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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I've often thought on a night out when chatting up a married lady, in full view of their husband, that they may well be swingers. Now I'm not brave enough to ask anyone outright I just flirt my back legs off and hope they come on to me! (this has never happened so I may need to change my tact).
However this got me thinking. Is there a swinging version of a gaydar and if you believe there is how does yours serve you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We too are always wondering who just could be a swinger. We usually agree with each other so maybe we have got swingdar. We are not forward enough to ask. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I use to knock about with a lad whose parents had the world's biggest pampas grass bush in their front garden. He obviously denied that they were. lol |
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"Alledgedly....swingers' gardens are full of pampas grass  that's useful to know if you're trying to chat them up in their garden.... Maybe slightly les so if you're in the pub though  "
Use your imagination...it could be a topic of conversation and who knows!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is natural to be on the look out for like minded people and while I think many people entertain the thoughts, few act on it. I think the general populous..especially in the U.K. are generally fairly sexually repressed. This opinion is my own and I am sure many will disagree. ~Sea  |
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The statisticians claim that there are between 2.5 and 3 million swingers in the uk, thats about 5% of the adult population. Which means the chances of meeting up with other swingers and not realising, is quite high. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The statisticians claim that there are between 2.5 and 3 million swingers in the uk, thats about 5% of the adult population. Which means the chances of meeting up with other swingers and not realising, is quite high."
You do realise that 57% of statisticians invent 72% of their figures whereas 40% of statisticians only fake 34% of their figures and the other 3% never tell anyone anything  |
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"It is natural to be on the look out for like minded people and while I think many people entertain the thoughts, few act on it. I think the general populous..especially in the U.K. are generally fairly sexually repressed. This opinion is my own and I am sure many will disagree. ~Sea "
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"Now I've often thought on a night out when chatting up a married lady, in full view of their husband, that they may well be swingers. Now I'm not brave enough to ask anyone outright I just flirt my back legs off and hope they come on to me! (this has never happened so I may need to change my tact).
However this got me thinking. Is there a swinging version of a gaydar and if you believe there is how does yours serve you?"
I am brave enough, I was chatting up the couple in my local pub and asked and lo and behold they were swingers and on fab. Didn't go any further though. Asking usually gets me in trouble which I just walk away from, but if you don't ask you don't get.
I first found out about swinging and fab from a woman who walked into Cosies (a reggae club in Bristol) talking openly about looking for bbc. So some people are out there about swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Read this on another site, wish it would catch on!
We’ve all been in a restaurant, bar, event, etc., looked at a couple and thought….. “I wonder if….?” Or “I bet they’re swingers. They have……THAT LOOK!” We wanted to ask, but didn't know how.
Up until now, the alcoholics and gays have had an advantage. THEY have a universal question they use: “Are you a friend of Bill?” or "Are you a friend of Dorothy?" Immediately, they either found a new friend within their community or they can hide behind the ole “Sorry, I thought you were someone else” alibi.
We have an opportunity to use our own "Secret Code" question: "Are you a friend of Ellis?"
Since members of other alternative lifestyles already use the format of, "Are you a friend of ..... ?" using a similar question fits right in with an already established, acceptable premise.
The name "Ellis" is PERFECT! It stands for L.S. (Lifestyle) and besides, how many people actually have a friend named Ellis??? (A lot have friends named Bill or Dorothy, and that can cause a lot of confusion in itself). If they answer "no", there's an easy out by saying, "Sorry, I thought you were someone else". Done. |
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