging opinions. Is there an 'in crowd' or clique? No, there are several. Some that are very nice, many that will only comment on the opinions of friends or people that have been accepted, but also simpleton wankers like this bloke that contribute nothing other than stabs and digs. I'd usually make my point and move on, but it seems I'm not permitted to do so and yet he can be left to continue unchallenged. This will of course be deleted, but on behalf of anybody that has been similarly provoked or felt they'd rather not get involved I'd just like to say in the politest possible way - get a life you prick
Have fun folks"oh dearie me.... | |||
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"why would you want to be in any 'in crowd' ? just be yourself" | |||
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"Bugger i missed all the Action
Gimp"Ya didn't miss much | |||
"why would you want to be in any 'in crowd' ? just be yourself " | |||
"Bugger i missed all the Action
Gimp
Ya didn't miss much "Yeah but i'm a nosey bugger n didnt see whos gorn and gone
Gimp | |||
"Bugger i missed all the Action
Gimp
Ya didn't miss much
Yeah but i'm a nosey bugger n didnt see whos gorn and gone
Gimp"I could tell you but then id have to kill you afterwards | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead. So it's fine for this mindless twat to follow people about and write goading comments, but not to respond in what I'd tried to be an honest but mature manner? I may as well give my honest opinion and then be on my way then. I enjoyed these forums about a year ago when there were plenty that disagreed with my _iews but enjoyed exchanging opinions. Is there an 'in crowd' or clique? No, there are several. Some that are very nice, many that will only comment on the opinions of friends or people that have been accepted, but also simpleton wankers like this bloke that contribute nothing other than stabs and digs. I'd usually make my point and move on, but it seems I'm not permitted to do so and yet he can be left to continue unchallenged. This will of course be deleted, but on behalf of anybody that has been similarly provoked or felt they'd rather not get involved I'd just like to say in the politest possible way - get a life you prick
Have fun folks" | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead. So it's fine for this mindless twat to follow people about and write goading comments, but not to respond in what I'd tried to be an honest but mature manner? I may as well give my honest opinion and then be on my way then. I enjoyed these forums about a year ago when there were plenty that disagreed with my _iews but enjoyed exchanging opinions. Is there an 'in crowd' or clique? No, there are several. Some that are very nice, many that will only comment on the opinions of friends or people that have been accepted, but also simpleton wankers like this bloke that contribute nothing other than stabs and digs. I'd usually make my point and move on, but it seems I'm not permitted to do so and yet he can be left to continue unchallenged. This will of course be deleted, but on behalf of anybody that has been similarly provoked or felt they'd rather not get involved I'd just like to say in the politest possible way - get a life you prick
Have fun folks"Who's gone now? Was it a moaner? Or someone from a cliiique? | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead. So it's fine for this mindless twat to follow people about and write goading comments, but not to respond in what I'd tried to be an honest but mature manner? I may as well give my honest opinion and then be on my way then. I enjoyed these forums about a year ago when there were plenty that disagreed with my _iews but enjoyed exchanging opinions. Is there an 'in crowd' or clique? No, there are several. Some that are very nice, many that will only comment on the opinions of friends or people that have been accepted, but also simpleton wankers like this bloke that contribute nothing other than stabs and digs. I'd usually make my point and move on, but it seems I'm not permitted to do so and yet he can be left to continue unchallenged. This will of course be deleted, but on behalf of anybody that has been similarly provoked or felt they'd rather not get involved I'd just like to say in the politest possible way - get a life you prick
Have fun folks
Who's gone now? Was it a moaner? Or someone from a cliiique?"It was bloo something. Don't think he was either tbh he seemed like a nice bloke to me x | |||
"This forum would be dead if it weren't for the 'moaners'. That's far from right it would just be of little interest to people here just to antagonise and create mischief they are the only ones who would see it as dead. So it's fine for this mindless twat to follow people about and write goading comments, but not to respond in what I'd tried to be an honest but mature manner? I may as well give my honest opinion and then be on my way then. I enjoyed these forums about a year ago when there were plenty that disagreed with my _iews but enjoyed exchanging opinions. Is there an 'in crowd' or clique? No, there are several. Some that are very nice, many that will only comment on the opinions of friends or people that have been accepted, but also simpleton wankers like this bloke that contribute nothing other than stabs and digs. I'd usually make my point and move on, but it seems I'm not permitted to do so and yet he can be left to continue unchallenged. This will of course be deleted, but on behalf of anybody that has been similarly provoked or felt they'd rather not get involved I'd just like to say in the politest possible way - get a life you prick
Have fun folks
Who's gone now? Was it a moaner? Or someone from a cliiique?
It was bloo something. Don't think he was either tbh he seemed like a nice bloke to me x"Aww yeah he seemed ok. Shame. | |||
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"just ignored if you're not in the in crowd? we are all ignored time to time.personally I wouldnt bother posting if it bothered me.im acknowledged at times.alot of it with me is I dont have alot of time to talk tea and biscuits.i usually pop a post down and run I come back and my conversation may be lost way back, I mite have wrote boring shite or ive killed a thread or it closed x
im not one for being in a 'in crowd' I prefer to be me.forums are for everyone to join in how they please oh I've killed many a thread!! Lmfao S x"oops I returned a day or two later my message lost in the ravel of forum users.this thread isnt dead yet its still going woohoo | |||
